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How can I be detached but still keep my heart open?

>These philosophies we read about online/social media by influencers and other internet strangers are not always healthy. We're fucking *human*, we're supposed to feel attachment to our partner and lo…

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How can I be detached but still keep my heart open?

>Yes, this, exactly. "I don't give a shit if they leave me" (the literal meaning of "not caring about the outcome") is not an ideal to aspire to. It wasn't even just about losing me either, but also …

r/datingoverfortycomment4/8/2026