she's not feeling it

For those hurting, advice for your 2026 and my story — Hello everyone, **Preface** I am an anxious attacher, so my experience by-and-large is with dismissive avoidants and fearful avoidants. It is not my intent to villainize these attachment styles; thi…

She's not feeling it, not ready, or whatever the "not" is. When it's this hard you need to cut bait and leave. I had the realization you need and switched from a woman that acted like that to dating a…

You stay married to your wife, because marriage is not just about sex. I'm assuming you love her, though you've expressed nothing of the sort. Love means staying through the hard parts. This is a hard…