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She cheated on him with you. I'd strongly recommend erasing any/all contact with her and moving on... she's gone, so "winning" the argument on whether or not she cheated is utterly useless.

Take the leap - The average business is really bad at doing business. (I will not promote) — The bar for doing business, in my opinion, has never been lower. The average business is barely capable of functioning. About 3 weeks ago I put out an request to multiple suppliers. I needed large qua…

Are Powerful Social Commerce Solutions Actually Helping Small Businesses Or Just Making Big Platforms Richer? — We keep hearing about powerful social commerce solutions—tools that connect shopping directly to social platforms like Instagram, TikTok, or Facebook. Sounds exciting, right? But here's the real quest…

My experience winning a chargeback — Sharing my experience winning a chargeback recently. We specialize in gaming collectibles, and our store has been running online for 3ish years. We have had 2 chargebacks in that timeframe, and won bo…

Pouncemonial: 9th Kill - 30 Successful Trades — **Mission**: To accomplish 30 successful trades **What I achieved**: Accomplished 30 successful trades and learned how to execute and manage trades well. **Background**: With the previous kill, …

Another win for Trump — And this is why this sub praises Trump as a LOB master. From surviving his assassination attempt, to winning his 2nd term over Word Salad Kamala, to driving the stock market to all-time highs (makin…

I finally realized my fear of closeness is really a fear of being known — I've been working to understand myself better as a DA, in part with the help of Reddit. I now feel the last puzzle pieces fell into place and I finally have a coherent story of why I am the way I am. …

Specific Person (SP) Manifestation: No Magic, No Supernatural Forces. Just Proven Science — Hi everyone, It’s been a long time since I last posted, and honestly it was overdue. I keep seeing the same recycled LOA bullshit everywhere. Endless manifestation porn, more unqualified people calli…

Song banned from Casinos cause 'it makes you win more' — There's a song trending back on TikTok videos and people claim Ring My Bell by Anita Ward is banned in casinos because the frequencies supposedly make slot machines pay out more the story going aroun…

A lot can change, if you allow it to. — It’s my time to give back to this community. Just to put a perspective to things, I don’t mean to boast. I am not very talented, just stubborn and a hard worker. If I can transform my scenario, so c…

# To Bro Or Not To Bro 🎭 : 1500 Pickups, Over Dozen Countries, Success Rate 35.5% Recorded — What’s up fellas, First off, huge credit and massive respect to **Leonyx** for doing the heavy lifting and the hard part. The man has put in the legwork across the globe so we can have some actual re…

People Pleasers Make the Worst Partners — I'm a Codepedent in Recovery. My partner is also a Codependent (Severe) and he's refusing healing and is a Chronic People pleaser. Being in a relationship with a people pleaser is exhausting. You sl…

My (26F) boyfriend (26M) ragequits when playing video games with me — We’ve been dating for about 6 months, and a large factor that allowed us to bond is that we have a shared hobby which is this specific 5v5 moba type game. In the beginning of our relationship, we play…

the anxiety is gone... but now there's just a massive void. How do you handle the "nothingness" after liberation? — Hey everyone, First of all, thank you for the incredible support on my last post. It’s been overwhelming. But I need to be honest with you today: while on the outside it looks like I’m finally "winni…

Im so scared of the future coming. The world looks so bleek — Im so scared of the future coming. The world looks so bleek. Im crying. I can't handle it. I feel like the world is gonna collapse before I even get a chance to finish my 20's. I had dreams and goals.…

After 10 years of doing the most, I (30F) told my husband (34F) that we needed counseling or separation. Help me process? — I met my husband when I was a 20 year old college student and even though he is 4 years older than me, I became a pseudo-mother upon meeting him. For the last 10 years, I have been the sole breadwin…

No contact isn't about them. It's about teaching your nervous system that you survive without the response. — Nobody told me this when I started and I wish they had. I thought no contact was a strategy to make them miss me. Or a test of willpower. Or punishment for both of us. It's none of that. Your brain…

For anyone who struggles to believe in Manifestation. Read this. — (Apologies in advance for the long post) Okay so I used to be that person who would physically cringe when someone said “manifest it.” Like, I get it. The whole world around this thing is just deepl…

I think I’ve been having my first experiences - looking for a bit of guidance from the community — Over the past couple of years my view of reality and the world has shifted quite a bit. I’ve done a lot more exploring of the spiritual side of life and feel I’ve really “woken up”. I’ve had a couple …

