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As a distraction to avoid obsessively thinking/ over thinking about the situation, let's chat...

Can't think of anything specific, but I do watch for some laughs [neighborhood watch](http://Stream Neighborhood Watch on HBO Max https://play.hbomax.com/show/e51352b2-d34c-429b-9ff9-d35e956a8478?utm…

r/survivinginfidelitycomment4/7/2026
Trying to learn CSS. Now I'm lost and feeling overwhelmed.

Trying to learn CSS. Now I'm lost and feeling overwhelmed. — I tried making a practice site, but navigating the style sheet feels like I'm lost inside a maze. Is it normal for the CSS page to reach 100+ lines? I'm not even halfway done and I've already forgott…

r/web_designpost4/19/2025
Best Practice HTTP Status Code for Proxy-Level Content Validation Failure?

Best Practice HTTP Status Code for Proxy-Level Content Validation Failure? — Working on an API gateway/proxy that sits in front of APIs. The proxy adds its own validation layer (toxicity, etc). I'm wrestling with an API design choice: when my **proxy's** validation rules bloc…

r/web_designpost4/19/2025
Best tool for getting my brand more exposure on Streaming TV apps

Best tool for getting my brand more exposure on Streaming TV apps — Hello. I am in charge of digital marketing for relatively small e-commerce company. The owner would like more presence on streaming media, possibly Roku TV content and Maybe Paramount plus and peacock…

r/digital_marketingpost4/30/2025
Feeling stuck between a promo and burnout - advice?

Feeling stuck between a promo and burnout - advice? — I'm approaching 5 years at my current company (2 years as junior, 3 as mid-level) and am submitting a promotion case for Senior. I won't hear back for a couple months - my director feels optimistic, b…

r/UXDesignpost5/1/2025
What's new in AI for marketing: YouTube is testing AI reviews, will it reduce clicks? Google discusses search ranking volatility, beyond

What's new in AI for marketing: YouTube is testing AI reviews, will it reduce clicks? Google discusses search ranking volatility, beyond — Sometimes it’s so hard to keep up with all the AI news. It seems like it's taking over every platform and us as well. But the most important thing is staying updated on everything important. So let’s …

r/digital_marketingpost5/2/2025
Is there a UX role in existence that doesn't involve so much documentation?

Is there a UX role in existence that doesn't involve so much documentation? — So I come from a background in design. I was a bit of a generalist before—branding, logos, layouts, art direction—and while that was fun, it started to feel fragile. Like I was always one trend away f…

r/UXDesignpost5/2/2025
Funding for Established Business Model (I will not promote)

Funding for Established Business Model (I will not promote) — I’m looking to start a version of a business I’m already in (it’s my 9-5 W2), understand well, and have identified gaps in the market, as well as near term acquisition targets. It’s the type of busi…

r/startupspost5/3/2025
What would you be willing to pay for at your company?

What would you be willing to pay for at your company? — Over the years, we’ve seen several licensing dramas and ongoing debates even on this sub — the latest being Redis becoming open source again. Someone once said: “I'm fine with companies making money …

r/DevOpspost5/4/2025
Seeking Technical Co-Founder for Fantasy Football Punishment Platform (I will not promote)

Seeking Technical Co-Founder for Fantasy Football Punishment Platform (I will not promote) — Hey everyone, I’m in the process of building an exciting startup focused on **fantasy football** and I’m looking for a **technical co-founder** to join me and help bring this idea to life. The core i…

r/startupspost5/5/2025
Need technical help; streaming platform dev. I will not promote.

Need technical help; streaming platform dev. I will not promote. — Hello I am looking for someone who can build a streaming site (many different users stream live to viewers). The specific niche and competitive angle can be discussed in more detail, but at the core …

r/startupspost5/5/2025
Need technical help; streaming platform dev. I will not promote.

