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I tried to communicate with an orb, and it responded. Please advise.

**PART 2 OF 2:** **My Acid Trip:** This is honestly a long backstory but I'll make it short as hell. Basically around 2018 I was in an *extremely* dark place, and very depressed for a very long…

r/experiencerscomment4/1/2026
Start Here: Essential Resources & FAQs

Start Here: Essential Resources & FAQs — The idea for this post came up in [this thread](https://www.reddit.com/r/Wordpress/comments/1cpme25/mods_can_this_subreddit_implement_a_minimum_karma/) by wiz to avoid the number of similar questions …

r/Wordpresspost5/13/2024
Sidebar Navigation On Landing Pages... Good UX?

Sidebar Navigation On Landing Pages... Good UX? — I was browsing around ThemeForest the other day, looking for some layout and design inspiration, and I found something I can't say I've seen before. It’s a landing page with a sticky sidebar nav that …

r/web_designpost4/16/2025
Web Programming Languages Cheat Sheets - JV Codes 2025

Web Programming Languages Cheat Sheets - JV Codes 2025 — Are you tired of repeatedly searching for the same code on Google? Don’t worry—we’ve got your back! The page serves as a central location to find ready-operational cheatsheets regarding [programming l…

r/web_designpost4/17/2025
Suggestions are like Forex signals - doing the exact opposite is where the real money is

Suggestions are like Forex signals - doing the exact opposite is where the real money is — I was in a Discord channel with 90K+ designers and every time someone dropped their landing page or website, it felt like getting advice from someone selling Forex signals. Doing the opposite would a…

r/web_designpost4/19/2025
What web builders would you recommend in 2025 for simple websites?

What web builders would you recommend in 2025 for simple websites? — **I**’m looking to build a few simple websites in and wanted to get recommendations on what the best web builders are at the moment. I’ve been working as a digital designer for over a decade but woul…

r/web_designpost4/21/2025
Sharing my learnings as a mid-seniority job seeker

Sharing my learnings as a mid-seniority job seeker — I started job-hunting in April. After two weeks of sending applications and receiving zero feedback (only ghosting), I scheduled a few calls with my mentor. Based in Eastern Europe and looking for a f…

r/UXDesignpost4/30/2025
AI Generated Content - Is Anyone Still Using It?

AI Generated Content - Is Anyone Still Using It? — Hi - I’m a Digital Marketing Manager at a marketing agency located in the UK. When ChatGPT came into play, we utilised it early on for generating SEO content and blogs - we hammered it, not really t…

r/digital_marketingpost5/1/2025
Responsive Font Weights?

Responsive Font Weights? — How often do you guys set responsive font weights in your projects? If you do, what are your typical use cases - like using slightly heavier weights on mobile for better readability, or lighter weigh…

r/UXDesignpost5/1/2025
We open-sourced internet’s largest incident response glossary with over 500+ terms

We open-sourced internet’s largest incident response glossary with over 500+ terms — We just published a public glossary with **500+ terms** related to incident response, on-call, alerting, SLOs, postmortems, and more. I think this is perhaps the internet's largest glossary for incide…

r/DevOpspost5/2/2025
Best way to do Google/Meta reporting? Anyone interested in helping for a project?

Best way to do Google/Meta reporting? Anyone interested in helping for a project? — I’m looking for the best way to present weekly/monthly data for both campaigns with key metrics in addition to high level P&L data like gross sales, order volume etc. Any thoughts on the best and cl…

r/digital_marketingpost5/3/2025
Google Search Console issue

Google Search Console issue — I’m seeing thousands of 404s, soft 404s, and 'Crawled - currently not indexed' pages in GSC. These URLs don’t exist on our site anymore — they’re from a previous owner and don’t even match our niche o…

r/SEOpost5/4/2025
Plan to build the healthiest farm-to-table meal delivery service. Seeking advice. I will not promote.

