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OK, here is the problem with their request. In order for someone driving a car on a regular basis they have to be listed as a driver on the insurance policy. The policy also has to be true like the…
How to Wreck Your Career: a cautionary tale from someone who has 5 years of experience.. — Context:- I am a 31 year old UX designer with a masters degree in industrial design from one of the top design schools here in India. I have almost 6 years of experience on the paper of which I hav…
A customers perspective of those horrible cart conversion emails — Usually a website does a poor job of informing me what shipping will be. I must add items to a cart and hit checkout and type in an address to see what shipping would be. However, this process results…
Duolingo leader throws shade at r/UXDesign — You all might remember this thread a few months ago, [debating Duolingo renaming UX to “Product Experience.”](https://www.reddit.com/r/UXDesign/comments/1j3hvkw/duolingo_renames_ux/) The VP Mig announ…
Did yours seem attracted to you when you were succeeding at life, but also resentful? — Did you ever notice that yours would say things that seemed to contradict their body language? If you were succeeding in your career or personal life, mine would comment on it ‘positively’ but their b…
Discharged after a 3 star Google review — Hi! I have autism so I sometimes have a hard time figuring out how I come across . But I was at a practice that provided both APRN services and therapy . I posted a three star Google review saying I …
"You have to be hungry enough for your desire" — Well, I can bet many people here are NOT HUNGRY enough for their desire. When Neville expressed his desire to go barbados... He straight told Ab... "I have a *burning* desire to go barbados this time…
"childhood trauma is when a situation overwhelms a child beyond their ability to cope." — so if a parent denies buying a child a toy and this results in a crying, screaming, wailing tantrum, would it not mean that this situation has overwhelmed the child's ability to cope? like sure, it s…
Help me - I’m tripping and can’t tell if I’m just being trolled or what’s going on. — So i’m tripping right now, im not having a great time. I feel like im being trolled and can’t tell if im delusional or not. For context i posted to this subreddit earlier in the week r/unfuckmyhabit…
For those who suffer from breakup — Five months ago, my ex left me. I’ve had a lot of time to think since then, and I wanted to share a few things I learned. I think this applies to both men and women. The biggest lesson for me is this…
Is it stupid to leave an abusive household when you don’t have the means? — ***TW: EMOTIONAL AND PHYSICAL ABUSE BY PARENT*** Hi. For context I'm an 18yo male living w/ his parents. To put it bluntly, my mother is an abusive alcoholic and my dad is an enabler. She hits him, y…
After 29 years, I'm Finally Going NC With My Narcissistic Mother — Last June, I was supposed to be celebrating my wedding. Instead, I was fighting a multi-front war with my own family. It started when both of my sisters dropped out of my wedding because they claime…
i still love her — i think i saw your car today. parked in the max where we used to sit and chat. where we would buy polar pops or treats before we went home to watch something. it’s crazy to think we once did those thi…
P.S.A.: Stop lusting after non-Asians. Build with fellow Asians. — For decades, Asians fetishized Whites because Whites had the best technology, hence the most power. That’s less true now. China, Japan, and South Korea are all in some ways superior to Europe and the …
What’s the most effective way to structure your time if you’re studying astral projection while also aiming for strong material success (e.g. building wealth or advancing your career)? — What’s the most effective way to structure your time if you’re studying astral projection while also aiming for strong material success (e.g. building wealth or advancing your career)? How much of a …
I burned the love letters — I burned all the letters you gave me, J. Watching them burn felt like cremating the years of love we shared. I can’t bring myself to look at those letters anymore. Even their silhouette made me cry. I…
I got a local internship offer, but still expected to come work at the restaurant. — After a long battle, I've (23M) finally landed a software development/engineering internship that is not too far from our home. I've been working at our family restaurant since I was a junior in high …
Tiny useful epiphany/phrase — my friend and I were talking about what "getting over it" or "healing" actually means in the context of cptsd. we said a little of things but out little gem we came up with was: you could forgive yo…
I think I might have really bad work/academic anxiety [rant ig] — I'm a sophomore at HS and I've noticed I suffer from really bad anxiety, its never relationships or health related, always something work related like "Finish 4 chapters of discrete math by the end of…
People with Combust Saturn, how is your career going? — Please mention the house and sign placements of your natal Saturn, 10th lord and D10 chart 10th lord if possible.