Need technical help; streaming platform dev. I will not promote. — Hello I am looking for someone who can build a streaming site (many different users stream live to viewers). The specific niche and competitive angle can be discussed in more detail, but at the core …

r/startupspost5/5/2025
E-commerce Industry News Recap 🔥 Week of May 5th, 2025

E-commerce Industry News Recap 🔥 Week of May 5th, 2025 — Hi r/ecommerce \- I'm Paul and I follow the e-commerce industry closely for my Shopifreaks E-commerce Newsletter. Every week for the past 3+ years I've posted a summary recap of the week's top stories…

r/ecommercepost5/5/2025
This Week's Top E-commerce News Stories 💥 May 5th, 2025

This Week's Top E-commerce News Stories 💥 May 5th, 2025 — Hi r/Shopify - I'm Paul and I follow the e-commerce industry closely for my Shopifreaks E-commerce Newsletter, which I've published weekly since 2021. I was invited by the Mods of this subreddit to s…

r/Shopifypost5/5/2025
Why ex-tech creators are bad fit for conferences?

Why ex-tech creators are bad fit for conferences? — I haven’t been to many design-related conferences throughout my career, but I decided to give a CoCreate Conference a shot. I won’t go into the event organization here – just the speakers. From what I…

r/UXDesignpost5/5/2025
How can I manage paid early access to a private Facebook group?

How can I manage paid early access to a private Facebook group? — I run a private Facebook student group with a waiting list. I want to offer a VIP option where people can pay a fee to skip the wait and get priority access to the group. I’m looking for a way to man…

r/Wordpresspost5/6/2025
[question] What's the general opinion on best bookkeeping for ecommerce business these days?

[question] What's the general opinion on best bookkeeping for ecommerce business these days? — This will be my second year in ecommerce -- we own a small ecommerce store in the CPG space. Sales have done much better than expected (We've allocated a lot of effort and resources building relations…

r/ecommercepost5/6/2025
Marketing Digest: Google tests new AI mode outside Labs along with more features, ChatGPT introduces shopping features with personalized product recommendations, Google confirms search signals used to train Gemini AI

Marketing Digest: Google tests new AI mode outside Labs along with more features, ChatGPT introduces shopping features with personalized product recommendations, Google confirms search signals used to train Gemini AI — Hey guys! A new week means a fresh batch of marketing insights. Google’s keeping us on our toes as usual, and AI is busy finding new ways to take over the digital space. Let’s read: **SERP features /…

r/digital_marketingpost5/6/2025
What image compressor do you use? And why?

What image compressor do you use? And why? — I recently switched from online image compressors to a local setup using Streamlit and Pillow.

r/Wordpresspost5/6/2025
I'm lucky enough to have turned my podcast into a full time job - here's what I wish I had known

I'm lucky enough to have turned my podcast into a full time job - here's what I wish I had known — Hey all! Love this community. I'm really blessed to have turned my podcast into a full time job, getting over 200k downloads across 15 episodes upon launch. I'm working on more seasons, but I have had…

r/Entrepreneurpost5/6/2025
Being a parent exposed everything bad about running a small business

Being a parent exposed everything bad about running a small business — Before kids, I founded and ran a small food delivery business for 5 years. It was locally loved, I had a steady stream of orders, and from the outside, it looked like freedom. But then I had my first…

r/smallbusinesspost5/7/2025
How can wireframes help streamline my website redesign?

How can wireframes help streamline my website redesign? — I run a small online boutique that sells handmade home decor, and I’m in the middle of redesigning my website. I want to make sure the user experience is smooth and that the structure supports an easy…

r/smallbusinesspost5/7/2025
Pre launch marketing for gaming tool on Steam (I will not promote)

Pre launch marketing for gaming tool on Steam (I will not promote) — Hi all, i am building an AI notifications filter and creative visual display for gamers and streamers, to be launched on steam in 3 months time. I wanted to ask how folks do their pre-launch marketing…

r/startupspost5/7/2025
Am I insane for wanting to open a brick and mortar comic/collectibles shop in this climate?

Am I insane for wanting to open a brick and mortar comic/collectibles shop in this climate? — I've been reading this sub for a while now as I mentally hype myself up to take the plunge and quick my 9-5 to open my own comic and collectibles shop. I've been in the gaming industry for over a dec…

r/smallbusinesspost5/7/2025
I found a digital marketing course that teaches 10+ income streams—even if you’re starting from ZERO.

