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Is there success in meditation?

Meditation is a category as big as "sport" so it's kind of hard to talk about it in this way. For instance if you do tummo the goal is to generate sacred fire in your body to burn up obscurations and…

r/Meditationcomment4/8/2026
Do you need woo-woo to get a sportscar for free ?

Do you need woo-woo to get a sportscar for free ?

r/JosephMurphypost9/9/2024
Google getting tricked by trash sites

Google getting tricked by trash sites — There are two sites I've been seeing all over google news recently motorcyclesports .net and motociclismo .pt. both are owned by the same company and they are clearly using tools to steal other websit…

r/SEOpost5/4/2025
Why do most tech billionaires avoid flashy lifestyles—are there any who embrace extravagance? I will not promote

Why do most tech billionaires avoid flashy lifestyles—are there any who embrace extravagance? I will not promote — I’ve always noticed the contrast between how different the tech entrepreneurs are compared to the others who are in finance, fashion, entertainment, or property. It is almost the expectation in the ot…

r/startupspost5/5/2025
Do you feel bad working for gambling industries?

Do you feel bad working for gambling industries? — I’ve been working in the tech side of the gambling industry for a couple of years now—think online sports betting, virtual casinos, that kind of thing. The pay is good and the company treats employees…

r/webdevpost5/5/2025
What to consider before starting?

What to consider before starting? — Hi everyone, I have the possibility to become distributor for my country of a well known international brand (sports nutrition products). Brand has already a small user base (I am a customer as well) …

r/ecommercepost5/5/2025
E-commerce Industry News Recap 🔥 Week of May 5th, 2025

E-commerce Industry News Recap 🔥 Week of May 5th, 2025 — Hi r/ecommerce \- I'm Paul and I follow the e-commerce industry closely for my Shopifreaks E-commerce Newsletter. Every week for the past 3+ years I've posted a summary recap of the week's top stories…

r/ecommercepost5/5/2025
This Week's Top E-commerce News Stories 💥 May 5th, 2025

This Week's Top E-commerce News Stories 💥 May 5th, 2025 — Hi r/Shopify - I'm Paul and I follow the e-commerce industry closely for my Shopifreaks E-commerce Newsletter, which I've published weekly since 2021. I was invited by the Mods of this subreddit to s…

r/Shopifypost5/5/2025
Looking for advice, Sporting club daily events with signups

Looking for advice, Sporting club daily events with signups — Has anyone built anything like this? or found a plugin that can do daily events with easy sign ups, Think golf or Lawn bowls. usually around 50-100 people per event every day. How would you do it.

r/Wordpresspost5/6/2025
Being an Entrepreneur is bloody hard

Being an Entrepreneur is bloody hard — That's a quote from Dan Pena and it's absolutely right. The bum boys on Instagram, YouTube and all the rest that pretend like it's easy are 1000% full of it. The true life of a business person and e…

r/Entrepreneurpost5/7/2025
Is this hero banner a snippet or custom coded? How can I do this?

Is this hero banner a snippet or custom coded? How can I do this? — I'm looking at brightsport's home page and I like the dynamic hero banner, hoping someone can tell me how I can do this same thing, whether it's a snippet, part of a theme, or if I'll need custom code…

r/Shopifypost5/7/2025
ELI5: What is TDD and BDD? Also, TDD vs BDD?

ELI5: What is TDD and BDD? Also, TDD vs BDD? — I wrote this short article about TDD vs BDD because I couldn't find a concise one. It contains code examples in every common dev language. Maybe it helps one of you :-) Here is the repo: https://githu…

r/DevOpspost5/7/2025
Meeting with manufacturer tomorrow for sports tech product what info should i know/ have available for them

Meeting with manufacturer tomorrow for sports tech product what info should i know/ have available for them — I am a newbie to technology products and want to try to make everything as smooth as possible. I am young and already nervous they won’t want to work with me due to me seeming unprepared. This is my…

r/smallbusinesspost5/8/2025
Meeting with manufacturer tomorrow for sports tech product what info should i know/ have available for them. i will not promote

Meeting with manufacturer tomorrow for sports tech product what info should i know/ have available for them. i will not promote — Meeting with manufacturer tomorrow for sports tech product what info should i know/ have available for them I am a newbie to technology products and want to try to make everything as smooth as possib…

r/startupspost5/8/2025
How am I supposed to deal with the "ick" without leading a person on?