I think its more about your relationship to it, like personally and privately. Before you bring your caregiver into the conversation. If you hurt your child by ignoring their feelings when they were c…
No 5. Think positive or negative, it doesn't matter. Be a depressed ahole or whatever - you can be whatever you want, and also still belive sp loves you til death do us part. I can feel much worthy …
Your partner sounds Fearful avoidant, is he aware of his attachment style? I think all you can do is let him know in as blame-free way as possible that you notice a pattern in his behaviour that con…
Stop desperately wanting things. Instead see them as on the way or already yours. Don't want them, but rather have them. Its no simpler than that. If you want something you are sending out lack. If yo…
It’s okay if you guys are just physically attracted to one another and leave it at that. Maybe she isn’t avoidant, she just doesn’t want what you want. Maybe she has plans for her own life that you kn…
The crying about you going to your car and not coming back is her fear of abandonment.
The fact that she brought it up so early, to me, is a green flag. Those who have been repeatedly hurt by FAs would say it’s a green flag in a sea of red, but IMO to be able to openly have discussions …
I think Fearful Avoidant - I know someone has a great counter argument in the above comments - but it’s a complete myth that fearful avoidants don’t crave intimacy The crucial part of fearful avoida…
It reads as though you wanted him to step into the role of parent not partner. Him to tell you what to do and to make the plans for your care. That level of dependency isn't healthy in adults. You a…
i think you're getting triggered by these times when your primary attachment figure is hurt/not caring for themselves more for a couple reasons. for 1, it is genuinely concerning, and can be a red fl…
Ultimately, I've found that I have been attracted to lots of people with whom no secure attachment is possible because it feels *really really good* to take care of someone and have them appreciate yo…
I think AA and hyper-vigilance, they are all coming from the same place. AA is hyper-vigilance regarding abandonment. You don't want to be abandoned by your partner. One or both of your care givers li…
This will vary from place to place I imagine but at 29 you should be able to find loads of people who aren't divorced and don't have kids. It's okay to not want to date people with kids, it's very di…
hard to say without looking at actual data, but the popular narrative is that people are using apps less (not to mention the falling stock price for Match group). a lot of that narrative is for people…
So I broke up with Mr. Called Me His Ex's Name after a year. The same one who seemed to not care when I was navigating a busted pipe situation last weekend. We talked for awhile on the phone, and I th…
Congratulations on stabilizing your career! I am definitely going to focus on getting healthy and hit the apps in spring!
Haha that is 100% so that you can leave your car there and he can give you a ride back to his place after and get his dessert. Good job standing up for yourself, looks like you dodged a bullet!
Don’t be sorry! Type away! I also tried speed dating this past year and felt similarly. I just wanted to share because it’s nice to not feel alone. For a while I felt like something was wrong with me …
why is he worth your career?
In my opinion, a lot of people seem to be waiting for love to sort of "happen" for them, like something that just falls into their hands and they get zapped with "ILY" feeling. Sounds like a bunch of …
Women, what are some things that you appreciate a man noticing about you on the first date, or first few dates? Appearance, personality, your career, etc.?
