vibes

I mean, as someone else noted, is it actually him "giving off this angry energy" or is he just NOT giving off warm, welcoming energy? I don't think you need to change your morning, but I'm also not s…

A Modest Proposal — A Manifesto for Metrics-First Everything — Picture it: Q1 FY 2025. A Medicaid patient opens an app to request mental health services. The screen is sleek—gradient buttons, playful microinteractions, and conversion-optimized flows. A calm anima…

Small Business Case Study: How We Grew Our Instagram & TikTok with an AI Social Media Assistant (No Ad Spend!) — **Post Body:** Hi everyone! I co-own a small business (a boutique cafe + online store) and wanted to share our experience using an **AI “social media assistant”** to grow our Instagram and TikTok. W…

I found a digital marketing course that teaches 10+ income streams—even if you’re starting from ZERO. — Hey y’all, I just wanted to drop this here in case anyone’s been looking for a way out of the 9–5 grind (or just wants to make real money online without all the sketchy stuff). A few weeks ago, I sta…

Cooling off or anxious attachment? — Dating a guy for a year now. I’m still struggling with managing the scars from my marriage/brutal divorce in what feels like a good, healthy relationship. I’m learning I probably have an anxious attac…

Has anyone noticed becoming extremely aware of people’s energy or reactions over time? — I’ve been smoking occasionally for about 4 years now, but around 3–4 months ago I started noticing something strange. I began feeling much more aware of people’s vibes, expressions, and body language.…

My (F28) partner (M28) gave me an ultimatum: him or my birds. Idk what to do — Hi everyone, I could really use some outside perspective. I (F28) have been in a relationship with my partner (M28) for about 3 years. I love him a lot and I genuinely imagined a future with him. We …

How to bring up SI to my therapist? — (Prefacing: I am currently safe! This post just sucks to make.) I'm relatively new to having a therapist, I started last year in November. I feel like I hit the jackpot with my therapist, I think we …

I don't know the difference between what's real or not anymore — I don't really know where to start other than this experience was over the weekend, and it made me see things in a different way. On Saturday night, I took a gummy, I dabble in it to help with my anxi…

Need some hinge/dating app advice — 23M, Moved to a bigger city in the last year and a half, and my experience has been significantly worse here, maybe 5-15 if even, total matches, no dates, here including this current second run after …

if you're in this vibe, you're not alone — some of the vibes I've observed on a personal level now, has a lot to do with past pain resurfacing around "muggles," and the "muggle world." specifically the antagonistic energies we experience as in…

What does heavy/pulling “black hole” feeling energy mean? It felt neutral not good or bad — What does heavy/pulling “black hole” feeling energy mean? It felt neutral not good or bad and I did not feel compelled to engage with these people, nor did they try to engage with me. They didn’t come…

Did you feel something was off when you first met the narc? — I've realized recently that most guys I met who treat women poorly give off weird vibes right in the first interaction. But my nex was really something else. I clearly remember looking at him the fi…

April 2026 Astrology: Key Dates, Weekly Forecast and Mundane Astrology World Events — April is one of the most active months we’ve seen. Not one planet is in retrograde. Aries fire and cardinal energy sets the stage for initiation, assertion and spontaneous energy. There is a bit of na…

Questioning ending a long term relationship — I (25F) am starting to question ending a long term relationship with my boyfriend (26M). We have been together since December of 2019, so about 6.5 years.  To give some background, I moved across the…

I have to tell my babies that Mommas gotta leave for four months. — My kids father (28m) and I (27f) have finally broken up for good. I have finally come clean and told him I am not in love with him anymore. This has been after years of ar guing, breaking up and getti…

Just three months of dating and I'm having a tough time getting over it. — Hey everyone. So, I (28/M) met my ex (43/F) about three months ago. I was a bit fresh out of my previous relationship, which I ended after almost two years because of sexual incompatibility. I was j…

ex and I hung out…not sure how it went — Ok, I reached out to my ex about a week ago after 3 months of no contact. We started catching up a little over text and I asked if they wanted to be friends in which they told me they were dating some…

Does your nparent give off weird "ick" vibes? — I wasn't sure how else to phrase this. My mom was gross to be around. As a kid, I thought it was normal, but as an adult, I slowly understood and shiver about how I grew up and became a person with he…

I(19M) feel like I’ve lost my girlfriend(19F) even though we’re still together — TL;DR: I made mistakes early in the relationship (past flirting, not being fully transparent), which broke my girlfriend’s trust. Since then she’s become distant, says she lost feelings, and gives unc…

I Designed My Own Ultimate Theme Park for My DR — When I get frustrated with my current life, I like to imagine what things could be like in my desired reality. It helps me stay motivated and gives me something positive to look forward to. My desire…

Do you end or cancel dates early? — 42F here. I was married at 20, divorced at 37, so I never did the dating scene when I was younger, much less OLD. I started OLD after the divorce, had a couple bf's, taken breaks, re-learning what I w…

A mood board for my DR, just wanted to share it — do you feel the vibes?