I’m a 3 x National Champion in my sport and struggling — Hi, Not quite sure where to post so I thought here would be best. Happy to post in any other places if I have the wrong place and open to recommendations :) I’m my country’s current National champ…

nmom ruining my pregnancy by bullying my body — went no contact again and she won’t stop blowing up my phone — My whole life my sister and I have been bullied by our mom. When I was anorexic skinny, she’d say I had “no ass” and looked like a stick. Now that I’ve recovered and I’m at a normal, healthy weight (f…

I'm so painfully bad at everything (26M) — I'm painfully bad at everything. But to a point where I can't even relate to the people complaining about being "bad at everything" because I my experiences with being bad at everything are so much wo…

SATS, newbie results! $ — Hi everyone! I’m a long term manifester but very new to applying Neville. I have been watching loads of videos and am very inspired to apply the journey to a jackpot lottery win - because, why not! …

I figured out why my affirmations weren't working and most folks miss it. — For two years I did everything right. Access state, feeling it real, present tense, thinking from not of. My sessions felt good. Nothing moved. Then I found something in Murphy that nobody in this sp…

How can I become a grammy award winning music producer living in my own home in California? — That's just a captivating title but of course there is more to it. The depth of it all. I'd like my own family eventually, a creative studio in garden, BBQ, cinema projector, community of loving frien…

tw: abuse — hi. id like to start off by saying i was in a 9 year relationship with my ex. he was my best friend. i guess i’ll say everything good about us first. we laughed a lot, played a ton of video games toge…

Is it just me or are asian parents allergic to privacy? — I swear the concept of "knocking" does not exist in my house. My room door opens like it's a public park gate. If I lock it, suddenly I'm hiding something illegal. If I sit quietly, I'm "wasting my…

Appreciate any thoughts fr — The past few years I been deep into gambling basically going pay check to pay check winning thousands losing thousands, I originally had a fair amount of discipline but to find that nowadays feels nea…

My life completely transformed — In the beginning of 2026, I was in a completely different space than I am now in April 2026. I’ve always manifested believed in prayer and experienced miracles on a smaller scale — but I decided to b…

“THE EARTH - A LIVING CREATURE!” This is the message of a brief video created from NASA satellite imagery. — I was a contact team coordinator for the CE-5 Initiative in Los Angeles from 1992 to 1998. “She is alive. She is awake and She loves us.” is the message that I received during of a kind of channel…

How do you “win” the breakup? — I need genuine tips for how to glow up after a breakup. Not only physically but also mentally. Long story short: Me and my ex were together for almost 8 years. He is an avoidant and discarded me on a…

How do you “win” the breakup? — I need genuine tips for how to glow up after a breakup. Not only physically but also mentally. Long story short: Me and my ex were together for almost 8 years. He is an avoidant and discarded me on a…

Please help me understand if that was a dream, and who/what did I meet? Was it malevolent? — Hi, I have been rational, sceptical person most of my life. After trump's remarks about UFO, I fell into and extreme rabbit hole. I am a psychologist by degree. For the last month I have lately been …

If you don't believe and look for something, you won't find it — I usually ask questions about manifestation but today I wanted to put together a list of things I manifested in my life. It's easier to think you haven't achieved anything if you don't look for it. Th…

Why you should not check their social media - 4 scenarios — There are basically four scenarios that could play out when you check their social media: **Scenario 1:** Nothing has changed. They haven't posted anything, shared anything, etc. You get a tempora…

How do I get over the fact that I lost even though I could’ve won? I’m the only one who lost and I hate her for winning. — So my ex is one who seems to just go back to exes constantly. With her other two ex’s, she went back. The first guy she went back to twice and he pumped and dumped her both times and she even followe…

I cheated and want to change — Hey, just going to be blunt. I was actively cheating on my girlfriend, honestly the literal best and most perfect person in my life…multiple times with the same person. Long story short, they both fou…

Six years gone and feeling left behind — F(24) and my ex is M(25) I’m three months post-breakup from a six-year relationship that started in senior high and lasted through college. To be honest, it still feels surreal. We grew up together an…

Am I deactivating? — I'm still new to attachment theory and romantic relationships in general, so I'd like to hear other people's thoughts. I (20F) was dating one of my college friends (22F) "Clara" up until last month, …

Why i believe that law of assumption is enough and methods are not important and you can make your own methods! — For some reason i have always had problems following SAT’s and specific methods , i mean it works but it always feels so out of character for me . And i believe many people are like this , as no pers…

Victim Mindset — I do have a victim mindset. I feel I didn't have one for about the first 8 things that happened, I do understand a lot of people are objectively much more victimized and I do try every day to say posi…

I think my mum is a narcissist? — I was fostered by my foster mum at age of 9. She was incredibly controlling and strict all my life and I always accepted it as she's trying to protect/look after me. Now at 24 I've come to realise th…

