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I'm in a relationship with a 9 year age gap -- I actually started out working for him. So believe me when i say: 4 years at 25 and 21 is genuinely not inherently a problem. But, honestly I dont think…

Alternate for 'Please share bank details' to transfer money — Hey folks, I’m working on a simple tool aimed at helping small service businesses — like tradies, pet groomers, caterers, mobile cleaners, etc. — get paid faster. Instead of sending invoices or shari…

Anyone know of an alternate for 'please share your bank details' (I will not promote) — Hey folks, I’m working on a simple tool aimed at helping small service businesses — like tradies, pet groomers, caterers, mobile cleaners, etc. — get paid faster. Instead of sending invoices or shari…

Awkward feelings from blocked out past — Hello, I need your help, you ever just get the feeling that there is some form of inappropriate sexual contact during childhood with a parent? Likely between ages 2-4, and severe beltings and spankin…

Should i end things with my bf because of my age? — ​ Me(25F) and my bf(21M) have been together for 2 years now. We actually have 3 years of gap but it is 4 age wise. We don't have any big problems and he even told his family about me but the…

cptsd effects on marriage? — does anyone else have experiences with the effects of their CPTSD on themselves and their marriage? We got together young (I was 20, 24 when we got married). There’s some stuff that has happened in …

Phrases and words to help reframe my mind for forever tasks — Just as the title says! What are your key words and or phrases for changing the way you think about tasks that are "forever" tasks such as laundry or going to work? Im trying to change the dread I f…

Controlling parents — TW maybe abuse warning, SA mention, Self harm, what i consider as animal abuse, more of a vent.. Unfortunately, I'm a 24yr old stuck at her family's home because I can't afford to move out. I've be…

Spouse 25/NB got a new job, now we are at odds 25M — my spouse 25NB and I 25M have recently gotten ourselves into a now huge issue and I am at odds with what to do. For starters, my partner and I have been together for 6 1/2 years. We started dating dur…

you were led on by a groomer and you’re just NOW figuring out hes married. And dont git me up about 18 being legal. A lot of yall say that bc yall dont mind dating kids. ANYWAY You knew he didnt mea…

These influencers are, effectively, groomers. They know that many young men spent their lives being treated as inherently problematic, and position themselves as "the only one who gets it" While I kn…

Depending on where OP is, irl queer spaces can be even more overtly kinky than online. That’s the case where I’m from at least and there’s no way of escaping it. Want to go out? Cool, choose from eith…

100% Manipulators, abusers, groomers, ect. They all try to make you think YOU are at fault so they can weasel out of guilt. They gaslight their victims into believing they're the ones who made the f…

Highly unethical and will result in the governing body to annihilate his license. This is not your fault. This is his fault. Do not contact him any longer. File a complaint with your states bbs. Goo…

He went way over the line. Report him to the licensing board. I doubt this is his first time or the last. You did not cause him to do anything, he of his own free will choose to do what he did. Part…

This is SA we are talking about. OP shouldn’t even be expected to have to learn about BDSM and the like. You all sound like groomers.

My question for this type of logic is kinda the same but instead of where does it end, where does it begin? If it stops mattering once they're 18, what age is too young? Is it okay to groom a 14 year …

Do you mind people calling you a groomer and a creep whenever you share the story of how you met? Because if you told me that story randomly outside of posting here then that's what I'd be thinking.

That's the irony isn't it. Suddenly YOU are too old for HIM. I had the same experience with my pos groomer

Oh man, I’m so sorry for what you went through :( I hope you are doing better now, esp with having such evil shithead parents. Your mom deserves to burn, truly. I think we have both been through some…

I’m sorry but you aged out. Your spouse is a groomer and predator.

Ok so first you seem to be confusing low libido, which is not feeling horny, with asexuality, which is not feeling sexual attraction. Libido and sexual attraction are not correlated. Just a note so yo…

Start cleaning out the house under the guise, you are spring cleaning and donating. Put it in a storage locker. All your important documents, move them to one place in a folder, so you can easily gr…

I recently posted abt bad experiences i have had but I relate to this. Its the hardest thing to talk about because its 'easy' to frame violent stuff as bad and you know there's no way anyone would inv…

This is highly disturbing. It's almost on groomer levels, but your parents seem to have no goddamn boundaries

Goddamn what a fucking groomer ass pedophile.