How am I supposed to deal with the "ick" without leading a person on? — I don't get emotionally attached easily, so the early stage of dating is often a long game for me where the other person is trying their best to win me over, and I'm trying to be a good sport and go t…

r/AvoidantAttachmentpost12/16/2025
Took the stock advice and joined social activities to meet people. Here are my results.

Took the stock advice and joined social activities to meet people. Here are my results. — I (37M) decided to conduct an experiment and went out to the types of boilerplate events/gatherings/functions people suggest. Book clubs, sports, volunteering, etc. I joined a public book club throug…

r/datingoverthirtypost2/21/2026
Alysa Liu on Eileen Gu “Y’all would have told her to go back to China. Now that they’re back in China, you’re mad.”

Alysa Liu on Eileen Gu “Y’all would have told her to go back to China. Now that they’re back in China, you’re mad.” — >What was it like to find yourself in the center of all this political discourse? >Ooh, am I? >I don’t know if you feel you are, but there is all of this discourse around you and Eileen Gu. China an…

r/AsianAmericanpost3/7/2026
42M. Do these things basically disqualify me entirely?

42M. Do these things basically disqualify me entirely? — I'm 42, Male, home owner almost half way paying off the mortgage, university post-graduate education, full time job in retail middle management that I actually enjoy doing, a bunch of mostly solitary …

r/datingoverfortypost3/8/2026
Recommend podcasts / videos about healthy male roles and positive masculinity

Recommend podcasts / videos about healthy male roles and positive masculinity — Early thirties male and I feel my brain needs some intel on being a better male role model. Emphasis on role model. Things I never learned or observed growing up. Can you recommend a podcast host or …

r/DecidingToBeBetterpost3/8/2026
I manifested a PS5, after a month it met me in the 3D

I manifested a PS5, after a month it met me in the 3D — for the longest I've had the desire for a PS5, and I noticed I wasn't manifested the kind of experiences I wanted, so I had to test my power and test time. About a month ago, I decided to order a blue…

r/Manifestationpost3/9/2026
I manifested a PS5, after a month it met me in the 3D

I manifested a PS5, after a month it met me in the 3D — for the longest I've had the desire for a PS5, and I noticed I wasn't manifested the kind of experiences I wanted, so I had to test my power and test time. About a month ago, I decided to order a blue…

r/nevillegoddardpost3/9/2026
What are your social lives like?

What are your social lives like? — Recently I saw a few comments here like “I have weekly activities scheduled every day of the week” and “this guy could only meet me one a month because of social obligations” and… I know I’m more of a…

r/datingoverthirtypost3/9/2026
I achieved my dream… now what?

I achieved my dream… now what? — Hi everyone, I’m in my early 30s and I’m facing a luxury problem I never thought I’d have. I’ve basically achieved what I set out to do, since I was a kid. I have a good education, a well paying job…

r/DecidingToBeBetterpost3/10/2026
I think I’m falling out of love with my boyfriend

I think I’m falling out of love with my boyfriend — I’m 21 F and my boyfriend is 23 M, we’ve been together for three and a half years. Hoping to get some advice, but I know it’s a really complicated situation, I just don’t know how to wrap my head arou…

r/relationshipspost3/12/2026
Friends/Coworkers joke about my Sobriety

Friends/Coworkers joke about my Sobriety — I am 20 years old. I had never drank or used substances up until I started working at a high volume sports bar over a year ago. I swore i would never get into it, i never thought i would, but it is he…

r/DecidingToBeBetterpost3/14/2026
Grand Seiko announces global partnership with Shohei Ohtani

Grand Seiko announces global partnership with Shohei Ohtani — While Rolex has Roger Federer as an ambassador, Grand Seiko has Shohei Ohtani as their ambassador, great things are happening for Asians. "Asians are no good at sport" was always a myth.