Plan to build the healthiest farm-to-table meal delivery service. Seeking advice. I will not promote. — I WILL NOT PROMOTE. Plan on building what I believe can be the cleanest and most transparent farm-to-table meal delivery service brand, and I’d love feedback from anyone who’s worked in DTC, food or j…

r/startupspost5/4/2025
Low-risk, High-reward, and Easy-to-start Business... an A-Z overview of the Rental Management business I run (I will not promote)

Low-risk, High-reward, and Easy-to-start Business... an A-Z overview of the Rental Management business I run (I will not promote) — Hey everyone, I'm a real estate & software developer, AirBnB Host of \~20 units personally, and I help run a management company with \~200 client homes. So I've been through the ringer in every which …

r/startupspost5/4/2025
How to Build a Site for Both Art and Ecommerce?

How to Build a Site for Both Art and Ecommerce? — Hi everyone, I’m a freelance graphic designer and currently have my portfolio site on Squarespace, which also includes a small e-commerce shop for art prints. I originally chose Squarespace because …

r/Shopifypost5/5/2025
How do you handle tracking updates + international shipping transparency in Shopify?

How do you handle tracking updates + international shipping transparency in Shopify? — One challenge we’ve been facing is managing customer expectations when it comes to international shipping, especially when multiple carriers are involved (like packages moving from 4PX → USPS, or YunE…

r/Shopifypost5/5/2025
What’s the best UX you’ve ever experienced in a product?

What’s the best UX you’ve ever experienced in a product? — Hey, I’m deep in the weeds designing the UX/UI for my vibe coding platform . I’m hunting for that spark of inspiration and digging through every app, site, and tool I can find. For me, Apple’s ecosys…

r/UXDesignpost5/5/2025
[Terraform vs. Bicep] — Is Terraform Still a Safe Bet Post-IBM?

[Terraform vs. Bicep] — Is Terraform Still a Safe Bet Post-IBM? — **TL;DR:** We're 99% Azure and choosing between Bicep and Terraform for IaC. Bicep fits the stack, but Terraform offers flexibility (especially if we acquire orgs using AWS). With IBM buying HashiCorp…

r/DevOpspost5/5/2025
TransferForge – Convert Oxygen Classic to Oxygen 6 Without Rebuilding

TransferForge – Convert Oxygen Classic to Oxygen 6 Without Rebuilding — Hey builders, We've been working on a tool called **TransferForge** to solve one of the biggest headaches in our community: migrating from **Oxygen Classic (4.x)** to **Oxygen 6**. As you know, O6 …

r/Wordpresspost5/5/2025
Is this normal? CSS

Is this normal? CSS — I was taught there are three main styling approaches: CSS Modules, CSS-in-JS, and utility frameworks like Tailwind. I also learned that it's important to write clean, organized styles with good class …

r/webdevpost5/6/2025
Marketing Digest: Google tests new AI mode outside Labs along with more features, ChatGPT introduces shopping features with personalized product recommendations, Google confirms search signals used to train Gemini AI

Marketing Digest: Google tests new AI mode outside Labs along with more features, ChatGPT introduces shopping features with personalized product recommendations, Google confirms search signals used to train Gemini AI — Hey guys! A new week means a fresh batch of marketing insights. Google’s keeping us on our toes as usual, and AI is busy finding new ways to take over the digital space. Let’s read: **SERP features /…

r/digital_marketingpost5/6/2025
Unique Field Guard For ACF

Unique Field Guard For ACF — https://preview.redd.it/a99i8tsrl5ze1.png?width=2632&format=png&auto=webp&s=837f17d2a06d91e3e0a14803dbefe7e1c4f897aa Hey WP family! I recently built a plugin I’ve been working on that solves a headac…

r/Wordpresspost5/6/2025
Best practices for organizing large web projects?

Best practices for organizing large web projects? — Hey everyone, I'm currently working on a large-scale web development project, and I'm trying to figure out the best practices for organizing the codebase. How do you structure your files and folders f…

r/webdevpost5/6/2025
MySQL Database Quota Reached - Clean database

MySQL Database Quota Reached - Clean database — Hey everyone, I’m currently hosting several websites on SiteGround’s GoGeek plan which comes with 40 GB of web space. Most of my websites use between 1–3 GB, with one around 5.3 GB. However, one of m…

r/Wordpresspost5/6/2025
Junior sysadmin looking for project ideas to modernize a simple infra

