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Any Christian experiencers in here?

ACIM may have been a project of the MK ULTRA CIA black ops program. We now know through the freedom of information act that Helen's co-worker and sort of frenemy (more enemy than friend much of the ti…

r/experiencerscomment3/28/2026
Official r/realityshifting Discord

Official r/realityshifting Discord — ## Welcome to Shifting Help! ### The official r/realityshifting subreddit's server! I made this server a while ago to serve the purpose to give the right information to shifters across the world !…

r/realityshiftingpost7/23/2024
Can we talk about how bad the current Shopify Admin UI is?

Can we talk about how bad the current Shopify Admin UI is? — How has this continued to be a thing, and how did this get approved internally? The Shopify Admin UI is a complete mess. It's genuinely hard to believe this shipped — and worse, that it's still the c…

r/web_designpost4/15/2025
Suggestions are like Forex signals - doing the exact opposite is where the real money is

Suggestions are like Forex signals - doing the exact opposite is where the real money is — I was in a Discord channel with 90K+ designers and every time someone dropped their landing page or website, it felt like getting advice from someone selling Forex signals. Doing the opposite would a…

r/web_designpost4/19/2025
The Ability to Scale Predictably Is a Superpower (Here’s Why DTC Brands Can’t Skip Performance Marketing)

The Ability to Scale Predictably Is a Superpower (Here’s Why DTC Brands Can’t Skip Performance Marketing) — The ability to **scale predictably** is a superpower—especially for DTC brands. If you’ve worked with or inside a DTC company, you know the drill: * You launch, get some organic traction, and then… …

r/digital_marketingpost5/1/2025
AI Generated Content - Is Anyone Still Using It?

AI Generated Content - Is Anyone Still Using It? — Hi - I’m a Digital Marketing Manager at a marketing agency located in the UK. When ChatGPT came into play, we utilised it early on for generating SEO content and blogs - we hammered it, not really t…

r/digital_marketingpost5/1/2025
How do you generate qualified leads for a cohort-based course?

How do you generate qualified leads for a cohort-based course? — Hey everyone! 👋 I run a live, cohort-based masterclass on advanced Midjourney prompt engineering and am in the process of ramping up my lead-gen funnel for the next cohort. So far, I’ve Explored: *…

r/digital_marketingpost5/2/2025
10 startup lessons I’d tattoo on every founder’s arm (in comic sans) - i will not promote

10 startup lessons I’d tattoo on every founder’s arm (in comic sans) - i will not promote — 10 startup lessons I’d tattoo on every founder’s arm (in comic sans) 1. no one cares about your idea. not even your mom. show traction. 1. 2. build fast. talk to users faster. and by “talk,” I mean…

r/startupspost5/2/2025
Looking for CAC/CPC benchmarks for a coffee e-commerce in the U.S.

Looking for CAC/CPC benchmarks for a coffee e-commerce in the U.S. — Hi, I’m starting an online coffee e-commerce business in the U.S., selling both exotic and regular coffee bags. I’m trying to estimate how much I should invest to get started. Does anyone here know t…

r/ecommercepost5/2/2025
How Would You Approach Digital Marketing for a Premium Food Product Expanding Internationally?

How Would You Approach Digital Marketing for a Premium Food Product Expanding Internationally? — Hi everyone, I run digital efforts for my family’s pistachio butter business based in Gaziantep, Turkey — a region famous for producing world-class pistachios. We’ve been in business since 2007 and …

r/digital_marketingpost5/3/2025
Bootstrapped Turkish Food Brand Exploring Global B2B Expansion – I will not promote

Bootstrapped Turkish Food Brand Exploring Global B2B Expansion – I will not promote — Hey everyone, I help manage a family-run pistachio butter business based in Gaziantep, Turkey — a city known for producing world-class pistachios. Since 2007, we’ve been selling a premium, all-natur…

r/startupspost5/3/2025
You get a $0 budget, but full internet access. How would you get your first 500 real users?

You get a $0 budget, but full internet access. How would you get your first 500 real users? — Let’s say you’re launching a niche app or tool — no ads, no team, no paid tools. Just your brain, Wi-Fi, and hustle. What’s your plan? Reddit threads? Cold outreach? Niche communities? Viral cont…

r/digital_marketingpost5/4/2025
Jobsites to lookout for as a Product Designer. Need help.