r/AsianMasculinitypost3/14/2026
Andrew and Tristan Tate visit Asia

Andrew and Tristan Tate visit Asia — Eww, not the western manosphere spreading their germs in Asia 🤮. Not surprised his fans in Hong Kong are all the LBH passport bros, locals would laugh his ass back home. While Asia gets more progress…

r/AsianAmericanpost3/14/2026
I look very successful to the outside world, but when I’m alone I feel like something is deeply wrong

I look very successful to the outside world, but when I’m alone I feel like something is deeply wrong — I’m a 23F living in the US and working in high finance. From the outside, my life probably looks very successful. I’ve always been extremely driven. Good grades, major achievements in sports, a serio…

r/DecidingToBeBetterpost3/15/2026
Update 3 months later

Update 3 months later — A little more than 3 months ago, I discovered my wife was having an online affair that was more than sexting, it was full of I love you and a whole bunch of things I don’t want to dive back into. I’v…

r/survivinginfidelitypost3/15/2026
Major John Liu Fugh

Major John Liu Fugh — I came across this guy during my general reading. This is Major John Liu Fugh. He was the first Chinese American who was able to attain rank of General in the US army. He was born in China and his …

r/AsianAmericanpost3/15/2026
Sunken Cost Fallacy

Sunken Cost Fallacy — Married for almost 27 years. Got married at the ripe age of 19. Funny thing, I thought it was a mistake on my wedding night when he got out of bed to jack off because I was so exhausted from the long …

r/Divorcepost3/15/2026
APs always strike at the moment your dopamine peaks.

APs always strike at the moment your dopamine peaks. — 17M here. Has anyone observed that when they're arriving at the climax of their enjoyment, like playing sports, listening to music, or any other leisure, when they were younger, their AP stormed in an…

r/AsianParentStoriespost3/16/2026
I have to leave tonight, I'm not safe. Am I missing anything?

I have to leave tonight, I'm not safe. Am I missing anything? — I'm 19(f), living with my parents in Alabama. Shit hit the fan last night, and my parents had me locked in a room all night without any of my devices. They physically hurt me and yelled at me and…

r/raisedbynarcissistspost3/17/2026
Using Stoic learnings to get back on track

Using Stoic learnings to get back on track — What Should I do? I’m a 17-year-old student in Turkey preparing for the YKS exam—the exam that will decide which university and major I get into, so it carries a lot of weight for me. I’ve always be…

r/Stoicismpost3/17/2026
Humorous tweet: Singaporean woman needs no passport bro!

Humorous tweet: Singaporean woman needs no passport bro! — [https://x.com/Harumi\_Minnie/status/2033079459801379066](https://x.com/Harumi_Minnie/status/2033079459801379066) Last week I saw this hilarious and sad Twitter conversation in which a Singaporean wo…

r/AsianAmericanpost3/18/2026
Nowadays, would you say it's easier to have kids / start a family in Asia or the West?

Nowadays, would you say it's easier to have kids / start a family in Asia or the West? — I know flings and casual sex and "game" and all that keep getting brought up in these communities, and I understand why. But let's suppose you eventually (or currently) want to settle down, take it ea…

r/AsianMasculinitypost3/19/2026
Anybody Else’s Parents Unreasonably Obsessed with Academics?

Anybody Else’s Parents Unreasonably Obsessed with Academics? — Ever since I can remember doing well in school was pretty effortless for me. From the first through about the fourth grade, I was a model student who consistently brought home shining report cards an…

r/EmotionalNeglectpost3/19/2026
I was in a bad accident, looking to cleanse energy from items that were in the car

I was in a bad accident, looking to cleanse energy from items that were in the car — I'll spare the details but luckily I'm completely okay and am recovering well mentally and physically. I had a good number of items in my car including sport equipment and some personal items tha…

r/energy_workpost3/19/2026
I'm going to meet AP for the first time

I'm going to meet AP for the first time — I divorced my husband 1.5 years ago after discovering his affair, not only once but twice (with the same person). The first time he confessed everything and was commited to make it work but after some…

r/survivinginfidelitypost3/19/2026
Am I expecting too much after the worst time of my life?

