What are you doing?

Mine didn't seem to believe I could have downtime outside of school work and extracurriculars. Every time I would relax and do anything I actually wanted, it was met with the questions of "What are …

I said, I need time to process.. — ... but after a week I am still confused. //edit: thanks guys, I needed this. For some reason this guy kept popping up for me, even though I've been meeting other people and am quick at cutting cr…

Constant digs at me from my mother — Hi all, F21 here, living with my narcissistic (I assume) mum. She always has been controlling, but has chilled out a lot on it ever since I've been resisting. She resorted to these verbal digs at m…

In need of cheer — Not been in the best of headspaces recently (work-life crisis-ey) and additional commentary from a family member didn't quite "hit" me until this morning's commute to work. TLDR : A property with a l…

Thank you! So kind of you! We are seeing Monolink! :) What are you doing?

Dude, what are you doing? Leave. Get a paternity test. Divorce her. None of this is normal.

my nex started to make disgusting faces after kissing me. he said it was because I am a smoker, but when we started to date he told me it didn't bother him. I eventually stopped smoking (after four y…

Sweetheart- what are you doing? Is this what you want? You are setting yourself up for pain and poverty. Make a life and then have a kid. Please!

He needs to have sex with a 19 year old to see how much he really loves you? Someone 8 years younger than him? Girl, what are you doing? Are you hearing yourself right now? Get rid of this loser an…

Well, I think you just have to have fun with it. The more basic the question the more random I get. What are you doing? Oh just measuring my grass . I might have tism or maybe it's because I'm recentl…

Your comment history is a mess. Legitimately, WHAT are you doing?

He used to get home late at night while I was asleep in bed. He’d jump into the bed, rip the blankets off of me, grab my shoulders and shout “WHAT ARE YOU DOING??!!” Which of course would wake me u…

say loudly what are you doing? and go from there. it’s lowkey sexual harassment

Why did you let her stay? Her just walking right in ignoring what you asked, that right there would’ve pissed me off. She’s not listening. You need to stand firm behind your decision. Letting her stay…

Bro, what are you doing? Who cares? It’s time to go.

Original copy of post by u/ConfectionUnique7233: ... but after a week I am still confused. I need some input so here is the story. I (45) met a man (49) on a dating website and it clicked between…

Uhhhh what are you doing???? Being with a man like that is completely optional.

Oh my god OP, what are you doing? It's only 11 months in and you two are living together AFTER a breakup? He's already shown himself to be abusive? He's a gambling addict and possibly a drug addict?!?…

Oh my God he is so fucking old. What are you doing? I know you don’t believe this, but you deserve better and you can do better and you can be better. Life would be much easier without dealing with…

my experience was with a covert psychological sadistic. after a few years of relationship (maybe 2, or 3) he started to finish sex first and disconnect from me. When I complained about the one sided …

You are 28 yrs old for gods sake, what are you doing?? Call a friend, call family, call a hotline, get the hell out. This man is a deadbeat who is financially abusing and manipulating you.

Call her bluff. She can break up with you and go live with mom. What are you doing?

Are you asking whether it’s a good idea to give up everything that is important to you to pursue a relationship with a man who doesn’t take your needs into account? The answer is no, unless you want t…

None of that is okay, and it needs to stop. Just break up with her. WHat are you doing? She's clearly taking advantage and isn't even being NICE to you about it.

Girl what are you doing?? Don’t accept this, please walk away. I’d rather be single forever than making myself small for a man.

OP, what are you doing? Your wife is an adult who I assume has had a job at some point in her life. I also assume she can grasp basic facts. You need to reinforce those boundaries. It's time to set a…

Ma'am, what are you doing? Don't ever stop taking an antidepressant cold turkey. You go to the doctor and talk to them about any issues you're having with it.  Maybe go to therapy and unpack why you…

Gross, he's a decade older than you, what are you doing?!?!

What are you doing? Have you any self respect? It's really hard to feel sorry for you when you continually put yourself in this situation, because yes you have done this, not your POS bf. First time, …

What are you doing? Seriously. This is not someone I’d marry.

I can't stand obligatory check-the-box texting like good morning and good night. Much prefer to have an actual conversation here and there and otherwise go about our lives until we see each other agai…

My man, what are you doing? Why are you wasting time digging deeper into uncovering “the truth”? You have more than enough to contact a divorce lawyer. She keeps continuously showing you who she is an…

\>We have been together almost a year, and I have never been to his apartment. Gah, OP. The man is lying to you about everything, and likely has another girlfriend (maybe even a wife). There was pro…

What are you doing? YOU tell him HE'S going on a diet of 1500 calories a day! Seriously, this guy is not one of the good ones. Throw him back in the pond. You need a better guy.

Girl, what are you doing??? He sounds awful!! Is the sex really incredible or something?