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My ex (F23) and I (M26) came back into contact after a year. I'm still in love with her.

It is a standard woman in doubt about what she wants in life. Probably stubborn as hell. She has an image about what her life should be, and is conflicted about it because what makes her happy current…

r/relationshipscomment4/2/2026
Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! - March 05, 2026

I think the little rules and ideas we all have about how dating SHOULD work are often getting in the way of things. People (myself included) are so hooked on our ideas of how things SHOULD be, that I …

r/datingoverthirtycomment3/5/2026
"No one is coming to save you" Yeah, I know, because I saved myself.

It’s such a shitty thing to say, because you know what? Other people have a support system. They have healthy families that would be there to “save them” if needed. Sometimes without even having to as…

r/CPTSDcomment3/14/2026
Told my husband (37M) my life (34F) would be easier without him following a disagreement about household chores.

LEAVE HIM. My BIL is like this, and it's damaging my niece and nephew so much. I'm pretty sure my niece at least has an anxiety disorder. SHE'S EIGHT. Your life WOULD be easier without this miserable…

r/relationship_advicecomment4/3/2026