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**PART 2 OF 2:** **My Acid Trip:** This is honestly a long backstory but I'll make it short as hell. Basically around 2018 I was in an *extremely* dark place, and very depressed for a very long…
A reminder to think about what you’re posting. — Seeing a lot of increase in posts about How do I get them back?/Shall I respond? Or screenshots of communication asking for advice. This isn’t a sub to not communicate to get back with an ex, postin…
Can we talk about how bad the current Shopify Admin UI is? — How has this continued to be a thing, and how did this get approved internally? The Shopify Admin UI is a complete mess. It's genuinely hard to believe this shipped — and worse, that it's still the c…
I got ghosted and I feel blindsided — I (26F) met a guy (26M) 3 months ago who was in every sense of the word my dream guy. We spent 1 week together before he left back to his country. Ever since we have Facetimed every single day, and we…
What's the best free alternative to Dreamweaver for making a personal website? — I know the easiest route is to just use Wordpress, but I don't want a Wordpress blog again right now. Dreamweaver makes sense to me. I need to see the code view or what I'm looking at makes less sense…
Hello, could someone help me recreate an effect from https://www.charlieosborne.co/ — <div className='fixed bottom-0 z-10 h-20 w-screen backdrop-blur-[10px]' style={{ WebkitMaskImage: 'linear-gradient(to top, rgba(0, 0, 0, …
When does maximising space/reducing elements go too far? — I'm working on an eCommerce site at the moment, and when it comes to the product category pages, I've had some feedback from my senior to suggest that space needs to be used more efficiently. To name…
Sharing my learnings as a mid-seniority job seeker — I started job-hunting in April. After two weeks of sending applications and receiving zero feedback (only ghosting), I scheduled a few calls with my mentor. Based in Eastern Europe and looking for a f…
Tired of UX advice accounts that never show their own work.. — I’m a product designer and I post my work on Instagram and Linkedin. Lately, I’m getting tired of all the design accounts with thousands of followers that just post tips, rules, or “ do this, not that…
How do I put together a multi-product design system as a sole designer? — Hi all, my UX design journey has been chaotic but I suspect that’s normal. I was in visual/web design for about 8 years then 2 years ago I got my first UX role (after trying to pursue and study UX f…
Validate an idea for me - a web page recording chrome extension — Couple of years ago there was this extension called Nimbus, people used it take video captures of websites. Since it was hard to capture a smooth scrolling view of a website by just scrolling down and…
Responsive Font Weights? — How often do you guys set responsive font weights in your projects? If you do, what are your typical use cases - like using slightly heavier weights on mobile for better readability, or lighter weigh…
How to handle versioning in Figma? — I joined a project where the figma doesn’t match what is in the field for a mobile application. The project wants to re-baseline the app to what is in the field and keep up to date in the future. F…
I cannot figure out why Google Search Console keeps indicating "Couldn't fetch" — I'm looking over a client's website and one of the things I found was their sitemap doesn't report being crawled since last September. I resubmitted the exact map that was crawled (happens to be plura…
Interview for associate devops role, not sure how it went, need opinions — I had a technical discussion with with a smaller company(around 100-200 employees) and they are filling out a new devops team. I have 7 YOE at large tech companies as a software engineer, but my dutie…
We just got our first ChatGPT referral? — We just had a sale where the conversion summary shows ChatGPT as the source. Does ChatGPT make product recommendations that link directly to websites? This could be a bad idea for small businesses in…
Thoughts on an image sharing tool with link permissions? (i will not promote) — **Looking for feedback: Tool for sharing images securely with permissioned domains (like DocSend, but mainly for images)** Hey r/startups, I’m working on validating an idea and would love your thoug…
Issues making card payments on shopify — Hi guys, I am currently building a new store and everytime I go to either purchase a domain or select a shopify plan through shopify I enter my card details and it just keeps loading and loading on …
Is lovable.ai good? — So i tried using lovable.ai today for a project. I was working on verification as a use case and had all my screens ready. I thought that rather than prototyping, i will rather experiment with lovable…
Can’t Access My Shopify Store Created with Google Login – Stuck in Login Loop, No Password Option — Hey everyone, I’m having a frustrating issue and hoping someone here can help. I created my Shopify store using the “Continue with Google” option with my Gmail so I didn’t set a password because Goog…