Junior sysadmin looking for project ideas to modernize a simple infra — Junior sysadmin looking for project ideas to modernize a simple on-prem infra Hey everyone, I’m a junior sysadmin working with a fairly basic on-prem infrastructure with about 45 users, and I’m look…

r/DevOpspost5/6/2025
Theme Help

Theme Help — I'm looking for a simple theme like this: [https://www.robovacxcleaner.com/](https://www.robovacxcleaner.com/) that I can use to create 1 page review sites. I'd like a drag and drop builder. I'll expo…

r/Wordpresspost5/6/2025
Elementor Slider/Carousel Free not ugly

Elementor Slider/Carousel Free not ugly — Hey guys , hope your all doing great . Is there any good looking free Slider/Carousel plugin , just something that looks clean and ypu can customize it as you want with a tittle and text maybe or just…

r/Wordpresspost5/6/2025
Need help cleaning up my customer list

Need help cleaning up my customer list — We use Shopify POS at our local nonprofit science center for IRL interactions only: admissions, gift shop, concessions. We also have memberships that we sell both online and in person. I have been tr…

r/Shopifypost5/6/2025
Alternate for 'Please share bank details' to transfer money

Alternate for 'Please share bank details' to transfer money — Hey folks, I’m working on a simple tool aimed at helping small service businesses — like tradies, pet groomers, caterers, mobile cleaners, etc. — get paid faster. Instead of sending invoices or shari…

r/smallbusinesspost5/7/2025
Anyone know of an alternate for 'please share your bank details' (I will not promote)

Anyone know of an alternate for 'please share your bank details' (I will not promote) — Hey folks, I’m working on a simple tool aimed at helping small service businesses — like tradies, pet groomers, caterers, mobile cleaners, etc. — get paid faster. Instead of sending invoices or shari…

r/startupspost5/7/2025
Upload 1000 images with excel the same title at once in a single post.

Upload 1000 images with excel the same title at once in a single post. — I’m building a website where I’ll be uploading 1,000 named images. I want to automate the process of creating posts such that: • The post title matches the image name • The featured image is automat…

r/Wordpresspost5/7/2025
ELI5: What is TDD and BDD? Also, TDD vs BDD?

ELI5: What is TDD and BDD? Also, TDD vs BDD? — I wrote this short article about TDD vs BDD because I couldn't find a concise one. It contains code examples in every common dev language. Maybe it helps one of you :-) Here is the repo: https://githu…

r/DevOpspost5/7/2025
Wordpress Staging vs. LocalWP for website redesign

Wordpress Staging vs. LocalWP for website redesign — Hey everyone, I’m working on a full redesign and cleanup of an existing WordPress website, and I want to make sure the development process doesn’t hurt the site’s current SEO at all — both during deve…

r/Wordpresspost5/7/2025
What concerns, besides price, would you have as a home owner if offered window cleaning services?

What concerns, besides price, would you have as a home owner if offered window cleaning services? — I'm just starting out and the only experience I have getting new customers for thos kind of bussiness is by neighbour's walking up and asking for a quote. I'd give a quote and 90% of the time they'd …

r/smallbusinesspost5/7/2025
Stylize Iubenda's legal documentation pages

Stylize Iubenda's legal documentation pages — So here is the default style from Iubenda, which, in my opinion, is not very good at all. https://preview.redd.it/zu7k8lyp5eze1.png?width=3688&format=png&auto=webp&s=61abff0980c19eb776e959fc3afcccc84…

r/web_designpost5/7/2025
I am having a fork in the road

I am having a fork in the road — Hi all, I need help determining what to do I am in the middle of picking between two paths, and I have a meeting today option 1: do a start up cleaning company using college students at my unive…

r/smallbusinesspost5/7/2025
Quick update on our Reddit Startup Ideas tool:

Quick update on our Reddit Startup Ideas tool: — We’ve had around 70 early signups so far, but we’ve noticed that a few of them might be bots or duplicates. Right now we’re working on cleaning that up to get a better sense of our real numbers. Any…

r/Entrepreneurpost5/7/2025
Offering FREE Virtual Admin Help to Small Business Owners (Inbox, Research, Socials & More!)

