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My boyfriend (23M) keeps asking me (23F) to change how I dress because of other men, and I don’t know how to handle it.

Women 👏dress👏for 👏themselves 👏not👏men. Him thinking other men are always checking you out because of how you dress is showing that he checks out other women all the time depending on how they d…

r/relationship_advicecomment3/31/2026
My boyfriend (23M) keeps asking me (23F) to change how I dress because of other men, and I don’t know how to handle it.

You are confusing perception and attention. You wear a tie to an interview because you want to be perceived as a good fit for the job not be you want the interviewer to find you attractive. You are r…

r/relationship_advicecomment3/30/2026
My boyfriend (23M) keeps asking me (23F) to change how I dress because of other men, and I don’t know how to handle it.

It might be worth showing him the [What Were You Wearing](https://sbaproject.org/what-were-you-wearing/) project/gallery. HUGE TW. It’s an ongoing gallery project that displays the clothes people we…

r/relationship_advicecomment3/30/2026
My boyfriend (23M) keeps asking me (23F) to change how I dress because of other men, and I don’t know how to handle it.

Here are pictures from the “[what were they wearing](https://sbaproject.org/what-were-you-wearing/)” project. Take a look for yourself.

r/relationship_advicecomment3/31/2026
My boyfriend (23M) keeps asking me (23F) to change how I dress because of other men, and I don’t know how to handle it.

You are not unreasonable and he is the problem here. You might want to direct him to the art exhibition’What were you wearing’ which is a display of clothes women and girls were wearing when attacked.…

r/relationship_advicecomment3/31/2026