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Again, same. Almost all of it. Although I'm not LGBTQ (I don't think... It's complicate and confusing), I definitely went through a period when I was a teenager where I had questions about myself, but…

Log / Metrics / APM for SaaS Solutions with minimal / no Selfhosting — I'm currently looking into a tool for our developers to get metrics and logs from our Azure App Services and Azure SQL services into. I'm currently using Azure Managed Grafana for Alerting and Datadog…

In an avoidant-anxious friendship, how much space should I be giving before I reach out? — The last 2 posts on the sub are about friendship and that encouraged me to post here as well. This is my friend of 5 years. We’ve gone from talking almost everyday to me being given the silent treat…

Ignoring after an argument. Deactivating or disinterest? — I’m not really sure if this belongs here or in my Taurus subreddit, because he’s a Taurus, as am I, and we can be stubborn. But he also leans very avoidant, and has started ignoring me after arguing.…

Found out 10 year situation-ship has been married the entire time — I’m absolutely gutted. Sick to my stomach. We’ve (now 28F 35M) been on and off in a passionate, toxic, can’t-keep-our-hands-off-each-other “relationship”, and we couldn’t seem to ever stay away from…

My boyfriend (M35) and I (F27) have not said i love you, over a year of dating — TLDR; My boyfriend (M35) and I (f27) have been together for over a year, he hasn’t said I love you despite having talked about marriage, kids, future together. In a conversation he said he was apprehe…

Leo with both Moon and Ascendant in Cancer with a Taurus signature - why do i feel weird, stubborn and kinda emo? — A Leo but with mostly Earth/Water fixed influences ( Virgo, Capricorn, Cancer). Barely any Air elements and maybe thats why I suck at communicating and I feel kinda slow. Not much Fire either. Peopl…

A lot can change, if you allow it to. — It’s my time to give back to this community. Just to put a perspective to things, I don’t mean to boast. I am not very talented, just stubborn and a hard worker. If I can transform my scenario, so c…

DO NOT GIVE UP — DO NOT GIVE UP!!!!! I have so much to say. But ima try to keep it short ish. I just wanted to make a quick post about my journey. I’ve been “manifesting” for five years. I actually have not. Those f…

Do romantic relationships ever work with enmeshed parenting? — When my ex and I broke up I told him that his mom was going to make his marriage miserable. She disapproved of/disrespected me and we could see it wasn't going to work out. I don't hate him, but I'm o…

UPDATE: My (32f) fiancé (28m) repeatedly does not clean the house — Hello lovely reddit. First relevant links. My first post I deleted (so you can peruse the comments if you are interested): [https://www.reddit.com/r/relationships/comments/18yjl0g/my\_32f\_fianc%C3%…

Make the world convenient for you — So I move in about 3 months from now and decided that I wanted to search for an apartment pretty early on so that I could take my time and really find nice options. One of my previous beliefs was tha…

I spent years trying to fix my life with discipline. Therapy showed me why that didn’t work — **My Journey** I can’t remember not being depressed. I have some memories of the time before, but they are pictures, frames of a child enjoying life. But I’ve struggled with depression almost my enti…

You are God. — you can manifest anything and everything. I say this as someone who has been into this community since i was 10. I used to try manifesting height, weight loss, friends, parents to stop arguing, everyt…

I truely believe that their unwillingness to adapt to western life is the cause. — As the title says. I've been lurking here for a while (27M) and honestly from what I seen most of what happens could literally be from their stubborness to not adapt to western life. My uncles and the…

the narcissist catchphrase bingo list — edit 1: jesus christ my initial 32 I wrote already look like they arent a lot lmao (the comments in total added 45 UNIQUE PHRASES HOLY JESUS) , okay heres the updated list (most of the updates will be…

Hairstyle recommendations? Extremely flat hair — My hair is extremely flat and stubborn and I cant find a way to add texture that makes it look good. Everytime I try to add texture it just looks like messy bed hair. My hairline is also not the best …

