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Reads thread title. "Well, this seems to be an age problem. Good sex needs open communication. Surely, the two of them just need to have an open discu..." Reads "my pussy is trash." "Fuck that guy…
Start Here: Essential Resources & FAQs — The idea for this post came up in [this thread](https://www.reddit.com/r/Wordpress/comments/1cpme25/mods_can_this_subreddit_implement_a_minimum_karma/) by wiz to avoid the number of similar questions …
Welcome to r/ecommerce! Please Read Before Posting — **Table of Contents:** I. Account Requirements II. Content Rules III. Linking Policies IV. Dropshipping Guidelines V. Reporting Violations VI. Frequently Asked Questions (FAQ) VII. Encouraged C…
5 Best SQL Books for Web Development - JV Codes 2025 — Welcome to the [SQL Books](https://jvcodes.com/category/free-books/sql-books/) section on [JV Codes](https://jvcodes.com/)! If you’re starting with SQL or want to strengthen your skills, you’re in the…
My Keyword Research Workflow — Hi guys, I wanted to check with you if my keyword research workflow canbe improved. Here's how I've been doing: Finding general keywords: Google Trend: Look the best variation of a generic keyword…
Monthly Getting Started / Web Dev Career Thread — Due to a growing influx of questions on this topic, it has been decided to commit a monthly thread dedicated to this topic to reduce the number of repeat posts on this topic. These types of posts will…
Can you successfully use AI humanizers to improve SEO — When working with AI-generated content for SEO, it’s always a balancing act. On one hand, I want the content to be optimized with keywords and structure, but on the other, I don’t want it to come over…
Started a Pistachio Spread Brand in Turkey — Now Trying to Go Global (Advice Appreciated!) — Hey everyone, I’m based in Turkey and help run a family business that produces natural pistachio butter — no additives, no sugar, just roasted pistachios. It’s something we’ve been doing for over 15 …
Marketer Here! Looking for E-Commerce Store Owner to Partner Up With — Hey, as the title reads, I'm a digital marketer, with experience in Meta Ads, TikTok Ads & Google Ads in lead gen + sales, over the last 5 years. I've recently left my job, and am looking for one E-C…
Thoughts on an image sharing tool with link permissions? (i will not promote) — **Looking for feedback: Tool for sharing images securely with permissioned domains (like DocSend, but mainly for images)** Hey r/startups, I’m working on validating an idea and would love your thoug…
You get a $0 budget, but full internet access. How would you get your first 500 real users? — Let’s say you’re launching a niche app or tool — no ads, no team, no paid tools. Just your brain, Wi-Fi, and hustle. What’s your plan? Reddit threads? Cold outreach? Niche communities? Viral cont…
How do you estimate full Shopify projects for clients? — For those who offer full Shopify site builds (themes, apps, checkout customizations…): What’s your typical process to estimate time and price? Do you follow a checklist, use a spreadsheet, or someth…
Low-risk, High-reward, and Easy-to-start Business... an A-Z overview of the Rental Management business I run (I will not promote) — Hey everyone, I'm a real estate & software developer, AirBnB Host of \~20 units personally, and I help run a management company with \~200 client homes. So I've been through the ringer in every which …
Failing to Find Google Maps Scraper (that does everything) — I've built a directory listing website and I'm using WP All Import plugin to pull in data from a spreadsheet (which consists of scraped business info from their Google Maps / GBP listings). Being tha…
How to find most popular twitter threads on any given topic? — I'm looking for ways to find most popular twitter threads on any given topic. Is there any specific search feature or a search engine for that purpose?
✨ Marketing Consultants – What tools do you actually use to manage clients, leads, and projects? — Hey everyone – I’m doing some deep research into how independent marketing consultants (freelancers, solopreneurs, boutique agency owners) manage their day-to-day operations. I’d love to hear from yo…
Organic growth and discovery tools - i will not promote — Hey community, I'm a founder of a few products (not posting links as i will not promote). My time for early traction goes in navigating reddit, twitter, articles, etc trying to get organic traction. …
Fed up with scattered UK property data, I built an AI tool that combines everything into one smart search — **What It Does** This is an internal tool I’ve been building to help with UK property prospecting, market research, and deal due diligence. If you've ever tried to buy or invest in property in the U…
The successful are not here — After years of watching YouTube videos about startup / founder stuff and reading blogs, Reddit, and the horrible place that is LinkedIn, I came to realize that 99.9% of advice (especially in the SaaS …
How do I bulk edit post titles and permalinks? — I want to append a string to each post title and permalink. Is there a free plugin for this? Can this be done easily in the backend database? Edit: I made a backup of the DB then used [Bulk Edit Post…
2025 Tariffs — Does anyone have a source for a US import fee spreadsheet they have purchased to help pricing? One that maybe will get updates during this time period that things change quickly?. I want to add it to …
