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My (18F) boyfriend (18M) has no curiosity towards me, any advice? — I (18F) have been dating my boyfriend (18M) for almost 3 months. He has so many great qualities and shows his affection in many ways. He loves physical touch, hugs me, cuddles me, kisses me, he comp…
I've been out of the coding loop for awhile. What is the best static website framework / scaffolding / generator that works with VSCode? I don't need react or any other bells and whistles. I'm just testing out creating various HTML/CSS styled elements. — I am really just trying to play around with HTML/CSS to create various client-side styled elements. For example, one project is just to create a more enticing email signature. Another project I am cre…
I just proved that a crappy industry is literally pissing away money — I constantly preach about template fraud and those "pretty but useless" websites that don't deliver actual business results. This week, I decided to prove my point. I spotted a security product in th…
Suggestions are like Forex signals - doing the exact opposite is where the real money is — I was in a Discord channel with 90K+ designers and every time someone dropped their landing page or website, it felt like getting advice from someone selling Forex signals. Doing the opposite would a…
What is your go-to method for catching post-design issues? — After wrapping up a web design project, What is your usual approach to spotting missed details or issues? Do you have a personal system, or rely on tools, testing, or just a fresh perspective after a…
Why you should always schedule your job interviews in the early morning. — I got reminded today of a very important tip when you're setting up interviews. \>> Do not set up job interviews at the end of the work day. In short, there have been studies done on judges that sho…
Is Getting Ripped Apart Normal in Product Design? — I’m new to product design, and at this startup, I wear both the product designer and product manager hats. I meet regularly with the CEO (my boss), and during our sessions, we review the website and r…
Monthly Getting Started / Web Dev Career Thread — Due to a growing influx of questions on this topic, it has been decided to commit a monthly thread dedicated to this topic to reduce the number of repeat posts on this topic. These types of posts will…
What's new in AI for marketing: YouTube is testing AI reviews, will it reduce clicks? Google discusses search ranking volatility, beyond — Sometimes it’s so hard to keep up with all the AI news. It seems like it's taking over every platform and us as well. But the most important thing is staying updated on everything important. So let’s …
What will it take? — Seriously… What does it take to land a UX role these days? My wife is graduating with her masters in UX from a good program but it seems that the industry is evolving and everyone is making it seem …
How do you guys make content/creatives for your ad campaigns? — Spending an average of $800/day on meta ads for the past couple months. What’s increasingly getting harder for us is making creatives and testing it. We don’t test a lot currently. 2-3 of our ads have…
Interview for associate devops role, not sure how it went, need opinions — I had a technical discussion with with a smaller company(around 100-200 employees) and they are filling out a new devops team. I have 7 YOE at large tech companies as a software engineer, but my dutie…
Are you still using GBP posts as part of your local strategy? Curious how you approach content & competitor insights — I’ve been working on a side project around automating GBP content and understanding local competitor activity. I'm not here to promote anything, just to validate if the idea has legs. Curious how oth…
Is Eye-Tracking Worth It for UX Testing? Looking for Real Experiences — Has anyone here actually used eye-tracking for UX testing? Is it worth the investment, or does it not really offer much over basic user testing? Curious about real-world experiences with it!
