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Okay...but doesn't adding "conditions" to the manifestation end up overcomplicating it? I've read that the less specific you are; the better, because you'll never know how it'll manifest so you don't…
Head of Digital - Feeling burnt out. — Hey everyone, I’m in a “Head of Digital” role at a mid-sized company — but in practice, I’m the only technical person in a team full of editors and project managers from a traditional print publishin…
Combining MPA and SPA? — I'm creating an application for a construction company, enabling them to report about different sectors of the construction process (tender procedure, quality assurance, safety checklist, complexity,…
Turns out I needed a "middleman" to have a successful relationship with a DA — Now the title may sound wild, but stick with me. # The Story So I (26M) have been dating someone (24F) who, as I came to realize, is a dismissive avoidant. It's been about a year now - though truthf…
Success Story: FA/Disorganized Attachment Healing Roadmap, Resource Recommendations — **Hello, fellow Fearful Avoidants! The below post has grown out of almost 3 years of research and healing this attachment style, which in my case was coupled with Relationship OCD (ROCD). ROCD is a vi…
Trading book recommendation! For those trying to fix attachment issues. — “Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents” -by Lindsay C. Gibson, PHD This book helped me realize that, at my core, I struggle with dating and attachment because it’s hard for me to comprehend …
Avoidant wins! 🎉🎊 — Meant to put this in thr weekly vent but it's kind of late now. It's amazing what consistency of safety can do to your nervous system. So the main reason I have no real friends is because I fear the e…
Life's expectancy for life & love — Unfortunately, I think for the rest of my time on this planet, I will carry a quiet fear. Even in the midst of real, full-blown love, I may never truly trust that one day I won’t be lied to, cheated o…
Cannabis vs. Mushrooms [My Experience] — So I'll start off by saying I'm not very experienced and have multiple psychotic and/or disassociative disorders plus a medical card But I'm surprised at my take away when using the medical marijuana…
It's not lovebombing. It's grooming. — Adult grooming is a pattern where someone gradually (or rapidly) builds trust, lowers boundaries, gathers leverage, and conditions an adult target to tolerate confusion, dependency, secrecy, or sexual…
NHI that Stop Time and Timelessness of the Oversoul; More Research that Supports how Aliens Obscure Human Memories. — Hi everyone. This is [me](https://www.reddit.com/r/Experiencers/comments/1ai4nzi/i_had_26_physical_contact_events_with_grey_aliens/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=web3x&utm_name=web3xcss&utm_term=1&utm_c…
Unhealthy Living Conditions with Piano — Like many asian kids I was made to play an instrument. Specifically I was made to play the piano. I'm not that particularly gifted at it. I have hearing issues in my right ear (tinnitus). I didn't hav…
I almost shifted in CLASS🥀 story time — Now, there were very special conditions that will probably never happen again. We were working on a worksheet all period, and the sub was quiet. No one was talking, absolute silence. I whispered to so…
I (29F) have cancer and my estranged father (60M) is funding my treatment but forcing me to leave my boyfriend (24M) or marry him immediately. Do I have any way out? — Please be kind. I was unable to type so used audio to text converter and ai to fix the spelling mistakes. I m already in a terrible mental state so hope this sub can be a little gentle on me. Haven't …
Spring Cleaning and Change — Currently, the biggest benefit for me since the new year has been discarding items. I've gotten into a bad habit of stockpiling possessions in one room and eventually thinking I would take action on t…
Why does nobody talk about unsuccessful manifestation journey? — Well, here we are. Changing oneself, assuming new beliefs, new ways of interpreting life and it's meaning, healing, flowing, call it whatever you want. Commanding, choosing, focusing on who I am or wh…
After 30 years of being a people pleasing, peace-keeping, manipulative, caretaking, dysregulated, codependency "addict," I've finally reached a point where I have enough control to simply STOP. In a very short amount of time, my whole entire life has changed. It's nearly impossible to describe. — The first part of this post is just context, and you can skip it all by scrolling down to **The Proof** I'm not going to go into much detail, but just for context: I experienced some pretty major chi…
UPDATE: How do I (28M) tell my girlfriend (28F) a prenup and keeping my inherited house separate are non-negotiable? — TL;DR: I had the conversation. She brought up moving in first. She completely agrees the house and inheritance should stay separate, supports a prenup, was impressed I’d thought it through, and confus…
Need help - feeling lost, weak, burnt out, uninspired - evil eye or what? — I will try and keep this as to the point as possible. In the last three and a half years I have lost contact with myself, i Felt I was on top of everything, achieving my dreams and succeeding and then…
Pluto squaring Mercury transit experiences, how impactful can this transit be? — I am quite nervous since this is affecting my close surroundings. My relationships with my siblings never felt quite comforting and living with them has not helped. I quite tired of living under tense…