Offering FREE Virtual Admin Help to Small Business Owners (Inbox, Research, Socials & More!) — Hey amazing business owners! I’m Bella — a dedicated and detail-obsessed Virtual Assistant with a heart for helping small businesses stay organized and thrive. 💕 Right now, I’m offering FREE servic…
What I learned building a quoting system for a construction company doing $10M+ a year — I recently finished a project for a construction company doing roughly $10M per year. They were quoting jobs using Excel and email threads, and while it technically worked, it was slow, error-prone, a…
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🛑STOP HIJACKING POSTS🛑 — 📣Saying it loudly for the people in the back. I know this post is going to have a “vibe” but being warm and fuzzy has never worked so I’m trying to be crystal clear and firm here: Recently there h…
Starting over — Heya, I don’t want this to be a negative thread— looking for some positivity and hope maybe? I (34F) am recently out of a one year relationship. It was my first secure relationship in my entire adult…
Struggling with losing my best friend/coworker, anxious attachment + limerence making it unbearable — Hi everyone, I apologize in advance for this long post. I’ll just post the TL;DR at the start. TL;DR: Lost my best friend/coworker of 7 years after a conflict. He’s now cold/avoiding me but friendl…
A message to earnestly curious skeptics and non-experiencers: How to engage experiencers within this community and learn about the topic. — We are seeing an increase of activity from people outside of experiencer circles in threads as time has moved on and more and more people are starting to understand there really is a "there there" and…
I had a breakthrough tonight! — Hello! Brief backstory here. I recently got divorced, and dating has been an interesting experience since. I went into one relationship very quickly with another anxiously attached person. It didn't w…
thoughts on the more "woo-woo"-ish and paranormal aspects of Murphy's work? — I am precisely talking about those: [https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/1676311.Telepsychics](https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/1676311.Telepsychics) [https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/4108560-…
The New Agora: Daily WWYD and light discussion thread — Welcome to the New Agora, a place for you and others to have casual conversations, seek advice and [first aid](https://modernstoicism.com/two-types-of-stoic-therapy-by-john-sellars/), and hang out tog…
Global Policy Journal: “Don’t look up?“ – Why it is past time for serious holistic research into Unidentified Anomalous Phenomena — Karin Austin, Michael Bohlander and Kimberly S. Engels have contributed an excellent article to the Global Policy Journal. Two of these people I've met personally and they are experiencers who are doi…
Another real life example of how clear communication can be distorted into a victim narrative. Emotions can rewrite history, too. There are two sides to every story. — Receipts! Slides 1-2: Their version of events Slide 3: only a snippet of all their comments on vent/rant threads and others. Removed by automod for not having a user flair (a clear rule and automod …
Six Months of Dating in Europe as an East Asian Guy — Honestly Better Than I Expected — Today marks my sixth month living in Europe. Looking back at the past half year and all the European girls I’ve interacted with, I thought it would be fun to do a little reflection—what I did well, wh…
Keeping the conversation afloat — The most difficult part I've found in OLD as a recently divorced, early 40s male is that many of the women I meet are terrible conversationalists. The most engaging and exciting exchanges have a rhyth…
You've Tried Manifesting Them Back Multiple Times - Here's Why It's Not Working — **"I've manifested my SP back multiple times but it never works. Now it just feels draining."** **You're not failing at manifestation.** **You're failing at creating coherent field states.** And th…
Has anyone here read Michael Pollen's new book yet? — [https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/241471051-a-world-appears](https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/241471051-a-world-appears) A World Appears: A Journey into Consciousness It has raving reviews on …
I'm a rotten abuser and I can't forgive myself for it and I don't feel that I should. — I 30F am an abuser who has ruined my husband just because I can't accept being loved. yesterday I told him that I hope one day he gets the self esteem to leave me, and he responded that he hopes one d…
Daffodils on a first date? — I'm late 30s M, she's early 30s F, this would be for a *first date* (an early dinner of wine and tapas at a cute wine bar). **Context:** I grow thousands of flowers throughout the season, and have h…
Self improvement ideas that aren't wake up at 5am and take cold showers — If you need someone to tell you to drink water and journal at this point you haven't been on the internet. Here's stuff I never see in those threads that actually moved the needle. Tell someone speci…
Stoic Polytheism — Hello Friends! I have a question regarding the theology of the Classical Stoics. Did they hold a mere pantheism, with 'the Gods' merely being different names of one and the same Logos? Or, are they as…
Midlife dating plot twist I didn’t see coming… (I have breast cancer 🙄) — I was only just musing recently about how sexy midlife dating is.. His suspected sleep apnea, my post-three-big-babies body (haemorrhoids, saggy boobs!)… all the glamorous stuff. And now I’ve just b…
Nobody reads the fine print — Loosh is one of the most misunderstood concepts in this community. Anyway... here's a meme about it.