From AI Creative Studio to AI Influencer Platform – Would You Follow One? — Hey everyone, After 6 weeks of feedback and testing, we’ve officially pivoted from an all-in-one AI creative studio to a focused AI Influencer Studio. We realized most users weren’t just generating …
You get a $0 budget, but full internet access. How would you get your first 500 real users? — Let’s say you’re launching a niche app or tool — no ads, no team, no paid tools. Just your brain, Wi-Fi, and hustle. What’s your plan? Reddit threads? Cold outreach? Niche communities? Viral cont…
Please guide me in learning infrastructure automation — I currently manage a few servers running some ecommerce sites (WordPress) and some custom PHP based applications (Vanilla PHP, and Laravel) on DigitalOcean. My setup is pretty basic and consists of *…
Shopify Store, removed Theme — Hi together, I was testing a theme and wanted to buy it. The theme was from a new developer. Now you can no longer find the theme in the Shopify store apparently it has been removed. This would be t…
I need you advise am i a UX Jnr Midwieght or more? — **Hi everyone, I need some advice.** I’m currently a Junior UX Designer (30years old) in the UK at one of the top for new broadcasting companies such a Sky BBC ITV etc. **A bit about my background:*…
Helm & Argo CD on EKS: Seeking Repo-Based YAML Lab Ideas and Training Recommendations — I am having difficulties untangling the connection between helm and argo cd when it comes to understanding their interconnection. I have a ready eks cluster for testing and i would like to make some l…
A customers perspective of those horrible cart conversion emails — Usually a website does a poor job of informing me what shipping will be. I must add items to a cart and hit checkout and type in an address to see what shipping would be. However, this process results…
OpenAI is testing product placements - has your store received traffic? — Apparently, OpenAI is [testing product placement](https://x.com/OpenAI/status/1916947243044856255), as "hyped" by Tobi of Shopify. Has your store seen any evidence of these oproduct placements?
"Locked" Inspector Stylesheet — So, I recently was modifying and testing something in CSS via inspector-stylesheet and all of a sudden it got... Locked?? I don't know how else to explain it. I can create a new inspector-stylesheet …
Would people pay $5 to protect a restaurant reservation from no-show fees? Testing a micro-cancellation MVP. (i will not promote) — Hi all - I'm working on a simple MVP and looking for early feedback: **Problem**: Some restaurants on Resy and Tock now charge $50–$100 per *person* if you cancel too late or don’t show. Totally fair…
POYLANG FREETitle: – Any Downsides I Should Be Aware Of? — Hi everyone, I'm new to WordPress and have just launched a website that I’d like to make bilingual. Here’s what I need: * Only **some** of the pages/services need to be translated; * A **blog** with…
Finding tool recommendation for video personalization for my emails. — I am running a small startup, I have 6 clients that I got for my cold email outreach. I'm starting to feel less traction to my email campaigns and I am experimenting towards adding a touch of personal…
Should technical articles be a nlof post or a pagw — I always debate this internally. If i write a technical article about for example how to meaure voltage when testing a piece of equipment. Should it be a page or a blog post? And what normally determ…
Marketing Digest: Google tests new AI mode outside Labs along with more features, ChatGPT introduces shopping features with personalized product recommendations, Google confirms search signals used to train Gemini AI — Hey guys! A new week means a fresh batch of marketing insights. Google’s keeping us on our toes as usual, and AI is busy finding new ways to take over the digital space. Let’s read: **SERP features /…
Security testing frustrations — Just curious what people are using: What's your current workflow for website security checks? If there was a tool that only needed a URL to scan for web vulnerabilities, code issues, and AI security r…
ChatGPT Plus vs Claude Pro – Which is Better for a UI/UX Designer? — Hi everyone! I’m a UI/UX Designer looking to subscribe to either ChatGPT Plus or Claude Pro, and I’m trying to figure out which one would be the better fit for my workflow. I want to use the AI mai…
What Next? — Question. I've been creeping on this group for a while as I look to possibly start my own company. I think I have a good product idea but it's a large multi piece product that would require a lot of u…
Quick help with CORS error — Hello, This is a stupid question I think I know the answer to, but I'd like confirmation. All the research I've done indicates my gut is right, but I like to check. I'm getting a CORS error when tr…
Looking to Start Small Scale PCB Assembly/Manufacturing. Where Should I Begin? — Hi everyone, I’m planning to start small scale PCB manufacturing with a budget of $100k. I have experience testing circuits on breadboards and assembling Drone flight controllers and LoRaWAN systems,…
ELI5: What is TDD and BDD? Also, TDD vs BDD? — I wrote this short article about TDD vs BDD because I couldn't find a concise one. It contains code examples in every common dev language. Maybe it helps one of you :-) Here is the repo: https://githu…
