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Any insight regarding Chiron and Pluto in the 1st? or anything in my chart really

Thank you for such a thoughtful response!! Its nice to feel understood like this :"( and I'm so happy you've figured out a way to work through our shared struggles. I'm sure its not easy all the time …

r/AskAstrologerscomment4/8/2026
Type 1 Diabetes

Type 1 Diabetes — Hi everyone, I have recently been diagnosed with type 1 diabetes and have had to start taking insulin injections. I don’t want to live like this forever though, completely dependent on something so m…

r/JosephMurphypost11/18/2024
Happy New Year and Bye-bye 2024: 6th Kill - $20,000 from Futures Trading

Happy New Year and Bye-bye 2024: 6th Kill - $20,000 from Futures Trading — # 6th Kill: $20,000 Money Mission **Mission**: To make $20,000 from futures trading **What I achieved:** I made $20,000 from futures trading **How long did it take:** 5 and a half months **Backgro…

r/JosephMurphypost12/31/2024
Pixel vs % for line-height in a design system?

Pixel vs % for line-height in a design system? — I'm preparing a design system and naturally gave a different line-height to each font size in the typopgraphy. (For example, 24px line-height for 16px text.) In my design system, should I set line-he…

r/web_designpost4/26/2025
Can you successfully use AI humanizers to improve SEO

Can you successfully use AI humanizers to improve SEO — When working with AI-generated content for SEO, it’s always a balancing act. On one hand, I want the content to be optimized with keywords and structure, but on the other, I don’t want it to come over…

r/digital_marketingpost5/1/2025
Started a Pistachio Spread Brand in Turkey — Now Trying to Go Global (Advice Appreciated!)

Started a Pistachio Spread Brand in Turkey — Now Trying to Go Global (Advice Appreciated!) — Hey everyone, I’m based in Turkey and help run a family business that produces natural pistachio butter — no additives, no sugar, just roasted pistachios. It’s something we’ve been doing for over 15 …

r/digital_marketingpost5/1/2025
Is there a UX role in existence that doesn't involve so much documentation?

Is there a UX role in existence that doesn't involve so much documentation? — So I come from a background in design. I was a bit of a generalist before—branding, logos, layouts, art direction—and while that was fun, it started to feel fragile. Like I was always one trend away f…

r/UXDesignpost5/2/2025
Interview for associate devops role, not sure how it went, need opinions

Interview for associate devops role, not sure how it went, need opinions — I had a technical discussion with with a smaller company(around 100-200 employees) and they are filling out a new devops team. I have 7 YOE at large tech companies as a software engineer, but my dutie…

r/DevOpspost5/2/2025
My co-founder decided to quit: I'm stuck and could really use some advice | I will not promote

My co-founder decided to quit: I'm stuck and could really use some advice | I will not promote — Hey All, A few months ago, I shared my story here (original Reddit post in comments) about starting an IT consultancy business in the Netherlands with a friend right after graduation. At that time, w…

r/startupspost5/2/2025
Can someone explain to me why my competitor is ranking second on Google when the homepage is just the shop with no text and his menu has the shop and a contact us page?

Can someone explain to me why my competitor is ranking second on Google when the homepage is just the shop with no text and his menu has the shop and a contact us page? — I’ll DM links if that’s allowed and anyone would like to see both sites. I’m currently building out a site (it’s basically finishing just setting up payment gateways and adding product to the shop on…

r/ecommercepost5/3/2025
How Would You Approach Digital Marketing for a Premium Food Product Expanding Internationally?

How Would You Approach Digital Marketing for a Premium Food Product Expanding Internationally? — Hi everyone, I run digital efforts for my family’s pistachio butter business based in Gaziantep, Turkey — a region famous for producing world-class pistachios. We’ve been in business since 2007 and …

r/digital_marketingpost5/3/2025
Bootstrapped Turkish Food Brand Exploring Global B2B Expansion – I will not promote

Bootstrapped Turkish Food Brand Exploring Global B2B Expansion – I will not promote — Hey everyone, I help manage a family-run pistachio butter business based in Gaziantep, Turkey — a city known for producing world-class pistachios. Since 2007, we’ve been selling a premium, all-natur…

r/startupspost5/3/2025
Voice-to-text recs for sales professionals

Voice-to-text recs for sales professionals — Happy Monday killers! Hope everyone's crushing their quota this quarter. So, I've been in sales for about 5 years now, mostly SDR roles, and I'm starting to feel it. My wrists are *screaming*. All th…

r/DevOpspost5/5/2025
Am I overreacting?

