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Delayed Response In Processing Events

Your contact with this being sounds intriguing. You are being given downloads of information for your personal spiritual growth. Reminds me of the experiencer/author Robert Monroe who publish a few im…

r/experiencerscomment4/4/2026
ELI5: What is TDD and BDD? Also, TDD vs BDD?

ELI5: What is TDD and BDD? Also, TDD vs BDD? — I wrote this short article about TDD vs BDD because I couldn't find a concise one. It contains code examples in every common dev language. Maybe it helps one of you :-) Here is the repo: https://githu…

r/DevOpspost5/7/2025
Threads Academy Course $1

Threads Academy Course $1 — Digital product with 100% MRR on super sale for only $1 today! First 20 people who run to the check out will grab The Threads Academy course for only $1! ✨100% MRR ✨Viral Thread Hook Vault ✨Fill in…

r/digital_marketingpost5/7/2025
The most painful relationship and breakup I've ever had, but it cracked me open so that I could heal. I created a text message llm analysis tool that revealed insecure attachment.

The most painful relationship and breakup I've ever had, but it cracked me open so that I could heal. I created a text message llm analysis tool that revealed insecure attachment. — EDIT - TLDR; 8-month, high-intensity relationship. I was DA-leaning; she showed a lot of push–pull/negative lensing. We loved each other and still couldn’t repair, so we went NC. Post-breakup I focuse…

r/attachment_theorypost9/6/2025
The most painful relationship/breakup I've ever had, cracked me open for healing. Plot Twist: The text message llm tool said I was an FA, I ignored it for 5 months before I figured it out.

The most painful relationship/breakup I've ever had, cracked me open for healing. Plot Twist: The text message llm tool said I was an FA, I ignored it for 5 months before I figured it out. — For five months I was absolutely certain I was dismissive avoidant. Monthly attachment coaching—as a DA. Studied obsessively, could recite every AP/DA/FA trait. I even built this text analysis tool, a…

r/attachment_theorypost11/6/2025
Are aliens helping us or hurting us?

Are aliens helping us or hurting us? — For the past two or so years Ive been stuck in this very strange alien encounter where entities claiming to be aliens have taken over my mind, specifically my internal voice and imagination, but they …

r/experiencerspost3/17/2026
Can anyone help me decode my Birth chart???

Can anyone help me decode my Birth chart??? — https://preview.redd.it/j6no0vy2etrg1.png?width=700&format=png&auto=webp&s=5d306a1f5120585f7fcdaa0174af9441a5d5a47d

r/AstrologyChartSharepost3/28/2026
Dating yourself? And dating friends?

Dating yourself? And dating friends? — I was broken up with about a month ago. There’s a lot of confusion and sadness, as well as a big identity switch. My relationship was a big part of my identity, so now I feel very lost. I’ve been th…

r/BreakUpspost4/1/2026
Can anyone help me decode my Birth chart???

Can anyone help me decode my Birth chart???

r/AstrologyChartSharepost4/4/2026
Can someone help me decode my ex’s behavior?

Can someone help me decode my ex’s behavior? — it’s been a year since we broke up, and we've had zero contact or interaction during that time. About four months after the split, he blocked me on Instagram but unblocked me a week and a half later. …

r/ExNoContactpost4/8/2026
Can someone help me decode my ex’s behavior?

Can someone help me decode my ex’s behavior? — **TL;DR:** Been 1 year NC, but my ex keeps blocking/unblocking me on IG and sharing his location then the last at 3 AM without saying anything. 3 months later block then unblocked again. Trying to fig…

r/relationshipspost4/8/2026
Can someone help me decode this behavior?