It is easier to lucid dream when you go out. — I have noticed that it is much more likely that I will have a successful lucid dream, when I sleep in the afternoon. I look it up, and yeah afternoon naps are more likely to result in a lucid dream ca…
the narcissist catchphrase bingo list — edit 1: jesus christ my initial 32 I wrote already look like they arent a lot lmao (the comments in total added 45 UNIQUE PHRASES HOLY JESUS) , okay heres the updated list (most of the updates will be…
Wanted to end myself a year ago but now love life to my fullest — About a year ago in my senior year of high school I was very close to suiciding. I was giving myself very high expectations and was on a domino effect of doing nothing everyday and regretting everythi…
Why do I have so many tears to shed? — I cry easily and often, at least once a day. I’ve always been like this since I was young. Went through an abusive upbringing and a stretch of traumatic times in recent years that I’ve done a lot of w…
Apartment — This is something of a long story. I'll do the TL;DR up front. I've finally gotten housing, the apartment is beautiful. It's in the heart of a small city, in an ideal location for myself and my son. I…
Is it just me or am I just getting sick of how people on social media are so comfortable with being outright disrespectful and rude towards others. — I’ve been apart of many friend groups and communities and alot of the times when I tried to make friend’s with others or even just talk about things wether it’s depression,or philosophy,people just ge…
I figured out why my affirmations weren't working and most folks miss it. — For two years I did everything right. Access state, feeling it real, present tense, thinking from not of. My sessions felt good. Nothing moved. Then I found something in Murphy that nobody in this sp…
breakthrough trip & the bigger picture — Hello, it's me again. I know that there are people here who enjoy reading my experiences so thus my posting. Obviously a disclaimer is this experience is under the influence of a psychadelic, but it t…
Conditions and technology questions — I have some questions regarding the conditions used to watch the tapes and the technology. 1: How should my immediate environment be? Like, say i am sitting on a chair can i just spread out my legs o…
Got what I wanted !! Again !! — Hi everyone, **Context** So I made a post called “7 Seeds - 1 Harvest” and mentioned there would be upcoming posts since writing about each desire that came true would’ve made the post way too long.…
Even after all these years this still hurts — I’m 28 now full grown man in great shape going to get married soon to the love of my life. I did eight years in the Marine Corps. deployed three times. Combat zones. Jungles. Desserts. Icy mountains.…
Forgiveness — How do you forgive someone who never gave you a genuine apology? Who didn't even give you a dignified, respectful breakup? He ditched me so bad and I feel so wronged. I try not to feel any anger, bu…
I'm a crappy friend, I'm not someone good to be in a relationship with. I want help — Hello, everyone. So, I realized basically that I'm a very bad friend and was a bad partner in my past relationship. I'll list my bad actions both in my relationship and friendship, cuz many of these s…
Question for females: How do you manage to manifest before or during your period? — I’m working on a manifestation right now. I want to get this job, but I’m struggling to keep my mind positive because I feel sad and depressed due to PMS. How do you handle it? I’ve tried eating swee…
Don't go Outward — I don't usually make these posts, however, I felt compelled to talk about something I've noticed from lurking on this community and a community that criticizes Neville and his work. Now, as many of …
I ignored my self-critic for a full week and boy was it exhausting — A week ago I decided that since behavioural activation therapy, CBT, other therapies, and trying to find ways to be productive or find meaning with others or by myself, and even low pressure advice we…
My ex (30F) and I (30nb) broke up 6 months ago and I want to vent about it — After dating for almost 2 years and living together for 6 months my ex broke it off and I had to move out. I am a trans nonbinary person (AFAB) and the day we met my ex knew I would be pursuing gender…
Manifested away a bed bugs situation — Hi everyone. I wanted to share one of my most recent success story. I am young student living by myself. 3 weeks ago, my body started to randomly itch pretty much everywhere. I would scratch my skin …
I think I just “received” something about Chris Bledsoe’s prediction, but I don’t have enough knowledge to better develop my reasoning about what I received. Is there any astrologer, chemist and alchemist here in this group? The question is something about regulus, halogen, tennessine and antimony. — This also seems to have to do with Archangel Michael. If you are a astrologer, chemist and alchemist, could you please tell us if you can visualize any possible physics or metaphysics connection betw…
Disability discrimination at Goenka retreats — I recently attended a 10-day Vipassana course at Dhamma Dipa (UK). I’m neurodivergent (ADHD, Sensory Processing Disorder, awaiting autism assessment) and rely on earplugs as a medically necessary sens…
I want to try ART but my eyes can’t seem to take it. — My regular therapist recommended Accelerated Resolution Therapy (ART) for some traumatic events I can’t quite seem to shake. I was open to the idea so she referred me to the professional that offered …