Shopify Payment Plan — Hi, I'm looking into selling a bit more expensive products and I would like to offer a payment plan to our customers. I saw someone else do this (see print screen below), and I was wondering how thi…
Intercom “design challenge” (stay away) — Please don’t give them free work…. or charge them a consulting freee. https://www.linkedin.com/posts/thomas-rimmer-73903030_%F0%9D%97%AA%F0%9D%97%B2-%F0%9D%97%B7%F0%9D%98%82%F0%9D%98%80%F0%9D%98%8…
Got a 3hr interview coming up. Tips/advice appreciated. — I got through the recruiter screening, a meeting with their main DevOps guy and CTO. I got notified that I'll be moving forward to the next round which is a 3 hour interview with other members of the …
How to show charges on international order screens in USD — Topic. Right now we charge everything according to local currency, which also makes the order screen in the admin show it in the local currency. We would like to change that for general convenience, b…
E-commerce Industry News Recap 🔥 Week of May 5th, 2025 — Hi r/ecommerce \- I'm Paul and I follow the e-commerce industry closely for my Shopifreaks E-commerce Newsletter. Every week for the past 3+ years I've posted a summary recap of the week's top stories…
This Week's Top E-commerce News Stories 💥 May 5th, 2025 — Hi r/Shopify - I'm Paul and I follow the e-commerce industry closely for my Shopifreaks E-commerce Newsletter, which I've published weekly since 2021. I was invited by the Mods of this subreddit to s…
Got ghosted after 3rd round — Hey everyone, Just wanted to share my recent experience and see if others are going through the same thing. I’ve been applying for DevOps roles for the past few months, and finally landed an intervi…
UX jobs that don’t involve screens? — I’ve been in my current role for four years. I have a great team and great pay, but I’m bored and it’s becoming a drag to do anything in Figma. I’m pretty extroverted and working hybrid as a single pe…
1 new feature a week, approaching burnout. — At work I've been making 1 feature a week for the last 4 months. No research, no usability, no nothing. Just making screens, now that AI is a thing I also have to make it make my tickets to be faste…
ChatGPT Plus vs Claude Pro – Which is Better for a UI/UX Designer? — Hi everyone! I’m a UI/UX Designer looking to subscribe to either ChatGPT Plus or Claude Pro, and I’m trying to figure out which one would be the better fit for my workflow. I want to use the AI mai…
How do you effectively refine wireframes into a responsive design? — I’m currently working on a website redesign and started by sketching out some wireframes to get the structure right. I found some great wireframes on [wireframes.org](http://wireframes.org) to use as …
Parallax effect issue on mobile using theme — I'm trying to find out if anyone is using Flatsome or any other theme, experiencing issue with parallax scrolling effect? I tested it on a few phones using Chrome browser app, then tried it on Firef…
A Modest Proposal — A Manifesto for Metrics-First Everything — Picture it: Q1 FY 2025. A Medicaid patient opens an app to request mental health services. The screen is sleek—gradient buttons, playful microinteractions, and conversion-optimized flows. A calm anima…
Time Tracking App for Productivity Freaks (web app, mobile / desktop) — Hi guys, first time posting in this sub! and first time finally getting a project to a point where I think other people can use it. (Usually I'll build, then half way through just stop) .. I'm callin…
Combining MPA and SPA? — I'm creating an application for a construction company, enabling them to report about different sectors of the construction process (tender procedure, quality assurance, safety checklist, complexity,…
The mobile menu button doesn’t click anywhere. — This has to be something new, because I’ve used this theme and website for a few years and just caught this today. On mobile, the menu button does not activate any menu listing. It just sits there. …
Text Input with no “submit” button — Hello, for quick context, I am a marketing student with no web design knowledge, just sort of winging this for an assignment I have due on Sunday. Part of this assignment requires me to simulate a ch…
I found a digital marketing course that teaches 10+ income streams—even if you’re starting from ZERO. — Hey y’all, I just wanted to drop this here in case anyone’s been looking for a way out of the 9–5 grind (or just wants to make real money online without all the sketchy stuff). A few weeks ago, I sta…
Pouncemonial: 9th Kill - 30 Successful Trades — **Mission**: To accomplish 30 successful trades **What I achieved**: Accomplished 30 successful trades and learned how to execute and manage trades well. **Background**: With the previous kill, …
2 year old anxious attachment — Adding a screenshot cause it deleted my post and won’t let me paste.