Can someone help me decode this behavior? — it’s been a year since we broke up, and we've had zero contact or interaction during that time. About four months after the split, he blocked me on Instagram but unblocked me a week and a half later. …

r/BreakUpspost4/8/2026
The buga ball topic

The buga ball topic — I know this is slightly off topic but it has to do with consciousness and I find this quite fascinating in how it relates to the tapes in a way. So someone in Colombia was recording a metallic sphere …

r/gatewaytapespost4/11/2026
Consollation for Dealing With Flying Monkeys

Consollation for Dealing With Flying Monkeys — I was raised by a narc dad and underwent severe abuse. My mum and most of her family died before I was born. So it was just my ndad and his extended family network (vast). I went NC in my 30s, final …

r/raisedbynarcissistspost4/11/2026
Can anyone help me decode what’s going on

Can anyone help me decode what’s going on — A couple of nights ago I had an active dream night and two lucid dreams that have left me a bit perplexed. In the first dream, I was aware that I was dreaming but, as you will see, I had not full luci…

r/LucidDreamingpost4/12/2026
If you are new here..

a) law of assumption, not law of belief. And where did you get the other descriptions from? I've been on Neville sub for a while, literally noone describes the law in those words or speak in a spiritu…

r/JosephMurphycomment2/18/2022
How much space do DA avoidants need when deactivating?

My first question is, are you really satisfied with the fact you’ve been dating her for 6 months and still aren’t her official boyfriend? And now she wants time apart? This is playing right into the a…

r/attachment_theorycomment7/7/2025
The most painful relationship and breakup I've ever had, but it cracked me open so that I could heal. I created a text message llm analysis tool that revealed insecure attachment.

Hey there, just realized I haven't been responding to messages here. I actually turned the tool into a site at [breakupdecoder.com](http://breakupdecoder.com) \- just sign up with your e-mail and it'l…

r/attachment_theorycomment10/11/2025
Finding proof that you were right to be anxious

Honestly I feel the exact same way as you do. The number of times when I’ve been getting to know a guy and couldn’t care less if they lost interest or not, then once I start liking them I become obses…

r/AnxiousAttachmentcomment10/22/2025
The most painful relationship/breakup I've ever had, cracked me open for healing. Plot Twist: The text message llm tool said I was an FA, I ignored it for 5 months before I figured it out.

Well. To be perfectly honest - you can't make someone want to change. They have to want to change themselves. For my ex - when she saw the output of the relationship attachment report - specifically …

r/attachment_theorycomment11/6/2025
Is deactivation the real her?

the part where you feel insane trying to decode her? that’s the real her FA doesn’t mean fake feelings but it *does* mean her warm side and cold side live right next to each other [NoMixedSignal…

r/attachment_theorycomment11/12/2025
How do you know what’s secure and what’s not in a partner?

State your wants. Just be reasonable in the execution. They should respond to them like an adult. You don't have to try to decode nonverbal behavior. It's not a knock on anybody to want to connect and…

r/AnxiousAttachmentcomment12/21/2025
Looking for DA perspectives

Ask for what you need. Clearly. Low-key. Step back if he doesn't give it to you. Do not bother to decode him.

r/attachment_theorycomment12/21/2025
Trading book recommendation! For those trying to fix attachment issues.

Hi!! I highly recommend these: For core wounds and relationships : 📚Mathew Micheletti and 3 more The Inner Work of Relationships: An Invitation to Heal Your Inner Child and Create a Conscious R…

r/attachment_theorycomment1/27/2026
Trading book recommendation! For those trying to fix attachment issues.

Hi I previously recommended these to someone so will copy and paste it here Book on understanding and healing trauma : 📚The Body Keeps the Score: Brain, Mind, and Body in the Healing of Trauma…

r/attachment_theorycomment3/2/2026
30F, forever single. What can you tell me about my future spouse, if I will have one at all?

You are disciplined and goal oriented person also follow structure and long term planning... But your thinking is unique and you bring change in unconventional ways( balance tradition with innovatio…

r/vedicastrologycomment3/23/2026
Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! - March 23, 2026

I don't think those guys are shy or inexperienced. I'm just an option I guess. I really don't know what and how to decode.

r/datingoverthirtycomment3/23/2026
If your avoidant ex discarded you: go no contact immediately.

This is painful but grounded: no contact is often less about punishing an avoidant ex and more about stopping yourself from chasing clarity from someone who is too shut down to offer it. Just be car…

r/BreakUpscomment3/23/2026
As an ardent follower of Astrology - I now find it very dehumanising.