Offering FREE Virtual Admin Help to Small Business Owners (Inbox, Research, Socials & More!) — Hey amazing business owners! I’m Bella — a dedicated and detail-obsessed Virtual Assistant with a heart for helping small businesses stay organized and thrive. 💕 Right now, I’m offering FREE servic…

r/smallbusinesspost5/7/2025
What I learned building a quoting system for a construction company doing $10M+ a year

What I learned building a quoting system for a construction company doing $10M+ a year — I recently finished a project for a construction company doing roughly $10M per year. They were quoting jobs using Excel and email threads, and while it technically worked, it was slow, error-prone, a…

r/Entrepreneurpost5/7/2025
I built a lightweight tool to automate Google review requests for small businesses – looking for feedback

I built a lightweight tool to automate Google review requests for small businesses – looking for feedback — Hey folks, I recently launched a micro-SaaS called **ReviewReminder**, designed to help small businesses (dentists, salons, auto shops, etc.) get more Google reviews *without manually following up wi…

r/digital_marketingpost5/7/2025
Set out to launch my first e-commerce brand, feedback?

Set out to launch my first e-commerce brand, feedback? — Looking for advice on a health and wellness business, A transdermal nootropic patch designed for biohackers, deep workers, and anyone looking for clean, all-day cognitive enhancement without the stim…

r/ecommercepost5/7/2025
I’m trying to recover from my autoimmune issues using available techniques

I’m trying to recover from my autoimmune issues using available techniques — Wonder if anyone has successfully used their subconscious to reverse autoimmune issues , I’ve become carnivore to eat a clean diet with no inflammatory foods, but was wondering what techniques could b…

r/JosephMurphypost2/12/2026
March 2026 Astrology: Transits, Key Dates, and More

March 2026 Astrology: Transits, Key Dates, and More — **Last month’s write-up, I ended with this,** *“Let’s just say we end the month in a chaotic state of energy. Nothing seems real while at the same time, there is a sense of urgency that something need…

r/astrologypost3/2/2026
23 and feel stuck with no direction

23 and feel stuck with no direction — I’m 23 and feel really lost and stuck in life. I’m in a good relationship and I’m grateful for that, but mentally I’ve struggled since I was a kid. I had really bad anxiety starting around age 8–9 an…

r/selfhelppost3/7/2026
Everything we know about shifting is probably false

Everything we know about shifting is probably false — So much of our communities take the knowledge we spread to be fact, when in reality shifting isn’t a science. At all. This has been said before but I NEED you guys to actually read and internalize thi…

r/realityshiftingpost3/7/2026
It does get better (dumped by an avoidant) (personal advice that helped me)

It does get better (dumped by an avoidant) (personal advice that helped me) — Too anyone who deems themselves as a hopeless romantic, anxiously attached, etc, this may relate to you. After three months of what I thought was the worst time of my life, it truly gets better. T…

r/BreakUpspost3/7/2026
Are these early signs of narcissism?

Are these early signs of narcissism? — So I met this guy on Hinge a couple of weeks ago. We do know some random people in common. Here are the signs that I find strange: \- He’s absolutely grandiose - have a ton of projects, ideas, storie…

r/NarcissisticAbusepost3/7/2026
Cannabis vs. Mushrooms [My Experience]

Cannabis vs. Mushrooms [My Experience] — So I'll start off by saying I'm not very experienced and have multiple psychotic and/or disassociative disorders plus a medical card But I'm surprised at my take away when using the medical marijuana…

r/Psychonautpost3/7/2026
Shattered Tourmaline

Shattered Tourmaline — For anyone who feels guided to offer advice: I bought a tourmaline necklace to protect me. It broke two days ago. The chain it was attached to just undid itself, and the piece shattered. Would you s…

r/energy_workpost3/8/2026
I have done absolutely horrible things. I might be the worst human being to ever live.

I have done absolutely horrible things. I might be the worst human being to ever live. — 20M. This might be the longest post you'll ever read. I believe I have OCD and do nothing but ruminate 24/7 about my past. I have been in isolation for the last 3 years. It started as a fear of adult…

r/therapypost3/8/2026
My (28f) boyfriend (37m) drinks to excess nearly every weekend, am I selfish for wanting it to stop?

