tensions

Thank you for sharing this. It's quite rare to read genuinely insightful reports of peeking out there instead of the usual "love and light" BS. I've seen/sensed this fractal/recursive structure too (…

Failing to Find Google Maps Scraper (that does everything) — I've built a directory listing website and I'm using WP All Import plugin to pull in data from a spreadsheet (which consists of scraped business info from their Google Maps / GBP listings). Being tha…

Your tools and tips for better team alignement? (I will not promote) — Hi, Was reflecting of what worked and what did not in my previous ventures and I think team alignement was a major issue...no suprises here, to me it's normal as it's known to difficult but we alway…

Your tools and tips for better team alignement? — Hi, Was reflecting of what worked and what did not in my previous ventures and I think team alignement was a major issue...no suprises here, too me it's normal as it's difficult but we always struggl…

I (28F) care deeply about my fiancé (28M) but feel like the romantic connection has faded after years of imbalance. How do you know when it’s truly over? — From a burner account. I’m looking for some perspective because I feel like I’m at the end of a long internal process and I don’t know if I’m being unfair or if this is just the reality of where my re…

am i childish for not being able tolet go? — its a little complicated we didnt just date and break up, i mean we kinda did but there was a lot before that. im gonna start from the beginning. i will skip a bit of unimportant stuff just keep in m…

Find myself or Find her Again? — I was 16M when I met her and got into the relationship she was 19 at that point but her schooling was equivalent to me because she missed some of the years due to her parents separation. our bond was …

How to have a successful mediation retreat? — Meditation for me has always followed the pattern: 10 minutes of great concentration followed by 50 minutes of trying to stay awake. I've gotten as much as 40 min in before fighting dozing but only un…

[29F] My boyfriend [29M] expects me to move across the world for him, but treats our relationship like a "performance review" and says telling my parents about us is a burden. — I \[29F\] have been with my boyfriend \[29M\] for a little over a year in total, but our history is a bit complicated. We met in September 2024, but broke up in April 2025 because he felt "uncertain" …

my X went no contact, but keeps trying to deplete me financially - help! — Divorce/Financial Advise This is going to be long because I need to give context (details have been changed for privacy). My ex moved out of the home we shared. We never had children and agreed with…

my (f22) boyfriend (m25) tries to make me feel stupid any chance he gets — TL;DR I posted abt this before, my bf always tries to humble me, make me feel ugly or stupid it feels like. we have been dating for a year and a half and I remember when I met his friends and family…

Awake while asleep contradiction? Body tensions, etc. — ok so I'm just wondering if somebody could possibly enhance my understanding on this cuz it's hard for me to grasp. how does one stay conscious while falling asleep? how does one separate their body f…

Still works!!! Every once in a while I test myself and abilities with random objects/animals — My main technique to test my abilities is "butterfly technique" every once in a while I test myself with this technique. I developed this first in 2023 when I started read about Neville. Next day I w…

Why do I feel this way — me and my SO (me 18yo ex 20yo) broke up about 2 months ago, we were together for a year and 7 months. we still live together because he has nowhere else to go. tensions have been very high between us…

(F21) (M24) I am having second thoughts about my relationship. — I feel absolutely terrible posting this but I am so conflicted and need advice. My Bf(24M) and I (21F) are just coming up to a year. We met in work and we work together. At the start, he was obsesse…

Please help us — When my wife and I first got together, her mother was very welcoming. She spent time with us, smoked with us, and seemed supportive. Around that time, my wife (who was 16) wanted to become emancipated…

My divorce is 8 and 1/2 years old. It’s starting third grade in the fall. Does it get a backpack or just more discovery requests? Brad Pitt is in the class ahead of me. Who can beat 8 1/2 years? — I’m currently in the 2,950th day of my divorce case. To put that in perspective, when this started in March 2018: * The "Avengers: Infinity War" hadn't come out yet. * "Old Town Road" wasn't a thing.…

LDR NY & Chicago. I, NB 22, friend 21F. — My friend F21 and I NB22, have been friends for over a year. We’re very close but live in two different cities (New York and Chicago). We met online through mutual followings and got super close. Abou…

