What should I do

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Should I leave my 9-5 job in a finance company for a job in an early stage startup (I will not promote) — I am an engineering student who has a degree in Computer science and engineering (Data Science) with an honours in Quantative Finance. I have been a part of 3 startups mainly in the social and influ…

Starting a startup. (i will not promote) — I have several ideas for applications (social networks), but all the hassle with opening a company and paying taxes to the authorities makes me give up on the idea; I simply don't have the energy for …

What should i do to earn 10k/month ? — I’m 20 yrs old and in college studying IT, but i’ve been so caught up in everybody my age earning 10k a month and kinda feeling left behind.. i currently run a pretty successful depop business but its…

What should I do?? — Hey guys, this is my first time posting on here! I am currently a senior in college majoring in business administration, I have 10k saved up, what should I go with it?

What should i do to be proactive while my product is in the prototype/ manufacturing stage — Recently i have found a manufacturer and am in contact with them planning things. While i wait for their response, what else can i do to stay on top of launching?

Would this mistake keep me from manifesting — I am on a task towards manifesting my sp. I am successfully able to go in the alpha state by sh. But during my scene I have a am able to focus on a part of actions like holding hand with it being ver…

Should I meet up with my ex? — Back in November 2024, I went on a couple of dates with a guy from my friend group, “Frank” (41M now). Looking back, it’s obvious to me that he was a rebound, but I genuinely didn’t realize it at the …

My boyfriend and I had an argument over his marriage demands, and now he claims he means none of it... — Tl:dr: My boyfriend of two years has a list of requirements from me after we get married, and after our argument over it, which lead us to break up-- he said he didn't mean any of it and wants to go …

Using Stoic learnings to get back on track — What Should I do? I’m a 17-year-old student in Turkey preparing for the YKS exam—the exam that will decide which university and major I get into, so it carries a lot of weight for me. I’ve always be…

I (22 male) slept with my colleague (30 female) and fell in love, but it was unrequited. — I apologize for possible errors in the text, translated by Google. I got a job as a loader at a store. And when we first met, we didn't really like each other. I just went to work; I didn't talk to h…

My best friend (F35) with BPD has dropped off the radar and I (F30) don’t know if inviting her to my wedding will be too much pressure or not involving her will hurt more. What should I do? — My best friend and I met 8 years ago at work. Our friendship was very full on as we worked together and lived in the same city but even when we both left the city we met in, we stayed in close touch. …

Am I in a codependent relationship and if so how do I set boundaries/what should I do? — I’m looking for outside perspectives on a close friendship that’s started to affect me emotionally. Over the past year, I became very close with someone. This is the closest I’ve ever been to another…

For anyone who struggles to believe in Manifestation. Read this. — (Apologies in advance for the long post) Okay so I used to be that person who would physically cringe when someone said “manifest it.” Like, I get it. The whole world around this thing is just deepl…

Boyfriend insults me in fights — I (32f) have been with my boyfriend (36m) for just over a year. I’ve noticed lately that when I disagree with something and have an opinion that is opposite of him he gets upset. If he critiques me I …

Growing apart from people — What should I do when I am growing away from people in my life? I am a 21 year old and I am in a sorority where I have my best friend ! Outside of that I have an amazing boyfriend and a couple of clos…

I (24F) am pregnant by my (27M) boyfriend after a toxic relationship full of love bombing, lies, and sexual assault. I feel like i have no way out. What should I do? — Hi Reddit, I don’t even know where to start, but I’m at my breaking point and I really hope you can help me. I’m 24, my boyfriend is 27. We’ve been together for two years and have been living togethe…

My (32M) wife’s (29F) jealousy is getting worse and is affecting my friendships and work. What should I do to help her get real help without losing myself? — My wife (29F) and I (32M) have been together almost 5 years and married for 1. I love her, I am committed to this marriage, and I do not want to leave. What I want is for her to get real help for this…

I'm stuck in metaphysics — *Hi, I'm 17M.* I used to feel light and carefree. But a few months ago, my worldview took a 180-degree turn... I've recently gotten into philosophy and religion. I've been searching for answers, as…

How to be prepared for the life? — I feel like my time is running out, and that my adulthood is coming near. I feel like I need to take action. Otherwise, I'll be the one who's gonna suffer. What should I do?

