absolutely no other option

I said "absolutely no other option". You're giving an example at has no other option. In that case, I think it's fair. So i'm not sure what you're confused by. OP didn't make it clear if her dad had…

That's fucked up. Also I can't imagine being a parent and accepting a donation like that from a child unless there was absolutely no other option ever. I think my mom would rather die than have me d…

I mean, I agree with you that it's fucked up, and with your suggestion of therapy, but I'm baffled by this: >Also I can't imagine being a parent and accepting a donation like that from a child unless…