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Long ago i read a book by max freedom long on " secret science of miracles " - a decoding of the magic traditions of kahunas - shamen of ancient hawaii.. when i heard very recently neville goddard le…

Low search volume not eligible help — Working with a family law firm and struggling with keyword ideas. ones they have come up with are not eligible due to low search volume on google ads. Examples: "Legal aid for non-accidental injury…

I made a custom date-time picker using pure JS and CSS. — Hey r/webdev. A few months ago I put together this date-time picker system for a project I was working on, as I needed a professional way for users to be able to select dates and times for various fun…

Should I find a business partner? Sell Or just give up? My business has potential but I don't have to energy to make it happen. — I started a business about two and a half years ago. It is quite niche and has potential but I haven't been able to get over the tipping point of making it really work. We have great processes and a…

What to do with my business. Sell partner or fold? — I started a business about two and a half years ago. It is quite niche and has potential but I haven't been able to get over the tipping point of making it really work. We have great processes and a s…

Would this mistake keep me from manifesting — I am on a task towards manifesting my sp. I am successfully able to go in the alpha state by sh. But during my scene I have a am able to focus on a part of actions like holding hand with it being ver…

Studying attachment theory — I’ve been studying attachment theory for a couple of months now, and I’ve only recently started to REALLY look into it. I started reading a book called Attachment Disturbances in Adults: Treatment for…

March 2026 Astrology: Transits, Key Dates, and More — **Last month’s write-up, I ended with this,** *“Let’s just say we end the month in a chaotic state of energy. Nothing seems real while at the same time, there is a sense of urgency that something need…

DA healing update: searching my true self, my inner child finally seen — Some of you may know me at this point. I'm (40M) dismissive avoidant, my wife fearful avoidant (41F), together 17 years, married 13 years, 3 children. I've been working on my attachment style for 5 mo…

i dont know what to do (relationship) — Im 22 and my dating history is very sparse because i always suffered with rather low self esteem and mental issues. Over the past years ive been opening up and evolving personally, also trying out the…

Have you ever noticed how uncomfortable people become when nothing is happening? — Lately I’ve been thinking about this quite often. The moment silence appears, most people immediately fill the space with something: music, scrolling, notifications, background noise. A need to be en…

What is this hair style called and how to mantain it? — [https://www.tiktok.com/@12pell/video/7275444596438584619?lang=en](https://www.tiktok.com/@12pell/video/7275444596438584619?lang=en) Is this style called side-swept? How do I tell the barber? Do I ne…

EMDR therapy fail — Today I was so excited to start EMDR. Before booking treatment, I told the therapist that I need help with sexual dysfunction resulting from child abuse and multiple SA’s as a young adult. She said 95…

House of Danube/Deneb & The Tuatha Dé Danaan — I have just had an unexpected and seasonally apropos experience with St. Patrick's day right around the corner. Meditating in a hypnopompic state yesterday morning I heard a man's voice speaking to m…

Which hairstyle and haircut would you recommend ? — [20]M, I would go to a hair saloon soon enough for a haircut but I am quite unsure on which style I should ask. I saw many Asian rocking with a wolf cut or a mullet but I don't know if this would be g…

How can I build a personal life that doesn’t depend on other people? — Hi Reddit!! I really need an outside perspective on my situation, because I feel like I’m completely lost in where I’m going and what I actually want from my life… Maybe people who have learned to man…

How to stop the myths. (Please read) — Abstract- Sorry for the long post, but I hope you read it all! This post is to explain how these myths are spread and how to stop the spread. Dream myths have been known to stop people from lucid dre…

Could use some compassion - I broke up with my ex of nearly two decades last fall. I was codependent on him for everything. — TW: a depressing and heavy post, self blame, neglect I left him last August after realizing we were holding each other back. I wanted to get married but he just… never proposed. At one point we did …

The most important part of EVERYONE IS YOU PUSHED OUT (EIYPO) — I think that what I will say in the following lines has to be reminded as much as possible in the manifesting exes and partners communities. Manifesting a person is not only easy, it is effortle…

Case 3: A shift in Perspective — **Background Info:** [Nature of Dreams & the abilities therein](https://www.reddit.com/r/Experiencers/comments/1s5zpt7/the_nature_of_dreams_the_abilities_therein/) **Case 3: A shift in Perspective*…

How do I (35F) handle my soon-to-be-ex-husband (38M) asking me to change my name back? — Throwaway. Not to be dramatic but last year was the worst year of my life. I got unexpectedly laid off from my job of 8 years in June, and immediately things with my husband of 6 years / partner of 1…

In what ways does the energy of the place you were born in influence you? — I’ve wondered about this quite a bit and have had trouble in my research about it. How does the energy of the country you were born in have an impact on you, and does it? (Even if you’re not and paren…