Jobsites to lookout for as a Product Designer. Need help. — I'm currently in the lookout for a job change and I would like to know if there are any specific sites/channels/spaces/groups to get a job alerts. I'm aware of fee and actively on top of it, but I cou…

r/UXDesignpost5/4/2025
What are the best channels to promote your product this year?

What are the best channels to promote your product this year? — What are the best channels to promote your product this year? I know every product and audience are different, so there is no perfect answer. But what would you guys say are the best channels to be a…

r/digital_marketingpost5/5/2025
Marketing for startups (I will not promote)

Marketing for startups (I will not promote) — (I will not promote) Proven strategies to take a startup from zero to scale ($10M+ ARR). As a 3X startup CMO, I have experienced tremendous success and a ton of failure.  I have been involved in th…

r/startupspost5/5/2025
E-commerce Industry News Recap 🔥 Week of May 5th, 2025

E-commerce Industry News Recap 🔥 Week of May 5th, 2025 — Hi r/ecommerce \- I'm Paul and I follow the e-commerce industry closely for my Shopifreaks E-commerce Newsletter. Every week for the past 3+ years I've posted a summary recap of the week's top stories…

r/ecommercepost5/5/2025
This Week's Top E-commerce News Stories 💥 May 5th, 2025

This Week's Top E-commerce News Stories 💥 May 5th, 2025 — Hi r/Shopify - I'm Paul and I follow the e-commerce industry closely for my Shopifreaks E-commerce Newsletter, which I've published weekly since 2021. I was invited by the Mods of this subreddit to s…

r/Shopifypost5/5/2025
{Weekly Discussion} Google seems to be giving the thumbs up to Reddit's AI Scaled Machine Translations

{Weekly Discussion} Google seems to be giving the thumbs up to Reddit's AI Scaled Machine Translations — Background - during an earnings call, Reddit said that google said thumbs up to the idea of publishing AI machine translated content - apparently something they've penalized others before. [Gagan Gho…

r/SEOpost5/5/2025
Youtube subscribers and low number of views

Youtube subscribers and low number of views — Hey, I’m running Google (YouTube) ads to get new subscribers. My channel now has over 7,000 subscribers, but when we publish a video, it only gets around 150 views. We're targeting the EU, so it’s not…

r/digital_marketingpost5/5/2025
using AI for repurposing our pillar content generated 4 million impressions and hundreds of leads

using AI for repurposing our pillar content generated 4 million impressions and hundreds of leads — I recently led a Reddit content repurposing campaign that got over **4 million impressions** and **hundreds of new user signups** for my client. Here's exactly how I did it. # Why Reddit, and why use…

r/digital_marketingpost5/5/2025
Can I use popular music in Reels for my Instagram Business account?

Can I use popular music in Reels for my Instagram Business account? — Hi everyone, I have a Business account on Instagram where I’m promoting my product. I want to start publishing several Reels introducing what I offer. During the creation process, Instagram allows me…

r/digital_marketingpost5/6/2025
Any experience running and managing many locations on POS? Switching from Square and I’ve got questions

Any experience running and managing many locations on POS? Switching from Square and I’ve got questions — Shopify POS as a refreshing breath of fresh air over Square on many points. However, they seem to fall short on some really obvious things. That make me think maybe I’m the crazy one and just don’…

r/Shopifypost5/7/2025
Has Anyone Used WhatsApp to Drive Growth in Early-Stage? (I will not promote)

Has Anyone Used WhatsApp to Drive Growth in Early-Stage? (I will not promote) — I’ve seen early-stage Indian startups use WhatsApp as an insider channel not to close sales, but to run pilot ideas, form early user loops, and gather fast feedback. Feels like an underrated wedge for…

r/startupspost5/7/2025
The successful are not here

The successful are not here — After years of watching YouTube videos about startup / founder stuff and reading blogs, Reddit, and the horrible place that is LinkedIn, I came to realize that 99.9% of advice (especially in the SaaS …

r/Entrepreneurpost5/7/2025
Head of Digital - Feeling burnt out.

