here we go again

For those hurting, advice for your 2026 and my story — Hello everyone, **Preface** I am an anxious attacher, so my experience by-and-large is with dismissive avoidants and fearful avoidants. It is not my intent to villainize these attachment styles; thi…

How to permanently stop feeling romantic love for anyone? — wasn’t sure I needed a TL;DR here, but I’ll put it anyway: how do I turn off my ability to feel love for anyone, ever? hi all, I (M,33) have not had a whole lot of luck with dating. I try to stay s…

‘22M’ and me ‘21F’ I would say dated for 7 months and it was amazing, what changed? — I’m starting to think I’ll never find love. Here we go again with another confusing story on a confusing man. This one hurt a little bit deeper than the others, I was talking to this Egyptian Coptic, …

So my two year relationship ended last month. It sucks. I didn't want it to end, but I can see now that it was ultimately for the best. We both tried our best. I'm trying to be kind to myself and not …

For me it's when I stop being excited about them or it begins to feel like a chore. I dated this guy a while ago where I noticed when I got texts from him (he was kind of an over-texter) I was not exc…

Here we go again! Leave him. If he’s not listening now, he trying to wear/wait you out.

Here we go again with the “you’re not ready to date until you do x, y, and x”. My advice would be to disregard. You don’t need x amount of interesting hobbies or y amount of friends to be a good part…

I don't know how similar my experience has been to yours and OP's but this would be my attempt at advice: You can try to be able to feel angry about it. Start small and that's a clear place to start,…

Ah shit, here we go again..leave leave.. Stay stay instand and talk to him about it. I'll put down boundaries. You truly care about each other. You both should want what's best for one another and mak…

End of story lmao. I internally went “here we go again” when I saw this post.

Interesting. Maybe you know what does it mean if I went kind of out of body after realizing the dream wasn't real? The dream disappeared and I woke up in bed, but it wasn't exactly my room, it was dif…

This ^^^ why does it take losing me to care about the way he’s been hurting me? Any time I mentioned, “we have issues” I got “oh no here we go again”. I’m like you don’t talk to me. You don’t tell me …

I agree with all of this and it has been almost my exact experience so far though I’m a few years behind you still in life :) I’m still exhausted and overwhelmed every time I start to experience the n…

Yes! Sorry the following is a bit long. I don’t have a lot of experience with mind altering substances, so while the following may look otherwise, the point is that my limited experiences have a very …

Ah shiet here we go again

This is a common dynamic for couples to find themselves in. In my own experience, the worst thing you can do is continue to build resentment by not having real, compassionate conversations about the i…

Which is exactly why I deleted the apps for six months and refused to go on there then I decided to give him a go again and then now here we go again with another tragic story which I know that I do h…