Have I 22F have destroyed my boyfriend 24M and I's sex life? — EDIT: I was not expecting to receive this many comments and am sorry for the lack of response. I’ve been very busy with work the last 12 hours and will try my best to respond as soon as possible. (I…

How Can I take More Control — I've always been able to Lucid Dream and thought everyone else could too until recently. Now that I'm exploring this more, I want to know to get more creative control and not sure how because I just d…

Clicking out with flac files — So here’s a weird one for y’all. I’ve been using the gateway tapes on and off for about a year now. When I first started I was using a super low quality recording. I don’t even remember where I got …

I told people in another reality I shifted to their reality - this was their reaction જ⁀➴ ♡ — hey everyone, this is such an odd post but I had this experience last night and I wanted to share it with you guys because it is kind of silly and I feel like this is the perfect community to share it…

Saw my wife's phone from an over-the-shoulder POV, saw the word puzzle she was doing, suggested what she was currently typing as if it was my own answer — Title, basically, but I'll give more background. (I know it's April 1st but this is not an april fool or anything like that.) My wife and I were on the sofa. It was shortly after dinner and I was pl…

Learning About Aspects — Hello! So, I feel confident enough in my current astrology understandings to take it to the next level in my studies. I want to learn more about aspects in birthcharts (obviously mine to start with), …

Shifting realities or timelines? — I need to jump to a different timeline. One where I didn’t lose the love of my life. It is quite literally killing me inside. I’ve considered dmt as I have heard of those experiences and encounters wi…

A case for "It will come" instead of "It is done." — In my manifestation journey, majority of my successful ones were done with the approach "It will come" instead of the "it is done" mindset that is stressed so much here. Neville writes that saying "i…

My 23M bf gets a panic attack every time i ask him to pick up after himself 22F am i the problem? — I’ve been living with my bf 23M for almost a year now. I’ve noticed that every time i slightly disagree with him or ask him to not leave food out all night he gets upset to the point that he gets a pa…

How to Create a "New Identity"? — How to Create a "New Identity"? I've long understood and concluded that we don't attract what we want, but what we are. There's a really cool example in my country, Brazil, where a girl pretended to…

I feel uncomfy that my emotional outlet is chat gpt — (Anyone wanting the gist before reading) TLDR: went to college, have no structure, self destruct, want to get better, idk how honestly. Going to therapy but idk seems pointless, start talking to chat …

Parents seem controlling not sure where to proceed. — Hi everyone I am in quite a bit unsure of where to proceed with everything. I’m autistic and 17m For a while now I’ve been having a bit of a rough time with my parents it all started when a wedding…

I am very obsessive with my boyfriend (18F & 18M) — I (18F) and my boyfriend (18M) have been dating since we were 12 years old. Within the last year or so, our relationship has gotten extremely intense, with us moving in together, and also being older …

F28 giving me m28 silent treatment? — So my partner who is currently pregnant (13 weeks) has been changing the way she is progressively for the last few weeks. I know pregnancy changes propels hormones etc and what not. But recently when …

I (18F) want to explore, but love my bf (19M) — Hi! I’m 18F and my boyfriend is 19M We’ve been together for 3 years. Which is quite a lot for people our age. To put it bluntly. I really really love my boyfriend. But i feel like im missing out on…

Why do you think the 2 women stopped me (22M) from talking to my friend (31F) ? — For context, I (22M) went out with a friend (31F) I had met recently and hooked up with a while back, we stayed friends as she's moving abroad soon and we didn't want to start a serious relationship. …

Day 9: Decayed? — # Hi everyone! I’m continuing my daily log to track my progress with lucid dreaming. Well, today I had to sleep a bit longer just to remember any dream, which is quite different from yesterday, wh…

I'm being asked to leave my "found family" — This isn't strictly related to my parents, so hope it's okay to post. I basically cut ties with my father at 18, then went low contact with my mother at the age of 23ish. Currently in my mid 20s now…

Am I the crazy one? — First Reddit post like, ever. My mom and I just got into a blow out fight. We live on opposite coasts and don’t see each other one on one very often anymore. Parents are divorced and although we’re o…

Spouse needs help but believes they are extremely emotionally intelligent — I (39) have been in and out of therapy nearly my entire life. I was a victim of child abuse at a very young age by my alcoholic father and dealt with severe alcoholism and drug addiction myself in my …

Spouse needs help but believes they are extremely emotionally intelligent — I (39) have been in and out of therapy nearly my entire life. I was a victim of child abuse at a very young age by my alcoholic father and dealt with severe alcoholism and drug addiction myself in my …

I'm being forced to leave my home, and I feel sick and unable to function — I currently have a very nice living situation living with my friend and her boyfriend. They were strangers when I moved in, but over time I've come to regard them as my family. To be honest, I tend to…

