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So what would be your advice or solution to someone who is doing it "blindly" but wants to take the blindfold off but doesn't know how. I might suggest having them read Vadim Zelands "Reality Transurf…

About no contact. — I just wanted to say that, yes, you should go no contact if you got dumped, only way that someone will realize what they lost is by not having access to it anymore, could take days, weeks and months f…

“ he never harmed me” good to know my suffering meant so little to you — My ex husband left me for the mistress 6 years ago. It was hell. I am still to this day dealing with the trauma of having the person you trusted and loved so much just pull the rug from under your li…

The fatalistic overcorrection of the dichotomy of control. — I wrote part of the body of this post as a comment in another thread, but I see these comments very often anyway so I thought (voluntarily) that I would give a general objection to them here. The g…

I did it.. — I blocked him. Everywhere. No doors left open. Because I can't take it anymore. I'm in love with someone who could not give the slightest shred of a fuck less about me. Somebody that destroyed me em…

It wasn’t love that broke me… it was believing in it blindly — ​ “it wasn’t forever— but it wasn’t nothing either. I trusted words once… and felt like a fool. now I see actions— and still struggle to believe them. maybe that’s what it did to me… no…

What's something your parents did to you that YOU had to apologize to them for that still makes you angry? — As in, situations where despite you being the victim, you were forced to be the one apologizing. I know mine too well, unfortunately. I've told this in comments before, but now I'll tell it here. So…

I became a flying monkey — I did. I became a flying monkey, and it makes me feel horrible. I had a relationship with a partner that was clearly abusive (I am no psychiatrist, I do not set diagnoses). I left that partner less …

Advice about relationship — I'm not Asian but my bf is. We're both in our mid-20s, and while I job hunt , he's working towards completing his masters. We've been dating longish's distance for about a year now, neither of our p…

Ndad is forcing me to do heavy labor knowing I’m chronically ill — I have been stuck with my parents for the past year and I’m finally getting out in a month or so to live with my partner. I have POTS, scoliosis, migraines, and hypermobility in several joints. Yes I …

Day 8 of NC. I walked away from the girl I wanted to marry because of family interference and her playing games. The urge to break NC is killing me tonight. — I’m a little over a week into strict No Contact, and it's hitting me incredibly hard tonight. I’m posting this here because I'm genuinely struggling not to unblock her just to hear her voice, and I ne…

What is the best remedy for Saturn Ketu Conjunction? — M29 here, Aquarius ascendant having this conjunction in 2nd house pisces. Saving money is tough and I blindly trusted a person by giving huge amount and lost it. now I am fighting for it. also one or …

I have no one to talk to — He was everything to me my best friend in this life. I don’t understand why things ended the way they did. My friends are busy with their lives, and my family is too, so I’m going through this heartb…

Stop thinking you don’t have to work — Hello all, I’ve made prior posts detailing my success with Neville. Some of which were curing an “incurable disease” and manifesting almost a million dollars. Today I woke up with even more money com…

Realizing you can't remember anything? — If you ever asked me\[M21\] to recount details of my childhood or even things is recent memory like last year, I'd be hard be hard pressed to give much of an answer aside from maybe a few memorable mo…

You’re thinking “if only they would do/say X” — Year 1 / wife / 20 years / 2 teens / coworker / 4 months Thus far, I’ve encountered so many people in various support groups who really wish their betraying partner would say/do X… show empathy, own…

I am shocked and hurt — I am a female aged 41 yrs married for almost 15-16 years. For 10 years of our marriage we lived in different cities because of career and job.For last 5-6 years we are living together. I have left the…

Less than two months — We have had ups and downs since he broke up with me, moved on almost immediately with someone else which appears to have been happening almost before the breakup. However We have still had moments of …

Medical intuitive can only "tune in" again when I've paid for another session? Is this normal? Am I being played — Hello everyone so I made a post here yesterday as I think someone may have taken advantage of me but I'm not entirely certain. Anyway I saw a medical intuitive and she made a pretty bold claim relati…

The Ending Of A 26 Year Relationship.... And The Lightning Bolt — After 26 years with the same person, I honestly thought a big part of me had gone missing. Not just the relationship itself, but me. Looking back, I think certain things over the years slowly wore do…

I [28F] may have set my boundaries too high [32M] — I've been seeing this guy less than a week. We met 3-4 times in this week for short bursts of time. He expresses openly his affections/intentions whereas I am more reserved. He was respectful and did…

