they calculated that risk before they cheated and think they can replace you

I haven't read/experience any evidence to support "they calculated that risk before they cheated and think they can replace you". I do think it's a case where they often ease into it, with the bounda…

Rip the bandaid off and leave/divorce now. Or stay and rip the bandaid off when she cheats again in a few years and the kids are a little older. The amount of people that successfully reconcile is t…