How to find out if a strong energy sensation is due to a cord or other interferences ? — I had been feeling a strong heavy energy sensation which also induces negative thoughts and emotions around my heart and solar plexus area intensely. I had been doing grounding and protection practice…

You need to sit down and imagine NOW! — I get a good amount of DM's from SP posts/comments I've made complaining about their SP and how their SP "is" (as if it is some immutable characteristic). Do you see what you are doing?! You are just…

My boyfriend (39M) threw his bag at my (33F) face, refused to apologize "because he thought I would block it", then stormed out to leave after I said I just wanted to be alone — Pretty much what the title says. We live separately but visit each other every weekend alternating (about 1.5 hours apart). We've been together 2.5 years. His bag was on the couch with all his clothe…

My self esteem is tearing me apart — I hate so much about me and anything I kind of like about me are either because several other people told me they liked it or because it’s conventionally liked but I completely isolate it form the res…

My mom is accusing me of incest. Again. — I'm a minor. I live with my parents. Yesterday I slept in the afternoon that's why I couldn't sleep and was awake till dawn, my older brother is awake as well. We talked, reminisced about our past exp…

Broke up with my gf because she wants kids now and I'm not ready. — I (30) just broke up with my gf (31) of 2 years and instantly feel awful and am questioning if I made the wrong decision. She has severe endometriosis so basically needs to start trying for kids now.…

It has been two years since I broke up, and here we are, folks. — It's a strange day/event to commemorate, yet it's undeniably a significant one. I feel like it's important to pay a token of respect to the journey I took. So here we are. 1. Before diving deep into …

At the start of 2026 I left my soulmate after three years together, I'm 36 now and whilst I desperately miss her, I realise I'm finished/done with relationships. — The dust has settled now. I'm not reacting out of impulse. I'm never going to find a connection like this again. I've had two other long term relationships and a few causals... We met on Christmas Ev…

just a vent. — Due to the state of the economy, I’ve had to move back in with my parents. They are very stubborn people who live in a constant state of denial and tend to lack empathy. If I use even the most basic “…

Fuck my family , fuck asian culture , fuck this country, fuck everything. — Im Korean 20 years old and I hate this fucking country and values. People are all savages who live off material goods and see NPCs as stupid robots, functions that should work and do nothing else in …

Rebranding — Hey guys! I’d like to ask for some advice when it comes to growth, especially in school… I can say I’m doing better than how I was last year but at the same time I absolutely feel like I haven’t imp…

My ex (F23) and I (M26) came back into contact after a year. I'm still in love with her. — Quick backstory. My ex (F23) and I (M26) came back into contact after a year. We broke up after being together for 4.5 years. We met on a dating app, I was 21 and she was 18. Everything clicked instan…

I'm thinking of contacting her — my dear brothers and sisters I'm thinking of contacting her. Yes, I know she left me, but lately there's been a time when we've really missed each other, and I do miss her. I've blocked her on WhatsA…

It only took 3ish days of being decently consistent — Small success story that I feel the need to share with my favorite online community. So, for context, I'm a huge Spyro fan (videogame) and I play it on PlayStation 2. To play the game, I need a Play…

Boyfriend(m38) doesn’t want to split bills equally with me (f30), should i compromise or call it quits? — I (f30) make $31/hr and my boyfriend (38m) makes $45/hr. He wants to pay $600 a month and no utilities. He currently pays $800 to rent a room and he’s telling me he can’t afford $800. my rent is $2k. …

You have the answers — ​ Hello folks, hope your day is going well! Below i'll post the final chapter to a short work I put together. while out of context it does provide some useful tips on how to be. A dedicated …

My ex (F23) and I (M26) came back into contact after a year. I'm still in love with her. — Quick backstory. My ex (F23) and I (M26) came back into contact after a year. We broke up after being together for 4.5 years. We met on a dating app, I was 21 and she was 18. Everything clicked instan…