[Product Survey] Help us understand your auth/DB platform choices (Supabase, Firebase, Auth0, Clerk, and more) — Hi everyone! 👋 I’m a Product Manager working with a developer friend on a new backend-as-a-service solution, and we’d love your feedback. Whether you’ve used Supabase, Firebase, Auth0, Clerk, Authn …
Best & Easiest Mac Cloud Service for Simple Xcode Use? — Hi everyone, I'm looking for advice from anyone who has used cloud-based Mac services like: * HostMyApple * AWS EC2 Mac Instances * MacStadium * MacInCloud All I really need is a simple, reliable …
Learning to take space, self regulate and set boundaries as an AP earning secure — I have always leaned AP but working on security and now in a relationship with an FA leaning heavily avoidant I've realised a big goal for me is learning to self regulate and set better boundaries. Fo…
I (re)earned my secure attachment this week. What a journey this has been. — I just wanted to share this diary dump with anyone who wants a success story. I believed myself to be FA/A for a long time, and this week I can finally call myself secure. TW: sexual assualt Despite …
Today marks 6 months since we last saw and spoke to each other — As the person on the receiving end of testing behaviors, ghosting, and a discard, I would love to hear that my former flame is doing well or even an apology. We have known each other for almost…
Dismissive - Anxious dynamic catch 22, how could we make it work? — I'm having issues with a relationship that's really important to me. It's someone who I dated last year for 6 months. We have very intense and wonderful attraction and connection in a way that is rare…
How do I know if I've emotionally checked out or just a protesting behaviour? — I am at a point where I feel withdrawn and not want to talk to a close friend, after repeatedly being let down. "Let down" is probably too harsh. The cultivating event was when I reached out seeking s…
My husband (29M) and I (29F) have a dead bedroom because he says I dont initiate — My husband (29m) and I (29f) have been together for 8 years, married for 1. For the past 3 months we went from a very active sex life to a dead bedroom out of the blue. Every other aspect of our relat…
It's not lovebombing. It's grooming. — Adult grooming is a pattern where someone gradually (or rapidly) builds trust, lowers boundaries, gathers leverage, and conditions an adult target to tolerate confusion, dependency, secrecy, or sexual…
We’re in a computer simulation — I’ve lived my entire life experiencing all sorts of inexplicable illnesses, and I always thought that they were just coincidences or due to bad genetics. However, after I started reading into **religi…
Movie List: Chinese movies where the antagonist(s) are racist/imperialist White/Westerners and get their asses kicked — I thought I would make a list of some Chinese movies(mostly martial art action films) where the main antagonist is a racist and/or imperialist white. These movies are all fun and feel good, and while …
Finally Got a Lucid Dream... So I Tested your Queries in it — Hey guys, this is gonna be a bit of a long one lol. \[CONTEXT\] For a while, I've been trying to lucid dream, but was too lazy to consistently do training, write in journals, or set multiple alarms …
My wife finally admitted an affair that happened 9 years ago — This is my first post on Reddit. My spouse and I are both 44, and have been married since 2014. We met and started dating when we were 26. In late 2016, her cousin, who was her best friend, was killed…
Saffron makes me lucid dream — Just recently I started taking saffron to help my ADHD and mood swings. I take two capsules a day, one of them before I go to sleep. While the topic of lucid dreaming was always fascinating to me, I…
I started Open Monitoring meditation and immediately lucid dreamt two nights in a row — *Disclaimer: I already get lucid dreams sometimes, and I will be testing longer to make sure this isn’t coincidence, but I guess it doesn’t hurt to try if you’ve never had one before 🤷🏾♀️* I made …
I successfully manifested my SP after 6 months NC and a high paying part time job — For context so you can understand my situation pre- manifestation. I Had an amazing boyfriend, great self concept and I was absolutely happy, looked amazing, and had a lot of friends, I was loved from…
In your experience, is meditation a process you do or a quality within you? — Recently I came across this video from [Big Think on Meditation](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=10J6crRacZg). Daniel Goleman talked about how scientists tested the brain waves of long time meditat…
I made this post on my original account which is now inactive. Here's a link to other useful posts I made on that account! [https://www.reddit.com/r/AstralProjection/comments/p4arii/my\_original\_pro…
Hi guys, I started 2 Youtube series to help new people getting into devops. The first one: https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PL-WCaWbINSZ6tTkXVYXKvB7oC7-t19rHF revolves around containers and kubernet…
Honestly now im really annoyed of this sub being NSFW. DevOps is such a small community that it really had no effect on Reddit now that most big subs arent protesting.
