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I (28f) found out my bf (41m) has been requesting cash back on my debit card?

Your boyfriend steals from you, lies to you, and you’re afraid to bring it up because of his temper?!??? You need to end this relationship. Since you’re afraid of his reaction, have someone with y…

r/relationship_advicecomment4/6/2026
I (19F) told my boyfriend (19M) it’s not my job to prove I won’t cheat.

Red flags are showing. He’s trying to manipulate you into doing what he wants. Please read “Why Does He Do That” by Lundy Bancroft. https://ia601407.us.archive.org/6/items/LundyWhyDoesHeDoThat/…

r/relationship_advicecomment3/18/2026
My (23F) husband (26M) gets offended over EVERYTHING and I don't know how to handle it anymore?

The silent treatment is abusive and manipulative. Please read “Why Does He Do That” by Lundy Bancroft. https://ia601407.us.archive.org/6/items/LundyWhyDoesHeDoThat/Lundy_Why-does-he-do-that.pdf

r/relationship_advicecomment4/1/2026
My Boyfriend 18M won't stop calling Me 18F a foid, how do I stop this?

You’re 18. As you get older, you realize you don’t need to stay with people just because you’re dating. You break up with people who don’t respect you or your boundaries. I recommend reading the f…

r/relationship_advicecomment4/1/2026
Boyfriend wants to break up with me over codependency book (f23/m24)

Your boyfriend giving an ultimatum for you not to read the book that shows codependent behaviors is like having an abusive partner giving an ultimatum that you can’t read “Why Does He Do That” by Lund…

r/relationship_advicecomment4/2/2026
My (28F) boyfriend (28M) told me I was "too emotional" for two years and I genuinely believed him

You might want to read “Why Does He Do That” by Lundy Bancroft. It will help you recognize other forms of manipulation and abuse in case it occurs in a future relationship. https://ia601407.us.arch…

r/relationship_advicecomment4/4/2026
My (42F) husband (41M) grew a mustache that triggers my childhood trauma. He says I should get over it so he can do what he wants with his face. Am I being unfair in asking him to remove it?

Your husband is controlling and manipulative. Please read “Why Does He Do That” by Lundy Bancroft. https://ia601407.us.archive.org/6/items/LundyWhyDoesHeDoThat/Lundy_Why-does-he-do-that.pdf

r/relationship_advicecomment4/5/2026