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I think my 32F 36M boyfriend lied about me passing out during sex

Choking can be [deadly](https://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2025/jul/07/no-safe-way-risks-of-choking-during-sex) - you are NOT being dramatic and you need to get the fuck away from him as you can…

r/relationship_advicecomment3/15/2026
START HERE! - Beginner Guides, FAQs, and Resources

The Guardian today [ps. I'm a totally lucid dreamer though can't choose what I dream, however every night is movie night and as graphic, in colour and sometimes I can change the dream by waking or sle…

r/LucidDreamingcomment11/14/2021
Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! - February 27, 2026

Great article about why talking to strangers is important. https://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2026/feb/24/stranger-secret-how-to-talk-to-anyone-why-you-should

r/datingoverthirtycomment2/27/2026
Getting over approach anxiety

This [article](https://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2026/feb/24/stranger-secret-how-to-talk-to-anyone-why-you-should) is really timely! All about getting used to talking to strangers. “The key i…

r/datingoverthirtycomment2/27/2026
Has anyone been experiencing an uptick in seeing UFOs/NHIs in dreams?

I used to have a lot of UFO dreams but now I just have the occasional ET or NHI dream. My dreams evolved over the years from mass sighting/mass disclosure dreams to personal sightings/personal encount…

r/experiencerscomment3/7/2026
Update: How can I(20F) tell my boyfriend (20M) about my sexual preferences when he has already expressed disgust over it?

Sounds like a bullet dodged. Getting to your original question, finding guys who are into being dominated (especially if you want that as "on the regular" and not just some occasional playing around)…

r/relationship_advicecomment3/10/2026
Thoughts on astro-seek.com requiring registration?

It makes me wonder…https://www.theguardian.com/technology/2026/jan/22/experts-warn-of-threat-to-democracy-by-ai-bot-swarms-infesting-social-media

r/AskAstrologerscomment3/13/2026
Why do I tend to bury my emotions?

OP - something to be aware of. Part of the response you got from NCamporro is ai generated. This is becoming a serious issue on Reddit in various spirituality subs. It’s possible they are a real perso…

r/AstrologyChartSharecomment3/14/2026
I think my 32F 36M boyfriend lied about me passing out during sex

You are not the only one this has happened to: https://www.theguardian.com/society/2025/nov/18/women-describe-lasting-effects-choked-strangled-sex But you need to get to a doctor and get checked out,…

r/relationship_advicecomment3/15/2026
‘Golden’ Wins Best Song at Oscars, But 'KPop Demon Hunters' Team’s Speech Cut Short: The moment, meant to mark a milestone for Asian creators in Hollywood, has since sparked debate over whose voices get heard on the Oscars stage.

I think it's very clear there is favoritism on who gets to speak longer than others. There definitely seems to be a racial hierarchy but the favoritism is so bad that bringing up race isn't even requi…

r/AsianAmericancomment3/16/2026
Dennis McKenna: The Chemistry Behind the Coca Leaf - Divergent States

Thought I would share the email we got from Dennis with the links he mentioned in the episode: >Hi Gents, >Thanks for a good conversation this afternoon. I thought it went well. >I wanted to send y…

r/Psychonautcomment3/16/2026
Nowadays, would you say it's easier to have kids / start a family in Asia or the West?

It's measured by cost/GDP per capita, South Korean:7.79 times the gross domestic product (GDP) per capita,China 6.3 times, USA 4.11. The pic is from page 22 of the report (see below). If you are inter…

r/AsianMasculinitycomment3/20/2026
Violence against Asian communities in the US spiked after Covid. What happened to the movement to stop it?

Hi r/asianamerican, this is Jake from The Guardian US. This week marked five years since the Atlanta spa shootings where a gunman killed eight people, so we published this story taking a look back at …

r/AsianAmericancomment3/20/2026
I have an Ai addiction and need help

> It answers authentically and unbiased. I strongly disagree with this, and I think it's one of the most dangerous things about AI. Even OpenAI say this about ChatGPT on their website: >The model's …

r/DecidingToBeBettercomment3/28/2026
Kink, consent and dating

No safe way to choke https://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2025/jul/07/no-safe-way-risks-of-choking-during-sex

r/datingoverfortycomment3/29/2026
Kink, consent and dating

https://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2025/jul/07/no-safe-way-risks-of-choking-during-sex

r/datingoverfortycomment3/29/2026
BF (25M) ignored my (24F) safe word and I don’t know how to feel.

Perverts are a dime a dozen (I shd know; I am one-- a sadist). You can find many dominant men that you can fall in love with who will stop when you use your safe word. This is a very serious situati…

r/relationship_advicecomment4/2/2026
I (30F) found out my husband’s (32M) fantasy through a couples app and now I feel weird

95% of men and 87% of women said they have fantasized about having sex with multiple partners, but only 18% of men and 10% of women have actually done it: https://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2020…

r/relationship_advicecomment4/3/2026
Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! - April 06, 2026

Not just that the trope / reality of Japanese salary men is they hardly see their family of they even have one or dont get divorced because of it. and a big cause for their declining birthrate. (Tho I…

r/datingoverthirtycomment4/6/2026
AI-Written Trip Reports

People use hyphens because the em dash isn't on its own key, and most people can't be bothered to learn the shortcut or know where to use it. I'm not claiming that word processors don't change it, it'…

r/Psychonautcomment4/8/2026
How often did you experience racism for being Asian?

The Spanish have been trading in Asia a century or two before the British, they've been there since the 1500s. The Phillipines was the trading post they used to exchange silver from Potosi for silks a…

r/AsianAmericancomment4/12/2026