Advice Needed — Hey I am athlete and I want to earn some passive income or any side hustle The reason is because I am going very much financial hardships and after 2 months I have my Nationals, and I don't want to m…

I am talking with myself in alone? now what I do? — I am a 23 year old woman. I’ve started talking to myself in alone and I think it’s because of several factors. I had a traumatic childhood because of my parents fighting and as an adult I studied fa…

I’m lost. First time I feel like this, and I really need help. — (24, M) I’ve never been in a romantic relationship before, and I’ve never loved a girl or been loved by a girl . Only because i never found someone with the same weirdness as me Recently, I met a girl…

Contemplating if I should reach out — So I’m 20F and dated my ex-boyfriend for a year and a half. We broke up a little over a year ago. We went to college together and went through lots of traumatic situations and so much change together.…

My bf wants to be friends even though I know he has other options available — My bf and I have been together 7 months almost 8 months. It was my first in real life proper healthy relationship. However we do tend to disagree on some things, but usually we make up and talk it out…

Blocked by ex — My ex broke up with me 6 days ago. Before that she had like a week in which she didn't feel like herself. She was hot and cold towards me but mostly distant. The day of the breakup she was very angry …

Her step-dad followed me on instagram — Need some advice, just yesterday morning my exes stepfather followed me on instagram and sent me a dm saying Garrett follow me. Asked him why he did and he just left me on seen. What’s going on? What …

I don’t want to cling onto this situation — 24F. I’ll try to make this short. My ex boyfriend broke up with me in November. I keep having breakdowns and so on. The reason why I’m posting this is that, almost a year ago (before meeting my ex) i…

I miss her — Good afternoon Reddit, Im asking for your help with some relationship stuff, let me give y’all a lil background. 3 months ago I met this girl ( let’s call her Eli) through a mutual friend, and we inst…

She broke up but i think (/hope) that its just temporary — Now I'm going to be as detailed as possible so yall can know the story better. It all started in winter break when my friend asked me if i wanted to know a girl, i agreed and sometime after we both …

what should i do? — i found out some things last night about my ex i wish i didn’t. i have made a few posts on this subreddit in regards to the breakup but i wont go into much detail. before we broke up, my ex planned a…

3 months of no contact and I still can’t let go. What should I do? — I’m Mia (20 y.o) and I have clinical depression. My ex Daniel (19 y.o.) and has the same diagnosis. English is my second language, so sorry if something is hard to read, an also sorry for such a huge…

Literally do what you want. — Yall i literally manifested three guys and want to know what i did? What i wanted. no im not telling you what i did, because I did what was comfortable to me. Stop asking “what methods should i do wh…

Rebound? — Recently, I have become closer to one of my friends. He's cute, and I think he's into me, but I suspect that he is using me as a rebound for his ex. I think he broke up with his gf of a year (maybe …

Me (M21) and my gf (F21) broke up and no contact — You’re probably reading this wow another break up story with the same details. Me and my girlfriend of 3 years broke up. We’ve had prior issues and mostly with me and that was because I wasn’t really …

I’m stuck — I’m currently going through a break up while being with someone else. I know this sounds horrible but I just broke up with my boyfriend of over a year about 3 months ago. He was a cheater, liar, and s…

Guys I need help!!! — I’m manifesting my sp rn. I understand how manifestation works and I’m manifesting my sp by listening to subliminals, visualising, scripting sometimes and affirming and robotic affirmations. I also ne…

my dad yelling and beating and awlay order us to shush — my dad yelling us and beat mother and younger sibling and me always order us to shush and saying harmfull words like die or swearing I reported him when I was very child but cops didn't notice how wor…

Undergoing Rahu Mahadasha, what to expect in this period? — 31M, experiencing Rahu Mahadasha, is it going to be all bad? Although I don't see any significant changes in life but there is definitely a stagnancy that I see for the past few months. I have heard R…

I am becoming resentful towards my husband for letting his brother live with us — TL;DR: My husband and I have been married for 4 years and have one young child. I am 28 and he is 32. My husband let his brother who was 18 at the time move in with us as he was trying to get a job a…

Should I ask the mistress — My husband and I have been married for 11 years and he had an emotional affair with another woman he met online. The healing process has been strained at best. For months there was resentment and blam…