Am I expecting too much after the worst time of my life? — Asking for advice in a situation that is a bit of a shitshow. I’ll try to make it succinct. I live in the UK but am from a different European country. I, F42, started seeing M44, “S”, just over t…

r/datingoverfortypost3/21/2026
~1 year no contact check in. It gets better!

~1 year no contact check in. It gets better! — Here’s my experience of going from never being single as an adult to single and happy (spoiler alert! It was SO hard but probably the most rewarding thing I’ve ever done).  Background context: I had …

r/ExNoContactpost3/22/2026
The Astral Plane: its Nature, Structure, and the Unseen’s Map found in world religions

The Astral Plane: its Nature, Structure, and the Unseen’s Map found in world religions — *Disclaimer: The views expressed here are my personal opinions, except where excerpts are quoted.* # Nature of the Astral Plane The Astral Plane is the wider dream world. It’s a constant place that …

r/AstralProjectionpost3/22/2026
Important research statistics on contact experiences

Important research statistics on contact experiences — Many people aren’t aware of the research that has been done on contact experiences. People often seem at least somewhat familiar with a few of the big names from early on (Budd Hopkins, John E. Mack, …

r/experiencerspost3/23/2026
Does fixing the chakras lead to physical healing?

Does fixing the chakras lead to physical healing? — Hi everyone. I was wondering if fixing the chakras could correct physical abnormalities / health issues. In my case, I got scoliosis ie abnormal curvature of my spine. It kinda destroyed my life, took…

r/energy_workpost3/24/2026
I was wrong (manifested money, skill, and tickets)💀

I was wrong (manifested money, skill, and tickets)💀 — This is so crazy. A while ago, I was asking for help here and expressing my frustration that nothing was working for a situation i wanted to change and i was not manifesting anything. I think the mods…

r/nevillegoddardpost3/25/2026
I’m a 3 x National Champion in my sport and struggling

I’m a 3 x National Champion in my sport and struggling — Hi, Not quite sure where to post so I thought here would be best. Happy to post in any other places if I have the wrong place and open to recommendations :) I’m my country’s current National champ…

r/selfhelppost3/26/2026
Out of a delusional episode and have quit drugs, but evidence of something "wrong" with saying it was delusional has emerged today...

Out of a delusional episode and have quit drugs, but evidence of something "wrong" with saying it was delusional has emerged today... — First off do me a favor plz, google for "what is the electrical phenomenon some stipulate is needed for a timeline shift?" yourself and tell me if it throws in the answers anything about a change in S…

r/energy_workpost3/27/2026
If You Were Able To, Would You Apply For Citizenship For Your Motherland?

If You Were Able To, Would You Apply For Citizenship For Your Motherland? — With U.S. birthright citizenship basically being under attack right now it got me thinking about this. For example, in my case, my parents, although naturalized now, were Korean citizens/held Kor…

r/AsianAmericanpost3/27/2026
I think I manifested way more than I thought was possible

I think I manifested way more than I thought was possible — Okay… so I think I just came to the realization that I manifested ALOT more than I actually knew was possible…. Whether it was positive or negative. For instance. My elementary/ middle school crush…

r/Manifestationpost3/28/2026
I'm exhausted of doing everything myself

I'm exhausted of doing everything myself — This is more of a vent but I do actually have a question, so stay with me. I thought I'd have someone by now. I wasn't raised great at all (post for another time/sub) so I know that figured into my …

r/datingoverfortypost3/28/2026
I'm so painfully bad at everything (26M)

I'm so painfully bad at everything (26M) — I'm painfully bad at everything. But to a point where I can't even relate to the people complaining about being "bad at everything" because I my experiences with being bad at everything are so much wo…

r/DecidingToBeBetterpost3/28/2026
If you are new here..

[https://www.reddit.com/r/JosephMurphy/comments/g3iu7a/do\_you\_need\_woowoo\_to\_get\_a\_sportscar\_for\_free/](https://www.reddit.com/r/JosephMurphy/comments/g3iu7a/do_you_need_woowoo_to_get_a_spor…

r/JosephMurphycomment4/18/2020
If you are new here..