I found a digital marketing course that teaches 10+ income streams—even if you’re starting from ZERO. — Hey y’all, I just wanted to drop this here in case anyone’s been looking for a way out of the 9–5 grind (or just wants to make real money online without all the sketchy stuff). A few weeks ago, I sta…

r/digital_marketingpost5/7/2025
Success Story: FA/Disorganized Attachment Healing Roadmap, Resource Recommendations

Success Story: FA/Disorganized Attachment Healing Roadmap, Resource Recommendations — **Hello, fellow Fearful Avoidants! The below post has grown out of almost 3 years of research and healing this attachment style, which in my case was coupled with Relationship OCD (ROCD). ROCD is a vi…

r/attachment_theorypost10/23/2025
Codependency and an ex that keeps coming back

Codependency and an ex that keeps coming back — Hey guys! So, I've run out of ideas on this. I got together with a single mum in summer 2024 and we parted ways around last October. Since then, we agreed to stay friends but she wouldn't even give m…

r/Codependencypost3/8/2026
Being kind isn't just nice...it's smart...b/c we live in an environment made of each other.

Being kind isn't just nice...it's smart...b/c we live in an environment made of each other. — Think of it like a fish swimming in an ocean made of other fish. Everything we do as we move through this world...for our little bit of time here...relies on other people helping us, often in ways we…

r/DecidingToBeBetterpost3/9/2026
I've built a website with a searchable index to watch Asian American movies!

I've built a website with a searchable index to watch Asian American movies! — *(Got a request to post in here as well*!*)* I watch a lot of movies, but it's super difficult to find Asian American movies - especially made before 2000. Every time AAPI Heritage Month rolls around…

r/AsianMasculinitypost3/9/2026
My experience with NHI's, contact and navigating society.

My experience with NHI's, contact and navigating society. — # Hello! Where do i begin? Firstly, i want to give thanks to this space cultivated by Oak and the other Moderators, without this space, people such as us/me do not really have anywhere to go with a…

r/experiencerspost3/12/2026
Why can’t I have long term friendships?

Why can’t I have long term friendships? — I have zero childhood friends. Zero long term friends. Growing up, my dad didn’t let me have a social life. So every time I tried to be social, I just felt like I was pretending to be normal. Then, I …

r/AskAstrologerspost3/13/2026
Movie List: Chinese movies where the antagonist(s) are racist/imperialist White/Westerners and get their asses kicked

Movie List: Chinese movies where the antagonist(s) are racist/imperialist White/Westerners and get their asses kicked — I thought I would make a list of some Chinese movies(mostly martial art action films) where the main antagonist is a racist and/or imperialist white. These movies are all fun and feel good, and while …

r/AsianMasculinitypost3/13/2026
Heart Chakra opened, and I feel very very calm

Heart Chakra opened, and I feel very very calm — Last night I laid down to meditate. After a while, my thoughts began to drift away again. They felt strangely random almost like they didn’t belong to me. I saw a woman and her child. She looked noth…

r/Meditationpost3/13/2026
NHI that Stop Time and Timelessness of the Oversoul; More Research that Supports how Aliens Obscure Human Memories.

NHI that Stop Time and Timelessness of the Oversoul; More Research that Supports how Aliens Obscure Human Memories. — Hi everyone. This is [me](https://www.reddit.com/r/Experiencers/comments/1ai4nzi/i_had_26_physical_contact_events_with_grey_aliens/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=web3x&utm_name=web3xcss&utm_term=1&utm_c…

r/experiencerspost3/13/2026
Did you guys ever felt like you didn't belong in America?

Did you guys ever felt like you didn't belong in America? — Hi. I am a 15 year old second generation American born to Chinese immigrants. I sometimes feel like I don't belong in America, heres why. I dislike football. I don't support Trump. I perfer Asian foo…

r/AsianAmericanpost3/13/2026
Asian erasure or something like that

Asian erasure or something like that — This is a little vent post about this youtube short I just watched on the “viral no-water chicken soup”, which is like pretty obviously asian inspired based on the ingredients (if you search for this …

r/AsianAmericanpost3/14/2026
Overarching Energy of the New Moon in Pisces on March 18th, 2026

Overarching Energy of the New Moon in Pisces on March 18th, 2026 — Even if you are not an artist, philosopher or feel things deeply, the New Moon in Pisces could give you an open, dreamy quality, where you want to dig into more abstract subjects. You may be thinkin…

r/astrologypost3/16/2026
I am a scientist who discovered she can travel with her mind

I am a scientist who discovered she can travel with her mind — Hello everyone. I want to tell you my story. I come from a verty strict religious background and I struggled since childhood to believe in something I could not scientifically prove. I begged God to s…

r/AstralProjectionpost3/17/2026
New BTS Album Out! Are we gonna see a kpop summer?