Okay, so life as we know of is a cycle. A cycle in loop until certain karmic aspects are nullified. Now, humans run in loops of recurring patterns at certain intervals. Now, this is usually \~ 2.5 y…

r/vedicastrologycomment3/24/2026
No contact isn't about them. It's about teaching your nervous system that you survive without the response.

day 50 is real progress. and those run ins are so awkward in a way that nobody prepares you for — you practice no contact at home but then real life just throws them in front of you with no warning. t…

r/ExNoContactcomment3/24/2026
[22F] Need outside opinions on a very confusing and painful situation with a guy I dated [22M]

You are endlessly trying to decode his confusing social media behavior but you must realize that this uncertainty is actually an undefined agreement that allows him to keep you around through convenie…

r/BreakUpscomment3/29/2026
I am completely convinced that somehow my mind is being read.

"Brain data is not thought. But you can use it to make inferences about what’s happening in a person’s mind. There are brain states you can decode: tired, paying attention, mind-wandering, engagement,…

r/experiencerscomment3/30/2026
Emotionally Unavailable Mother BUT she’s literally the nicest person ever..?

Thank you... 🤍 That's such a hard thing to come to terms with. Seems like you've done a lot of work to get there. It feels like mourning something you never fully had, which is its own strange kind…

r/EmotionalNeglectcomment3/30/2026
Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! - March 30, 2026

Why wouldn’t she simply say she likes him instead of expecting him to decode?

r/datingoverthirtycomment3/30/2026
What advice would you give me - Jupiter mahadasha

Well for advice we have to understand ur chart properly and decode some patterns 1. You are a very open minded person because u do not like depending on anyone at all.. Sometimes your actions become …

r/vedicastrologycomment4/1/2026
Weird question! Can astrology determine your looks or when will you get a glow up?

Prompt: You are a team of a Grandmaster of Parashari & Jaimini Jyotish (Traditional Vedic Authority), an Elite KP System (Krishnamurti Paddhati) Mathematician (Specialist in Stellar & Sub-Lord Precis…

r/vedicastrologycomment4/1/2026
I can see auras now

It’s almost like you have to decode it lol

r/energy_workcomment4/1/2026
how to take space between my emotions and me

The “do something you enjoy” advice is frustrating because it skips the actual mechanism. Here’s what that space actually looks like in practice. When the feeling hits, the goal isn’t to distract fro…

r/AnxiousAttachmentcomment4/1/2026
Did I push reconciliation with my ex too quickly? (26M, 26F)

Man you both sound emotionally exhausted from this whole thing. She's literally telling you she's "resolute" in moving forward while simultaneously drunk texting you about how you're the only person s…

r/BreakUpscomment4/2/2026
I am a frequent lucid dreamer, AMA

1 tip = STRENGTHEN YOUR MIND Meaning: improve your concentration, memory, and dream recall [write them down, decode them, apply the message]

r/LucidDreamingcomment4/2/2026
I am a frequent lucid dreamer, AMA

the whole path is in my first comment to you. that's your starting point. strengthen the three powers of the conscious mind... memory, concentration, and visualization. those exercises i laid out are…

r/LucidDreamingcomment4/2/2026
I cannot for the life of me succeed.

i'm going to tell you something that might frustrate you at first but it's the most important thing you'll hear on this subject. you havent tried everything. you've tried every TECHNIQUE. and that's …

r/LucidDreamingcomment4/2/2026
Clicking out with flac files

As mentioned I’d eyeballed the bitrate: flacs are about half the size of the actual raw data, which assuming a cd type master would put your opus files at about 1/10th the size, which in turn suggests…

r/gatewaytapescomment4/2/2026
What you all think about sleep paralysis is

i understand the fear. i'm not going to tell you to just get over it because that's not how it works. but i want to help you understand something that will genuinely change this for you. fear is alwa…

r/AstralProjectioncomment4/2/2026
Don’t chase an avoidant ex for answers

been there man, same exact situation a couple years back. spent way too much time trying to decode every mixed signal and half-answer she gave me. looking back, the closure i was desperately seeking h…

r/BreakUpscomment4/3/2026
Mixed signals

girl he’s playing games and honestly it’s not about you it’s about his ego stop trying to decode his unblock/block drama focus on yourself and your no contact stay strong if he wanted to be with you h…

r/ExNoContactcomment4/4/2026
Should I try and reconcile or is the writing on the wall?