Am I overreacting? — My husband and I own a small business that is doing pretty well. It is very 50/50 and we are equally as important in this business. He constantly refers to things as “my employees “ or “my drivers,” o…

r/smallbusinesspost5/7/2025
Every day I try to do things right. Every day they say no. Now I duct-tape and maintain the mess I warn them about

Every day I try to do things right. Every day they say no. Now I duct-tape and maintain the mess I warn them about — Hey folks, Just wanted to drop this little gem of corporate masochism So I work at this company where we develop software for real state agencies, in this 'properties' sql table we have a field cal…

r/webdevpost5/7/2025
I made an awesome ChatGPT prompt for internal linking

I made an awesome ChatGPT prompt for internal linking — I just made this prompt for ChatGPT that finds internal link opportunities on your website. It works surprisingly well. 1. Enable “Deep research” mode on ChatGPT (you’ll need a paid plan). 2. Paste t…

r/SEOpost5/7/2025
Overtraining and being effective

Overtraining and being effective — Wanted to share about a recent breakthrough I had in being effective and getting things done. Like many of you, I believe that being physically fit is a huge part of operating at peak efficiency. Whe…

r/Entrepreneurpost5/7/2025
How much is my eCommerce business worth?

How much is my eCommerce business worth? — I'm considering selling. I have other projects I want to pursue. It takes about 5 hours a week of work. Last year did about $75k rev and $35k profit. Monthly rev has dipped heavily since I've stopped …

r/ecommercepost5/8/2025
How much is my eCommerce business worth?

How much is my eCommerce business worth? — I'm considering selling. I have other projects I want to pursue. It takes about 5 hours per week of work (if that). Last year did about $75k rev and $35k profit. Monthly rev has dipped heavily since I…

r/smallbusinesspost5/8/2025
How to Structure Programming for Multiple Desires?

How to Structure Programming for Multiple Desires? — I’ve started the 110 day routine and I’m committed, but I’ve got a question. I have a few very different desires across totally unrelated areas. I’m wondering how people here handle this, do you focus…

r/JosephMurphypost6/5/2025
When I want to deactivate I swing too far to the other side to preemptively "sooth" my partner, just in case.

When I want to deactivate I swing too far to the other side to preemptively "sooth" my partner, just in case. — (I'm Fearful Avoidant btw) Does this make sense? Anybody else do this? Like, because I'm so aware of when I want to shutdown/avoid/or am feeling a huge ick, I overcompensate by reaching out more and …

r/attachment_theorypost7/15/2025
Help me to recognise my attachment style please!

Help me to recognise my attachment style please! — I (26F) am struggling with this a lot, since my patterns of romantic behavior don’t seem to fit neatly into any of the four categories (AA, FA, DA, SA). On the one hand, I clearly crave intimacy and…

r/attachment_theorypost9/2/2025
Success Story: FA/Disorganized Attachment Healing Roadmap, Resource Recommendations

Success Story: FA/Disorganized Attachment Healing Roadmap, Resource Recommendations — **Hello, fellow Fearful Avoidants! The below post has grown out of almost 3 years of research and healing this attachment style, which in my case was coupled with Relationship OCD (ROCD). ROCD is a vi…

r/attachment_theorypost10/23/2025
Global Policy Journal: “Don’t look up?“ – Why it is past time for serious holistic research into Unidentified Anomalous Phenomena

Global Policy Journal: “Don’t look up?“ – Why it is past time for serious holistic research into Unidentified Anomalous Phenomena — Karin Austin, Michael Bohlander and Kimberly S. Engels have contributed an excellent article to the Global Policy Journal. Two of these people I've met personally and they are experiencers who are doi…

r/experiencerspost11/22/2025
For having struggled with an anxious attachment in an earlier relationship, how does it feel for you to become more secure in a much different or more compatible relationship you are in now?