Plenty of other excellent advice here. In terms of cloud hosting: A lot of this is going to depend on your team, think about all of the people that will be managing this. What platform does your team…
Yes, 4tb of metrics Prometheus can eat like peanuts, if you need fault tolerance,better look into Thanos or Mimir, vanilla Prometheus can handle it too, but it will be more manual work. Dashboards can…
## Amazon Price History: **Beginning Azure DevOps: Planning, Building, Testing, and Releasing Software Applications on Azure** * Rating: ★★★★☆ 4.7 * Current price: **$32.29** 👍 * Lowest price: $31.…
I think all these time‐tracking systems in IT are absolutely useless and only justify the work of those who implement them. No offense to efficient managers. If the company were like a factory produc…
Yep, Redshift observability is one of those things that should be easier, but ends up buried in system tables and tribal knowledge. Some practical tips that might help: 1. Build a lightweight monito…
Hey, Your future employer knows that you are fresh out of university, they know your work experience and should have set their expectations accordingly. Breathe, take your time relax and learn. That…
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One thing I am selling is the difference between Standard Operating Proceedures (SOPs) and "releases". Our customers are resistant to any idea of change at more than an 6 or 3 month interval, but what…
I work with a small team building niche games focused on roleplay and social interaction. The real key has been understanding what players enjoy, updating frequently, and monetizing through game passe…
You and me, and everyone has a concept, idea, feeling for what interests them. Then usually, you would want to help, elevate, support that concept, idea, feeling. Let's just say that you are gay. Can …
From my experience, failure is part of the journey, not the end. Every failed venture teaches you something valuable whether it’s about your approach, market fit, or persistence. Don’t be disappointed…
>am I dealing with a DA/FA or this man is just making a fool out me? Por qué no los dos? He is textbook FA and he is absolutely bsing you. You are well off not participating in those hot and cold ga…
Just start testing stuff super cheap like cold email, posting useful content on LinkedIn and X and maybe try targeted ads if you can. For B2B, cold outreach is fastest to get first users. For B2C, org…
The demonization of avoidant people really annoys me. I'm fearful avoidant so I see all perspectives in this and yeah avoidance is hurtful, neglect is painful, creating space through fights is toxic a…
You are also not going to have children with strangers, acquaintances, or even friends, and let those people potentially hurt you deeply + take half of your things when those relationship ends. You a…
I got this issue, the more I like the other person the more intense the fear becomes. It causes me to execute a lot of testing behavior. I’m still working through it but I notice regular intense exerc…
So many examples I can think of lol. In general, after our honeymoon phase was over, she deactivated and started pulling away. I assumed this was caused by anxiety, so instead of calling out her dism…
This was very useful. Thank you very much. >Women test men to gauge their reactions, to see if the man can control his emotions, and if the man is safe and emotionally mature. They can also do it to …
Attachment and polyvagal theory, and this happens mostly as an infant / child - when you have a need and it is unmet, you start with Protesting. When protesting fails, you move to Despair (Anxiety / S…
I think if you find yourself needing to break up to get him to fight for you then it's a clear sign of an anxious spiral. In my earlier years I used to use unconsciously manipulative protests to feel …
Why would an avoidant push me away, but then orbit me for almost 2 years — even while committed to someone else? I feel ashamed for being stuck on this.. I (32F) had a short but intense connection wi…
FA's can really lean into DA and bail when true intimacy is on the table. Committing to a relationship can really freak them out. ***To an outside observer***, FAs look like they can discard just as e…
Hi elizabeth, I'll dm you, still testing it out with folks, close friends, it does seem to work well though.