(M30) Fell hard for someone (F31) in a month — deep connection but worried I’m getting pulled in too fast — TL;DR: Met a woman and developed a very intense connection quickly. We’ve been seeing each other often and talking daily. It feels real to me, but my parents are strongly against it due to cultural/re…

Edit: I will just share my experience here. I have to say I did something counter-intuitive. I basicly said that I fully acceppt her decision and in a manner of calm loving person I told her about how…

You’re right. Best to rip off the bandaid quickly. If he can’t handle me at my tipsy “Trump is trying to use escalating tensions with ICE to give him a reason to invoke the Insurrection Act and suspen…

I’m almost 37 and lately no matter what I wear, whether I have botox, if my hair is freshly washed with hair extensions, if I’m wearing fake tanner, etc…I just don’t feel hot anymore. I feel like I lo…

most of the time, we like people who reflect traits of ourselves that we downplay. we LIKE to define ourselves within limited definitions, like "i am angry person" or "i am a math person, not an engli…

You're right, of course. There were a few things: 1. One-year waiting period before I could file for divorce, and a month or two into that before my ex sued me for equitable distribution. 2. My ex's…

Hello, I had a similar perfectionist mother. Mine was a covert narcissist who secretly enjoyed pitting people against each other, but always under the guise of "kindness" and "what's best for her chil…

I feel like this is important context. It sounds like tensions were already high.

i have pretty bad anxiety & intrusive thoughts so i’m jst a bit scared of being judged which is literally crazy cause everyone in my dreams r jst extensions of myself 😭

Hey! I’m 42. Had kids and then a hysterectomy super young. Been on HRT for years. Divorced last year. I felt this way too, but decided to make a change. I work long hours and have so many chores at ho…

Yes!! We just bought a house built in 1998. It has had like 7 owners in this time. At least three that we now know of died here. Did not know that before buying. My normally happy husband has instantl…

Yea. My husband used to say he would hate it if I got Botox, or lips done or silky piled on make up as it looks trashy and to grow old gracefully. He had an affair with a woman half his age (and mine…

I Love that you are unable to understand that calling yourself a GOOD mother & have rights to the kids while being a cheater in the same sentence! I don't give two Fs what a judge or court or CPS says…

Yes these years were rather tough on me. Had to go through a lot actually. Lost my mother as well during this period of time and ofc the marital tensions are ongoing. Got married during this wrong tim…

Gandanta Lagna/Moon = early karmic challenges, possible health/identity crises in childhood... Were you married in Mercury–Venus antardasha: Nov 2022 to Sep/Oct 2025 ? Current Dasha: Mercury Maha…

Not really mental illness but untreated ADHD. And not a “can’t keep organized, constantly forgets stuff” ADHD but the “can’t keep emotions in check and fights with children, wife is basically a parent…

This happened to me, but not on the first Time. Maybe you had some tensions to release?

Cleansing of the Chakras, releasing of stored tensions or traumas

Man… reading this, it sounds like you really took the time to unpack it all, and I feel the weight of both sides. It’s rough realizing that no amount of effort can bridge core differences in lifestyle…

If your state says you are an adult after 18. You really need to contact police for assistance in helping you pack up you and kitty without being harrassed or assaulted. What your parents did by locki…

I’m an attachment trauma therapist. What you’re experiencing is very common for avoidants and you’re spot on about your self-awareness and core wound. When I work with people who are avoidantly attach…

I don't know how scientifically valid this is or if it's just some myth, but I've read that after years of marriage your brain treats the loss of a spouse similarly to the loss of a limb. We literally…

Literally in the same boat with the writing thing! I started writing stories when I was...8? And still it was never encouraged or considered anything serious. Funniest thing is that my parents are av…

There's a few reasons someone might say this. My first thought was life, existence, just being in this world that our ancestors have built is inherently traumatic. We, generally as a culture, minimiz…

Control. My mother makes a mountain out of a mole hill. She constantly accuses my father of cheating, accuses me of being my guy friends mistress etc. I am also accused of wanting to be in a relations…