For having struggled with an anxious attachment in an earlier relationship, how does it feel for you to become more secure in a much different or more compatible relationship you are in now? — I am quite curious to hear if there are others who are at a place in their life still in their own "wound care" (healing) of being outside of an anxiously attached situation or of a previous unhealthy…

r/AnxiousAttachmentpost11/26/2025
Rushing to know if I’m long term compatible with someone

Rushing to know if I’m long term compatible with someone — The past two years I’ve done a lot of internal work on myself regarding my attachment and codependency issues. I feel that I lean more secure than ever. I recently started seeing someone, I’ve known t…

r/AnxiousAttachmentpost12/17/2025
Which reason is correct for why conscious techniques work less efficiently?

Which reason is correct for why conscious techniques work less efficiently? — Ive been reading and trying to think of the answer. Came to 2 conclusions. 1. You need 51% subconsious faith only. So any effort with conscious faith will have no effect unless it eventually effects …

r/JosephMurphypost1/1/2026
Dismissive - Anxious dynamic catch 22, how could we make it work?

Dismissive - Anxious dynamic catch 22, how could we make it work? — I'm having issues with a relationship that's really important to me. It's someone who I dated last year for 6 months. We have very intense and wonderful attraction and connection in a way that is rare…

r/AvoidantAttachmentpost1/27/2026
A Splash of Cold-Water for you

A Splash of Cold-Water for you — **Background** Hey everyone, I'm a contributor to this subreddit, and spend time lurking from time to time. I'm quite familiar with every attachment style. I, myself, had to earn security from my ow…

r/attachment_theorypost2/2/2026
Specific Person (SP) Manifestation: No Magic, No Supernatural Forces. Just Proven Science

Specific Person (SP) Manifestation: No Magic, No Supernatural Forces. Just Proven Science — Hi everyone, It’s been a long time since I last posted, and honestly it was overdue. I keep seeing the same recycled LOA bullshit everywhere. Endless manifestation porn, more unqualified people calli…

r/JosephMurphypost2/14/2026
Mission success (progressive goal structure for social media growth)

Mission success (progressive goal structure for social media growth) — Hi everyone, I just reached my first success story which was reaching 10k followers on TikTok. I used the progressive goal structure process and initially started with 5k and then moved to 10k. Li…

r/JosephMurphypost2/15/2026
Healing practices

Healing practices — ​ I wanted to kick off a thread to share some daily healing practices that I do on and off. Please share yours as well. I'll share mine as a comment thread, starting with one here: # Nigh…

r/AnxiousAttachmentpost2/23/2026
Septile vs Novile

Septile vs Novile — Hi friends 🩵 so I've been digging pretty deep into astrology recently, I had been messing around with it lightly for a couple years but now going in headlong. Not to make a career out of it or act li…

r/astrologypost2/26/2026
Help me understand what happened here after around 2 months of dating and talking with someone I knew from 7 years ago

Help me understand what happened here after around 2 months of dating and talking with someone I knew from 7 years ago — Hey all, I need some perspective on this to help me process. I'm 33M. I met this girl (30F) about 7 years ago when we were both working at a bar. We always got on really well and hooked up one ni…

r/datingoverthirtypost2/26/2026
Does Reddit belong to the 3rd House or the 11th House?

Does Reddit belong to the 3rd House or the 11th House? — I can see an argument for both. The 3rd House relates to our immediate and daily forms of learning/ communication which can include things like newspapers, books, internet articles, podcasts etc. So R…

r/astrologypost3/2/2026
Why Manifestation can FEEL Forced and Unrealistic (Success & Guidance)

Why Manifestation can FEEL Forced and Unrealistic (Success & Guidance) — Today I came upon a realization that many people do not have for most of their lives. It was the realization that our feelings and the meanings that we attach to them are also affirmations. Right no…

r/Manifestationpost3/7/2026
Has anyone noticed becoming extremely aware of people’s energy or reactions over time?

Has anyone noticed becoming extremely aware of people’s energy or reactions over time? — I’ve been smoking occasionally for about 4 years now, but around 3–4 months ago I started noticing something strange. I began feeling much more aware of people’s vibes, expressions, and body language.…

r/Psychonautpost3/7/2026
My boyfriend and I had an argument over his marriage demands, and now he claims he means none of it...

My boyfriend and I had an argument over his marriage demands, and now he claims he means none of it... — Tl:dr: My boyfriend of two years has a list of requirements from me after we get married, and after our argument over it, which lead us to break up-- he said he didn't mean any of it and wants to go …

r/relationshipspost3/7/2026
When is emotional control actually suppression?