My (28f) boyfriend (37m) drinks to excess nearly every weekend, am I selfish for wanting it to stop? — Throwaway account. Please tell me if I am crazy for feeling this way. My boyfriend (37m) and I (28f) have what I consider to be a generally good relationship. We’ve had some issues in the past that we…

r/relationshipspost3/8/2026
START HERE! - Beginner Guides, FAQs, and Resources

Hello I just had the weirdest dream and I don't know how to look up my specific type of dream and was so shocked I decided to come here and write. I remember going to sleep around 12:30pm after wakin…

r/LucidDreamingcomment1/23/2018
Astral Projection: Quick Start Guide

is there anything i need to know on what do after astral projection? like a cleanse or affirmations or anything like that? any help would be greatly appreciated:)

r/AstralProjectioncomment10/17/2021
REMINDER: be kind to yourself. This is hard, and you’re handling it with grace and strength.

I cheated on my wife back when she was still my girlfriend. I found out that my girlfriend of a couple months was pregnant. I lost my mind for a couple of weeks and went and cheated with my ex. I lied…

r/Divorcecomment11/18/2023
REMINDER: be kind to yourself. This is hard, and you’re handling it with grace and strength.

I realized after I read my initial response how much I repeated myself. Sigh, this shit is hard. Brain not firing on all pistons. The reason I asked for compassion is because he is acting like it’s a …

r/Divorcecomment12/14/2023
START HERE! - Beginner Guides, FAQs, and Resources

I can't understand why all, and I mean all, of my dreams include me doing laundry at somebody's house....lots of laundry.... and cleaning their home. They aren't there at the time but I'm trying to cl…

r/LucidDreamingcomment3/31/2025
Confused about affirmations

I manifested working remotely after i started a new job in the office. Well let me explain. Since i came to the us i been a housekeeping.. first in hotels then housekeeping in a hospital. I started im…

r/JosephMurphycomment4/6/2025
What hurts a DA?

I try and focus on everything else. We run a profitable small biz together, take care of that like it’s our baby. Cook and clean together, watch shows together. We laugh and joke and have a good time.…

r/attachment_theorycomment4/25/2025
I got my first devops position

Hey, Your future employer knows that you are fresh out of university, they know your work experience and should have set their expectations accordingly. Breathe, take your time relax and learn. That…

r/DevOpscomment5/5/2025
Personal Blog and Portfolio: Feedback?!

looks clean. idk if its my side or what, but the animations are a bit laggy

r/DevOpscomment5/6/2025
New Entrepreneur Groups?

Welcome to /r/Entrepreneur and thank you for the post, /u/Clean_Lion7449! Please make sure you read our [community rules](https://www.reddit.com/r/Entrepreneur/about/rules/) before participating here.…

r/Entrepreneurcomment5/7/2025
💾 Why You Should Consider MinIO Over AWS S3 + How to Build Your Own S3-Compatible Storage with Java

Please note the following is my opinion only, YMMV. I like minio for homelab or developer use cases. When it comes to cost though, I'd argue that S3 is generally cheap enough for anything that is ei…

r/DevOpscomment5/7/2025
How can I let devs update their lower environment terraform while protecting production environments?

CI to auto approve those pull requests.  But really, you don't want to do things this way. You protect the main branches. You need to give them the ability to deploy their own branches to whichever …

r/DevOpscomment5/7/2025
No one should suffer because we have trauma.

Clean where quick jumps tomorrow questions wanders patient year evil jumps weekend the clear afternoon and music history.

r/attachment_theorycomment5/26/2025
No one should suffer because we have trauma.

Night tips evening cool over dog to food movies river over jumps strong art dog community where clean!

r/attachment_theorycomment5/26/2025
It’s frustrating how often I run into women with Avoidant tendencies.

You claimed that the most toxic things APs do is “have too much empathy,” which amusingly points to one of the primary hurdles APs have to overcome in order to heal.  I claim that the most toxic shit …

r/attachment_theorycomment6/17/2025
New Rule. No grifting

i get why these rules matter. so many scammers out here trying to take advantage of people who just want to make positive changes. legit coaching is such a different thing than all the "manifestation …

r/Manifestationcomment6/26/2025
You know what sucks about being in the process of healing your attachment type? Dating someone who has no idea they have an insecure attachment and you're just wasting all that hard-earned security on someone who doesn't care

It means being FWB or in a relationship where it's not about love or commitment, but about what you can do for them and they for you. "I don't love him but he's really good at cooking and I hate cooki…

r/attachment_theorycomment7/6/2025
A little positive reflection for anyone feeling they’re in the trenches right now.

