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please don't immediately tell me to leave him

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My (F34) husband (M35) hasn't tried to learn what makes me orgasm in our seven years together. I don't want to leave the relationship but am beginning to feel like a predator. Any advice?

Don't say "please don't immediately tell me to leave him". If you ask for advice you have to be open to hearing it. I think you know how this situation sounds and feel embarrassed by it. Well, here's …

r/relationship_advicecomment4/4/2026
My (F34) husband (M35) hasn't tried to learn what makes me orgasm in our seven years together. I don't want to leave the relationship but am beginning to feel like a predator. Any advice?

My (F34) husband (M35) hasn't tried to learn what makes me orgasm in our seven years together. I don't want to leave the relationship but am beginning to feel like a predator. Any advice? — I've been with my husband for almost 7 years, married for 2. He is legitimately my best friend, and I am very much still in love with him, so please don't immediately tell me to leave him. Throughou…

r/relationship_advicepost4/4/2026
My (F34) husband (M35) hasn't tried to learn what makes me orgasm in our seven years together. I don't want to leave the relationship but am beginning to feel like a predator. Any advice?

"I just don't know what to do and need to hear that this issue isn't normal but has been conquered and overcome by other couples." I mean, it is possible to teach a guy how to make you cum, but he has…

r/relationship_advicecomment4/4/2026
My (F34) husband (M35) hasn't tried to learn what makes me orgasm in our seven years together. I don't want to leave the relationship but am beginning to feel like a predator. Any advice?

“He is legitimately my best friend, and I am very much still in love with him, so please don't immediately tell me to leave him.” If this is the second sentence in your post then the voice in your he…

r/relationship_advicecomment4/4/2026