When is emotional control actually suppression? — In reading Epictetus and Seneca, I’ve been reflecting on how Stoicism distinguishes between emotional mastery and mere suppression. the texts emphasize that destructive emotions, anger, fear, resentm…

r/Stoicismpost3/8/2026
Lost my lucid dreaming ability the same day I told someone about it ,could metacognition explain this?

Lost my lucid dreaming ability the same day I told someone about it ,could metacognition explain this? — Hi everyone, I’m curious if anyone has experienced something similar. For about two years I practiced lucid dreaming very consistently. I used reality checks, dream journaling, and other methods, and …

r/LucidDreamingpost3/8/2026
True kindness is displayed under circumstances where being unkind would have been justified.

True kindness is displayed under circumstances where being unkind would have been justified. — I am currently reading Marcus Aurilleus' *Meditations* as my first Stoic book. > When you wake up in the morning, tell yourself: The people I deal with today will be meddling, ungrateful, arrogant, …

r/Stoicismpost3/8/2026
Does anybody else get upset that you were set up to fail. That you didn't even get the opportunity to start on the same foot as everybody else.

Does anybody else get upset that you were set up to fail. That you didn't even get the opportunity to start on the same foot as everybody else. — My brain structure is literally disfigured from trauma, I'm socially stunted, my physiological responses are wired for stress. I feel trapped, I know that these things can change and I can heal, but t…

r/CPTSDpost3/8/2026
If Reality Is Manifested, What Role Does Astrology Actually Play?

If Reality Is Manifested, What Role Does Astrology Actually Play? — I’ve been thinking about the relationship between astrology and manifestation, and I’m curious how people in this community see it. Astrology suggests that certain events, phases, or tendencies in ou…

r/lawofattractionpost3/8/2026
did anyone else become excessively jealous/paranoid while with narc ?

did anyone else become excessively jealous/paranoid while with narc ? — im a hundred percent sure i dealt with a covert narc, there was something soo "people pleasy" about him that i felt myself becoming more and more jealous during the relationship, im not like this natu…

r/NarcissisticAbusepost3/8/2026
Has anyone else experienced something very feeling strange ever since the election of the current American President??

Has anyone else experienced something very feeling strange ever since the election of the current American President?? — Hello everyone. This might be an unusual post to make at this time. However, I am looking forward to see if anyone has experienced anything similar or exactly what I have experienced. Before earlier i…

r/experiencerspost3/8/2026
Six Months of Dating in Europe as an East Asian Guy — Honestly Better Than I Expected

Six Months of Dating in Europe as an East Asian Guy — Honestly Better Than I Expected — Today marks my sixth month living in Europe. Looking back at the past half year and all the European girls I’ve interacted with, I thought it would be fun to do a little reflection—what I did well, wh…

r/AsianMasculinitypost3/8/2026
Being kind isn't just nice...it's smart...b/c we live in an environment made of each other.

Being kind isn't just nice...it's smart...b/c we live in an environment made of each other. — Think of it like a fish swimming in an ocean made of other fish. Everything we do as we move through this world...for our little bit of time here...relies on other people helping us, often in ways we…

r/DecidingToBeBetterpost3/9/2026
I (28F) am tired of constantly having to ask or tell my partner (28F) how to love/care for me. Do I just move on?

I (28F) am tired of constantly having to ask or tell my partner (28F) how to love/care for me. Do I just move on? — I’ll start off by saying, I completely understand we have to communicate with others on the ways we want to be loved and cared for. This isn’t that anymore. My gf and I have been together for a littl…

r/relationshipspost3/9/2026
Lack will dissolve when you realise: Manifestation starts from irony, and feeling it real starts from memory.

Lack will dissolve when you realise: Manifestation starts from irony, and feeling it real starts from memory. — I said it. This post is for people whose brains are very logic driven. Those who think: “I need to see proof before I believe something.” i have something for you. Let's go. We all know the key: The…

r/nevillegoddardpost3/9/2026
Letting go of LUST

Letting go of LUST — Dear fellow meditators, I have now been meditating for several months and have had tremendous success in letting go of a lot of insecurities I had.. This has helped in improving my social skills and …

r/Meditationpost3/9/2026
My (29F) brother (34M) asked me if he ‘still has a sister’ because I’m not excited enough about his baby. How do I fix this?

