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I've mentioned on another post that I'm convinced my narcs don't believe I can have problems that are serious enough to take care of (ie they want me to ignore things) but also mild enough that I can …
“You must respect your mom, she’s your mom.” — How many times have I heard this lecture? People who have normal families have absolutely zero clue what they are talking about. When people see a situation or even read a situation they can’t tolera…
Psychiatrist said "We all have some form of trauma" and she also said "blah blah" when I was sharing my trauma — Before anyone jumps in to say "try a different psychiatrist or therapist" you just need to find someone the "one". Well this is my 4th and I have concluded they all suck equally! Each new one was wors…
Nosy aunt help. — (writing for a friend who does not have redit) It has been one year since my mother died. I am still processing, but it is going well enough. my aunt is nozy and thinks herself the family therapist…
Bed bound as a young adult in diff country - mom not connecting at all with me — Hey guys so I learned about emotional intelligence/neglect fairly recently. I'm a young adult and sadly become very sick after moving from my home country to be with my partner. My dad is a covert na…
Yuck... Good for you for taking no shit. The subtle (definitely not subtle) hints to come over to their place is a massive turn off when you've shown zero indication that you want to do that.
I got into a literal screaming match at the Parthenon with a Greek guy who kept asking me my nationality and would not accept "the United States" as an answer. He full on followed me down the hill and…
Here's the REAL DEAL no one will admit to... if feelings of divorce are circling one of the following happened: 1. When you married, you really didn't take it seriously. 2. You're fooling yourself…
“I noticed you had said some things you once said about your ex.” Before getting romantic we were really close friends, and I told her everything. When my previous relationship fell apart I balled m…
after she ended things it took me 4 months to actually get out of bed and start talking to people again. I wasn't afraid of rejection or expectations so I mainly started off just for shits and giggles…
Is this ragebait or what? You can't possibly need the internet to tell you that you need to divorce this asshole before his abuse gets any worse. >I’m at a loss for words and feel like if you truly l…
No shit no one is coming to save me. No one will even visit me.
1). They are the main topic of discussion. 2). Cannot admit fault or mistakes, even the mundane, ridiculous and meaningless (ie replace the toilet paper roll, put gas in car, stupid f’in crap that is…
Mine stayed connected to allllllll the women he cheated with on previous girlfriends via social media. I told him that was gross and he could never explain why he had to maintain links to them. He beg…
Well no shit. Should she list everything he does well for context? You have no clue what you’re commenting on.
I know this dynamic all too well op. Its similar to this.. Say you're the best worker at your job, always on time, always high performing, never an issue...well that becomes the norm and now is alway…
1. A few months in, I'd had a vasectomy, I flew the day after my surgery to go see her, that was a really dumb thing to do. I had a ton of swelling and pain, and 3 days post surgery she started coming…
A friend of mine in college got fired from Buffalo wild wings for going to work tripping balls. He was a waiter and apparently stood at a table making weird faces at a customer for 5 minutes before th…
Agree. I got dumped. He waited, embarrassed on this one, 18 months. I thought I was finally in a good place. New job and everything. And then of course, the ghost arrived. I spent the next year? I thi…
(I just want to apologize to snakes, they can be seen as playful as dogs and they don't deserve a bad wrap. See!?! No negative points of view - that doesn't mean you don't get to have Preferences - it…
God god don't listen to half these comments. These people are feeding into your maladaptive trust issues instead of giving you actual advice. You told her a big thing. Like a major, life changing th…
Interestingly Mirena as opposed to causing cancer can be used as part of cancer treatment for womb cancer. Given that you have heavy bleeding perhaps it’s good to use Mirena to keep womb lining thin a…
I honestly don’t know if my mom cares about me. She cares very deeply what people think of her and as a mother in the US, there are a lot of expectations placed on her to be able to still appear to be…
Be careful you gonna get the “nobody is entitled to help you you’re grown” comments. Just warning you cause those people are insufferable like no shit. But still.
Lol. I'm remembering when a bunch of us went to Fatty Crab, a now-closed Malaysian-style restaurant in NYC, and the white waiter earnestly tried to explain to us how Malaysian food is eaten family-…
I met him at a party in a friend's friend's place, he was the owner's neighbour. He was critizising the wine that was served, laughing with his "makes you want to slap him in the face" smile. I told m…
Are you going to give me travel money? You know how much a plan ticket cost? You know how much cooks make? You sound like the people who say if you dont like America you should leave. No shit i wann…
No shit Sherlock but we are allowed to have opinions just like everyone else.