I Can’t Believe I’m Back — I can’t believe I’m posting in this subreddit again. I recently just got out of a 2 1/2 year relationship (we’re both in our early twenties). Ever since I met him I kind of knew he was the one. I don’…

I 29F wish I could leave this relationship. Confused and emotionally unstable? — I 29F started dating my husband in 2023. By the end of that year, I found out he had been sleeping with several other women. When I confronted him, he cried and begged for an apology. I forgave him, b…

I've lost any semblance of respect I've had for my AM. — Just a quick little vent because I'm so tired of this. I don't need this fucking bullshit during my exams season. My sibling and I are going through enough as is. We don't need our egg donor to be scr…

Opinion? — yesterday I wrote to my mum to remind her about my child's birthday as it seemed to me she forgot, which she did. I've been reading a lot of Pete walkers work recently about narrcasistic parents, defl…

FAQ on emotional neglect - For anyone new to the subreddit or looking to better understand the fundamentals — **What is emotional neglect?** In one's childhood, a lack of: everyday caring, non-intrusive and engaged curiosity from parents (or whoever your primary caregivers were, if not your biological parent…

Before working with any agency or automating anything, do it yourself first, even if it’s messy and manual. You can’t outsource what you don’t understand. If you don’t know what works yet, an agenc…

Yeah that makes sense. Its about questioning your instincts and not following them blindly, though not just blindly doing the opposite of what you want/need either.

Well said, thank you. That’s been the learning curve for me as a DA just learning to be a parent. Kids are the emotional and financial equivalent of those baby chicks, blindly screaming for more and m…

You can listen to someone who just admitted they don't even have a paid account and just reads what they see online or listen to someone who's gotten more out of it in the last 30 days than four diffe…

I did in fact worry I’d be permanently jaded from it. In our case, it wasn’t so much a situation of anxious/avoidant cycles, it was just the abuse cycle. She was extremely controlling, jealous, would …

That's fine. You do need to ask yourself what it is that you're seeing in them, if it really is the stuff that makes you compatible with them, then it's great that you can figure it out so quickly, bu…

I'm pro becoming friends after a relationship ends when possible (obviously except for situations where it would be unhealthy). I've never had a very bad breakup and I still like the person as a perso…

I love "I want to be friends first before dating" Oh you mean you don't want to just blindly walk into a relationship?? I swear some people think their very normal approaches to life are unique

You could ask him to get a new phone number since you feel unsafe. If it stops, you have your answer but if it continues, well then you have your answer too. If he cares about you he should be willing…

It makes matches more likely, and that’s the initial hurdle for men to cross. If you carefully read 100 profiles, and swipe right on 10 that tick all your boxes, you *might* get 1-2 matches if you’re …

That’s an interesting perspective. The Milgram experiment was one of those things humans created and tested on others and it also inspired me while writing my trilogy about solitude, silence, and free…

I have free will. You go right ahead! The creators knew they were making an occult topic/ ‘pseudoscience’ science website. That if you know how to use it, can be very valuable bc the original ppl who …

Your parents are choosing to pay this. Eventually it will come to a point they cant pay it anymore. I would save money for that and buy them things they need instead of blindly send money that will go…

When you incessantly chase something, it has the tendency to drift farther away. This is because the state you are chasing is yourself. The god state is nothing but you. Instead of seeking the realiza…

Idk if this is the right place but it’s on my mind and I’m dating over thirty so 🤷🏾‍♂️😂 Something that I’m trying to do (and this may be a “no duh” thing) is date with intention. Last fall I joine…

as someone who's been a Dom in bdsm relationships, that is a huge red flag, please do not go in to breathe play blindly and boundaries need to be set, safe words are a must as well, please refrain fro…

You must leave him. He is untrustworthy and is putting your child in danger of being homeless. You mother is blindly stupid. Sell anything you can, take any money you have access to, and leave him.

I’m just saying it’s fruitless to conflate artistic appreciation/recognition with the Oscars. Let’s keep in mind that most members of the voting academy just blindly reward the chosen darlings of the …

The purpose of this sub is support, not blindly agreeing with the actions or beliefs of the poster. If you want to show OP support, do it. I think compassion/empathy and constructive criticism are equ…

I certainly will! And they didn't give me a phone call, and witheld medications, a whole library of errors. What makes me angry is they've dropped this, none of the officers will face discipline or an…

I'm not sure I interpret this situation the same. I can see how you say OP is "not getting the stuff you want", and I see his last sentence. But to me, the overall story isn't that OP isn't getting …