New BTS Album Out! Are we gonna see a kpop summer? — [https://www.reddit.com/r/bangtan/comments/1ryjlo6/bts\_arirang\_song\_information\_streaming/](https://www.reddit.com/r/bangtan/comments/1ryjlo6/bts_arirang_song_information_streaming/) New album dr…

r/AsianMasculinitypost3/20/2026
The One Question That Unlocks Everything

The One Question That Unlocks Everything — ***If you had your desire, how would you feel?*** That question is deceptively simple and violently powerful. Because the moment you can answer it honestly you have already located the state. And the…

r/nevillegoddardpost3/22/2026
Seattle man who killed pregnant asian woman and shot her husband found NOT guilty due to mental illness

Seattle man who killed pregnant asian woman and shot her husband found NOT guilty due to mental illness — [article](https://komonews.com/news/local/seattle-man-cordell-goosby-found-not-guilty-by-reason-of-insanity-in-2023-killing-of-pregnant-woman-eina-kwon-belltown-shooting-case) [article 2](https://www…

r/AsianMasculinitypost3/22/2026
For anyone who struggles to believe in Manifestation. Read this.

For anyone who struggles to believe in Manifestation. Read this. — (Apologies in advance for the long post) Okay so I used to be that person who would physically cringe when someone said “manifest it.” Like, I get it. The whole world around this thing is just deepl…

r/Manifestationpost3/24/2026
I Wrote a Song Inspired by My Experiences with the Gateway Tapes

I Wrote a Song Inspired by My Experiences with the Gateway Tapes — Hi all, I wrote a song with my band, Diaspar, inspired by my experiences with the Gateway Tapes and consciousness development. I'd love for you to check it out and see what you think. It's in a sort …

r/gatewaytapespost3/25/2026
BF of 3.5 years broke it off. I'm so happy and free.

BF of 3.5 years broke it off. I'm so happy and free. — Sooo these last couple of days were a lot. I (29M) have been with my boyfriend (27M) for 3.5 years. If you asked me a week ago, I'd say our relationship had its ups and downs, but we were generally ha…

r/Codependencypost3/26/2026
I've met the 'angel of death' and it is not what you might think it is

I've met the 'angel of death' and it is not what you might think it is — During a "mini NDE" induced by a ketamine overdose, the following happened: As I was laying on the couch, feeling my intestines grinding to halt, I felt an entity approaching. it wasn't visible, but i…

r/experiencerspost3/26/2026
Stop Asian Hate's iconic victim Grandpa Vicha's murderer Antoine Watson is going to walk free now without punishment

Stop Asian Hate's iconic victim Grandpa Vicha's murderer Antoine Watson is going to walk free now without punishment — [article 1](https://www.nbcbayarea.com/news/local/grandpa-vicha-sentencing-murder-case/4058429/) [article 2](https://www.cbsnews.com/sanfrancisco/news/granpa-vicha-killing-san-francisco-suspect-relea…

r/AsianMasculinitypost3/28/2026
I broke up with him and I still can't move on.

I broke up with him and I still can't move on. — Hey, so I dated a guy for four months, he was my first adult boyfriend. It's been three months now since the breakup, and still am struggling to come to terms with what happened and idk I just want an…

r/BreakUpspost3/29/2026
Been trying for 6 years, only had one 5 years ago. Any suggestions?

Been trying for 6 years, only had one 5 years ago. Any suggestions? — I've been trying to lucid dream for 6 years and only ever had **one**, over 1400 days ago while on a vacation, about 5 years ago. It lasted about 2 or 3 minutes and I had full control. Flight, telekin…

r/LucidDreamingpost3/29/2026
Why do European shows show up more than Asian ones on Netflix US?