Congratulations! That is a lot of work you have put in and you’ve come so far! You should be very proud of yourself that your conscience and your ‘side of the street’ is clean, you had honest intenti…

r/attachment_theorycomment8/5/2025
A little look into how fearful avoidants operate (aka, how one of my relationships ended - twice - because I was unaware of my patterns)

I mean if you really want to check in , you can just have a short convo and end it clean , because at one point you were her everything and I bet she misses you even now but also wants to avoid you du…

r/attachment_theorycomment8/27/2025
I have become obsessed with finding someone.

I know it can be expensive but you mentioned in your original post you have a good career. You also, in your own words, are desperate to date someone. Are you really not able to come up with ~$100 dol…

r/AnxiousAttachmentcomment9/17/2025
Bi-Weekly Thread - Advice for Relationship/Friendship/Dating/Breakup

Was she avoidant? I dated this girl for almost a year. At first, I didn’t think she was avoidant. She was good at communicating her boundaries, was consistent with everything, and made me feel secur…

r/AnxiousAttachmentcomment10/6/2025
How to shift focus when anxiously attached

When I find myself caught in an anxious spiral, these are the things I've found that help me most: 1) Get moving - I pop in my earbuds, turn on a true crime podcast to engage my brain, put the leash …

r/AnxiousAttachmentcomment10/21/2025
How to shift focus when anxiously attached

when someone can *ignore* you, but you can’t even *breathe* without them - that’s not love, that’s nervous system hijack until therapy starts, treat your brain like a toddler with scissors. don’t rea…

r/AnxiousAttachmentcomment10/21/2025
Does this have to do with my attachment style or is it normal?

I literally have been having these same conversations with my bf the past month. There was a week or two where he wasn’t initiating— i told him that this made me feel not desired which was emptying my…

r/attachment_theorycomment10/29/2025
Does this have to do with my attachment style or is it normal?

yeah this is textbook anxious attachment cleanup in chaotic relationships, sex = survival you used it to keep closeness, delay rejection, feel wanted now you’re safe - so the urgency’s gone an…

r/attachment_theorycomment10/29/2025
The most painful relationship/breakup I've ever had, cracked me open for healing. Plot Twist: The text message llm tool said I was an FA, I ignored it for 5 months before I figured it out.

I don't think you got it "completely wrong"! These are venn diagrams and trends in messy human behavior, not clean engineering categories. There's no ERD for attachment. You're doing a great job learn…

r/attachment_theorycomment11/6/2025
Bi-Weekly Thread - Advice for Relationship/Friendship/Dating/Breakup

Hi, (18M) sorry for the long story: For context, my girlfriend and I have been dating for around 7 months now. Her and I both have avoidant tendencies but she talked to me about my avoidant tendencies…

r/AnxiousAttachmentcomment11/26/2025
Being DA but really wanting kids

having a wife means zero emotional labor, you probably think leaving the tub clean after yourself or buying 2x of your fave snacks so you can share or blaming yourself for your problems instead of oth…

r/attachment_theorycomment11/26/2025
For having struggled with an anxious attachment in an earlier relationship, how does it feel for you to become more secure in a much different or more compatible relationship you are in now?

I'm not qualified to give you any pro opinion but I can tell you what I've done, for myself. First step is admitting you can't continue this way, for your own sake and the sake of your close ones. S…

r/AnxiousAttachmentcomment12/3/2025
Even as an FA the one thing I'll never understand about avoidants is how they can hate someone they cared about a week ago.

I just had an issue with an fa today this is why I feel like she hates me; this is our third goal round of no contact in a relationship that never happened. We had sex one time and a bunch of text con…

r/attachment_theorycomment12/16/2025
How do I ask for support in a secure way? (Hyper-independent)

You should check out the book Nonviolent Communication!! There are free PDFs online if you want to try before you buy. I'm moving from AA -> Secure and it has been super helpful. The basic idea is: …

r/AnxiousAttachmentcomment12/16/2025
Have you ever mixed up attachment issues with something else?

