don't ask don't tell

I would be a bit torn here - I know many couples who outsource kink play and have a "don't ask don't tell" policy. I would ask him directly and read the situation and if you think that he is lying to …

It's pretty hard to keep your private life private in your social circles though. Bringing multiple dates around and not being open about being poly puts other people in an awkward don't ask don't tel…

Being pressured into *any* sort of kink is a bad sign, being pressured into this one is worse than many. "DOn't ask don't tell" basically *never* works (as you've kind of found out) What are her feel…

My only hesitation in these situations is what if they have a don't ask don't tell agreement and you blow it up.