Why do European shows show up more than Asian ones on Netflix US? — I’m not sure if this is just my own bias, but I’ve noticed something on Netflix that I can’t quite explain. I’m Asian American, and I tend to watch a mix of US shows plus a lot of Asian series. Becau…

r/AsianAmericanpost3/30/2026
What I have learned through psychedelic mushroom usage + yoga

What I have learned through psychedelic mushroom usage + yoga — With the mushroom trips I have done throughout my life with lots of intention there were some good and bad trips. The good trips left me with a very grateful and happy attitude for life and the people…

r/Psychonautpost3/30/2026
my 32f boyfriend 30m has a bit of an extreme anime interest, and i’m not sure if it’s a deal breaker.

my 32f boyfriend 30m has a bit of an extreme anime interest, and i’m not sure if it’s a deal breaker. — we have been together for 3 years and during the first year i could tell that he is really into anime.. like more than anyone i’ve ever known. it seemed a little extreme but i like some anime too so i…

r/relationship_advicepost3/31/2026
Astral Projection: Quick Start Guide

I think it depends. Sometimes with meds still active it's easier for me to lucid dream. Other times there's no way I'm going anywhere other than watching my thoughts stream by. I've never APd, but I'…

r/AstralProjectioncomment6/4/2022
Donald Trump & the LOB

100% he uses it, the Law works for anyone who puts it to use, and "the rain falls on the wicked and the righteous" but here's the caveat: The universe functions on selfless giving, and all things ar…

r/JosephMurphycomment10/19/2024
What really makes an Internal Developer Platform succeed?

Separating infra from software lifecycles makes it much more streamlined, but makes cloud providers mad since it kills the overspending angle. IDPs are more focused on getting devs what they need vs j…

r/DevOpscomment5/6/2025
Need feedback for my new one.

Sounds like a solid idea! Automating ad creatives is a huge pain point for marketers. If n8n adds value in terms of workflow automation, it could be a good fit, but if you just need simple generation,…

r/Entrepreneurcomment5/7/2025
It’s frustrating how often I run into women with Avoidant tendencies.

The normal stereotype is that non-secure men lean avoidant and non-secure women lean anxious. I would bet a lot of money that these days there are more avoidant women and the number is on the rise. T…

r/attachment_theorycomment6/16/2025
It’s frustrating how often I run into women with Avoidant tendencies.

You nailed it, western culture isn’t just “about freedom,” it’s engineered for hyper-independence and maximum consumption. That’s why divorce, loneliness, and relational burnout are the norm, not the …

r/attachment_theorycomment6/24/2025
I’m FA, he’s DA

You both have to develop more metacognition. That’s the first step. Then, you need boundaries — DBT will help you do the opposite. Then do the body work with the nervous system while cognitively restr…

r/attachment_theorycomment7/24/2025
Thank you

Well, it is a book that essentially expands on attachment and shifts the focus to behavior patterns instead of 'styles.' It acknowledges that people use attachment behavior strategies towards attached…

r/attachment_theorycomment9/9/2025
As a new user, you need to comment on other posts before making your own post

I get that. Just start with stream of consciousness, it doesn‘t have to capture it perfectly.

r/Anxietyhelpcomment9/16/2025
Will my ex FA ever stop resenting me?

As I said, whether you're 'avoidant' or 'anxious' because there is either a lack of emotional processing, or complete omitting of emotional processing. People that are 'avoidant' perceive time as fin…

r/HealMyAttachmentStylecomment9/22/2025
Why do people in LOA communities ALWAYS go to Reddit for their problems when JM advised against that?

This is straight facts. Most people in the world don’t believe in these teachings or any New Thought principles. They’re on autopilot, brainwashed, kissing others asses, blinded or too closed-minded t…

r/JosephMurphycomment10/12/2025
thoughts on the more "woo-woo"-ish and paranormal aspects of Murphy's work?

The Psychic research is a fascinating field regardless of what the mainstream "scientific community" feels about it, there is so much rigorous evidence for it, i would hesitate to call it "paranormal"…

r/JosephMurphycomment10/19/2025
Bi-Weekly Thread - Advice for Relationship/Friendship/Dating/Breakup

The majority of a message (thought stream) sent to my significant other, after two days of receiving (what I believe to be) whimsical communication and apathetic tone, from someone I know loves me—am …

r/AnxiousAttachmentcomment10/21/2025
r/AnxiousAttachmentcomment10/30/2025
DAs, do you find that you avoid things in wider aspects of life, not just relationships?

