If you loved me, you would love my inconsistency

44F: He said ‘if you loved me you’d accept inconsistency’… I ended it. Thoughts? — Im a couple years out of a 20 year marriage and just back into the dating scene. Dating is completely new to me but i have been in therapy and reading about different attachment styles and other thing…

Original copy of post by u/OkExtension3072: Im a couple years out of a 20 year marriage and just back into the dating scene. Dating is completely new to me but i have been in therapy and reading abou…

>"If you loved me, you would love my inconsistency" By that logic, if he loved you, he'd love your willingness to address his poor behavior. 🤷‍♀️ Sounds like a case of "You can't fire me, I quit!…

>"People are inconsistent, you will never find anyone who is consistent all the time." Manipulative people love to say things like this. It's not that they're doing anything wrong. They're totally n…