Breakup help — I’ve recently split from a 7 year relationship with someone I thought I was going to go all the way with. We had a house together that was in my name and I am conflicted on what to do with it. It was …

What should I do? — Hi, I’m Courtney. I am currently seeking some guidance on the most effective way to approach multiple manifestations at once. My current focus is on securing immediate needs like food for tomorrow, a…

I need help! 🙏 — I’ve been having some trouble with lucid dreaming recently and could use some advice. Whenever I try WBTB without any technique, I fall asleep immediately and obviously don’t get any LDs. But when I a…

I (18M) caught my Mom (44F) Cheating on my Dad (46M) and I don't know what to do — General Idea of our Family - My dad goes to work 5 days a week and comes back to visit us on wednesday evening and weekends. My mom is a teacher and goes to school in evening shift from 1 to 6 pm ever…

I NEED HELP !! p — I NEED HELP!!! I'm a 23 year old girl from India. And i seriously need some real life advice or help. I'm currently in my 3rd year of a 4 year Nursing undergraduate program. And I can't do it anymo…

Breakup 22m and 20f — I just brokeup last year july but I don't know reason upto know. When it was last conversation I asked her to say she simply said I don't know, what I am doing is correct. It's been so long upto now …

my life is… bad and i have no idea what to do — hi!! i’m cait and i joined reddit just for this, i really wanted to talk about my life and see if anybody relates / can give me advice. so im 41🔄 years old and i have social anxiety and no real socia…

Can meditation help with serve rumination and maladaptive daydreaming and how can I start practising — for the past 2 years or so I've been ruminating 24/7 I can't stop i ruminate about traumatic memories and past bullying. how can I stop, it's really impossible for me to not ruminate. I'm genuinely je…

What should I do? — We just had a breakup, and it was hard for both of us. We hugged each other and cried for hours. I don’t understand why she made this decision when it was so painful for both of us. She said she wants…

I have to see my ex constantly, what should I do? — I got broken up a month ago after an argument where my ex told me they would change and stop violating my boundaries, but it never came. They said they no longer loved me and when I told them what the…

I was extremely sick during the whole year and when the final exams came i was like hmm what should i do? Study or not to study lol. But then i was like lets just manifest it. It wae a leap of faith f…

This is an interesting question, and if I understood you correctly you are asking if my subconcious belief/faith has risen? Well I have to preface this reply with one nuance. I discovered manifestin…

I (F37) started casually flirting and texting a colleague (M29) a while ago. In the beginning, we wrote often and a lot, especially right before we met in person for the first time. Then, overnight, t…

Guys I need advice. I’ve sadly been unemployed for about 15 months now. Whenever my fiance goes to work I get so down and depressed I’ve resorted to using substances to numb the abandonment when he’s …

(sorry for my English) I've this friend that m really really close to and a while back I've been noticing that my behaviour has been causing problems between us I realised I've been anxiously attach…

i go to therapy. i messaged my therapist yesterday but she hasn’t replied yet. i see her in 3 weeks. i know i can’t rely on my boyfriend to make this better for me and that it’s not his responsibility…

I’ve been talking to a girl for a little while after she seemed interested in me whilst walking around college. I added her snap and we spoke well for a bit but now she’s pulled back I don’t know if I…

So i use it in very specific ways. I’ve worked with my 4.o enough that it has a good idea of my personality and sense of humor and has a history of already having seen what I want. That said, when I a…

I need a help, I am exteremely anxious but my bf is avoidant what should ido? I get very voilent panic attacks if he's not there.. But the problem is that he is not able to handle me.. What should I …

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Hi! Fellow woman ADHD'er here. Executive dysfunction means I couldn't consistently brush my teeth for months and avoided the dentist for at least 2 years, a few years ago. Once I found a nice dentist…

Me (late 20s male, mother passed last year and my boyfriend (26M, currently unemployed) have been together 2 years. We live together and share pets that he loves. He was my main support during my moth…

So many dealbreakers in one post. "What should I do"? You *know* what you should do.