I f21 had sex with my friend m21 who is gay. What could this mean? — Hi, I'm 21f, bi, but more sexualy attracted to men. I've always questioned my sexuality about whether I was under the asexual umbrella since I've never found much pleasure in the act of sex with all t…

My (M33) wife (F28) cannot accept that I dated a, on what she calls a "low class" woman (F30). — We've been married for 2 months and suddenly my ex was the topic for a month now. I have no idea why this came up in the first place (probably popped up on Instagram). My wife has been really pissed …

Boyfriend (m30) and I (f29) had a really bad fight and he told me he hates me — We have been together for 5 years and I would say our relationship has been really hard. He is stubborn and has a bad temper so when we fight he lashes out and says really nasty things and breaks up w…

SIL said she is looking for a women’s shelter — My sister in law has always complained about my husband’s brother to me. She complains about what he says to her, such as the fact he doesn’t like the windows opened or that he pretends to be a good p…

I (23F) use Reddit for outside perspective because I don’t want biased opinions from friends/family, but I think my boyfriend (26M) found my account and is uncomfortable. How do I handle this? — I sometimes use Reddit to get outside perspective when my boyfriend and I have issues. I started doing that because I realized that when I go to friends or family, they usually automatically side with…

Am I overreacting or is it time to call it quits? — My partner of 10+ years and I are on a “let’s try again” phase after a they had broken up with me a few days ago and I begged to give it another go. When things are good, they are pretty amazing, and…

Any insight on my son’s chart? — He’s a really sweet, always smiling kid, can be stubborn and a little lazy but extremely intelligent. Very loving. Any other insights?

No hope for workaholic AP — My parents are raging workaholics, especially AF. He is 62 this year. I've personally been sensitive about work-life balance. I don't see him as my parent anymore, just a boss. My AM has been complain…

I finally figured out how to make "living in the end" click for my body — I wanted to share a quick win because I’ve been stuck in a loop for a long time trying to manifest a better physique. I’m 36 and self-employed, so my schedule is usually all over the place, and honest…

Advice? F29, M29 — Hai My boyfriend (M27) and I (F29) keep butting heads and it feels like we just don’t end up truly listening to each other. We fought again tonight because his friend invited him to hang out at a ce…

Getting final closure. — So following from my previous post a week ago. Please read before commenting anything. I'm seeking advice, ranting and just getting closure. [https://www.reddit.com/r/survivinginfidelity/comments/1s4…

I accidentally conjured a “Jellyfish” Egregore + Encounter with “Devine Feminine” — What did I experience? What Egregor did I conjure mistakenly? Has anyone else experienced anything similar? Please share your thoughts. 🙏….. I have been experiencing orbs over the past year at nigh…

Saw her and felt nothing — 9 months out from separation. I am filing for divorce first week in July. I didn't want the divorce but I think I knew it was needed, even though it hurt. We went no contact because I was sure communi…

Husband abruptly ended marriage — My husband said he doesn’t want to continue our marriage. We were married for 7 months and we still are until the legal process takes place. We are both very different people, but I believed that di…

Has anyone ever shifted by being stubborn? — I mean in a “sitting there meditating for like 3 hours” kind of way. Like has anyone ever actually shifted after that long of a time during an attempt? Just curious if putting “more effort” into a sin…

So. I think my Nmother is dying... — And that means my Nfather is going to ramp up the abuse. He's been treating me as the scapegoat for quite a few years. As for Nmother... She's been very stubborn and refused to let us call for an amb…

Two weeks without contact after fallout, should i be doing more? — hello! Im writing this from a burner account just in case. For context Im F20+ from an Asian family and am studying abroad, living by myself. Im in a lesbian long distance relationship for a few year…

I’ve read all Nevilles books several times over, but I’ll check out the lecture you’re referring to. About my successes, I manifested more money than I had ever seen before. Prior to that, I thought…