Op, this comment is real. After discovering the affair, I started documenting my spouse’s claims word-for-word. I wanted to take them at face value, but most of it was so nonsensical that neither I n…

r/survivinginfidelitycomment4/4/2026
I thought some people could relate...

I don't remember too clearly. You can learn letters and sounds separately first and then learn to string them together into words on your own. Or learn words and decode the letters to sounds.

r/AsianAmericancomment4/4/2026
What gives you the ick as you heal and your emotional maturity increases?

Damn. I love how you said when you notice contradictory views in a short period of time you realise they're dishonest. In the past I used to sit and decode it and why they're changing stances. Now tha…

r/Codependencycomment4/5/2026
Its been 5 months, but I still cant make any sense of his explanation for the breakup.

Had something similar happen few years back, girl told me I was perfect but we weren't "aligned for future" or some weird explanation like that. Thing is, when people want out they'll say anything tha…

r/BreakUpscomment4/6/2026
I think my anxious attachment is ruining my daily life and I don’t know how to deal with it.

Me too! It was so useful for trying to decode the behaviour of an FA. I kind of feel like it gaslighted me into hope though. Sometimes we just have to trust our gut feeling.

r/AnxiousAttachmentcomment4/6/2026
НЕ CAE BACK!!! How I got my bf back after he broke up with me

this isn't some magic spell it’s literally just fixing your planets and making yourself a magnet again. I didn’t tell anyone I was doing this. I went silent for a week and stayed on my grind at midnig…

r/Manifestationcomment4/7/2026
What’s the hardest part of managing your nervous system in social situations? What have you already tried?

My hardest struggle personally has always been trying to decode the non-verbal and sub-vocal nuance of a given social situation. I tend to be literal and pedantic, probably thanks to being autistic. M…

r/CPTSDcomment4/7/2026
I (22M) struggle to feel connected to my girlfriend (25F)

man 6 months is still pretty fresh after a 5 year thing. took me like a year to stop comparing every little thing my new gf did to what my ex used to do maybe try asking her directly what makes he…

r/relationshipscomment4/8/2026
im afraid that one day i may not wake up anymore

Friend, this sounds far beyond ordinary dream talk. When sleep starts swallowing waking life, the game stops being poetic and starts becoming medical. Lucid dreams can feel sacred, beautiful, even mo…

r/LucidDreamingcomment4/9/2026
Female relational aggression

I can’t imagine any scenario where I would say yes chop off this strangers hair. I wouldn’t think that’s going against biology. This evolutionary psychologists says hair is mating signals and most of …

r/raisedbynarcissistscomment4/10/2026
I tried going to the white house in the astral realm and its being guarded

AP is projecting data into another reality, the other reality is accessed thru the mind. When you see stuff in your head, you are observing the astral reality. Astral means another reality. Once yo…

r/AstralProjectioncomment4/11/2026
7 things you need to know about an ex who left

this feels one sided like it assumes every breakup follows the same pattern. focusing too much on what ur ex is thinking just keeps u stuck, it’s better to move forward without trying to decode their

r/BreakUpscomment4/11/2026
I (21m) had sex with a woman (28f) for the first time. Is this type of affection nothing "special"?

My thought is that I don't see a request for advice. Are you asking if you should keep dating her? If you like her, yes. The only way to see what course a relationship will take is to live it out.…

r/relationship_advicecomment4/12/2026
Boyfriend evading marriage convo

Asking for a date isn't an ultimatum. It's setting a future plan and it sounds like he doesn't envision marriage at all. You need to have a firm conversation with him and before that you need to decod…

r/relationshipscomment4/13/2026
Please help me (33F) make my boyfriend (35M) realise this isn’t normal behaviour and isn’t ok?

He's abusive; tell him he's abusive. If she shows you this Opie's boyfriend, just know that you are abusing her, especially because she's autistic. I'm autistic, and the thing about dating someone wit…

r/relationship_advicecomment4/13/2026