Correction: Neville taught to “feel as if”. There were many New Thought authors that taught their students to “act as if”, but Neville primarily taught how to impress your subconscious mind using slee…

r/JosephMurphycomment9/18/2020
If you are new here..

>Correction: Neville taught to “feel as if”. There were many New Thought authors that taught their students to “act as if”, but Neville primarily taught how to impress your subconscious mind using sle…

r/JosephMurphycomment9/18/2020
If you are new here..

>About my successes, I manifested more money than I had ever seen before. Prior to that, I thought I’d always be broke. I even had to take a screenshot of my bank balance to remind myself of that amaz…

r/JosephMurphycomment9/18/2020
Can Manifestation Really Help You Get Full Marks in an Exam If You Only Wrote Part of the Answer?

Let me tell you about the first experience I had with the LOB. Back then I only knew about Neville and read a few lectures here and there. In my 2nd year of University, in one of my exams, I did not …

r/JosephMurphycomment11/14/2024
My arguments against manifestation

I have many, many personal anecdotes that prove our beliefs create reality. Some goals/desires achieved are beyond the realm of mere coincidence and far exceed a free cup of coffee. My response to th…

r/JosephMurphycomment2/2/2025
How do I know if I simply don’t like someone enough to be with them or if I’m simply running away from what is safe?

I think typically the people we get along best with, will feel boring. Conflict is where excitement stems from. When things are easy and flow naturally, there is no conflict, and thus no excitement. Y…

r/attachment_theorycomment3/31/2025
Long road to dream job and instant healing.

Oh, this is a cool topic, there is nothing cooler than the fucking time that is chasing us.  I was just in the middle of my first mission related to a new job. At that time I was already quite burnt…

r/JosephMurphycomment4/19/2025
I am solofounder and I love it

It’s a team sport for sure. But you’re right, it doesn’t mean everybody has to be a part owner to equal degrees. But I think a lot of “solo” founders use it as an excuse not to learn to work with ot…

r/Entrepreneurcomment5/7/2025
Being an Entrepreneur is bloody hard

So glad you posted this. I used to work in the trucking/transportation & logistics industry and can confirm it is absolute madness. Would never consider going back, much less being an owner of any kin…

r/Entrepreneurcomment5/7/2025
FA trying to be more secure, need some insigh on relationship to have "fresh eyes" on it and not just my insecure one

In a healthy relationship it’s normal for someone to ask for space the smoking thing is something you have to work through on your own since it’s your own ick it’s the past let it go he said he wouldn…

r/attachment_theorycomment5/8/2025
Fellow DAs, do you sometimes experience people taking it personally when you need space to be by yourself?

I know you directed this at DAs - I'm an FA and autistic; hope that counts. I don't struggle with responding to messages really. I like inbox zero. But socially, overwhelm is a huge problem for me, es…

r/attachment_theorycomment5/31/2025
A message to earnestly curious skeptics and non-experiencers: How to engage experiencers within this community and learn about the topic.

Highly suggest this for meditation. This is the description of the video and audio file. https://youtu.be/r6a_EnUG180?si=-x7_b4mf2JSIjBG2 Taygeta, one of the seven sisters bright star visible to the …

r/experiencerscomment9/5/2025
How to shift focus when anxiously attached

I force myself to actively join activities and events (sports, animal shelter, and company events, which I totally skip previously). I also write journal and daily reflections to see what the trigge…

r/AnxiousAttachmentcomment10/20/2025
Physical Reaction

Oh, questions I didn't answer. Hmmm. Because there is very much a HUGE stigma in my current ofice that "Bosses are bosses & workers are workers & at the very least in the office they do not mix"... I…

r/AnxiousAttachmentcomment10/21/2025
Struggling with friend moving

Yeah the anxious spiral can be brutal. Treat this like a breakup almost. There's grieving involved in a chapter of your friendship ending and another one beginning. Allow yourself and make space for…

r/AnxiousAttachmentcomment11/5/2025
The New Agora: Daily WWYD and light discussion thread