Awe, i offered to be the Nana-want to team up and be the best of friends? I offered to be the cool weed gummy kind, but I’m all for 2 cool wise women to make sure our young women take no shit.
The whole "reality shifting is coping for having a miserable life" comment is genuinely so funny coming from anyone in any spiritual community because the exact can and does apply to everything spirit…
Ha my mom loves to snap “no one ever tells me anything anyways!” Like no shit. You store it to weaponize it at some random later date, or talk shit behind my back. I figured that out by middle scho…
I have been dating a guy for 2 months, when he asked me out I didn't know what age he was exactly but he looks 6 or 7 years older than me. On date #3 he told me his age and he is 13 years older, usual…
Im doubting it too really. The person that say love you today could give no shit about u the next day. Love comes ( can be hard or easy, for me it was very hard) and be taken away so brutally. Its bet…
No shit??? Wow...I truly stand corrected
My dream npc's dont care anymore about realization at all. I once said to myself inside a dream (i was meditating inside the dream) "Okey, this is a dream" and i heard behind me: "No shit Sherlock, yo…
No shit man. People don’t know how to carry a conversation anymore. It’s back and forth. It’s fucking tennis.
Oh, absolutely, 100%. I don't know how I'm supposed to talk my way out of 30 years of trauma. The last time the best advice I got was "drink water." No shit dude. The only type that ever helped was EM…
You’re clearly very immature. Should you respond to a text? Well no shit. Take care of your child and figure out your life. You have been dating him for 11 months and now you have a one year old. Why …
No shit Sherlock- describing this as “one girl I was with” leaves a lot open to interpretation. Move on. There’s more fish in the sea.
I went to an elite college and that made them cycle between taking credit for my success, belittling higher ed in general (both were uneducated), lamenting that I wasn’t doing one of the “hard” majors…
I was in this boat, but it kept getting worse. I found out it was over 100 women and he had a breeding fetish. My only advice is get out now. I had to file divorce at 10 weeks postpartum. He currently…
I'm honestly not sure. I recorded the whole convo so if her *diagnosis* is not accurate I would at least like half my money back. Yeah I don't really feel it was 100% accurate because she would say…
Shit testing someone is one of the best ways to waste your own time. I want to give this guy an award for staying in the room for that super odd pregnancy question AND “admitting it made him feel unco…
> I didn’t claim that most Asians in the West prefer a multi‑ethnic society -- I said it was likely, Hunh? You wrote this "Most Asians in the West likely want to be part of a multi‑ethnic society, no…
Yes, I recall - it was shitty. Then you also get your family (who in many cases, taught nothing) pressuring you and asking why you’re not hired yet. Even if they say nothing, you can feel it. I recall…
Oh! Hello! I have not lost someone to their brain injury, but boy do I know what living in those conditions is like. When I was eleven years old, my older brother had a near-fatal frontal lobe injur…
It's laughable she emails you and tells you after four months "she's not interested in trying again". No shit. I'm pretty sure you picked up the hint at the one month mark. That's so shitty on her beh…
One of my close friends was suicidal after sexual violence and the hospital literally locked her in a storage closest because they didn’t know where to put her Then they said there was no psych docto…
If he opens the relationship why don't YOU get to be with men too? Like dead serious, that is automatically a deal breaker for ANYONE doing ethical nonmonogamy. They look down on one penis policies.…
I never mention my n-mom. To people I don’t know, my step mom is my mom. No matter what, I always refer to my dad and step mom as my parents. My step sister as my sister. My n-mom chose to walk out …
She tried to lie her way out of it then shutdown completely and left when she was caught out. Even said "I don't feel comfortabke here" yeah no shit she didnt feel comfortable because she got caught l…
no shit. I've been here longer than you.
No shit he's been in jail. I guess he just misses his buddies there. If I was you I'd cancel all my future appointments with him and call the authorities IMMEDIATELY because he's genuinely disgusting…
Is this sub full of teenagers, college students, or NEETs? If any legit interviewer for any company asked me to say this in an interview, I would think that I was being scammed or pranked. Every no …