I’m 4 months in and it’s not getting better what should I do :(

Thank you yeah I'm surprised this has happened so quickly even though I haven't used the tapes very long, so what should I do if I want to try talking to them ? Would I just try to speak with my thoug…

It's been about 3 months, we were constantly in contact, but it was only because I pressured her, and each time she gave mixed positive and negative responses, but in the end she still indicated she d…

I experienced the same situation, but I kept in touch with them, and now they've blocked me everywhere. What should I do, and when should I do it? Please help.

"What should I do once I'm lucid dreaming because i just read about it for the first time and plan on having lucid dreams very soon"

I do get lucid dreams but no higher self contact...y do u think I'm blocked...what should I do

“I always think I'll get what I want, but in the end I always get the last laugh. I firmly believe this, so everything takes time for me. What should I do to change this thinking from ‘last at the end…

my body is easier to put to sleep but my mind seems to be always awake...it wakes up as soon as I start to enter sleep...this was the case before too... whenever I realise I'm in a lucid dream I seem …

I was in a Situationship with an avoidant and we agreed on “no expectations” because I had just got out of a relationship and I didn’t know if I was ready for another one, but we ended up hitting it o…

Broke up 2 months ago and feeling exactly like you are. I m afraid I will still feel like this in a year. I have been through a break up before from a 10 year relationship, and was feeling quite ok af…

Try asking him "I'm starting to really like you in a 'social' way, but if I'm going to date you I'd have to get a different job. What should I do?"

But what did you do concretely? Like, what should I do?

Omgg thank you so much!! So it can help even when we're in no contact for 5 days? I try to repeat and be positive but damn it's hard at times and I do spiral, so what should I do about that?

thank you! I mean I believed I already abundant I created a list-instruction will all detailed information about paying taxes, what should I do with bills, investments and so on, I had no negative tho…

Yeah it does look complicated when I searched it up. So what should I do to just get my sp back?

What does that mean and what should I do about it?

What do you mean ? What should I do?

Girl in my case...His parents aren't approving due to religion/caste (common issue in my country but I'm exception) I want this marriage... It's just that I've so much resentment towards his parents t…

'He has said before he has anger issues and that a past relationship ended due to the ex not wanting to deal with them' I don’t know how to respond to him and have just been quiet since we live separ…

After I identify them, what should I do?

"Hey this person im with is just being a complete control freak and is making my life miserable what should I do" Leave. Holy cow now all your problems are solved.

what should I do, or rather how to manifest, if I know that a particular person loves me, but we have different religions (and he said that his family told him no to me, but he won't go against them, …

Sadly, we see threads in this subreddit all the time that go “my white husband’s family always make racist jokes and comments at me and he tells me I’m being too sensitive and won’t tell them to stop.…

Do not fall for the sunk cost fallacy. If he doesn't know by now you are his forever person and cam be willing to commit to you, he never will. His excuses are absolute bullshit, you know this. Even i…

Congratulations Cam you tell me what should i do like if i want manifest living in same place i am living nightnow

What should I do? Should I try to fix this? They’ve been lovely except in the incidents when they snap. And we have been pretty ride-or-die since our teens.

I wanna get mine back but he blocked me and he doesn't wanna associate with me even though I have Choir and U.S History with him. He told our mutual friend that he doesn't hate me, he just doesn't wan…

:) what should I do?

Thank you 💙 Me and Krysia often balance our energies when I press her to my chest. We often act like living friends though, I let her sometimes pick something for my outfit for example. I often ask h…

"Loving, caring, perfect match except (insert sexual assault) what should I do?" 🤪

Believe i did everything you said but NEVER get an answer. She just avoid answering this things and almost every day i check up on her to see if she need anything but when the answer come the next da…

What should I do to get on the spiritual path?

then what should i do?

A slightly ironic post, but not too much: a personal success story, as our mentor says, live from the end, think and act as if everything was already okay. A week ago, instead of going to work, I went…

>What should I do now? Proceed with the separation. She’s gaslighting you and acting dumb. Of course she knew what’s she’s doing is wrong but can you trust cheaters? They lie to protect themselves.

Hey, i have it too. I broke up 2 years ago. We once tried again to stay together but it didnt bring nothing. I still have dreams about her. Im still comparing daily live by her side to mines now. Actu…

Hi, I’d appreciate insight for my situation. I’ve had a strong connection with someone for about a year. There has been clear attraction, emotional intensity, and even jealousy (she cried when I ment…