My (29F) brother (34M) asked me if he ‘still has a sister’ because I’m not excited enough about his baby. How do I fix this? — My (29F) brother (34M) and his girlfriend (31F) are expecting a baby in May. I’m happy for them because I know they really wanted a kid, but I don’t feel particularly excited about becoming an aunt. W…

r/relationship_advicepost3/9/2026
If you are new here..

Didn't Neville teach that when you reprogram the subconscious mind you naturally "act as if" without acting

r/JosephMurphycomment4/10/2020
If you are new here..

>Correction: Neville taught to “feel as if”. There were many New Thought authors that taught their students to “act as if”, but Neville primarily taught how to impress your subconscious mind using sle…

r/JosephMurphycomment9/18/2020
If you are new here..

>About my successes, I manifested more money than I had ever seen before. Prior to that, I thought I’d always be broke. I even had to take a screenshot of my bank balance to remind myself of that amaz…

r/JosephMurphycomment9/18/2020
Astral Projection: Quick Start Guide

No, it is not. People talk a lot of nonsense. The only demons people get possessed by are by their own egotistical psychology or some other fantasy 👍 I'll also paste an answer I gave to someone a whi…

r/AstralProjectioncomment7/22/2021
Astral Projection: Quick Start Guide

>Astral Projection is absolutely safe and natural Thanks, I needed to hear that. I never thought of it this way. If our true nature, is an 'energy' being with an eternal consciousness and the physica…

r/AstralProjectioncomment7/27/2021
START HERE! - Beginner Guides, FAQs, and Resources

Ultimately, like dreaming itself, the answer is we don’t really know, but it’s a natural thing. Maybe one day we’ll understand it better.

r/LucidDreamingcomment10/14/2022
START HERE! - Beginner Guides, FAQs, and Resources

Try focusing on your environment and not getting to excited . Tell yourself you want to explore your surroundings before and during . Don’t go straight into getting excited and trying to control every…

r/LucidDreamingcomment10/14/2022
START HERE! - Beginner Guides, FAQs, and Resources

Don’t Try focusing on controlling too much immediately or getting Carried away trying to do influence it strongly at first . Try just remaining calm by focusing on your environment and exploring as yo…

r/LucidDreamingcomment10/14/2022
REMINDER: be kind to yourself. This is hard, and you’re handling it with grace and strength.

Hi! So one thing I can tell you from lots of therapy and recently spending time around her is I realized I had been only remembering her good qualities and putting her on a pedestal in my mind. When w…

r/Divorcecomment8/4/2023
If you are new here..

I just want to say, I’m am so happy to have found this sub! Oh how I’ve created so much in my life, with LOB (unconsciously) and more so just belief and the movie the secret that started it all. Then …

r/JosephMurphycomment1/19/2024
FAQ on emotional neglect - For anyone new to the subreddit or looking to better understand the fundamentals

Looks like someone took a post I did 4 years ago and used it to insert links to something from Asia. This is a something I posted a few months ago on the same topic: [https://www.reddit.com/r/emotion…

r/EmotionalNeglectcomment9/11/2024
START HERE! - Beginner Guides, FAQs, and Resources

its very tiring for me and i would feel like i havent slept at all bc im living in my dream so intensely that its like my body is asleep but my mind is awake consiously dreaming and doing stuff in my …

r/LucidDreamingcomment9/11/2024
Do things you want always have to be created in the mind first, or can you manifest things you want in a more generic way?

You need to be specific to what you want we all want lots of money but nobody knows how much ‘lots’ is, write it down what type of car you want what color, leather interior or cloth? What make and mod…

r/JosephMurphycomment10/9/2024
To the former LOAPorn folks here

Yes it's few. Can take months, but a change or at the very least some thoughts of thinking from the desire will be noticed within 2 - 3 weeks, IF you are doing the technique correctly. And they may ev…

r/JosephMurphycomment11/6/2024
Question about Negative Statements "don't, not etc" and mild contradictions in POSM

It's because it's not about those details but about immersion into the scenario. Someone can have a mental argument in there without seeing other people. They followed the argument because of the imme…

r/JosephMurphycomment11/11/2024
Can Manifestation Really Help You Get Full Marks in an Exam If You Only Wrote Part of the Answer?