Dream of ceramic/clay worm/tentacle. Please help, thank you. — Hi, I have lately been involved in reading a lot about out of body experiences, monroe institute, gateway tapes, astral realms, occultism, alien abductions, etc. I have never previously in my life tr…

Please help me understand if that was a dream, and who/what did I meet? Was it malevolent? — Hi, I have been rational, sceptical person most of my life. After trump's remarks about UFO, I fell into and extreme rabbit hole. I am a psychologist by degree. For the last month I have lately been …

Potential New relationship (25F/27M) but minimal engagement outside of meeting up. Help? — So to set the scene. I (25/F) met this guy (27/M) a little over a year ago at a music event (bear with me for one second. I do have a point and this is relevant). We really got to talking when the ev…

I (F30) am confused on mixed signals. Does he (M32) like me or not? — I am “talking” to this guy that I’ve known since last summer. But there’s some complexities that are making me overthinking our texting vs in person interactions. We started talking in November as I…

23M 21F does he like me or is he just using me for attention? — I have always had a crush on this guy I know, I’ve met basically all his family and am a close family friend. I’ve known him for just under 2 years and we would occasionally flirt on and off and I wou…

He came back and then hurt me again in 2 weeks — I broke up with my bf after half year of struggling. I already broke up with him twice, so three times during the whole relationship. The first one was because I wanted it to be a real relationship no…

Please help me choose where to shift- — Chat help me choose a reality to shift to tonight- I have reasons for both of them but can’t decide. Should l shift to The Waltons(show based on the Great Depression and close knit family vibes whic…

Strange Vibes on My Evening Walk — I went for a walk this evening and passed by a house that felt really strange. Something about it didn’t feel right. While I was walking past, I felt like I saw something twice, which scared me a bit.…

Do men still believe in love at first sight these days? — I \[27F\]met my man \[34M\] at a coffee shop downtown just a few days ago and now we’re dating. I think some part of me just knew he was the one. I think he also felt that way. Thing is, I’ve had almo…

My (30F) husbands (30M) friend (28F) confessed she has a crush on him and wants to sleep with him. What is the best way to handle this? — This is super complicated and ridiculous in a lot of ways. My (30M) husband and I (30F) are content and have no intentions of divorcing. However, my husband does have a free pass. He can sleep with w…

a follow up to a letter to my ex (aka, it gets better) — literally a month ago i wrote out all my feelings for my ex on this sub. i just needed to write it out and vent. the point of it was that i still loved him, and i missed him terribly. it's really cra…

23F &23M dont know how to naturally have a formal and healthy relationship? — **Clarification:** Just for obeying the rules, I added 23M. I’m actually 23F and not in any relationship. I’m a postgraduate student, and I have never had a formal relationship. I’ve only experienc…

Did I do the right thing by choosing me after she beat cancer? — Context : I met this girl in high school and we have been best friends since then. (Both currently 28) We have had a long history of going back and forth unofficially mostly due to her being indecisi…

How do I break up with my “clingy” therapist? — I’m really struggling. I’ve been seeing this therapist for over a year now and suddenly the vibes shifted and I just can’t envision myself making progress with them anymore, and I want to find a new t…

I can’t stop smiling when talking about my cptsd — Whenever I bring up snippets of life and abuse when talking to a therapist, psychiatrist, partner, etc. I can’t help to add a lol at the end of it like “my dad threw me across the room haha isn’t that…

Gonna pass on socialization until I’m able to perceive myself properly — But then I’d grow even more asocial from this. Can't win But seriously, by isolating and thus experiencing a trigger-safe environment, I feel like I aged 5 years in one, in a good way Mirroring myse…

disrespectful breakup? — My bf who I was living with for 2 years just broke up with me, and I find myself not minding the breakup so much but how it was done. It was a complete blindside. I go out with friends (first time in …

Should I throw these away? — These crystals were given to me by a friend years ago who knew I was big into manifestation and spirituality but I recently I have been feeling weird vibes from this person lately. I have been noticin…

Do you give them a reason? — I (52F) have been seeing someone (44M) for a couple of months now. We've been out 5-6x. I'm finding that our communication styles just aren’t meshing. When we’re together, things are great. I enjoy sp…