>About my successes, I manifested more money than I had ever seen before. Prior to that, I thought I’d always be broke. I even had to take a screenshot of my bank balance to remind myself of that amaz…

I've been in these scenarios a good few times in a good few ways. And I have some hostile opinions on it as well as some good ones. So scenarios. Indian CTO or VP is hired, and almost immediately, …

It depends on what kind of AI you're looking to do. Smaller, tactical, modular AI applications are going well. And these All in one solutions are harder to sell. Also, for some people, they're VE…

Yeah I tend to agree. Trying to pander to avoidants can be damaging. There needs to be give and take. If an avoidant needs some space to think, ok that's great, but agree when they re-engage in a few …

Orrrrrrrr.... In the early thaw of spring, when frost still clung stubbornly to the edges of the earth, the apology remained unsent. It lingered like a letter never mailed. Its seal unbroken, its tru…

What if they think the same way? And we’re both just being stubborn but in the heart love each other?

If you had truly followed this sub,studied and read the index, you would have learned to use the search bar to find previous posts concerning a similar topic as well as an assortment of advice on how …

yeah, we talked about it a lot, and he's now in therapy for it. He didnt realize he had a problem at all until our break up because I kind of raised hell and forced him to reckon with it. He is a good…

Personally as I've become more earned secure I'd look at the situation more clearly... He's 33 yet he can't give validation or reassurance in a relationship? Timing isn't right? Sounds like immaturity…

He said he needed space for his life to change. I accepted this and was happy because I assumed it was going to be a few months. Nope, it was about all of a week. I feel frustrated because I've litera…

How do you broach the topic with your friends of if they know anyone they could set you up with? My friends like me, so they already have a better sense of how to sell me than I do as I deeply do not …

Omg this is the most dramatic misinterpretation I've seen. It's hilarious, even. 🤣 I guess once people decide something, they stubbornly stick to it. So they have decided all people with avoidant at…

I used to be like this. I used to think that if I did everything right, then people won't hurt or intimidate me. Turns out abusers just do that anyways regardless of if you're kind to them or not. H…

I’m considering a fairly extreme professional change/track. It would solve a lot of problems in my life but would probably also make me even less dateable. I don’t even know what I’m doing with my l…

No. I had absolutely no idea. I went over to his place he was renting with a friend (he had a house pretty far outside of the city, so he crashed there during his work days - 5 days on 5 off). I kind …

I have this ingrained belief that if I keep stubbornly grinding away at things I will eventually get the outcome I want too. Good luck to you.

DNA tests. How many guys on this sub said “the kid looks just like me” coming back later submitting the test said otherwise. Not an area to be stubborn about

We’re quite similar judging by how stubborn you are, can’t give up until that one more thing, right? Hahaha, always searching for a solution. Good luck to you as well

I once affirmed something so strongly and so constantly that the manifestation was almost instant. By day three I had confirmation that it had indeed come true. But it felt like the problem dissolve…

It sucks, but its also who you spend time with.. If you're always around narcissist, stubborn and superficial people, it's exhausting and they also have mental problems, it's just that they are more …

I am stubborn, lol. That’s a good point. Thank you.

this is a great breakdown for my stubborn brain. Any thoughts on returning to the feeling when manifesting a job (when unemployed, savings used up, and and debt rising specifically, more urgent that …

The Stoics would actually say you don't need to get rid of nihilism so much as pass through it. There's this idea in Chrysippus about preferred indifferents, things that have practical value but aren'…

The hardest part of healing myself was denying myself. But it isn't being stubborn, it's standing your ground. They hate when you get a backbone and then try to make you seem like you're the one wit…

I'm an aries venus and taurus ascendant and I feel influence from both. I feel like they're both hard working signs, and can get angry easily. Taurus being lazy feels like a stereotype to me. Aries pa…

thank you so much for this, i’m struggling a lot atm. The reason we broke up is because he was going through some rough stuff mentally and he chose to end the relationship “for the better”. I know he …