I (18M) hooked up with a friends friend (19F). Should I keep messaging — I (18m) was drinking with some friends last Saturday and got quite drunk. We had been drinking most the day and ending up going out to some bars and clubs. In one of these bars/clubs I met my friend’s…

My, 22F and my boyfriends 25M's "first house" — Tl;Dr: So my boyfriend (25) and I (22) have been together for 2 years now and basically our relationship is perfect-there's just two problems. He is quite a bit of a mama's boy and we live 2 hours a…

My, 22F and my boyfriends 25M's "first house" — So my boyfriend (25M and I (22F) have been together for 2 years now and basically our relationship is perfect-there's just two problems. He is quite a bit of a mama's boy and we live 2 hours apart. I …

DAE feel like they miss skin layers? — I have learned the skin has 3 layers. But everytime I dare to relax my muscle tone, there are always white christian men who think they can walk right through and take the opportunity to kiss me out o…

How to determine if your spouse is likely to be younger than you.(An important astrological analysis.) — In astrology the birth chart often highlights patterns that deviate from what is socially considered “normal.” For men marrying a younger spouse is quite common so the chart usually does not emphasize…

How to determine if your spouse is likely to be younger than you.(An important astrological analysis.) — In astrology the birth chart often highlights patterns that deviate from what is socially considered “normal.” For men marrying a younger spouse is quite common so the chart usually does not emphasize…

No one warns you that childhood trauma doesn’t end, it just waits until your 30s to finally surface — I used to think I got through it by climbing up career hill (PhD, lecturership, published books, a thriving cultural community etc. ) and an intellectually aesthetical sense of being. I built a life, …

Thank you. I will ask the op to insert these links into her other post. They are a good addenda and are a beneficial part of the record. We may make her post a part of our index as well. It is a very…

Thanks for your opinion on my 10% figure. Besides that, I did not say partners should be at my convenience. I said other aspects of life can throw a relationship’s typical patterns out of balance. Ha…

Okay ignoring that you’re only a week in.. here is how it works for me: Annoyance level. If this person annoys me a lot, I probably don’t like them. But I also have to juggle this with the mindfulnes…

A lot of the times and I wanna say like 60-70% of the time this is usually the case. Attachment theory is good to gauge connection on a more longer term basis people may say “I knew he was DA in the f…

Therapy is quite useful for this exact problem. You’d need a therapist who specializes in transference-based therapy. When you’re in therapy, you recreate the same dynamics you have in your relationsh…

Oh sorry, the personal development school. I watched their YouTube stuff for a bit and then decided to join on a offer. Think they have a free trial and you can achieve a lot in that if you have time.…

This might be due to a lack of internal confidence perhaps. I know that when I was younger and would get involved with someone with an anxious attachment, they’d internalize almost everything while tr…

I m really sorry to hear about your sister. How are you doing with that? I hope you have someone other than your ex to support you. I think it is quite common for people with trauma that lean avoidan…

There is quite a lot to unpack with all of this. Have you talked this through with your therapist? I think that you are abandoning yourself with this situationship and setting yourself up for a mounta…

Essentially the same thing. So my tolerance for it sounds a bit higher. I can spend full days together, I just ignore my needs but it absolutely catches up with me. Yesterday she was talking to me and…

> because even the act of seeking out a boyfriend feel so pathetic, desperate, and needy. have you accidentally done the thing I've done where you've internalised being in a happy relationship as …

The sub is full of posts talking about healing anxious attachment and there is a Resources page full of places to educate yourself on it. There is quite a bit and cannot fully be covered in one answ…

This would be very valid if the relational baseline and emotional part objectively didn’t shift as much when compared to how it was before for months. This was just for the context which is not the fu…

Yes it is a long and difficult process. I'm sorry you have to go through it :( I will still maintain that by pausing your present and focusing on if she is going to come back, you have taken the first…

Mine is quite similar to yours. Discomfort, irritability, and the need to be alone. I tend to try and breathe, realx, observe my discomfort or irritability, understand where it comes from, and see if …

Attached by Levine & Heller is quite a bad book imo (I have read it). It is extremely biased against the avoidant attachment style (calling people who have it "the avoidants" while no other nicknames …

**My (28F) girlfriend (25F) and I have been dating for 6 months. I have an anxious attachment style, and she has an avoidant one.** I knew from the beginning that she was avoidant, but only about 2 m…

There is definitely a way to unintentionally overdo the compliments where it can come off a bit weird. But you situation is quite the opposite. And you used the word "never" even after 5 dates AND aft…

Yes and No. I think there are a few interpretation of this sentence : - the fantasy one, where your partner is waiting on hand for every mention of your desire and whim. It is approached by how coupl…

I'm not talking about attachment styles. We're all human and therefore we are social beings and the basic process of social interaction or community building is reciprocity. Which means that in the en…