She’s seeing another guy and I don’t know how I feel — Some backstory. We started speaking in August last year and stopped 3 weeks ago. Things were intense and great, sex was amazing and all. She introduced me to her family, her cousins and everything, he…

For anyone who moved away, did your parent suddenly become weirdly nationalist? — Literally just rolling my eyes right now and wondering if anyone else’s parents do this. I moved out of my home city at 18 for university and never looked back. Later I moved out of the country (…

1985 Alice in Wonderland Shifting Guided Meditation + Reality Shifting Roleplay? ᯓ★ — Hi beautiful souls! I’m trying to get as much content out as possible on my YouTube channel since I have so many ideas, but I’ve been seeing a lot of comments recently talking about me releasing a g…

How did you confront without evidence? — Long story short, as much as one can be brief during a 16+ year history. WWS and I go back forever. High School lovers, broke up in College, back together again. We moved to her grad school, then went…

Was I ever in Love? Me (28) & He (27) — OK, this is my first Reddit post, so cut me some slack - I'm gonna talk to y'all how I talk to my bestie. And I'm kind of beating a dead horse here, so I'd rather not bother my bestie with this AGAIN.…

Ghosted after 5 months — I was talking to a guy for 5 months. he told me he liked me. we started meeting in Feb, made out a couple of times. he was very nice, took care of me, was communicative, emotionally mature. I thought …

Ghosted after 5 months — I was talking to a guy for 5 months. he told me he liked me. we started meeting in Feb, made out a couple of times. he was very nice, took care of me, was communicative, emotionally mature. I thought …

Does anyone else feel like the investment isn't worth the potential reward anymore? — Because I'm really starting to. I know dating at ANY age is a weed out process. You're going to be into some people that aren't into you. Some people are going to be into you that YOU'RE not into. Yo…

Serious discussion — guys I would love to ask for your help abt something...so I was using a dating app about 2 months ago and I matched with a cute girl there, our vibes matched, we exchanged socials and then after a day…

One thing I'll say is that in the early stages of dating you aren't actually seeing a person's natural "energy"; you're seeing their energy when they're flying blind under the pressure of courtship an…

Bester Username 😂🤍 your reply filled me with so much pride and joy 🥺😩❣️🫂 you are doing the work. I am soo happy and glad to hear that 🤍🤍🤍 And YES! Thank you, very well worded. Your ex's *acti…

I can't ever develop anything for people I meet online because my attraction doesn't grow that way. If I meet someone, like their vibes, and there's chemistry, I'll like them. On an app? It's appearan…

Giving the Lost vibes.

Thank you I just love everything you wrote. I felt like despite liking me a lot, my ex DA would sometimes talk as if he had contempt towards me. As for one friend she definitely had some kind of "Im b…

I am a FA learnt secure, and I'll say almost half of the women I have dated are avoidants. Ken Reids and Dr Sarah Hensley have given lots of advice on this. I'll paraphrase them: 1) Ask them early,…

what about her was avoidant exactly ? because i'm not really getting avoidant vibes from her. a first casual date is not usually where avoidants shine. they usually show their true colors after three …

Yeah, I get avoidant vibes from her as well. That's deadly for an FA

That's a really difficult load to bear, I'm sorry that you went through that. I don't think it's because you meant nothing, that's exactly how dismissive avoidants work, they only process the loss muc…

The second to last paragraph here is so important. I didn't truly start healing until I realized that I was treating relationships like they were something I could react correctly to rather than corre…

Your ex is 30 yrs older than you?! And you got together when you were a little older than the new guy he brought in….and then he brings in someone 40yrs younger than him???? Sorry your ex sounds creep…

If you only just met the person and the vibes are off, it might be sixth sense. If this mans already fooled you twice, baby that's just common sense 😭

What I've done after being discarded by an avoidant was literally change up my requirements for the sort of man I'm looking for. My ex had a brilliant mind, but also deep insecurities, anxiety, childh…

Nailed it. Avoidant vibes

I honestly don’t know why everyone here is automatically assuming he’s not avoidant because his ways don’t fit the cookie cutter presentation of an avoidant. Everyone is different and no one here know…

No it's not a boundary at all for me and same for most avoidants I've known. It's only annoying if it's so much when I'm not answering that it's an overwhelming pile up. Or if it's a lot of "are you o…

okay so I actually think I lean more towards anxious preoccupied attachment now… not that ChatGPT is always right but I used it not too long ago when I questioned my attachment style tbh and it made s…

Sending good vibes!!! 😎

I'm sorry that happened to you. It must take a lot of strength to try again, I wish you the best. Where I am hinge has the nicest vibes, definitely. People treat you a bit more like a human when comp…

I wasted 4 years of my life on a connection similar to this. Sex fades and resentment builds. I'd absolutely bail asap, and meet someone that vibes with your values more.