Keep in mind that my answer in not necessarily informed by Stoic teachings. Doing a bit of exercise regularly is way better than doing nothing. For example get up each and every day and do ten push …

r/Stoicismcomment11/10/2025
Bi-Weekly Thread - Advice for Relationship/Friendship/Dating/Breakup

I'm a guy of 50M and am in a relationship with a woman who is 46F We are 2.5 years in a Living-Apart-Relationship. She lives with her childs, I live with mine. We see eachother once a week for one, t…

r/AnxiousAttachmentcomment11/16/2025
Do fearful avoidants "split" or "idealise" and then "devalue" when triggered? Or is it more likely to be a sign of something else? (Eg BPD/NPD?)

Wow I am sorry. I have felt similarly before and it is such a terrible thing to experience. There was a time, even, where I was paranoid that I was NPD (despite being, if anything, the complete opposi…

r/attachment_theorycomment11/17/2025
Bi-Weekly Thread - Advice for Relationship/Friendship/Dating/Breakup

I know my relationship of 15 years is over. She's mentally unwell and has very drastic mood swings, but she refuses to actually get help or to work on herself at all. When she's in a good mood, she …

r/AnxiousAttachmentcomment11/19/2025
Bi-Weekly Thread - Advice for Relationship/Friendship/Dating/Breakup

Triggered from not seeing my partner enough - advice please Hi folks. Please help me understand if this is my anxious attachment kicking in or something reasonable to be feeling a little hurt by. …

r/AnxiousAttachmentcomment11/23/2025
For having struggled with an anxious attachment in an earlier relationship, how does it feel for you to become more secure in a much different or more compatible relationship you are in now?

I'm not qualified to give you any pro opinion but I can tell you what I've done, for myself. First step is admitting you can't continue this way, for your own sake and the sake of your close ones. S…

r/AnxiousAttachmentcomment12/3/2025
How to deal with being alone

Keep yourself busy. Try to find a hobby like gaming, music, sports or even reading a book.

r/AnxiousAttachmentcomment1/8/2026
Is casual sex compatible with secure attachment?

It depends on a lot of things to interpret a behavior. The social programming in childhood, current social environment, individual values For example, in Sweden or Norway, gender equality is ingraine…

r/attachment_theorycomment1/11/2026
Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! New? Start here!

Is this weird to tell a guy? I sent it to the guy in question.... Your reputation/social-influence is far reaching 🤭 this conversation happened at the dinner table: Me: telling my parents about a…

r/datingoverthirtycomment2/3/2026
Ending a 1-year relationship: Self sabotage or gut instinct?

I don’t think men and women are different this way. Men have their things they do too. What you’re describing is more of an introvert vs. extrovert thing. Many many women including myself have never…

r/datingoverthirtycomment2/4/2026
r/datingoverthirtycomment2/5/2026
Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! New? Start here!

It was clean, it was just abrupt. We had a 6 hours long third date where he was talking about a bunch of things we should do together in the future and acting all lovey-dovey, then the next morning se…

r/datingoverthirtycomment2/6/2026
Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! New? Start here!

So I had a great two hour first date over brunch last weekend, after being introduced by a mutual friend. He messaged that evening to say he had a wonderful time. A bit of back and forth, then he stop…

r/datingoverthirtycomment2/6/2026
Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! New? Start here!

I’m 29M and I’m just now starting to date I’m not sure how to approach it. Now that most of my friends are married I don’t get out much. I go the gym most days and play rec sports a couple nights. The…

r/datingoverthirtycomment2/7/2026
Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! New? Start here!

I’m 29M and I’m just now starting to date I’m not sure how to approach it. Now that most of my friends are married I don’t get out much and my weekends are mostly pretty quiet. I go the gym most days …

r/datingoverthirtycomment2/7/2026
Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! New? Start here!

Had a brunch date a week ago and I wasn’t impressed with the minimal texting during the week. He responded on Friday and then we ran into each other at our kids’ sporting event today and chatted for a…

r/datingoverthirtycomment2/8/2026
Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! New? Start here!