Hey man , I’ve been seeing your posts here and there for a while. It’s so great to hear that your kids are responding to the changes you are making. I’m sure it is really difficult to look back over…

Regarding of you both assuming different things, at least you know that you (both) need to be more clear next time. If it’s still early on and we’re both multi dating, a “do you want me to spend the n…

Thanks ! You seem very kind and considerate. I'd say that a lot of ADHD'ers are really good at hiding /masking. I had a high powered job and still looked presentable, for the most part when hanging …

Honestly if you take them off for a few hours for the date, wear your current trays an extra few hours or day to balance it out, and you'll be fine. I did this quite a few times and my teeth turned ou…

I'm seeing a girl and it's serious, but she needs her alone time and is quite happy to only see me on Saturdays. I've had this in previous relationships and I hate it, as it means I cant see my friend…

I'm seeing a girl and it's serious, (dating for about 2 months recently exclusive) but she needs her alone time and is quite happy to only see me on Saturdays. I've had this in previous relationships …

How do I bring up the frequency of sex? I really don’t know how to mention it. M30F30 Been dating a girl for 5 months and we’re exclusive and despite her living very nearby, we have only had sex once…

Wow, I bow before this very scientific-minded deconstruction of this situation as described by some particularly mope-y fellow. Of course you are absolutely right that my "lens" through which I perce…

I definitely save the things I am most excited about for people I care about. But the list of stuff to do is quite long. 😆 Gotta knock stuff off somehow. Maybe this is the dating app. Connect people…

“Two or three months” is quite vague, and also very early to exchange “I love you’s”, are you sure you’re both actually interested in each other? Given that you’d like to see her more and she’s unwi…

Being set up imo is quite different from meeting on an app. When you’re set up the other person has been vouched for by someone you know and trust. There’s a safety to a set up that doesn’t exist on O…

Looking for advice. Over the past 5 years or so I've (32m) developed an unexpected friendship with a colleague (29f) in my department. Totally platonic to begin with. It actually kinda took quite a w…

Totally relate to things taking longer for me. Sounds like you could play with some mindset shifts to help make dating less of a chore and bring some joy back in? It's one thing to have boundaries but…

I do think that feeling nervous, moreso at the beginning of a relation, is quite normal :) Feels like overmade advice, but try to not overthink and enjoy!

If seen, Jupiter in Aquarius is quite good, it just depends on which position it is in the horoscope. Similarly, it gives good knowledge but definitely brings laziness along with it.

Thanks a lot for sharing your experience.  The thing is that he basically self - isolates which feels like ghosting. I feel left behind, lonely and hurt. I would so very much prefer if he shared with …

My comment is quite literally as simple and as direct as can be. What needed to be clarified in what I said? OP asked about the planets, specifically. And I gave a very simplistic, easy answer. Nothin…

These two things happen simultaneously I believe. Even if you want to talk to your friend, it doesn't make sense to keep pouring into a dynamic which you know for a fact is quite one sided at this poi…

I get this quite a bit. I am with you. Very hard part of the deep connection is the physical part. Ive bever been connected to someone like that

omg could you elaborate more because i feel like i resonate w this quite a lot

I have a younger sister and younger brother. We are pretty close but there’s also conflict with my sister (though it has decreased quite a lot with age). When we get along well, it is great and we are…

Can anyone tell an autistic man how to even get to the talking stage? I get first dates semi-frequently and, without exaggeration, every woman tells me afterwards that I am nice, but that she's not fe…

If the D good a lot of us women will look past more than a few of those easily. Good D? I'll gladly pick you up in my car. Good D hell yeah let's stay in a watch a movie. Good D? Doesn't get rejecte…

Watched a video by a channel called Aperture, before that I heard people like Andrew Tate and Co. sling the word "Stoicism" around. How long did it take for me to live like a Stoic? It took me the bet…

I have full aphantasia and psilocybin give me very light CEV (my max dose was 5g). It is quite similar with LSD and its analogues. Nevertheless, after several trips, I become actually glad that wild v…

Exactly so ZoeyDP - I’ve also come to an ADHD diagnosis quite late in life, and it’s been a revelation :-)

Unless sags become dogmatic or develop a BELIEF that they are small gods. Know such a person - my sister. She is quite toxic and idealistic/Blunt with Mars here, so she thinks she is always right and …

>I lived with the reality of his patterns for five years. I tried every 'secure' approach in the book, only to be met with laughter when I cried and lies about where he was going. If you think staying…

Hugs is quite literally all I want. ❤️ I think I would be fine if I just had a place in someone's arms but we just do our best. I hope you find someone to hold you

Those two people put OP’s sexual health at risk as well as emotionally and mentally abused him. I think OP having a giggle when he makes eye contact is quite literally the least of his and their worri…