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I don't know you, we haven't talked or have any rapport whatsoever.

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Why do people write "how is your day?" First or second message

"I don't know you, we haven't talked or have any rapport whatsoever." That's the exact situation where small talk is most common. I see it as a basic way to gauge interest and see if the other perso…

r/datingoverthirtycomment4/3/2026
Why do people write "how is your day?" First or second message

Why do people write "how is your day?" First or second message — Please stop doing this. I don't know you, we haven't talked or have any rapport whatsoever. It's the laziest conversation starter and it puts the burden on me to come up with something entertaining. H…

r/datingoverthirtypost4/2/2026