Right, completely valid. It’s hard too when it’s reinforced because it’s real all around us and even statistics back it up. Like even if both partners believe men+women should be equals there’s still …

r/AnxiousAttachmentcomment12/17/2025
Bi-Weekly Thread - Advice for Relationship/Friendship/Dating/Breakup

I (22F) have been in my first real and committed relationship for a month now. And I think I’m having anxiety over it and overthinking and thinking ahead way too soon. My boyfriend (24M) have known ea…

r/AnxiousAttachmentcomment12/29/2025
Weekly Rant/Vent Thread

Self discovery is a painful, slow, grueling process. I feel so alienated despite being so loving. I adore the people (not my dysfunctional family though lol) around me and it hurts when I can't let th…

r/AvoidantAttachmentcomment1/14/2026
Weekly Rant/Vent Thread

He said he needed space for his life to change. I accepted this and was happy because I assumed it was going to be a few months. Nope, it was about all of a week. I feel frustrated because I've litera…

r/AvoidantAttachmentcomment1/21/2026
Anxious Attachment and Hypervigilance

Hypervigilance is very much associated with AA. I've being doing a lot of work on healing AA in the past 1.5 years and I couldn't believe how many characteristics and behaviours of mine are associated…

r/AnxiousAttachmentcomment1/22/2026
Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! New? Start here!

We've been on a couple of dates with this girl and there's a strong connection, both physical and intellectual. On a second date we went to her place and had some chat on a couch when I noticed she ha…

r/datingoverthirtycomment2/4/2026
Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! New? Start here!

It's only been two dates and bringing it up would likely humiliate her. I'd just text her and say you two aren't compatible. I'd be mortified if someone I'd been on two dates with commented on my clea…

r/datingoverthirtycomment2/4/2026
Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! New? Start here!

Gonna out myself here, but FWIW, I'm a pretty clean guy and people have noticed so much so they have commented on my cleanliness. That said, I've had a peeling right foot since I was a child. IDK if …

r/datingoverthirtycomment2/4/2026
Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! New? Start here!

>I spent many years not seeking out relationships and thinking of them as an optional extra, but now that I have had one I know I'm actually significantly happier and healthier when I'm paired up. Ye…

r/datingoverthirtycomment2/5/2026
Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! New? Start here!

Sorry you are having a hard time. I think when things don’t make sense, it can be harder to let go of. Don’t know your full situation, but if the break off wasn’t clean, maybe that’s why?

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It was clean, it was just abrupt. We had a 6 hours long third date where he was talking about a bunch of things we should do together in the future and acting all lovey-dovey, then the next morning se…

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My win is finding out about dismissive-avoidant attachment style. Since childhood, at very specific moments, I would shut down to people, often those close to me, like family and romantic partners. I…

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I felt the same way about meditation. I was too physically uncomfortable to sit still and zone out. I like deep breathing because I can do it in the middle of other stuff like cleaning, work, sufferin…

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I met a guy 2.5 weeks ago and we've been going on dates and talking all day everyday since. He had no red flags, tons in common, no serious differences in preferences or opinions, we vibed amazingly. …

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I accidentally bumped into a big old stack of strawberries and knocked them EVERYWHERE. Everyone was staring at this grown ass man scrambling after rolling strawberries warning people not to step and …

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Please help my friend and I decide if we're unreasonable. How much time do you spend with your partner or spouse and if you live separately or together.

when my partner and i weren't living together, we would do tuesday night, thursday night, saturday and sunday together. we had our own lives and work. we live together now and baseline spend every nig…

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Lube—lots of lube. Your first time you’re going to feel tight and because you’ll be nervous chances are you might be a bit dry. Use lube even if you buy lubricated condoms. Avoid flavored lubes, those…

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It's easiest for everyone to make a clean break. Staying friends will drag things out and make it worse. You can revisit whether being friends makes any sense AFTER you're both fully over things.

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You mention not wanting to hurt him, but your goal directly conflicts with what's likely best for him in a breakup. Sorry, but it's a bit selfish to focus on keeping him in your life at his expense, e…

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