He's good at reframing things

The "He's good at reframing things" line I wrote kind of casually but reading it back and reading people's responses to it, I think I understated it. He doesn't get angry or accusatory. He just has a …

My [27F] boyfriend [29M] goes through my phone regularly and says he trusts me but not "other people's intentions" -- how do I bring this up without it turning into me defending myself? — Been together two years. He's generally kind and things are mostly good, but there's a pattern that's been sitting wrong with me and I haven't been able to shake it. He regularly picks up my phone an…

“Some of my friends have said I'm lucky to have someone who cares that much.” What in the Handmaid’s Tale is this bullshit? You need better people around you. Raiding through your privacy to satisf…