Head of Digital - Feeling burnt out. — Hey everyone, I’m in a “Head of Digital” role at a mid-sized company — but in practice, I’m the only technical person in a team full of editors and project managers from a traditional print publishin…

r/webdevpost5/7/2025
Being an Entrepreneur is bloody hard

Being an Entrepreneur is bloody hard — That's a quote from Dan Pena and it's absolutely right. The bum boys on Instagram, YouTube and all the rest that pretend like it's easy are 1000% full of it. The true life of a business person and e…

r/Entrepreneurpost5/7/2025
Digital marketing lead generation and sales tips

Digital marketing lead generation and sales tips — If you are part of a marketing agency or a freelance marketer, this is for you. 1. What are the effective channels for lead generation & sales? 2. How are you converting it? 3. What are the commo…

r/digital_marketingpost5/7/2025
Biggest entrepreneurial Challenge - Lead generation and sales

Biggest entrepreneurial Challenge - Lead generation and sales — If you are founder/co-founder/owner of a marketing agency or marketing freelancer, this is for you. 1. What are the effective channels for lead generation & sales? 2. How are you converting it? 3…

r/Entrepreneurpost5/7/2025
Best Marketing Channels and Programs for Early-Stage Startups?

Best Marketing Channels and Programs for Early-Stage Startups? — Good marketing can sell like sh\*t. What are the best marketing channels and strategies for startups in their early stages? Not all founders are good at marketing. I'm open to any advice and would a…

r/Entrepreneurpost5/7/2025
7 x multiplier for profitability?

7 x multiplier for profitability? — I’m reading a book called “ The complete book of product design, development, manufacturing & sales” by Steven Selikoff It says that you should be able to sell your physical product for seven times w…

r/Entrepreneurpost5/7/2025
Scaling a Faceless YouTube Channel into a small business.

Scaling a Faceless YouTube Channel into a small business. — Around a Month ago, I started mentoring a few people on how to start a YouTube automation channel/business with no real launch, just looking to help a handful who was serious about building something …

r/smallbusinesspost5/7/2025
Video camera for YouTube and digital camera for products

Video camera for YouTube and digital camera for products — I have been using my phone to run my business but I would like better quality photos 📸. Not to mention, my phone storage is pretty full because of the photos and reels. Also, I want to utilize my You…

r/smallbusinesspost5/7/2025
The ones making money from a business (even if not millions)

The ones making money from a business (even if not millions) — How did you find the customer need, or gap you serve now through your business? Through work experience, or any other "channel"?

r/Entrepreneurpost5/7/2025
Manifestation coach hired me and fucked me over

Manifestation coach hired me and fucked me over — Hi everyone, this is my first post here and I’m writing because I’ve exhausted every other option. And I am FUCKING DONE WITH IT. I hope some of you will see this and help me to hold that person accou…

r/JosephMurphypost6/22/2025
March 2026 Astrology: Transits, Key Dates, and More

March 2026 Astrology: Transits, Key Dates, and More — **Last month’s write-up, I ended with this,** *“Let’s just say we end the month in a chaotic state of energy. Nothing seems real while at the same time, there is a sense of urgency that something need…

r/astrologypost3/2/2026
Experiences With Cosmic Entities.

Experiences With Cosmic Entities. — Hello everyone! This post will be a little bit different, as i wish to dive into odd encounters that i had with different beings, that surprisingly helped me out a *lot* - more than i could have possi…

r/experiencerspost3/8/2026
What s month it's been

What s month it's been — The title says it all. Confronted my wife last month on the 7th last month at 1 am and learned that she cheated on me and was talking with someone. This was after an emotional affair that I discovered…

r/survivinginfidelitypost3/9/2026
"What does it mean to heal?" channeled message from my guides

"What does it mean to heal?" channeled message from my guides — I thought to share with you all this excerpt from a channeled conversation between myself and my guides. I love this text a lot and return to it often. Perhaps those of you on a healing journey and t…

r/energy_workpost3/10/2026
How do you guys give yourselves comfort you used to get from someone that is no longer there?

