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Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! - March 29, 2026

I think I understand now why often, people say "men sometimes come back, but when they do it's not always for the right reasons and you might wish they didn't". More than a year ago, I ended a connec…

r/datingoverthirtycomment3/29/2026
Alone

Alone — I was raised by narcissists. They abused me in multiple different ways, did not allow me to see my friends, blamed me for things they literally did, encouraged me to harm myself, stole my identity, an…

r/raisedbynarcissistspost4/6/2026
Attachment Theory & Free Will?

I'm definitely not a philosopher by any means, but here are my thoughts. The article references previous research by Monroe & Malle (2009), where it's said that people's concept of free will consists …

r/attachment_theorycomment6/3/2025
Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! New? Start here!

Well most of my LTR's were with women but when I was with a guy it never even occured to me. I think if it breaks you should get plan b, and maybe doctors push pills because they think men will pressu…

r/datingoverthirtycomment2/10/2026
I (31M) have a situation with an aunt (70F) where she thinks she is my handler, she won't back off whenever I tell her to knock it off.

Just keep at it. Some of us older folks just *cannot* let go of the idea that you're still a baby. I recall when my mother died, I was over at my sister's house with two of my three kids, and my sis…

r/relationshipscomment3/10/2026
How do I tell my AM that I don’t want to buy a property with my younger brother

How do I tell my AM that I don’t want to buy a property with my younger brother: "No, I don't want to. End of story and I'm not discussing it any further." (repeat ad infinitum). She suggests tha…

r/AsianParentStoriescomment3/22/2026
Should I continue?

I'd add, you aren't creating the conflict--the conflict already exists. He eventually wants to buy a house and move in together and you don't want to. Which is totally understandable! I like how I liv…

r/datingoverfortycomment4/6/2026
Put a 🔪 in me I'm 👌🏽✔️

I don't think offline is much better. I've encountered numerous partnered men hit on me IRL too. Others have issues like pining after a married woman, or still being hung up on someone for 8 years, an…

r/datingoverfortycomment4/9/2026
Girlfriend (F24) wants threesome, I (M25) think it would be a terrible idea. How to proceed?

You say "no, I don't want to". You don't need to justify it, you can literally just say you don't want to, it's not for you. If she pushes, you've got a very different sort of problem in your relation…

r/relationship_advicecomment4/9/2026