Sounds like it would be his turn! What was the brunch date like and the chat at the kids sports?

r/datingoverthirtycomment2/8/2026
Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! New? Start here!

I just moved to the city from the country and I was going to take advantage of having a sports bar within walking distance to go, eat 20 wings, drink 5 beers, and not have to drive home. Unfortunatel…

r/datingoverthirtycomment2/8/2026
Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! New? Start here!

No introverts. Everyone wants to travel, drink and do sports. Something like that. I'm not going for these guys but here and there I swipe for people that aren't as extroverted, if that makes sense. I…

r/datingoverthirtycomment2/9/2026
Please help my friend and I decide if we're unreasonable. How much time do you spend with your partner or spouse and if you live separately or together.

Interesting timing,I have gotten in conflict with my partner about this. We have been seeing each other for a year now. On most weekdays, because we live half an hour apart ,we chat on the phone al…

r/datingoverthirtycomment2/9/2026
Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! New? Start here!

> Travel, drink and do sports Yeah, I know the type. Which app(s) are you using? I find that Hinge has the highest proportion of more chill, introverted people here where I am, so that's what I use t…

r/datingoverthirtycomment2/9/2026
Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! New? Start here!

Anything in regards to her personality like adventurous is one. But it could also be book read and/or lover of stories. Or it could be sporty. Just something that tells me about them. But it's als…

r/datingoverthirtycomment2/10/2026
Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! New? Start here!

Having learned from my dad, I enjoy an occasional round of golf, but I totally get why it turns people off, especially women. For me, it's not golf the sport, but golf the culture: the private clubs, …

r/datingoverthirtycomment2/10/2026
Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! New? Start here!

Sports club friend asked me to hang out on Saturday with just the two of us. It seems pretty obvious to me now that she has given me the green light. For the last few months, I've been perfectly cont…

r/datingoverthirtycomment2/11/2026
Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! New? Start here!

Good first date but super dry text? Went on a date last weekend and we vibed and he asked for my number immediately But the next few days of texting were quite dry just like sleeping schedule and su…

r/datingoverthirtycomment2/13/2026
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I mean something that isn't hoping a partner will just fall out of the sky. I could probably go to another 10 events like this and nothing would happen. Started OLD but it's been completely fruitles…

r/datingoverthirtycomment2/14/2026
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Dating apps have an odd experience. It’s easy to carry a convo with some, but I feel like we both are tired of being on apps. But what is the alternative? I joined a sports league this week and saw …

r/datingoverthirtycomment2/15/2026
Do fearful avoidants "split" or "idealise" and then "devalue" when triggered? Or is it more likely to be a sign of something else? (Eg BPD/NPD?)

I know this is an old post but here’s my FA take.. I have idealized romantic partners in the past. Yes. I don’t do it anymore since I’m married now, older and have a lot more awareness of my patterns…

r/attachment_theorycomment2/15/2026
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Just ask him, it wouldn't be very awkward at all. Now if you date and then have a breakup... :) But yeah... last year I tried all sorts of meetups and sports and it's also problematic in other ways. …

r/datingoverthirtycomment2/15/2026
Anyone have the experiance of anxious attatchment killing you as a person

This is so true and something I have been struggling in my mind last weeks, as I am going through a break up. Before we met, I kinda had my life, easy but had some habits I was content with. Then, dur…

r/AnxiousAttachmentcomment2/15/2026
Specific Person (SP) Manifestation: No Magic, No Supernatural Forces. Just Proven Science

I remember they started that season off by just winning a bunch of games. Most people thought they would eventually start losing, but then January came and they kept staying in the fight. You could se…

r/JosephMurphycomment2/16/2026
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Yeah. And I should clarify im much more inclined to match with folks within a 15 - 30 minute distance rather than across town. Like dating someone out in mesquite or oak cliff/ Irving/ ft worth isnt r…

r/datingoverthirtycomment2/16/2026
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No, sure the kids change their live in some major ways, but they'll still have work struggle, family issue, follow sports we can talk about, things we can celebrate together etc

r/datingoverthirtycomment2/19/2026