How do you guys give yourselves comfort you used to get from someone that is no longer there? — While this is coming from a position of a break up from me, this is also something I want to learn when it comes to other things. Right now, my nervous system is screaming for comfort by going back to…

r/AnxiousAttachmentpost3/11/2026
The Revision method works! Trust me, it does!

The Revision method works! Trust me, it does! — I have read a ton of books and watched numerous manifestation YouTube channels. Most of their teachings are based on Neville Goddard's teachings. And gotta say, that going back to read his words just …

r/nevillegoddardpost3/12/2026
Movie List: Chinese movies where the antagonist(s) are racist/imperialist White/Westerners and get their asses kicked

Movie List: Chinese movies where the antagonist(s) are racist/imperialist White/Westerners and get their asses kicked — I thought I would make a list of some Chinese movies(mostly martial art action films) where the main antagonist is a racist and/or imperialist white. These movies are all fun and feel good, and while …

r/AsianMasculinitypost3/13/2026
Contact Experiencer Jason Sands cited in online Newsweek posting concerning the disappearance of General Neil McCasland.

Contact Experiencer Jason Sands cited in online Newsweek posting concerning the disappearance of General Neil McCasland. — Newsweek News Article **Missing Air Force General Update: Gun Missing, Sweater Found** PUBLISHED MAR 13, 2026 AT 11:23 AM EDT  Online Newsweek coverage of General McCasland’s disappearance quotes …

r/experiencerspost3/14/2026
Timeless Knowledge YouTube gone?!?

Timeless Knowledge YouTube gone?!? — Suddenly it’s gone? So many great lectures I can’t even begin to explain. This is absolutely devastating. I even tried searching and found nothing. There were lectures from Joseph Murphy, Neville God…

r/JosephMurphypost3/14/2026
What can 'normal' people do to bring open contact a step closer?

What can 'normal' people do to bring open contact a step closer? — I wonder what 'normal' people, like most of us here I assume, can do to help bring open contact a step closer? Do we have any agency in these matters? If so what do people here feel we can do or wh…

r/experiencerspost3/14/2026
Overarching Energy of the New Moon in Pisces on March 18th, 2026

Overarching Energy of the New Moon in Pisces on March 18th, 2026 — Even if you are not an artist, philosopher or feel things deeply, the New Moon in Pisces could give you an open, dreamy quality, where you want to dig into more abstract subjects. You may be thinkin…

r/astrologypost3/16/2026
Energy Exchange: How We Give, Take, and Protect Our Vital Force

Energy Exchange: How We Give, Take, and Protect Our Vital Force — Energy exchange is, essentially, communication. The energy a person generates is given outward. But, in accordance with the laws of conservation of energy, a person must receive energy from outside. …

r/energy_workpost3/18/2026
MY SUBLIMINAL COULD HELP YOU WITH SHIFTING

MY SUBLIMINAL COULD HELP YOU WITH SHIFTING — UNCERTAINTY We manifest what are not certain of, thus to make it certain for our greatest good is why we manifest. This subliminal will ensure everything that happens is for your best, it function…

r/realityshiftingpost3/19/2026
Carl Jung wasn't a psychologist. He was a shaman.

Carl Jung wasn't a psychologist. He was a shaman. — Carl Jung quietly wrote one of the most profound esoteric texts of all time, at least in my own personal opinion. Seven Sermons to the Dead was written in 1916, privately shared between a handful of J…

r/experiencerspost3/19/2026
Shifting Storytime is Up! ⋆。𖦹°‧★

Shifting Storytime is Up! ⋆。𖦹°‧★ — Hi everyone! In my last post I asked if you guys would be interested in me making a YouTube channel to talk about my experiences with reality shifting and any advice I might have or just general dis…

r/realityshiftingpost3/22/2026
What do you think of the channeled symbol?

What do you think of the channeled symbol? — I have a question about spiritual tools like Reiki symbols and other channeled symbols. From what I understand, these symbols are received or channeled by certain practitioners and then used in healin…

r/energy_workpost3/22/2026
I was wrong (manifested money, skill, and tickets)💀

I was wrong (manifested money, skill, and tickets)💀 — This is so crazy. A while ago, I was asking for help here and expressing my frustration that nothing was working for a situation i wanted to change and i was not manifesting anything. I think the mods…

r/nevillegoddardpost3/25/2026
The Personal Development School - worth it?