To my Ex Wife, you turned into all the people you mocked! — Its funny when I really think about the person you revealed yourself to truly be. Its odd how you judged my sister, saying she MUST have been talking to her new boyfriend before she broke up with he e…

Anyone else view connection as a competition? — I’ve noticed I view all my friendships and relationships as a competition. if you’re the one who cares less, needs the other person less, and is less invested in the other person, you’re winning- you’…

Playing the victim — There is just no winning when they always play the victim card. The worst part about it is when others believe it. It reminds me of this incident in my childhood. I was 7 years old and was getting b…

Update after 1st date and loose communication styles...? — \---Updates--- So a moment ago, I checked Bumble and his account is now deleted....should I just assume this is a goner now? \----------------------- A couple days ago I posted the no response befo…

This is a TEST: Did You Change Yourself Yet? — I posted about a month ago on revision work and how it changes everything. It truly IS so beneficial because it allows you to realize how much control you have over EVERYTHING. This brings me to the r…

NHI encounter and message from astral projection — This recent post (https://www.reddit.com/r/aliens/comments/1s2gjly/does\_anyone\_know\_where\_this\_picture\_came\_from/#lightbox) depicts almost exactly the NHI I met about 3 years ago in the astral.…

NHI encounter and message from astral projection — This recent post (https://www.reddit.com/r/aliens/comments/1s2gjly/does\\\_anyone\\\_know\\\_where\\\_this\\\_picture\\\_came\\\_from/#lightbox) depicts almost exactly the NHI I met about 3 years ago …

Minor cptsd? — I’m confused, I have a lot of the symptoms of cptsd but what I think is my trauma doesn’t feel traumatic enough to have caused ptsd. I know that’s what everyone says but seriously. What I think was t…

Struggling of letting go of someone while realizing what I truly want M28, F28, F27 — TL;DR - I’m caught between two women who seemingly love me and want to commit to me, but it’s messy and complicated. I’ve been in a really messy emotional spot lately. I’m realizing that my past rel…

Lol I have been visiting this sub for about a month now and when I first saw this post stickied I refrained from reading it because I didn't want them back, I just wanted no contact to help move on wi…

Hey, I am an overconfident twat that lacks any real creativity. I tend to just jump in on anything to feel included . Sometimes it's confusing cause I don't even understand what I'm trying to shit on.…

If you can win your ex back through no-contact then you'll have to live the rest of your life in a state of cat-like readiness to be abandoned and pretend you don't care. With the right degree of osci…

So my long story short.. yes I reached out after almost a year and not with any love or dating intentions. We started to reconnect and things started to happen for us again. We’ve been back to togethe…

I mean I know you want to feel superior. But why would your silence eat them up? They made a choice. The likely thought about it for a long time and were confident in their decision. They knew it was …

Yup. We manifest everything, in which case all is equal and unless he can control himself — which is highly debatable, he’ll lose it all over again. So yeah, is he just hyping a winning streak? I…

Great observation. Ever since I've had a situationship with an avoidant, I came to notice this a lot in songs. I've heard them written seemingly from the perspective of each side... more commonly anx…

Thanks for posting! Please join the new subreddit for manifesting MONEY, if it applies to you: r/ManifestationMoney. Here we can talk about manifesting money out of thin air, winning the lottery, wi…

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Secure doesn’t mean avoiding insecurely attached people. It’s a misconception that secure only dates secure. It's actually quite common and normal for Secure people to date insecure partners. Part of …

Don't think of it as some set baseline that exists. But a lack of development of sexual excitement beyond intermittant re-inforcement, as the other commented mentioned. But you can start to think …

After Tom Brady won his first superbowl, he didn't retire and go home. He won several more times. The desire didn't go away. He didn't get bored with winning. So if you get bored with your desire, j…

(Tried to post this as a solo post, but couldn't due to not enough karma) *Does Thinking About Death Really Help Us Live Better?* In this post, I want to question the practice of Memento Mori, becau…

I remember they started that season off by just winning a bunch of games. Most people thought they would eventually start losing, but then January came and they kept staying in the fight. You could se…

"I'm conventionally attractive..." "I make really good money, I take care of myself (and him) and my things, I'm kind and caring and I'm a good cook - which he loves. Our sex life is great." (That d…

People can hide important aspects of their personality in conversation that often pop up immediately while playing a game. How do they handle losing? How do they handle winning? What's their t…

Looks like you are winning Hunger Games 😝

Honestly, truly, not for manipulation or for winning him. I mean it strictly from a place of just caring.

I believe you. Anxious behavior isn’t always worst case manipulative and about winning someone. I speak from experience, not judgement.