My (25f) neighbor (29f) believes she is miraculously pregnant — Her age might be incorrect, but it’s around that. Tragically, her fiancé was killed in a car accident about 9 weeks ago. She wasn’t in the accident but she was very newly pregnant at the time, so new …
Bless Another—Bless Yourself — Hi everyone, So today I'd like to talk about a nice situation I manifested for someone else. **Context** For a long time, my mom's husband has tried to build his own business and also to purchase o…
Me (25M) and my girlfriend (25F) of 6 years. Need to know if this counts as cheating. — For context, I'm someone who has always wanted to improve myself and become the best version of myself. I've always worked on things in my own way and at my own pace. My girlfriend had grown frustrate…
My ex (40M) is dating my closest friend (38F) and I (39F) don’t know how to handle it — I ‘39F’ have been in a high-conflict separation for almost 4 years from my STBX ‘40M’. The 16 year marriage involved emotional, physical, and sexual abuse, along with substance issues. Post-separation…
RetroPK — # RetroPK Now, depending on your mileage this may or not may constitute as an experience. In 2025 in order to test for whether I had retroPK or not I endeavored to use a true rng to see how many time…
My peculiar version of ladder experiment + how I manifest effortlessly — This is gonna be long, but worth the read. I've been consciously manifesting for years with lots of successes but recently fell off my mental diet a bit (bc I'm human, ayo 😂) so was recommitting to…
What type of therapy should I get? — I need a lot of therapy and will need more therapy and I’m not sure what kind/s of therapist to seek out. I have depression, PTSD/CPTSD, schizoaffective disorder bipolar type, borderline personality d…
What's the meaning of "Feeling"? A detailed answer — The following quote is from an old comment by u/ Olutrageous-Vast9607 which I think more people will find it helpful It is a mood, an emotional state in res.ponse to something you contemplate (such …
The Power Of Awareness Notes — Consciousness is your concepts of self. “It is only by a change of consciousness, by actually changing your concept of yourself, that you can "build more stately mansions” - the manifestations of hi…
They are gonna regret It. — Unless you cheated, abused or something like that or if they have already found their person. If all of this didn't happen, they are gonna regret breaking up with us because to suffer like we are doin…
Probably around the same length that anyone has had a regular dream for. Not sure what the longest recorded dream is but on average I think it’s a bit over an hour, but I suspect that in rare conditio…
1. That is why it’s called maladaptive daydreaming. The person does so to escape their current reality. They are not making actual changes, thinking different thoughts, reconditioning the subconscious…
[https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Strange\_situation](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Strange_situation) You can have a look hear, especially regarding Disorganized. "Ainsworth put in print her blessing…
Used combination of Event bridge schedules and lambda function to assign permissions to outsiders using iam permission conditions clause with tags
Two basic choices: 1. You give them powers to push from local development (their laptops) into staging to test their Terraform. 2. You automatically push to staging as part of the PR CI tests (Su…
[We just had a discussion about this in the AvoidantAttachment subreddit.](https://www.reddit.com/r/AvoidantAttachment/comments/1kp4duk/the_hottest_hot_take/) What you're describing is very indicativ…
Hey I just wanted to say thanks for sharing your story and Im so very sorry for what happened to you 💔 Know that your little angel is having fun somewhere without experiencing the harshness of this w…
The last FA I dated shit tested me early on, dumping some not so flattering info about herself just to see how I would react. I'm not an FA but I've dated quite a few of them. Fear of abandonment is …
I dont think people realize the FA attachment style is a "cover" for other underlying mental health conditions such as BPD OR Bipolar. I think you have to stick it out in a relationship for awhile b…
"The last FA I dated shit tested me early on, dumping some not so flattering info about herself just to see how I would react." • Mine has done it throughout all 4 years! I faltered a few times, yes…
Honestly, I am so grateful for this space- considering it has aided plenty of beings including myself. With most experiences in all that we do, one might not understand or be quick to accept it as the…
Yeah OP if a man really loves you he won’t make you feel bad for those things. What I’ve found is to really get to know the person the best individuals arms you can fall into is someone who has the sa…
What do you want out of this? That's the starting question. This person said they didn't want a relationship? Do you want a relationship? This person has free access to you whenever they like, how d…
You’re really doing great - this is just so hard! I’m gonna say something that might sound counterintuitive and blasphemous, but I hope you’ll stick around to read my long winded explanation of why 😅…
Very astute observation with IFS: It happens infrequently, but it can actually encourage psychosis and dissociative conditions due to think of oneself as a multiple rather than integrated whole, so it…