Compliment her pompom toque. You clearly liked it, since you still remember her hat—so it’d come off as genuine because it is. As for random situations—“your drink looks good. What is it?”; “where d…
Thanks for your message and your care. To answer your questions, I am very recently single. Relationships have been so confusing for me. While this one didn't end in flames and bombs like my others ha…
It depends on what your purpose for using it is. If you're using Reddit to find a sense of community and form connections then it's the 11th House. Similarly if you're using it to promote yourself or …
Omg you're an art teacher?! I'm sorry but unless he was home-schooled his entire fucking life and has never seen or read a single piece of media involving schools and had not paid attention to **an…
Saturn is Yoga Karaka and Badhakesh (super benefic and barrier planet). He's your ninth and tenth (career) lord, sitting in the ninth in domicile. He's in retrograde motion with Rahu in his Marana Kar…
Don’t let her mess with your head, bc that’s what she’s doing. She wants to break up, doesn’t have the spine to do it, so she’s pushing you away and looking to blame it on you…so she doesn’t have to …
>A lot of first-grade affliction on your career lord. how do i sort it? does it mean career will always be bad? what else should i know and keep in my mind
10th house which is the career house has Mars on one side and Saturn Rahu on the other. This is called paap katri yoga and puts a lot of negative influence and pressure on your career. To add to this,…
It sounds like you know yourself fairly well. I think youre doing the right thing. As with any trauma, you have to be unafraid of revisiting for the purpose of reframing it calmly. with physical tor…
Short answer yes, and it goes both ways. Saturn transiting through Aries is going to activate every natal Aries placement by conjunction, but it also aspects your cardinal placements by square and opp…
Looking at this stuff, it strikes me as small stuff, compared with what could be done if that's real, that I'd want. If you can manifest your car keys coming into your hand out of thin air, and some p…
Definitely not saying it's easy. I mean he could die without trying, that's the other option. There are no guarantees. I would say doing apps or social things, is better than him just staying a…
What’s your honest take on your wife / soon to be ex wife? Did you - honestly - see yourselves living happily ever after? Was it a situation in which you were perfectly happy and thought everything wa…
Wild that he would talk about marriage and kids with you but stop short at saying ily... you know when you love someone, flaws and all, and feel that for them regardless of logistical issues- it's the…
You keep using the word repair, but I don't think it includes fixing the initial issue. You crashed your car because you had a faulty break and now you are only talking about repairing the front bumpe…
I mean, you can request text logs from your carrier, or directly look through his phone, depending on the phone you can probably do find my phone. Where and when did he lose his old phone and did all …
Oh wow you found your car keys and got loot in a video game! Jeezaloo, the bar has really been lowered for what's considered a magical sorcerer these days!
Id just give you my phone for a day or two while I'm at work. If you get the texts that clears him. Also, go look at deleted texts or ask your carrier for information. Then you'll have some added in…
This sounds less like psychopathy and more like either serious manipulation or someone actually using his old phone, but either way you need to stop treating it like a relationship argument and start …
This is important timing. Building a village when a baby is born is from the ground up and I think your brother is trying to lay the foundation, and earlier commitment with clear support makes the who…
Also, there are ways to disconnect all of your devices from your number, like on iCloud, or through your carrier. There’s literally no excuse for it to happen after the first few messages
If a man has to ask whether being an Asian man at 185 cm puts him at a disadvantage in America, that question already reveals a deeper problem. It signals a kind of insecurity. A kind of small-minded …
I know you love him and he's probably been your main support. The problem is that the man you thought he was... isn't who he is. When things mattered most, he absolutely failed you. He even failed …
Well, those are stereotypes. Your Rising sign orients your chart, but you are your chart in totality. That can’t be deduced into such simple descriptions. Your chart ruler, Mars, is in Leo in the 10H…
7th house is scorpio and its lord is sitting in 10th house so your spouse will be related to your career and you may meet him through your workspace also ketu and moon combination in 2nd house is not …
Most people read saturn return like it's a date on the calendar. Saturn enters your sign, saturn leaves, done. The actual question is which house Aries sits in for you. That's where the audit happens…
My guy my guy. The person you thought she was wasnt actually real it was all a fantasy. It is something you built up in your mind. She is actually a very selfish person who only cares about herself. A…
"I'll stop wasting your time then, good luck on your career as a passport bro"
Hold up a second. You're thinking of this in the wrong way because of the guilt and shame you feel. But look at the matter factually. For your entire relationship, you were the emotional pillar. You w…