Let me tell you about the first experience I had with the LOB. Back then I only knew about Neville and read a few lectures here and there. In my 2nd year of University, in one of my exams, I did not …

r/JosephMurphycomment11/14/2024
LOB training Q

Yes, the moments before falling asleep and waking up have you naturally in your alpha state, but they're not recommended because they can disrupt your sleep (nightly method) or lead to inconsistency (…

r/JosephMurphycomment12/5/2024
Happy New Year and Bye-bye 2024: 6th Kill - $20,000 from Futures Trading

MC gave me specific tips to “feel naturally rich”, you mind sharing these?

r/JosephMurphycomment1/2/2025
Manifestation coaches have not refuted any anti-loa arguments

In the index it states that your desires will come to you in a way that seems perfectly natural, as if it would have happened anyway.  So with that in mind it would be hard to give proof of the LOB.…

r/JosephMurphycomment1/22/2025
Manifestation coaches have not refuted any anti-loa arguments

I guess you're a natural. I've had some experiences like that but not anything big where I'm positive I manifested it

r/JosephMurphycomment1/22/2025
Manifestation coaches have not refuted any anti-loa arguments

It's very easy to debunk everything as a fluke, even if it comes knocking on your door. And beginners often succed in any bigger mission they set to as a first timer bc they have no expectations of it…

r/JosephMurphycomment1/22/2025
Manifestation coaches have not refuted any anti-loa arguments

Yeah. Like I wrote in another comment here - NOONE OR NOTHING will give you proof enough, YOU have to try it yourself. And not the clowny way the people in that sub is whining about or Oprah Winfreys …

r/JosephMurphycomment1/22/2025
My arguments against manifestation

No 5. Think positive or negative, it doesn't matter. Be a depressed ahole or whatever - you can be whatever you want, and also still belive sp loves you til death do us part. I can feel much worthy …

r/JosephMurphycomment1/23/2025
My arguments against manifestation

1. Daydreaming that makes you feel emotional isn’t what Murphy or Goddard are talking about. It is about feeling the reality of what you want to have happen now, that is the feeling. Emotions might co…

r/JosephMurphycomment1/23/2025
My arguments against manifestation

I agree with most here, daydreaming (wishful thinking) gives you nice emotions but emotions alone gives you most often nothing in reality. But it's not necessary to have a first person view in your sc…

r/JosephMurphycomment1/23/2025
My arguments against manifestation

That’s nice to know that it works for you also in third person point of view. :) I was trying to say with it, that it’s easier to make sure to not merely think of it, but get the feeling of it being t…

r/JosephMurphycomment1/23/2025
My arguments against manifestation

1. Mental thoughts don’t become physical reality. Beliefs do. Repetitive mental thoughts turn into beliefs. 2. People in your world reflect your beliefs. Perhaps upon meeting someone you had an origi…

r/JosephMurphycomment1/23/2025
My arguments against manifestation

you can do it correctly all you want - it has to be permanent in you SM, and in response slowly changes your CM that you even start forgetting about desire. How many times you want want want smth, and…

r/JosephMurphycomment1/24/2025
My arguments against manifestation

I do agree, but I’m my experience my thoughts change naturally. It’s like I’m just happy, and I don’t even know the reason - happens due to reprogramming. I kind of forget about it. It’s not constantl…

r/JosephMurphycomment1/24/2025
My arguments against manifestation

I’ll take a crack at it Point 1: The answer is sm vs cm thought. Daydreaming is not focused with intent, the mind often wonders and you still feel it’s not true in the end or with emotions that are …

r/JosephMurphycomment1/24/2025
Manifestation coaches have not refuted any anti-loa arguments

Thank you. I will ask the op to insert these links into her other post. They are a good addenda and are a beneficial part of the record. We may make her post a part of our index as well. It is a very…

r/JosephMurphycomment1/29/2025
My arguments against manifestation

>If it comes to new age stuff like LOA/LOB/Law of assumption I actually agree with you to a certain degree but not entirely. So let me explain where I disagree. Most people who follow Joseph Murphy, L…

r/JosephMurphycomment2/10/2025
Too Long on First Mission And Moving On

This is a very silly reply. Any idiot knows that faith is essential (and unwavering faith is not, just 51% sunconscious faith vs 49% subsconsious unbelief) to LOB success. That is not the point of t…

r/JosephMurphycomment2/25/2025
Too Long on First Mission And Moving On

>The objective of LOB or LOA is to build lasting faith, not just temporary faith, over the long term to effect change subconsciously in the face of obstacles in life no matter what negatives are in th…

r/JosephMurphycomment2/25/2025
Post-quality time cool down? Is this a pattern for DAs?