There are some indicators in your chart that you could have some internal adjusting to do, and in some cases you could be “the problem”. No judgment as we are all on earth to learn lessons, and most o…

Yeah…that has been an issue for me. When I like something/someone, it’s hard for me to let go. So when there are people in my life that I shouldn’t hold onto based on their actions, I stick around hop…

Sure, I doubt myself all the time. But so much has happened that I know it is real. I deny it due to my stubborn scientific mind. And I wanted to say, I do not doubt vaccines - EVER. The covid vac…

Hi Fudge, how's it going? Yeah for me, i've definitely found breathing and then, holding for a few seconds, like 2-6 seconds, and then focusing on my navel or bellybutton, to be an affective strateg…

Yeah your right, but the issue is it takes two people to tango and if one person doesn't want to change and sees no issue in their behavour and maybe is stubborn then its a waste of time... take twos …

I'm 5'8 and about 180lbs. I got together with my husband many years ago when I was 125lbs. Similar deal currently: failing thyroid, been on antidepressants, recently postpartum. Lots of reasons for th…

Asthma or allergies (or both!!). My mom is the same way and is equally as stubborn.

I wish someone would have said- just don't get married to your high school sweetheart. I probably wouldn't have listened. Then I wish someone would have said, stop trying so hard to make it work wh…

My husband became a cat man / the cats’ ultimate princess because he met me. A woman with 1 stubborn ass, annoying black cat who HAD to stare at him constantly and HAD to stick her face in his shoes… …

oh honey…i’m sorry you’re finding yourself in such a difficult predicament. it will get better. take better care of yourself and make better choices from now on! i didn’t, i was stubborn and hard head…

does it even matter what she says if you’re gonna reject her explanations, since you’ve decided that you understand her better than she does herself? i have an issue with stubbornness too, but even …

Oh my god, I am so, so sorry. I am so sorry, I know maybe 0.01% of your pain and I can’t imagine what this is like. My heart is breaking for you. This is disgusting. This is absolutely disgusting. I a…

I can almost guarantee that there is a path before you that can allow both. For most earth angels, there doesnt need to be a "big mission." Its more about learning your own inner balance and sharing t…

Sorry to say it is only getting worse it remain the same at best. Mercury periods don’t do well for Scorpio Lagna natives. Having his Mercury period start around April 2026 peaking till Sep 2028 only …

He is lazy and stubborn. Things will improve after Saturn MD will change, however it won’t totally change.

I am in my late forties so I think all the knocks I’ve had earlier in life have eased this transition for me. I’m stubborn and it took me twenty years to learn the lessons that are coming to fruition …

Thank you for writing back and being so honest and candid in your message too. I’m 34, turning 35 and I resonate with being stubborn as well and often wanting things to go my way (naive and idealistic…

I think he just figured if they clean them more often than his non-brushing won't matter. It never made sense to me though. The dentist is far less pleasant than just brushing your own damn teeth, and…

Yep, I started a YT channel and it’s cringy and not many people watch it, but I guess it’s there in case people stumble across it or if there’s a mass awakening and the public goes in search for more …

T-square with 10th house Mercury Leo, 4th House Neptune Aquarius, and Mars 7th house Mars Taurus There is a tug of war between the version of you the world sees, and that which is going on in the hom…

That's rough. I understand how you feel. I questioned EVERYTHING about what happened. I ended up balls deep in the Talmud and Tibetan texts that mentioned Tulpa specifically. I'm a little....stubborn …

We were even more powerless. Who could have said anything? I think we had to do it for ourselves from pure stubbornness. Some of it went to the Supreme Court. Navigating our role in the power structu…

Mine is slightly different, I don't think I would have survived if I was not hugely stubborn, resourceful, resilient, intelligent, in an outlier way. It is not a boast, it's a resigned lament. I am n…