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My 23M bf gets a panic attack every time i ask him to pick up after himself 22F am i the problem?

You are not the problem. He is being manipulative. Trying to medicalize his urge to exploit you for free labor. If he is really so mentally ill that he can not tolerate typical daily-life conversatio…

r/relationship_advicecomment4/2/2026
Sexual coercion/ threats for divorce

Demanding unwanted sex acts is a form of domestic violence. Research how to handle a domestic violence divorce, especially safety during leaving. Read Lundy "Why does he do that" and look at the "Du…

r/Divorcecomment4/7/2026