the real you

Late reply, but FYI for anyone reading this from here on...every two hours will change your rising sign and rotate your whole chart another 30 degrees. So while all the planets will still show up in t…

It doesn’t matter WHAT you do, it matters WHO does it — Lately I’ve been thinking about how working on yourself is actually really important when it comes to manifestation (and no, don’t immediately assume it’s something hard). The phrase “it doesn’t mat…

Just trying to gain closure on my own... — This is something I wrote in my journal, trying to process emotions and gain closure. Lori, Since you would not give me the opportunity for closure, I'm going to do what I can to get it here. This…

Healing — It’s been 3 weeks since we broke up. 5 years 3 months 2 days evaporated. You showed me your true colors right away with the lies, gaslighting, and cheating. I endlessly gave you the benefit of the dou…

Do you regress when around them? I don't think regress is the right word but do you fall into a role that is truly not you around them? Like the real you falls apart? — Nmom thinks I am such a dirty, unorganized person. They never taught me how to clean but I did teach myself and when I am elsewhere and in my own space I love keeping stuff clean and having a routine …

My last pebble from a broken penguin — I am not sure if you will ever read this but if you do I’d want you to know I forgive you. when we first met everything was perfect. We connected like if we had knew each other in a past life. You wer…

The real you, — When Neville Goddard speaks about SATS, that space that is not fully awake but not yet asleep, he is pointing to the gap between thoughts, where the personal mind has quietened down. You are no longer…

I will give my own experience as an FA. A lot of women will project who they want me to be onto me, even If I gave no indication of such from the beginning and even when I actively try to shatter pr…

It’s the real her (confused, emotional, unstable) but the real you is shattering the fantasy version of you (not your fault). Her fantasy of how your relationship was going to go just got “real” now s…

You say that you yourself are FA. Which one is the real you: the charming love-bomber or the cold, deactivated version of you? Understanding your own mind states and thought and behavior patterns and …

AA is an insecure style for a reason. It expresses itself through that neediness, but what makes it insecure is its inability to fully sit with true connection. AAs claim to want intimacy, but want th…

It’s difficult to find someone who sees you - not what they want to see - the real you. That woman never really saw you. She chose to pass on you instead. That’s not on you - that’s on her and that’s …

I think a more valid question is do you want to date them? If a person passes you up for weight, that’s their own issue-not your’s. And as long as your photos reflect the real you the people who selec…

You don’t block them. You allow and accept them and then transmute them. I made a free meditation you can use - it’s on the Insight Timer App. You can access with a free account. search “The Library o…

No. Basically if she is willing to block you completely out of her life, then you did not mean much to her. The fact that she would only accept “you” if you changed, means she was looking for someon…

I could have written this post at some point. Not now, but also not that long ago either. I still live with some shame, but I am much better now and so is my marriage. One thing that clicked in my hea…

Yes, but don't even joke about gaslighting yourself. You can't gaslight yourself - a bad thing - into improvement - a good thing. The reason why I'm being pedantic is because the thing with using psyc…

To add to OP's explanation, and to reflect on your question - your "reality" is where you pay or spend your attention. Attention is like the currency of the imagination. Imagination is the reality and…

Its too hard to find someone could understand and still love you despite your weakness, and respest the real you, not idealized image.

>I’m worrying about Okay listen, you don't need to filter how you are perceived. Be yourself and let things be real and authentic from the start. If they don't like your texting style and use that as…

Please go to therapy individually and as a couple. Strangers on Reddit cannot help you. But I will tell you this, your husband wants to stay because he actually loves and cares about you. The real yo…

I have recovered from porn addiction ( but still have fallback once in a long while) and consuming harmful media, like gore and other stuff. And let me tell you i was in your exact same position for a…

it feels insincere - i doubt this is your "talking" voice. Make it sound like you- the real you- your syntax, your slang, how you genuinely talk

Introvert here- when I see that phrase used, it’s not about “exciting” conversation. It means they don’t want their time wasted with talk about the weather. They want to get to know you- the real you-…

You might not believe in your power but it doesn’t make it not true. If I have it then you do too. The world is at our fingertips but we’re spending too much time trying to undo something. If you sit…

Man, I actually really get what you’re saying here. That line “we don’t attract what we want, but what we are” hits hard because it kind of forces you to look at yourself instead of just wishing for s…

Honestly, I really feel where you’re coming from. That “I want to believe but I just can’t” place is frustrating because it feels like you’re locked out of something that everyone else says is possibl…

Man… I’m really sorry you’re going through this. That kind of switch up, like one day everything feels normal and the next day she says she doesn’t love you, that messes with your head hard. I’ve been…

I like this question a lot, it’s one of those where you can kind of tell where someone’s head is at based on their answer. So now I’m curious, what’s yours? If I had to pick one that really shifted t…

Yeah I’ve 100 percent noticed that too, and I don’t think you’re crazy for questioning it. It’s one of those things where you don’t fully understand it, but you can’t ignore it either because you’ve s…

This is actually really cool to read, and honestly kind of reassuring. You didn’t “do it wrong” at all, if anything you accidentally proved something a lot of people overcomplicate. A book that helpe…

I’m gonna be real with you, what you described actually sounds way more solid than you think. Like… you’re worried you’re being too passive, but the way you’re handling doubts and sticking to “it’s al…

Man this actually hit me a bit. The way you described those months, especially the part about not having proper meals sometimes, that’s real. And the shift you had wasn’t some forced “be positive” thi…

The quantum is aligning your energy with your consciousness/soul. This might seem like word play, but it isn’t.  You are consciousness’ already. You cannot learn it, you can’t study it, you can’t ge…

The core claim of this post can be summarized like this: "You already have what you want. The real you has already arranged everything, so there is nothing to do, and failure is impossible." Under on…

Hard no, and hard pass! If you can't show the real you, I'm not interested. I look like my pictures, and I expect women to look like theirs.

I've said it before, filters are a pore substitute for the real you.

Alright I'm going to be real with you because it sounds like things are actually going okay and I don't want to mess that up with a bunch of complicated advice. You're hanging out every day. Going on …

This is why you don't ask questions in dreams. LOL. It's why I threw away my tarot cards. They're wrong, all the time. Think of all the crazy things that happen in dreams. None of it is real, lite…

Yeah agree and it really hurts when you realise it. that your own parents don't want to know you, the real you. They don't care about who we are. Also I think that's why it took me so long to know m…

I would start with the understanding itself of what is meditation practice, why is it important and how it helps towards reaching new levels of understanding, tapping into intuition and at finale - ge…

I'm gonna be honest, I've read a lot of people's experiences and am part of the discord server for the gateway tapes and there seems to be some pretty clear trends. Unless you are already in contact w…

This one for me. You can't trust your parents because they will turn anything against you and be a social recluse because if nobody knows the real you, then they can't hurt you by really digging deep …

the part about finding the real you under all those years that's what scares me and excites me at the same time. what if I actually like who I am without them too

Congratulations on being the real you for your son. It will make all the difference in his life. I think your home sounds wonderful and welcoming.

i get it it feels like its never gonna end but 2 months is still early youre not stuck youre just hurting i relate in a way i got broken up with and even though i was the one who stayed and forgave …

Obviously there are no apple-to-apple alternatives. Sorry. But hear me out. I totally relate with having an alive and kicking sex drive during and after my divorce process... just not for my ex. And…