I did the PDS course and it was worth every penny. Also check out the free YouTube channel first.

r/AvoidantAttachmentcomment11/17/2023
If you are new here..

You just may be one of the few people coming through here who is too stupid even for the ng sub. Go join the maga channel. lol

r/JosephMurphycomment9/17/2020
REMINDER: be kind to yourself. This is hard, and you’re handling it with grace and strength.

I am 52. Alone doesn't have to mean lonely. I remind myself that it has only been 4 months since everything exploded for me. I moved back to my hometown. I am looking for teaching work and such. As f…

r/Divorcecomment10/26/2023
How to heal avoidant attachment?

I highly recommend Heidelberg Priebe (check her YT channel https://youtu.be/0bww6ichQ-Q?si=7MUhlAHKkBynGV4O)

r/attachment_theorycomment3/22/2025
Looking for marketing strategy tips for our startup

I am in online marketing for the past 15 years with a focus on early stage startups and scaleups.... And no... SEO is not the way to go. I welcome the phased approach to paid, but you need to unders…

r/Entrepreneurcomment5/6/2025
Best Marketing Channels and Programs for Early-Stage Startups?

If you are in the SaaS industry, I suggest you try Product hunt, X, Youtube, Seo and Google Ads. My email marketing tool, Mailgo, was launched on Product Hunt on April 15, and ranked #1 on the daily…

r/Entrepreneurcomment5/7/2025
Best Marketing Channels and Programs for Early-Stage Startups?

If you are in the SaaS industry, I suggest you try Product hunt, X, Youtube, Seo and Google Ads. My email marketing tool, Mailgo, was launched on Product Hunt on April 15, and ranked #1 on the daily…

r/Entrepreneurcomment5/7/2025
Biggest entrepreneurial Challenge - Lead generation and sales

1. Finding effective channels is the holy grail, isn't it? You've got a solid mix with personalized cold DMs and content. But experimenting with new platforms like Reddit or X can be a goldmine if don…

r/Entrepreneurcomment5/7/2025
Do your deploy dashboards ever show business impact, or just health checks?

Every deployment to Slack? So then nobody pays attention and that's why they ask you to give them the details. Don't do this. People mute these channels because 99% of what goes to it doesn't matte…

r/DevOpscomment5/7/2025
Fellow DAs, do you sometimes experience people taking it personally when you need space to be by yourself?

Fearful avoidant attachment? It’s caused by chaotic caregivers that would alternate between closeness/being loving and distance/being cold. I recommend checking out the Thais Gibson YouTube channel …

r/attachment_theorycomment5/11/2025
How to fix my own FA attachment (ideally without therapy)?

I recommend the following YouTube channels: The Crappy Childhood Fairy The Personal Development School by Thais Gibson Paulien Timmer - Healing the Fearful Avoidant Heidi Priebe The Crappy Childh…

r/attachment_theorycomment5/30/2025
How to fix my own FA attachment (ideally without therapy)?

For what it’s worth, you don’t really have to engage too much with the origins of FA in my opinion. What’s most important is how the echoes of it are showing up and affecting you now. Therapy is expen…

r/attachment_theorycomment5/30/2025
How to fix my own FA attachment (ideally without therapy)?

Check out Patrick Teahan's YT channel, he has a few vids about the attachment styles that might help you pinpoint where it originated from. It's also great for starting working on your trauma on your …

r/attachment_theorycomment5/31/2025
Excessive Rumination

Yes. It's the guilt that keeps us ruminating, I think. But, it's important to remember that it really is only partially -- perhaps even only *very* partially -- about us and our actions. The avoidant …

r/attachment_theorycomment6/2/2025
Manifestation coach hired me and fucked me over

Yeah very shocking. Although her teachings didn’t align with me in recent times. But being a crook is not something i expected from her. And since her youtube channel is stagnant since eons and her co…

r/JosephMurphycomment6/25/2025
Manifestation coach hired me and fucked me over

The video is tagged in most of her descriptions. I rather not share this here, because it will boost her channel if everyone clicks on it.

r/JosephMurphycomment6/25/2025
Manifestation coach hired me and fucked me over

She has two channels: https://youtube.com/@agnesvivarelli https://youtube.com/@agnesvivarelli1966 And this is her email (this is public information on all of her socials): apersonofinterest2014@gmai…

r/JosephMurphycomment6/25/2025
Think I found a secure woman, and almost immediately self-sabotaged.