That would explain so many things. Edit: I just think his entire activity in this sub has been fabricated. It's too bizarre to be posting the same exact shit for literal years. He posted in another s…

I am offering my thoughts in hopes that something somewhere might help you see things in a new light. This will be long and I will take no offense if you don't read it. >Unfortunately, I think for th…

So nice, yet constantly surrounded by mean haters who hate to see a bad bitch winning! ...Not, lol.

Doesn’t seem like OP did, but I just did. Kinda love some of these. ————- If you want to move past the "vision board" clichés and into the fringe, you have to stop treating the universe like a ve…

Yes! Somehow my reality was never acknowledged and always contradicted. I was always antagonized by my parents, labeled as manipulative and “controlling” or “dominant” (I was a kid when this started…

First thing's first -- do I think you'll be able to find someone? Yes, absolutely. Call me a hopeless romantic, but I believe there is someone for everyone out there. Life is not a race so if you find…

It feels like there's no winning here. I (37m) was just let go by the woman (33f) I was seeing. First date happened at the end of January then the second date two weeks later, and then for the next …

If you're "Team USA" until the check clears from elsewhere, it’s not about heritage, it’s about being a mercenary. Only fair and square you are called a traitor. You think it's the same between an in…

> I don't know enough about how spots are granted to students but doesn't Harlem have one of the elite specialized high school? Having the high school next to you doesn't get you in. The only thing …

My mom sounds like this. Go NC or very low contact. You know what you’re doing and since it’s it her way, it is killing her. She’s a control freak and it’s either her way or the highway. Honestly,!the…

So can you help me please like I want to manifest a jackpot lottery winning right so what or how should i imagine or visualize i focus to much on lottery that i can notice my heart beating faster, whe…

If he talked to her that would be misconstrued as pressuring someone into sex. Theres no winning here.

If the therapist is speechless, that means your winning 😜 But in all seriousness - sorry your mother was so neglectful during your recovery. That is not something i would say to my child if they had…

Right? She's been so weird and obsessive. It's unsettling. I worry asking her to butt out makes it obvious to her that her mental games are winning, which may cause her to escalate further. My …

It's a big dance. Everyone does the same steps in the cycle of abuse and they're sooo angry that you not only changed the music by standing up for your sister, you walked off the dance floor. They're…

I refuse to have anything to do with ex2 but that’s unfortunately is exactly what’s fueling him to keep trying me. He’s extremely obsessed about always winning and not following any boundaries even wi…

I am so sorry you are going through this right now. Being sick with the flu while home alone is the absolute perfect storm for triggering this specific type of panic. I want to explain exactly why thi…

I've won a lot of money while gambling, too. I've still gambled serious money away, but it feels more guaranteed. Just hit my biggest win not that long ago as well. I can guarantee I manifested my las…

Stay sober and stay positive. You are winning.

I have a few of them. Distant family members randomly sending me money. People offering me business random business deals that were fantastic. I was short on my car payment due the next day, then I fo…

Get remit sethi’s book “I will teach you to be rich” and get on the same page. Money isn’t everything, just because you’re the breadwinner now doesn’t mean you always will be, burdens shift over time.…

I echo what a lot that's been said. Smile, genuine, show teeth. I want to see the eyes too. Beard, stubble, bald heads are no issue. Height, honestly its not an issue for me Job, as long as their ho…

He’s going to try to get you back and then throw you away again. He’s going to destroy your reputation, friendships, and self confidence. Believe them the first time they show you who they really are.…

None of those things in your update describes a good person. Animals like her and she gives good gifts? That's a fairly low bar. Here's something concrete about her that does speak to how good a per…

I feel this It'll happen when you least expect it, just relax If you want a partner, you need to work at it. It's a numbers game You need to give people more to see how you really feel When yo…

I hate that this happened to you. It boils down to dopamine rewards. It's not because she's special or better than you. It's because cheating gives them a drug like dopamine high. That dopamine motiva…

Be very careful approaching a topic filled with so many unknowns when you're in a vulnerable state. One hazard is the propensity of humans to fill the unknown spaces with their fears, so you can walk…

I could be the man in this. I’ll clarify, you’re probably correct in your read. But you asked for perspective. Has he ever come to you with things not working in the past? Little things to work on…

True, I suppose I'll always take some comfort in the fact that I was the one that was trying. I was the one communicating. I wasn't the one who betrayed the other. I wish the high road also felt like …

Just had my first concert ever last night! Or first real one I should say. Performed in front of 300 people! I texted her because we had to move venues due to weather, but I kept it short, secure, but…

I feel like this is the popular kid winning for being popular? I mean, sure, yay Asians, but I feel like this movie has too many problems for an Academy Award, and the competition looks pretty quality…