Success Story: FA/Disorganized Attachment Healing Roadmap, Resource Recommendations — **Hello, fellow Fearful Avoidants! The below post has grown out of almost 3 years of research and healing this attachment style, which in my case was coupled with Relationship OCD (ROCD). ROCD is a vi…
Update: Self-help group for anxious attachment — Thank you to everyone who responded to my [**prior post**](https://www.reddit.com/r/AnxiousAttachment/comments/1plm1g1/selfhelp_group_for_anxious_attachment/) re starting a self-help group. (Yes, The…
Avoidant conversation patterns are confusing me - should I address them? — I’m (secure leaning anxious) getting some confusing conversations patterns from an avoidant friend. And I don’t know if I should address it or just let things continue to play out. Context; we disco…
Found out he has a wife back home. Now what? — Went on a couple of dates with this guy (31M) who travels to my country every few months for work. Told me he’s single and hasn’t been in a serious relationship for the last 3 years. Dates were good, …
Have your thoughts on shrooms been somewhat like this? — Yesterday I first tried shrooms. I did 15g fresh, which you can expect to be about 1.5g dry ± I've tried acid 2 times before, which were very amazing, intense and long experiences. They theached me a…
I failed to build habits 47 times. Here's what finally worked. — For years I tried to change my life with big plans — gym 5 days a week, strict diet, no screens after 9pm. Every single time I quit within a week. The problem wasn't my discipline. It was that I was …
I Genially Think My (35F) Husband (36M) is a Psychopath — Hi everyone, please I need help. I’m 35F and my husband is 36M. We’ve been married for 10 years and have two boys (7 and 5). I honestly don’t know what to think anymore. About three months ago my hus…
has teletherapy actually felt “real” for you or does it feel distant compared to in person? — I’ve only ever pictured therapy happening in an office with a couch and awkward water fountain in the waiting room but lately most of my local providers are suggesting teletherapy instead of in person…
I found 2 tricks to help focusing on my breath. Beginner + Adhd here. — H56, overstimulated by screen (shows, movies, youtube podcast, chess online), stimulants (amphets like), and since my childhood, overthinking (the worst addiction ever). Sorry my English is not perf…
How to permanently stop feeling romantic love for anyone? — wasn’t sure I needed a TL;DR here, but I’ll put it anyway: how do I turn off my ability to feel love for anyone, ever? hi all, I (M,33) have not had a whole lot of luck with dating. I try to stay s…
If you're immediately waking up after becoming lucid, try this — I heard someone talk about reduced screen time in the evening, so I gave it a go. I tried no screens after 7-8 pm and I must say I've noticed a big difference in my ability to stay longer. I haven't h…
There aren't many but as far as I can tell there are a couple which could qualify. 1. Escapism. Just like anything fun, let alone of the "reality substitute" type, there is the potential to use it e…
Go to a subreddit page. There should be a … at the topright. Go to it and then hit Community info at the bottom of the screen
I’ve read all Nevilles books several times over, but I’ll check out the lecture you’re referring to. About my successes, I manifested more money than I had ever seen before. Prior to that, I thought…
>About my successes, I manifested more money than I had ever seen before. Prior to that, I thought I’d always be broke. I even had to take a screenshot of my bank balance to remind myself of that amaz…
Yeah I understand. So one thing you'll notice if you try formal meditation is when when you begin to relax the eyes you become aware of the tension and strain that is *already* there. With patience an…
I had a really concerning dream just now and fear of my boyfriend didn't wake me up something bad was going to happen to me.. It started off in a house I've never seen before the kitchen was upstairs…
I think I should screenshot this as my background.
Exactly, that’s what I always say to those who keep bitching it doesn’t work. It’s very important to Change YOU for gods sake, otherwise good luck with your mental screens. Even look at religions, the…
>It’s very important to Change YOU for gods sake, otherwise good luck with your mental screens. This is loaporn.
The other setup I've seen used is a two layer system, the first layer is something like the LGTM stack, and from there certain key metrics or aggregates are pushed to something like NewRelic or DataDo…
I'm currently in similar situation. Experienced in overall system administration, windows, a bit of cloud and networking but I'm not able to get through technical interviews. This post is a huge motiv…
My 5cents, as a person that’s been interviewing candidates for several years (almost 10 at same company, seen it grow from 100 employees to 2k+, interviewed QAs, SETs, Devs, DevOps and SREs). I’m sor…
**Find the right programmer.** [Technical Interviewers](http://techinterviewers.com) provides vetted coders that are hand-picked for your needs. Our screening process uses IT professionals as intervie…
Well to be fair, even tech-savvy adults get tripped up by email. That’s why the whole idea is to skip the complexity. Just open the app, swipe through clear photos with short descriptions, and if ther…
Seems like a person who got spooked and having escaped unscathed has calmed down, reflected, and realized that perhaps their anxiety was irrational. And that is a good indicator that when times get to…
Absolutely. When my avoidant stated his excuses for the fun being over, I wanted to cry and rage at the fakeness of his excuses, and unfairness, and how I didn't do shit wrong to him, etc etc. But I …
This is such a wonderful and thoughtful reply. I took screenshots so I can reread it when I feel discouraged. You're a smart one, electricboobs2019!