Important research statistics on contact experiences — Many people aren’t aware of the research that has been done on contact experiences. People often seem at least somewhat familiar with a few of the big names from early on (Budd Hopkins, John E. Mack, …
Why do people on shifting subs avoid sleeping methods? — Most successful shifters I know use some variation of WBTB, lucid dreaming, astral projection, or just shifting when they are already super tired. It is pretty obvious there are common threads between…
Which house do you consider when looking at a natal transit? — I’m trying to better understand how people interpret houses when analyzing transits to a natal chart. Do you primarily consider the natal house, the transiting planet’s house, or a combination of bot…
Found out my wife cheated before, after & during marriage — Hello All, new account here because my wife reads these subs from time to time. I guess I’ll start from the beginning. My wife (28f) and I (28m) started dating in high-school. After high school we wen…
Out of a delusional episode and have quit drugs, but evidence of something "wrong" with saying it was delusional has emerged today... — First off do me a favor plz, google for "what is the electrical phenomenon some stipulate is needed for a timeline shift?" yourself and tell me if it throws in the answers anything about a change in S…
07/2013 — I may have finally found a place to talk about my experience, but if this doesn't belong here, I'm sorry and please point me in the right direction to another thread. First, thank you to anyone who …
I have an Ai addiction and need help — Hey, idk if this is the place to go for it. I don’t need anyone to shout at me or be angry, but I need help or advice or something. I’ve been a major environmentalist for as long as I can remember.…
Frank Kepple Archives - Astral Projection Truth — Many here have probably heard about Frank Kepple who was previously active on the AstralPulse forums. But if you haven't, it's worth taking a look. I have read many books and resources about astral pr…
Please chime in with any feedback about this FAQ! Do you have a question you'd like to see addressed? Is there something you would change about one of the answers here, or a different perspective you'…
I contacted mine with a text and she didn’t respond back, it’s been 21 days. I know she probably saw it and I want anyone who reads this…DON’T! Because it’s been about 3 years about 2 with no contact …
One other pet peeve of mine is people who argue in the comment threads but don't try to give the OP any advice of their own. Like you have told me before you think what I said is stupid.....but you a…
Because they were taking over the sub. If everybody who made a masturbation post had read earlier threads about it and would only post not covered issues we would have only 1% of the posts and nobody …
Yo. It’s a good kill. Congrats. This sub is a pretty straightforward place, so I’d like to politely ask how you feel this is a legit kill when it is just a lucky strike amongst a series of losses. …
>The point I am trying to make is that you cannot do 15 minutes of SATS a day and live in a state of lack for the other 23 hours and 45 minutes. SATS/SH is a technique, but it has no power unless you …
Reading over the threads it’s apparent that lack of communication is a key component in the avoidant flip and leave confusion…If they actually communicated how they felt and what they needed and wante…
I understand. Glad you are working through those feelings. I hope I did not come off judgemental. I definitely don't think that your feelings are irrational (I might agree with the inappropriate part …
The issue is, I hurt him unintentionally by crossing an unspoken boundary..and im left reeling and in pain because he ghosted. I begged for forgiveness..even not fully knowing for what, but he just re…
That take hits harder than most AI doom threads. >“In most non-tech organizations, internal dev and sysadmin is like janitorial services…” And that’s exactly why LLMs don’t have to be perfect, they …
Are writes and reads done in separate hosts? I would start by adding replicas for select operations.
There are good articles out there on scaling mariadb. Most of them start by understanding the mix of writes and reads. They end by softening the ACID constraints. Either by sharding and routing requ…
Senior copywriter here - no one reads the copy. Well, google reads the copy, so you might as well just have AI write it. Devastatingly sad. Switching careers.
Side note: If you have any suggestions of online communities or ideas that could relate, that'd be great too. I do extensive research before I post and only found 2 old threads on here that we're not …
When you say "custom quoting platform" -- is that just a spreadsheet? Sounds like maybe a spreadsheet + CRM? Not trying to shit on it or say "you only did X" -- just trying to understand what exactly …
this reads like chatgpt generated
I think all the comments are hidden first and she approves what she wants to be seen. If you can send her a respectful email I would appreciate it. I can still use all of this as evidence. Every will…
You know you’re limerent and probably codependant. You should probably take advantage of this space between you two to CENTRE yourself! Everything you’ve posted about here is a desperate attempt to …
i actually really like this. i think folks are quick to dismiss the perspective because they haven’t experienced someone genuinely working to understand them and meet them where they’re at. also becau…
Hey, sounds frustrating, but also reads like a rigid checklist that needs to stay constant, like an impossible task because we're human, so we're flawed, ever-changing and emotional creatures. Don't k…
Your description reads like a 26 yo who leans securely attached with the ability to flex to meet their partner where they’re at. The symbiosis part was most ppl I knew at 26 rather than unique. But I …
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Folks are saying you’re FA, but this reads to me as classic AA/AP moving toward secure. You lack the characteristic push-pull dynamic of FA and are having effective deactivation around someone who is …
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It does feel like this subreddit is split into 2 different categories of posts most of the time: experiencer stories & collective discussion threads. As you said, someone talking about their specific …
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Text of original post by u/DaniT0n: Hello! Brief backstory here. I recently got divorced, and dating has been an interesting experience since. I went into one relationship very quickly with another an…
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With more of those specifics I would say that part of what you are suffering from is the fear around how things have changed and will look different naturally. However you are personalizing it, as in…
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Healed secure FA here. This is an awesome list! Appreciate seeing what people say helps them. I’ve been a reader/poster on these threads for a long time, and now letting people know I host a free atta…
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