No, I am not inverting the two. The avoidant attachment system is dismissive towards the internal self. There is a common misconception within mainstream pop-psychology attachment theory that dismiss…

r/attachment_theorycomment12/2/2025
Looking for DA perspectives

I would like to react first to this statement: >He says things like “I’m overwhelmed”, “I need rest”, or “I have no capacity for social contact right now”. At the same time, he’s online for long peri…

r/attachment_theorycomment12/16/2025
How do you know what’s secure and what’s not in a partner?

As an anxious -attachment, it's not that easy. Many of us, especially as women, when it comes to relationships and our experiences, we need to remember --> everything with LIFE are a process. Growth, …

r/AnxiousAttachmentcomment12/19/2025
Curious about “episodic engagement” — anyone relate?

No it's not a boundary at all for me and same for most avoidants I've known. It's only annoying if it's so much when I'm not answering that it's an overwhelming pile up. Or if it's a lot of "are you o…

r/attachment_theorycomment1/21/2026
Trading book recommendation! For those trying to fix attachment issues.

Since this book gets recommended a lot, even in this thread, I am also making my own comment. This is about *Atttached* by Amir Levine and Rachel Heller. This goodreads review by a user named Melody d…

r/attachment_theorycomment1/28/2026
how to be "chill" in early stages of dating?

Others have stated this too, but in my words: 1. Go external: Make an active practice of actively planning non-romantic activities and events with others that you are looking forward to. Keep this…

r/AnxiousAttachmentcomment1/30/2026
Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! New? Start here!

I suppose. What I will say is these were all at bars or social/media events occurring in my city. Most time I was a bit buzzed. And not every time, but a few times (the ones that I actually accepted d…

r/datingoverthirtycomment2/6/2026
Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! New? Start here!

I'm surprised to hear that you know only one other gay trans man. Is the trans population in London smaller than in other major cities? Is the mainstream queer culture there less open to trans people …

r/datingoverthirtycomment2/11/2026
Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! New? Start here!

If I were in your shoes, I’d probably curl up in bed with my comfort media. My go-to’s are favorite youtubers and streamers, and Studio Ghibli movies. I might try to meet up with my friend the followi…

r/datingoverthirtycomment2/14/2026
so what is ”healthy”?

I do think that a lot of attachment issues are a downstream effect from the fact that our society is basically built in anti-human ways and that we've been pushed into really unnatural family structur…

r/AvoidantAttachmentcomment2/14/2026
Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! New? Start here!

what a difference of a week 😅 i have been talking on and off with a lady that i have a lot of things in common with since november, we tried meeting up in december but it didn’t work out. we went ou…

r/datingoverthirtycomment2/14/2026
Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! New? Start here!

I'm going back on the market after a LTR and just want to get a refresher on the current state of the apps. Are Bumble, Hinge, and OKC intended for more-or-less "regular" dating? And Tinder is still …

r/datingoverthirtycomment2/18/2026
Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! New? Start here!

On feeld - I'm a little confused about why people are recommending it when the original comment didn't say anything about an interest in kink or polyamory/enm. It's... fine but not really the ideal pl…

r/datingoverthirtycomment2/22/2026
Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! New? Start here!

The stand out bio of the day, at least he’s honest: “Not emotionally available but do seek someone to text for now and go from there. In a codependent / caregiving living situation with my senior…

r/datingoverthirtycomment2/22/2026
Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! - February 23, 2026

My first reaction was for like tiktok or just cause they were bored. But a friend i mentioned it to used to watch streamers who'd use dating apps for content on their stream so maybe that?

r/datingoverthirtycomment2/23/2026
r/datingoverthirtycomment2/23/2026
Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! - February 25, 2026

Went out on a hike today and almost got swept out when we walked back along the beach during the mid-tides. My boyfriend said going out on a hike with me is more of a survival game. Last time was a si…

r/datingoverthirtycomment2/26/2026
Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! - February 28, 2026

No one is EVER complete. Humans evolve and change their whole lives. The important part when it comes to dating is that you are working towards personal goals related to your own "issues" like caring …

r/datingoverthirtycomment2/28/2026
Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! - March 03, 2026

The pattern lately has been more and more people cancel last minute, but the excuses are getting creative? It’s like how many times in your life do you genuinely have car trouble and can’t get somewhe…

r/datingoverthirtycomment3/3/2026
Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! - March 03, 2026

setting aside physical traits that likely dont necessarily lend themselves well to online dating (i wont bring these up because they have not been researched in any systematic way), my race/ethnicity …

r/datingoverthirtycomment3/3/2026
Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! - March 04, 2026