Also, my ex would do similar things like you described. If I voiced I was concerned I had BPD and shared “why,” he would be supportive in the moment but the second there was conflict he would weaponiz…
Pushing through avoidance makes sense and is something I might suggest if you're with the right person under the right conditions (e.g. you're in a healthy relationship with someone you're happy with …
I am anxious attacher earned secure, after 2 years of therapy. Now I am in a relationship with DA or FA, possibly the second option, hurting as hell, considering leaving them. Everything was ok, for t…
I think her perspective on 'if they like you, you will know' is a bit of a reach. When someone attaches to another person is highly subjective. I don't agree with her perspective on anxious = fear of…
A healthy relationship can’t survive in those conditions. Your needs are not being met and he is not in a place to meet them. Trying to force it will not make things better. In fact it will make it wo…
Hi, avoidant aplspec aroace (the quadruple a!) here :) It's important to differentiate a trauma response with sexuality but it can be tricky. I think first things first, you should acknowledge whic…
Exposure therapy is going to be key for most people, in my opinion. I have OCD and I learned through treatment that for anyone with anxiety/OCD you have to learn how to tolerate discomfort. Now I don’…
Cool. Don't accept any form of criticism and stay single until every box is checked. It took 20 years with no luck, I'm sure the next 40 will be different. I'm also going to probably die at 50 due …
Yeah, profiles are not enough. You just pre-filter based on that, then pre-filter again based on a quick text chat, then pre-filter again based on a quick low-stakes date like coffee, and that's whe…
If it were me, I would continue to be avoidant of men and prioritize friendship with healthy women. And maybe try to see if you get an inner bisexual hiding in there to explore romance with women. Jk…
>Cannot fathom why she will not acknowledge her role in any of this from 2024-now and act like I’m the only one who felt anything That would be an acknowledgement of responsibility and she doesn't s…
Every eclipse is a continuation of what came before. This eclipse is a direct continuation of the themes of the September Virgo/Pisces eclipses. What houses do these signs occupy, those themes will pr…
For me… Aquarius Jupiter is my chart ruler and is in my 2nd house (3rd in whole signs). I’ve somehow chosen things to study that require massive machines and lots of space lol. Like printmaking, piano…
I wouldn't say so, you're the one volunteering for them. It's perfectly reasonable to do that under conditions you feel comfortable with. You just need to learn how to stand up for yourself here.
the pattern across these stories is remarkably consistent: early financial instability or scarcity consciousness, followed by a slow (often painful) process of building genuine material security throu…
And… I broke up with my (no longer) boyfriend. I should have done it last week and stuck to my original decision, but somehow we reached today as final breakup day. What a weird weird turn of events. …
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Two things I did to get me jobs that might help you. Once I actually wrote a message on my phone telling my partner I got the job!! it's perfect because... (listed my salary, conditions etc), then sav…
He is lying - he didn’t think you’d actually say “no” when he offered marriage. He was expecting you to be so overwhelmed by the fact that he was talking marriage that you’d agree to any conditions ou…
Yeah definitely stay broken up. My reading of this is that he didn't like breaking up because of the distance, so he brought up marriage to keep you. Then when you took him seriously, he panicked. …
Two minutes is almost nothing in terms of planetary positions. The planets barely move. But the chart can still differ in a few meaningful ways. First, the Ascendant moves about one degree every four …
Nah, you are released because you are high risk. So the hospital has to absorb the cost and care. All they have to say is that a woman is high risk and they don’t do high risk. So the bounce the herpe…
Your chart describes conditions, not a script. So yes, you can change how a placement shows up. But I would frame it more as evolving the expression rather than replacing it. An Aquarius Moon will alw…
Thanks! well, i like being an AuDHD person, it contributes to the way i think about things, and how i naturally perceive reality in terms of possiblities that must be investigated, rather than "social…
My AM tries doing this to me (25F) and I told her to fuck off. She forced me into signing a contract with her (no phone after 11 pm, put phone outside room, etc) but I don’t follow the terms and condi…
There actually are "cuddle groups" where I live, that are organized professionally. I have a depressive friend who was chronically touch starved after his wife left him, and I convinced him to try som…
I love that we both like to write text walls! I find that's a very common thing among us autistic-kind :D It really sucks to find out that he's conservative 3 years in.... I can't stand the "pull…
I am in Germany, so the cuddle group my friend went to might not help you. I am pretty sure it does not belong to a bigger organization. If you confirm I will ask him tomorrow. Edit: existing as ano…
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