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it's all my fault,

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situationship that lasted almost two years chose someone else over me, yet i still decided to date him

Can I push back on something...? you're framing this entirely as YOUR attachment problem. "How stupid of me," "it's all my fault," "I should've let go sooner." And yeah, understanding your attachment …

r/relationshipscomment4/8/2026

I feel like I'll never be able to live normally after being cheated on.

I feel like I'll never be able to live normally after being cheated on. — I need some support. I(21F)'ve been with my boyfriend(26M)for a year and a half and we planned future together. More than two months ago I had the opportunity to go through his phone after big fight.…

r/survivinginfidelitypost4/5/2026

A little look into how fearful avoidants operate (aka, how one of my relationships ended - twice - because I was unaware of my patterns)

Hey, I'm in a similar situation, do you have some suggestion on what to do when those shut downs happen? We end up arguing on super stupid stuff, because of her, she doesn't want to recognize it and…

r/attachment_theorycomment9/24/2025