So when she told you back then that she wants a sexless marriage, she in fact just no longer wanted sex with you. Because, obviously, she had tons of sex with her ex during that bad period. The bad p…

It is a useful tool. Use it as a tool. And do not blindly accept what it says. Like don't get it to write for you, but use it to read what you wrote and tell you about weaknesses and suggested chang…

I don't know who needs this info, but this about dog's love made me smile 😊 "Dog love is: Simpler and more present (they don’t overthink or hold grudges) Very loyal (they attach deeply to their…

Op should post the info to settle this, I don't like to draw conclusions so blindly

At this stage I would not tell her, or any other person who is new in your life. you might tell her you inherited some funds that make your life slightly easier but you cannot touch the full sum no m…

These "rules" touted by parasitic coaches all over the internet are just a way of monetising sadness and anxiety. Use common sense, your knowledge of yourself, your knowledge of the other person, the …

i get what you’re saying but i think people romanticize the “they might miss you but be too ashamed” idea a little too much. sometimes no contact isn’t a strategy to get them back it’s literally how y…

Nah, I think its actually a sign of maturity to not blindly put your complete trust into others. Trust is something to be earned through actions.  But if you automatically distrust people then that…

I’m really sorry for you, but I was also speaking from my own experience. In my case, there were no signs at all. The real issue was communication. He never seriously brought anything up, so I assumed…

AI will only do that if you allow it to. Mine is specifically instructed not to be a sycophant and is very welcome to say what I do not want to hear if that keeps me grounded and its doing one heck of…

While I agree with you, in the aspect of taking comments into mind but drawing your own conclusions and opinions... > Mine is specifically instructed not to be a sycophant Jesus christ gross. You'r…

2.) Cause not so long ago and still for a lot of people in a lot of countries it was about physical and financial survival first. No time to reflect on mental health and emotional safety. Also the ver…

Is there anyone in the family or her friends who can knock some sense into her and makes sure she’s not marrying a rapist? I don’t think you alone can fix this since she’s not even believing you. You …

He went way over the line. Report him to the licensing board. I doubt this is his first time or the last. You did not cause him to do anything, he of his own free will choose to do what he did. Part…

I completely agree. In my opinion it all sounds too far-fetched to be true anyway, but even if it was... why should we blindly accept the rule of some higher power, especially our "purpose" involves a…

Trust is earned, not just freely given. Yes, you have to want to trust someone - in some ways it will almost require blind faith - but they need to give you consistent reasons to do so. Given what has…

Yes slowly it goes down.Personally in my case I had a breakup 3 months ago in late December and I was really devastated because somewhere I knew the boy was cheating on me with his office colleague.Th…

OP… my heart breaks for you. It also breaks for her. The unfortunate fact is… she’s been failed by so many “authority” figures in her life. Garbage parents, the boss… My father was absent, and m…

I never had kids, I didn't need to. I got a puppy and realised that it all made even *less* sense. Puppies also "don't come with instruction manuals!", I had to go to a bookshop and get them, and jo…

I'm a believer in Christ, but I am not an avid church-goer nor do I adhere to any branches or denominations. I'm just a truth seeker and don't accept things blindly. I would say... being an experien…

Hetrosexuals are now the most HIV diagnoses. Women dont take preP. That should be easy to see coming. I don't understand why we will so blindly believe and are naive to men who sleep beside us who che…

I’m in no way blaming people that get stood up but there is a very familiar pattern and there are ways to avoid this, it’s not 100% full proof but it will definitely filter out the flakes and the time…

At the risk of being down voted into oblivion: If you follow this blindly, you end up always "becoming"... never "being". "I'm becoming loved", "I'm becoming chosen", "I'm becoming successful"... This…

To each their own. I have been career focused and could have lived with a couple different men I was in relationships with but trusted my gut. If being career focused and trusting my judgment is a red…

I’m 43/f and kid free never married never lived with a partner. It’s really interesting to me that people see that as a red flag, but I have been career focused, moved around and declined the BF move …

Yes, it was important that I was successful so that they could brag about me. Then when I became successful and financially independent, they were like - oh crap we lost control of her. What they wa…

That's the moment in time when you want to go to couples counseling. There could be myriads of reasons for this request but blindly following through it denying it are likely going to become a problem…

Interesting. Hmm I will say, lucid dreaming and Monroe’s work has opened me up to viewing some things as plausible that I would immediately discount as fake or made up in the past. One of those things…

Uninformed asian americans, specifically the conservative Vietnamese. Too blindly loyal to the same party who screws them every time.