This is your second tell that she is not secure and swing avoidant. Secured people have self-regulation techniques, are attuned to their bodies, and have habits for off-time to be with people or to c…

r/attachment_theorycomment7/1/2025
Manifestation coach hired me and fucked me over

say that you'll forgive all the bills if she mentions your youtube channel on her channel and socials...visibility will be more valuable than cash imo

r/JosephMurphycomment7/5/2025
This is what happens when your FA ex comes back

Your story might be my story if he didn’t break up with me (of course, with having a mature conversation). It lasted a month, and we were thrilled until we first met and it became real and fantastic –…

r/attachment_theorycomment8/9/2025
Bi-Weekly Thread - Advice for Relationship/Friendship/Dating/Breakup

The screaming is likely to be your abandonment wound. Good news is that you can't be abandoned because you're a self sufficient capable adult and only children can be abandoned. The more difficult pa…

r/AnxiousAttachmentcomment9/6/2025
I have become obsessed with finding someone.

From what you've said, it sounds like you think of life to be pointless when lived alone, and seem to be valuing romantic relationships specifically a lot. I would like to posit that it is this excruc…

r/AnxiousAttachmentcomment9/16/2025
I have become obsessed with finding someone.

Attachment theory channels and healthygamergg on YouTube and discerned reddit browsing and books have been godsends to me. I'd say as a starter, if you don't already, try and figure out what about ha…

r/AnxiousAttachmentcomment9/16/2025
How to manifest for beginners

I don't know if you already know this and I know your comment is a month old, but Joe Dispenza is great for health related manifestions. He has testimonials on his youtube channel and 3-4 books on it.…

r/Manifestationcomment9/19/2025
I have become obsessed with finding someone.

I can relate to you, I think people don't talk often enough about how dark and suffering it feels to be at the other end of the spectrum. People tend to only discuss the aftermath of how you should pi…

r/AnxiousAttachmentcomment9/26/2025
I regressed so much this year

I'm right there with you. Sometimes it feels like I learned so much only so that I can just stand back and watch a train wreck unfold in live time while still being completely powerless to stop it. …

r/AnxiousAttachmentcomment9/27/2025
r/AnxiousAttachmentcomment10/6/2025
I broke no contact

This is what I resorted to. I talk about what’s going on and if I want to respond I discuss that. How ever I then channel my avoidant side & ego so I don’t reach out to call or text. Especially if I…

r/AnxiousAttachmentcomment10/17/2025
What are good books or podcasts to consume if I’m early in a great relationship and trying not to let me anxiety ruin it?

Heidi Priebe's YouTube channel on attachment styles is wonderful. [Why We Recreate Childhood Dynamics In Our Adult Relationships (& How To Stop)](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=W7HCJoHVmf0)

r/HealMyAttachmentStylecomment11/4/2025
Inner Child healing exercises?

IPF is popular. I'm just starting to look into it. And I like the havening techniques on the YouTube channel "Hello inner light", especially the one about shame.

r/AnxiousAttachmentcomment12/26/2025
AnxAtt healing group: Meeting #1!

I'd be happy to host one at a time that works for Europe. I'm a breathwork coach, studied under a somatic psychotherapist, and have worked through years of disorganised and anxious attachment patterns…

r/AnxiousAttachmentcomment1/6/2026
The pain of being unmet...

Yeah I totally hear you on that and how it can all feel disconnected from what we are experiencing here. This also may sound like nonsense to you, I know it did to me until I started practicing it. B…

r/AnxiousAttachmentcomment1/11/2026
Curious about “episodic engagement” — anyone relate?