I'll livestream it for DoT You're right, I don't know why I feel silly!

r/datingoverthirtycomment3/4/2026
Eat, Pray, Love for white men

No need to go out of your way to find garbage like this. Just search "why do white men like asian women" on mainstream subs like nostupidquestions or any of those askmen subs, and see all of the defen…

r/AsianAmericancomment3/7/2026
Alysa Liu on Eileen Gu “Y’all would have told her to go back to China. Now that they’re back in China, you’re mad.”

I think wapo was more fair (or rather was, I do not read it since the trump 2024 bezos bullshit Reuters and APnews are high quality. Reuters specifically excels in foreign affairs For example, the…

r/AsianAmericancomment3/8/2026
True kindness is displayed under circumstances where being unkind would have been justified.

I have a few different things to say in response: First, I should answer your direct question: # What is Kindness I'd say that's just a semantic thing. The real question is what you think is the ri…

r/Stoicismcomment3/8/2026
Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! - March 08, 2026

Two more phone chats today then finished with this round. 15 matches, I swipe with pretty much everyone as I only know from interacting if we'll get along. 5 unmatched me when I asked early on if they…

r/datingoverthirtycomment3/8/2026
You can be pretty and still fucked up. Attractiveness will not save you from this disease.

You can be considered attractive by certain populations or people or even be “traditionally attractive” by mainstream standards but if you’re stuck around abusers you can spend your whole life thinkin…

r/CPTSDcomment3/9/2026
Experiences With Cosmic Entities.

I've only had one experience with something I can put down as cosmic in terms of astronomy. I was waking up slowly, still dozing and "flash tendrils" appeared in my vision. A blue/indigo star opened u…

r/experiencerscomment3/9/2026
You can be pretty and still fucked up. Attractiveness will not save you from this disease.

You can be considered attractive by certain populations or people or even be “traditionally attractive” by mainstream standards but if you’re stuck around abusers you can spend your whole life thinkin…

r/CPTSDcomment3/9/2026
You can be pretty and still fucked up. Attractiveness will not save you from this disease.

I mean, there *are* issues in people's lives that are directly related to their attractiveness. I don't have to erase OP's experience or insult her in order to recognize that a big chunk of my own tra…

r/CPTSDcomment3/9/2026
I Genially Think My (35F) Husband (36M) is a Psychopath

He doesn't have to TELL anyone, if your phone is hacked a decent hacker can then access to your camera and mic and can turn them on at any time, creating essentially a livestream. Even while you're us…

r/relationship_advicecomment3/9/2026
Community

I was in Dr Laberge's forum way back. The group was small, the field not well known, so there were no kids. (BTW, kids are welcome here. A small group tends to stand out, but most are completely cool…

r/LucidDreamingcomment3/9/2026
Where am I supposed to meet my husband? 31F

capital city I meant!!! but the person who meant to come will come when the time is right not when u want we don't get what we always desire isn't it. It would be wise for u to let of that attachment …

r/vedicastrologycomment3/9/2026
I Genially Think My (35F) Husband (36M) is a Psychopath

Are you sure the texts make it clear it's him? Is it possible the person has access to your chat stream so is just using the messages you have already written to come up with insults? Has anything b…

r/relationship_advicecomment3/9/2026
When did you finally realise, your life would never be ‘normal’?

I can totally relate. It sounds like exhaustion with the situation and with working to ‘fix’ it. I’ve experienced times like that. My way out has been to reinforce the idea that resting is progress …

r/CPTSDcomment3/9/2026
I miss him.

I’ve done this as well, and it’s unreal how frequently I remember something randomly day after day, week after week, that my lizard brain conveniently “forgets” when I’m all torn up over losing him. B…

r/NarcissisticAbusecomment3/10/2026
My mom called my son’s birthday party “f***ing embarrassing” because she cares more about what people think than celebrating him

I’m still trying to wrap my head around the “new normal” of having elaborate parties for toddlers. Most of my life birthday celebrations for children involved cake and ice cream for the kid, their si…

r/raisedbynarcissistscomment3/10/2026