Hm, not really no. An FA will be able to feel the wall that is up with a DA and a DA probably won't be able to feel the wall that is up for the FA. So, the FA won't be able to 'feel' any love from a D…
You are probably overreacting but I say that lovingly knowing I would be having the same exact feeling. It is your anxious attachment style getting activated. Do some reality testing in those moments;…
I think that is healthy for the most part. How would you ever have anything new to learn from each otherr if you are not out living your purpose? What are you doing while he is out doing? Here are s…
We have been dating for about four months now. In the beginning three weeks we could only meet once, because he was away and then I was away. So we had really intense feelings for each other but could…
From what you wrote, you're normally pretty good at advocating for yourself. So, are you "testing" him by withholding that self-advocacy? If normally you tell him what you need, this is what he expec…
You already have expectations - you admit that you don’t want to just be friends. This is why you are experiencing all the anxiety. Plus you are trying to pretend to text with no expectations when rea…
Yeah I guess that's an interesting perspective, thank you. I guess I can see how fear of rejection would show up. I do think part of him feels that the right person would just know and things would ju…
I understand where you are coming from and I can understand your anxious behaviour coming about because of this. However, in order to help you feel more secure in yourself, trust yourself to let go. …
You can listen to someone who just admitted they don't even have a paid account and just reads what they see online or listen to someone who's gotten more out of it in the last 30 days than four diffe…
Quick question, how can your therapist say that you are now secure without testing this in a long term relationship?
Hi everyone, I need some outside perspective. Last summer I had my first relationship at 31. It lasted about 2 months. I was very inexperienced and insecure. She is also very insecure and has hot-and…
I think that’s amazing clarity you have to know you want kids even more than a partner. That’s such an expansive belief… and I find it interesting you also have all those limiting beliefs in the back …
Bravo! I'm at the last stages of the divorce from my DA wife. I said this exact thing to her, among many other things, to which she said her usual - nothing. She believes that hyper-individualism …
thanks, I guess I mean it more specifically in a political context - over the years I've connected with people who are like "yeah! fuck these fascists!" and that's great, I agree, but they're not much…
When a guy approaches me, my knee jerk reaction is to say no or redirect/end the conversation before they can ask. I see people sometimes who I think if they ask me I’d be interested. But people who d…
I agree! There's an abundant amount of attachment style information out there but not much that demonstrates secure attachment style. Although this lady is not a psychologist or therapist, I think her…
All the nice things he said are to get to what he actually wants. He just backtracked after testing your boundaries. He will have sex with you and leave. Believe his first actions. No guy who is ge…
Ok for me there are a few things. I am not necessarily slow about physical contact. But it needs to move through the proper sequencing. I find a lot of men try to jump to kissing way too fast. We h…
I’m divorced and coming out of a 10 year relationship, she’s never been in a relationship. First date we ended up talking for 3.5 hours at a quiet bar. The catch is she hasn’t moved here yet so we’ve …
Shower thoughts inspired by a post yesterday. I have been thinking a bit about how daters feel like there is not sexual chemistry if kissing hasn’t happened soon enough. I have kissed on first da…
I look at it this way. If your concern is being perceived as creepy.... Approaching, saying hello and getting a feel for the vibe isn't creepy by most reasonable people's standards. When I see a gu…
My bf (3.5 months) is a bit reserved when it comes to vocally expressing his feelings. He has admitted this is hard for him due to growing up in a traditional Asian family where they don’t share much.…
It sounds like it's the anxious speaking to me. You didn't do anything wrong, but you're assuming she's ignoring you when her circumstances just might have changed. New job, new life stressors, sudden…
A small win for me is that I plan to start treatment in few weeks. I had gone to a psychologist about a month ago to discuss my newly- realized-to-me Dismissive Avoidant attachment style - a term I st…