Well, I’m really intrigued by attachment theory…and I’ve got a crush on an avoidant guy. Our connection has not been advancing beyond mostly text conversation and sort of “fantasy.” I get mixed signa…

r/attachment_theorycomment1/14/2026
Anxious Attachment Injury - Nervous System Stuck in Fight/Flight

I'm currently at the tail end of the same experience. I had been orbiting a FA since March of 2025. The connection repeatedly hit my abandonment wound when she would suddenly withdraw on me just as I…

r/AnxiousAttachmentcomment2/2/2026
Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! New? Start here!

Is there a way I can do that anonymously? I've said a lot about myself I have never told any humans in real life on these reddit channels that I would like to keep private. I would love to show people…

r/datingoverthirtycomment2/6/2026
Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! New? Start here!

I was in a 13 year relationship where I can count on one hand the amount of Valentine’s Day he actually did something for me. So just know if you’re single there’s plenty of people in relationships wh…

r/datingoverthirtycomment2/7/2026
Anxious Attachment Injury - Nervous System Stuck in Fight/Flight

I also deleted all channels of communication with my FA in August 2025, who break up with me 2 months before.  I felt really better after that.  But then, 2 weeks later, he found my instagram and mess…

r/AnxiousAttachmentcomment2/8/2026
Can I get some assurance from reformed people pleasers 🥲?

I used to be like this. I used to think that if I did everything right, then people won't hurt or intimidate me. Turns out abusers just do that anyways regardless of if you're kind to them or not. H…

r/AvoidantAttachmentcomment2/12/2026
Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! New? Start here!

I got a similarly worded text too (in the middle of my work day - so that wasn't nice to read) after he was the one pursuing and arranging dates which confused me. I feel that I was myself, even encou…

r/datingoverthirtycomment2/16/2026
Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! New? Start here!

A therapist is just going to tell them to go practice what they learn in therapy. What helped me was reframing it: what other people think of me is none of my business. That took enough pressure off …

r/datingoverthirtycomment2/18/2026
r/datingoverthirtycomment2/18/2026
Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! New? Start here!

You are a very warm loving person with a good heart - I understand the impulse to help. But you cannot let yourself get sucked into this situation. He doesn’t want your help. Channel this energy in a …

r/datingoverthirtycomment2/21/2026
Bi-Weekly Thread - Advice for Relationship/Friendship/Dating/Breakup

Hey there. Before I begin: You are loved, your feelings are valid, and you are worth it. Now, to me this sounds like an anxious spiral. You did something you yourself would see as 'too much', and are …

r/AnxiousAttachmentcomment2/27/2026
Bi-Weekly Thread - Advice for Relationship/Friendship/Dating/Breakup

Hey there. I'm sorry you went through that. Your feelings are valid, and you are not a terrible person for feeling them. I got two videos to share with you. I think these will be a great help. This en…

r/AnxiousAttachmentcomment2/28/2026
Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! - February 28, 2026

Ah there's an assumption:) I've been active on the app since before, and forgive me that my first priority hasn't been to put the app on pause when my city has missiles flying over. I'm not actively s…

r/datingoverthirtycomment3/1/2026
Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! - March 02, 2026

Finally unfollowed/removed my ex from all my social media (6 weeks post-breakup). The first one, Instagram, was hard. There were over two years of shared memories and I had to work up to it mentally. …

r/datingoverthirtycomment3/2/2026
The most difficult Sun & Moon transits!

That is right on the money in my experience! I had moved 2,000 miles from my beloved home city in late 2021 and was grieving the loss of my old home and a big part of my identity which was tied to tha…

r/astrologycomment3/3/2026
Jupiter in Aquarius and the impersonal nature of this placement

jupiter in aquarius is a genuinely tricky placement because jupiter's mode of expansion (organic, faith-based, through meaning and generosity) runs into aquarius' saturn-ruled framework (systematic, i…

r/astrologycomment3/3/2026
Jupiter in Aquarius and the impersonal nature of this placement

you're asking the right question, and it's the one most Jupiter in Aquarius write-ups skip. the traditional framework helps here: Jupiter in Aquarius is in its detriment (opposite Leo). not because i…

r/astrologycomment3/4/2026
does mercury being in retrograde cloud/weaken or strengthen your intuition?

Yes, that idea shows up most clearly in Vedic astrology and in broader traditional conversations around retrogradation complicating debility. It is a real line of thought astrologers have worked with …

r/astrologycomment3/6/2026