This is the best part: God is Liquid Love - and we are extensions of God, i.e. Our True Nature is to BE Love. So, in the worst case scenario: 1. Meditate. When you quiet your Thoughts, you put y…

Agree it's a lot of fun, especially with the natural confidence of realizing I'm *not* super young anymore but I can still do what I can do! Also, it is especially weird to demonize wanting to look …

tl;dr: nourishing, balanced diet that is psychologically beneficial to me, movement that is pleasurable, SLEEP omg I need at least 7 hrs, 80-100 oz daily water, skincare (just the basics, I use a lot …

im a beginner shifter and tonight I tried to shift but im not 100% sure if I did or if it was some weird dream? I didn't really have my intensions set on which DR I wanted to shift to so I went to thi…

I took it as the person not meaning as in control type thing like you've mentioned but more like you have autonomy over yourself, which I'd never had. I had a very controlling mother and she wanted to…

I see patterns of emotional eating as a response to anxiety via the t square between Moon, Jupiter, and Uranus. The Moon opposition Uranus can cause sudden emotional tensions in one’s life. It also in…

Originally I moved in due to tensions with my parents, but now coworkers have offered to let me stay in spare rooms and I hopefully have a house for rent available later in the year 🙂

My mom does the exact same thing. She would be in the kitchen and come watch 30sec of whatever I had on (innocuous stuff like parks & rec, the office, or Brooklyn 99) just to tell me “that’s not funny…

yup. cold turkey. delete any apps that have reels/shorts on them too. only access them via desktop, and on your desktop, install extensions for you to not be able to view shorts and reels. or can set …

I think that’s an excellent start. Because it’s very powerful abuse and boundary violation. To completely nullify a person. So it’s an awesome start to be angry, because it connects us to our legitima…

I hope the court rules on our side but this is still just the first fight in a long war. This anti-immigrant sentiment will only increase as the climate worsens and political and socioeconomic tensi…

a good long term approach is to try and tackle the cause. This means to do a practice that undoes the damage done. Something like tai chi or qi gong that works on release of tensions can allow the bod…

as far as i know it, the 'natural building' is seen as one possible path. This has some prerequisites though, so it may be that you're building energy without realising it. I.e. the 'yi dao qi dao' pr…

its probably a good idea to try a range of things and see which one is a natural fit for you at this stage. The one's i'd suggest are 'anchoring the breath' - [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=N0fTg23p…

Time. Give it time. Your breakup sounds very fresh. Emotions are most likely very high right now so I wouldn't dwell too much on what was said and don't assume it is set in stone. Time (and some di…

It sucks. What kind of parent would ask you to quit your job like that? Although mine keeps trying to get me to move closer, date locally, or move to their nearest city instead of out of state like I …

> I feel like I absorb the energies around me way too fast A sensitive person should keep their personal field close in to their physical body as a self-protective measure so they do not easily absor…

Hemi-Sync relies on precise binaural phase coherence. If your volume is too high, or if you're using low-quality rips, your brain has to work harder to 'filter' the signal, which triggers micro-tensio…

I have meditated laying down for 30 years. Falling asleep has never been an issue for me. Recently I moved house and don't currently have a bed, so I'm moving pillows around under my back and neck try…

See that what kills me is he’s a great father 100% but not a great partner. I would do it all over again to have my kids but at the same time this isn’t fair. He was so different or atleast I thought.…

It makes me sick that people treat their children as things / objects / extensions of themselves, rather than as a fully developed person with their own thoughts, feelings and opinions. I've seen the …

dumbbell curls, tricep extensions, and overhead presses. A combination of 3 sets of 10-15 reps

Do arm exercises like tricep extensions and bicep curls, while simultaneously being ina calorie deficit, what dis does it gets rid of sum excess fat and makes sure your arms arent saggy after losing …

Why Simulation - and why love? Because I fail to see love as the binding agent. We are all capable of mass destruction or mass creation. So why is love the answer? Conscious destruction/recycling and …

He doesn’t trust you. If he doesn’t trust other people’s intentions but trusts you, then there is no need to go through your phone because who cares what other people send you? If you’re trustworthy…