Oh gosh, I can feel your pain through the screen. What you are going through is a normal modern human experience, so please don't place all the blame on yourself. It's amazing that you are trying to b…
Don’t do it. Nothing good will come from it. Also stop checking how active they are on social media, that’s kind of toxic and not helping you heal. Delete the app from your phone so when you have the …
I think i fucked up.... So I (32F) just ended things with a guy (33M) that I've been seeing for 2 ish months. I cant tell if my anxious attachment style got the best of me or of there were genuinel…
a lot of posts and comments that are similar to what (i think) you're discussing, OP, seem to me that they would be non-issues if people were less inclined to be texting about stuff like this.. it re…
imagine yourself when you are so busy doing something that you can’t answer your phone! i think to myself, well, when i’m studying, or taking an exam, or working (when i was employed). especially when…
Hi, with all due respect - I'm formerly disorganised, and with some secure-leaning (work in progress). This being said, I have been in therapy with regularity for 11 years (I had seen therapists and …
What’s actually happening (in plain language) Roughly, your system is doing this: 1. Distance = danger. When you don’t see him (or replies slow down), your body reads it as “I’m about to be abando…
I've posted in this sub before about this relationship. I'm dating an FA for about 7 months now. We started off great and he is really such a sweet, sensitive, loving guy. But at around 5 months in I …
A tool for "Digital Hypomnemata" I’ve been practicing Stoicism for a few years, but my biggest struggle has always been the gap between reading The Enchiridion in the morning and actually applying it…
Thank you for typing this out wow. I’m going to screenshot these guiding questions and really think on them over the next month
Text of original post by u/TheOceanTheSun: Thank you to everyone who responded to my [**prior post**](https://www.reddit.com/r/AnxiousAttachment/comments/1plm1g1/selfhelp_group_for_anxious_attachment/…
You can listen to someone who just admitted they don't even have a paid account and just reads what they see online or listen to someone who's gotten more out of it in the last 30 days than four diffe…
Ah I see! I found myself doing something similar with the texts I receive from my partner, I kept overthinking about any hidden meaning behind their texts if they didn’t use certain punctuation. But w…
Very happy to share :) A few years ago I worked with a life coach to work on self-esteem and managing/setting boundaries. I still touch base with her when I need 1:1 support. After the avoidant discar…
I’m new to Reddit but find it of good use to try and find answers to my problems. I’ve been in a LTR with a man but we’ve always had issues where he has said I’m narcissistic - I couldn’t understand w…
Alright I’m doing it again, I know the pattern and I’m still doing it. I started talking to a guy a few months ago and he gave me the ick pretty quickly so I broke things off, now it’s been months and…
I started a little experiment a few months back, just on Hinge (I’m also on Bumble). I used to say “I get no likes,” but I’m a data/evidence person… and also have the memory of a goldfish 😅 So I star…
It is important to manage the expectations for both sides. It's one thing when I know that you don't answer the texts right away because you told me so. It's very different when you just decided to no…
Because they're probably in the talking stage with multiple people, and they likely found someone who they think they have a better connection with or are more attracted to. Or they were already on th…
Yes I admit I went through a phase where I would have ChatGPT analyze what was happening with guys I was dating, including giving it screenshots of text conversations, and it would *constantly* frame …
Should I just take screenshots of the "view" part of my profile?
Can I even share photos / screenshots on reddit? I am not seeing an option
I don't actually *know* that's how it works behind the scenes/screens on Hinge, but makes sense to me.
I saw somebody else in one of the daily threads share their profile screenshots via tumblr 🤷
Just some pattern observation: I (36F) am cute and interesting and personable and almost always get asked on a second date. But from there it seems to go two ways: 1) I see an incompatibility and end…
Take screenshots of your profile and post a imgur album here and we could probably give better advice based on that. It could be just your pics are bad or the prompts you filled out. But some people…
You can try screening during the texting phase?
I often compare dating to job searching and, in my opinion, job sesrching was easier. I’m not saying job searching wasn’t brutal and agonizing, it definitely was. However, at least with job searching…
I could not agree more. As someone who worked very hard to overcome their anxious attachment I've had to put a lot of time and effort into making sure that I did not become too self reliant. I'm reall…
"Start with being so emotionally available to yourself that emotionally stunted people disgust u." had to screenshot this sentence. wonderful!!! 👍
I should start using this as a screener too, haha!
Day seventeen of my dating break. So far I've learned/am working on 1) not staying in relationships once I find an incompatibility/not settling for an absence of red flags. 2) Getting better at s…
LMAOOOOOO it’s kind of hilarious to see these screenshots back to back