I thibk thats gonna change depending on the person and isnt really quantifiable. Its gonna be super vibes based rather than 3 dates / 6 weeks ect.

No I'm picking up on some bitter vibes tbh. On the other hand he pursues me pretty heavily. He even crafted me a gift. I'll see it through and keep talking to others. I feel bad taking to others but I…

I think if the way you talk about your partner online would offend your partner, you probably shouldn’t be with them. Edit: also it just sounds like bad vibes id cut it, and I think therapy maybe hel…

I’m on a few apps casually but I don’t rely on them. They’re moreso for just killing time when I’m bored and when I do get matches they’re usually duds that don’t actually message back or we chat for …

So I had a great two hour first date over brunch last weekend, after being introduced by a mutual friend. He messaged that evening to say he had a wonderful time. A bit of back and forth, then he stop…

You probably didn't read the vibes wrong. He changed his mind for whatever reason later on. Super lame he stopped responding to you when you have mutual friends.

I went on a second date last night. Our first date was fine, but the second date was just horrible. Vibes were off, for the both of us, and it was just not a good time. He asked if he could kiss me af…

Had two great dates with a new guy last week, was very excited. Checked all the boxes, good chemistry, good vibes. This week was a bit unimpressed by lack of intentional communication, met up again y…

I'm pretty sure you're misunderstanding the word "connection". A lot of the time, it's simply shorthand for attraction or lack of attraction. Unrealistic expectations play a role in the challenges of …

Are you on the apps? Or in any hobby groups? Or go out socialising? I’m not saying it’s easy even if you do all those, but I guess the more you do those the better the chances. I do understand how y…

Not me. Some personality coming across as matching my vibes is equally as important as looks for me. I'm sure there's loads of introverted men out there who'd swipe right on you. Are you looking for …

Sometimes when I’m getting to know a guy I will feel the spark pretty immediately…and then ONE thing will immediately wipe it out. For example, I was chatting with a match yesterday and I was feeling …

8 dates without any physical advances at all? Is there any flirtatious tension or it's 100% pure platonic vibes?

Every time I've given someone a chance because I couldn't put my finger on a solid reason not to go on the date (beyond "vibes"), I've very very quickly found the solid reason and wished I had just st…

Thank you! Sending good vibes to you! ❤️

I have my date coming for Saturday. The vibes could vary but we’ll see. I started talking to this other woman[36F] from Facebook dating and we’ve been hitting it off well by texting. I’m curious to…

My ex unintentionally gave Kirishima vibes from Yakuza Fiancé sometimes. Their gap was sooooo cute. I was obsessed. We were obsessed with each other. Ugh I miss them so much

I might be single but I can't wait for Valentines Day. One of my friends is hosting an emo anti Vday party and most of us in our friend group are single so we're gonna have a party together. I plan …

Hell yeah!! Bring. Those. Vibes. Sounds like a great night, not gonna lie. Music AND baked goods?? Sign me up!

Not dating related, but absolutely mood and vibes related. We’ve had rain every single day this year in the UK, and my god is it depressing! I need some vitamin D. I need to go somewhere to see with m…

Is he a bad texter or just not interested? He has been consistently planning dates but on week 4, I started noticing his lack of interest on text; slow and dry replies. The vibes are kinda off. What…

It may feel easier now to wait and see if it continues. I know I used to do that and I get it. However, when I did that I was participating and fostering a dynamic that had bad communication. One thi…

I’m sending good vibes and good weather your way!

I will try to do this, I just don't know how to change the vibes up haha

What is it he's doing that is like someone who is romantically interested? Can you ask him to refrain from that kind of stuff if he's not romantically interested? It's up to you to communicate where …

I would expect you’re not as done processing the breakup as you think you are. you got out of a 10 year relationship, that’s gonna take some time to heal from. i’m sure your friend had good intentio…

My last ex was like this and it made me feel really weird after a while. Tbh he was bi but I got the vibes he might be gay. Either that or probably a porn problem. I couldn’t really bring it up either…

>Tbh he was bi but I got the vibes he might be gay. Reapectfully, Thats such a cliched thought stemming from insecurity that I sigh while laughing. Its such a common fear and never actually the case…

SO cute, love it when the conversation/vibes feel comfy and cozy. I love that for you. How'd you meet?

This might be another way of him saying that he tries to screen people effectively pre-date and then doesn't overrely on first date sparkles/vibes as a way of assessing compatibility, he wants at leas…