I'm FA and I identify with this. I value my alone time, and generally speaking, consider myself an introvert. A recharge period is definitely necessary, not just after a social interaction but at the …

r/attachment_theorycomment3/18/2025
Post-quality time cool down? Is this a pattern for DAs?

This can be an avoidant thing, but it's also very much an introversion thing. How do you feel about these periods? Do you feel a sense of whiplash, that you're suppressing your needs to meet theirs?…

r/attachment_theorycomment3/19/2025
How to heal avoidant attachment?

If you want to talk, I invite DMs but I'm only here sporadically. I'm a healed avoidant. I say that, but it's not black and white. I measure now for mostly secure. I still experience the initial resp…

r/attachment_theorycomment3/23/2025
Post-quality time cool down? Is this a pattern for DAs?

I think I sometimes do feel like it’s a little bit of whiplash, but I think it’s more so when they haven’t been making time for themself or are burning the candle at both ends with work, etc, and we m…

r/attachment_theorycomment3/31/2025
How do I know if I simply don’t like someone enough to be with them or if I’m simply running away from what is safe?

I think typically the people we get along best with, will feel boring. Conflict is where excitement stems from. When things are easy and flow naturally, there is no conflict, and thus no excitement. Y…

r/attachment_theorycomment3/31/2025
Reading interest in text

My best friend used to say he "couldn't imagine" not texting someone back quickly. Then, *in his own words,* he ""got a life"" and understood that, **yes,** people really can and do get that busy and …

r/attachment_theorycomment4/3/2025
How do I know if I simply don’t like someone enough to be with them or if I’m simply running away from what is safe?

Yeah I don't really agree with their point at all. There’s a big difference between a slow burn that feels a bit boring and something that stirs up anxiety, usually because someone’s bringing anxious …

r/attachment_theorycomment4/5/2025
How do I know if I simply don’t like someone enough to be with them or if I’m simply running away from what is safe?

I recently went on a first date with someone who brought me a bouquet of flowers after meeting me for only 6 minutes at an event, and then after this first coffee date, texted me to say they brought …

r/attachment_theorycomment4/6/2025
Confused about affirmations

Not saying you’re entirely wrong but that wasn’t the point of the ladder experiment. The point of the ladder experiment was to teach about awareness. The last thing you think about after you conscious…

r/JosephMurphycomment4/6/2025
Confused about affirmations

>Not saying you’re entirely wrong but that wasn’t the point of the ladder experiment. The point of the ladder experiment was to teach about awareness. > Ah. Conscious awareness. Complete rubbish and…

r/JosephMurphycomment4/7/2025
How do I know if I simply don’t like someone enough to be with them or if I’m simply running away from what is safe?

One thing I'll say is that in the early stages of dating you aren't actually seeing a person's natural "energy"; you're seeing their energy when they're flying blind under the pressure of courtship an…

r/attachment_theorycomment4/7/2025
Even as an FA the one thing I'll never understand about avoidants is how they can hate someone they cared about a week ago.

Women FA's are an anomaly to male FA's likely because women are envisioned in our society to be naturally nurturing, talkative, emotional, and forthcoming about feelings. This isn't the natural course…

r/attachment_theorycomment4/18/2025
my mind knows I’m trying to “trick” it

Still new but posting this comment both to help you and hopefully get feedback from the mods that I’m understanding things properly. You are not trying to trick yourself in the 3D. Your only job is …

r/JosephMurphycomment4/23/2025
Haha being an FA is fucking weird

My lil cousin(20F) was having relationship issues- she is an avoidant and he is an anxious. I pointed this pattern out and she said, "My therapist said the same, does having this attachment mean I'll …

r/attachment_theorycomment4/25/2025
Cannot stay attracted to dating app matches

You have to give more time to build a rapport with people from the apps.  People in the wild, you instantly see them in person without any competing preconceived notions, then you gradually get to k…

r/attachment_theorycomment4/28/2025
I got ghosted and I feel blindsided

I had something kinda similar happen recently, and I totally understand why you're hurt over it! I can't even imagine that situation, honestly. Mine was different (and still is) because we met online …

r/attachment_theorycomment5/1/2025