effortless

THINGS TOXIC "SHIFTERS" SAY/DO (they are more normalized than you think) — Soo days back I made a post voicing frustrations about my shifting experience and mentioning a few a of my roadblocks. Two days ago I shifted successfully to the Odyssey and when I came back to my cr…

For having struggled with an anxious attachment in an earlier relationship, how does it feel for you to become more secure in a much different or more compatible relationship you are in now? — I am quite curious to hear if there are others who are at a place in their life still in their own "wound care" (healing) of being outside of an anxiously attached situation or of a previous unhealthy…

Why Manifestation can FEEL Forced and Unrealistic (Success & Guidance) — Today I came upon a realization that many people do not have for most of their lives. It was the realization that our feelings and the meanings that we attach to them are also affirmations. Right no…

Why do most victims survive the harm, while perpetrators can’t cope with a slither of accountability? — Victims live with the pain. The fear. The long-term fallout. Not being believed. No justice, or having to fight for it. Being made the aggressor through DARVO. The loss of safety. The way it rewires y…

You've Tried Manifesting Them Back Multiple Times - Here's Why It's Not Working — **"I've manifested my SP back multiple times but it never works. Now it just feels draining."** **You're not failing at manifestation.** **You're failing at creating coherent field states.** And th…

Spiritual Awakening & Instant Manifestation (wtf???) — So as the title says, wtf? I've been using multiple different ways of manifesting, manifesting with feeling, robotic affirming, and I've realized one thing. Manifesting is an act of creation that …

What is the connection between fasting and manifestation? — Does anyone here practice fasting? I have read alot about a state of fasting (36 hours plus) putting people in a state where they tap into adrenaline / relaxation through enhanced norepinephrine in t…

It hurts too much — God I never realised the level of pain that comes with being dumped by someone you genuinely loved and imagined a future with. It all seems like a big lie from their end. And to see them just move on …

THE PHOENIX LIGHTS 29th ANNIVERSARY This is what I saw that night March 13, 1997. It was a totally solid piece of machinery not just lights. I could see the bottom of the UFO clearly by two light sources illuminating the bottom of the craft as it flew over my head — I posted this also in UFO sub. March 13, 1997 I was working in East Mesa, Arizona in a 10 bed Hospice inpatient unit as the Charge RN. We worked 12 hour shifts getting off at 7:30 PM but that night t…

The only thing you'll ever need to manifest ANYTHING. — *And it's so clearly is the internalisation of the idea — "being good with it and without it".* *I'd Like to quote Nero Knowledge here who perfectly describes what manifestation truly is, "Manifestat…

Some Pointers after 12 Years of Meditation — Meditation is an invisible skill, which makes it especially prone to confusion and obfuscation. I wanted to jot down some pointers and opinions about meditation that have served me at one point or an…

Effortless manifesting - Deciding — I’m getting everything I want effortlessly. Why? Because i’m simply deciding on it. I don’t even want my SP back anymore, I’m aware of the fact that he can’t stop thinking about me, he needs me like t…

A couple great tips for easier Revision. — Revision is an extremely important yet underrated technique. After going through an event that "future" manifesting just wouldn't solve, I knew the only thing that would fix this situation is to chang…

Miss the sex with my ex — I’ve had sex with other people, both before and after my ex, and we’ve unfortunately been on/off and finally called it quits. However, every time we’ve broken up (I know intermittent reinforcement can…

Miss sex with my ex — I’ve had sex with other people, both before and after my ex, and we’ve unfortunately been on/off and finally called it quits. However, every time we’ve broken up (I know intermittent reinforcement can…

Why Some People Attract Everything Effortlessly

Anybody Else’s Parents Unreasonably Obsessed with Academics? — Ever since I can remember doing well in school was pretty effortless for me. From the first through about the fourth grade, I was a model student who consistently brought home shining report cards an…

The mechanics of EIYPO — Today it finally clicked after 6 months of travel in a new state and returning home to where the old state stayed. Everything was his, and nothing was mine, the detachment was amazing and it eventuall…

A LOB analysis of an experience I had at 17; and some encouragement — # Long post, probably worth it to read: There was one certain manifestation (I don't say LOB yet on purpose, you'll know why) of mine when I was 17 which always gave me goosebumps at the time too, an…

The most important part of EVERYONE IS YOU PUSHED OUT (EIYPO) — I think that what I will say in the following lines has to be reminded as much as possible in the manifesting exes and partners communities. Manifesting a person is not only easy, it is effortle…

Thought Breathing (imagining breath sounds playing) as a potential hybrid meditation +breathwork combo! — Thought Breathing (imagining breath sounds playing) as a potential hybrid meditation +breathwork combo! Hello! I wanted to ask in and share and/or ask around about a kind of meditation I haven't real…

The illusion of fighting your bad habits — Many people define their relationship with a destructive habit by the fact that they are "fighting" it. But the simple act of trying to stop usually fails because it keeps you trapped in a dependent s…

You Cannot Achieve Success by Slapping Positive Thoughts on Top of a Lifetime of Empty Expectations... — Here’s the truth most “experts” won’t tell you: Thinking positive, setting intentions, and believing the universe will deliver? **Not enough.** Manifestation only works when **you’re truly aligned**…

Need advice — I have noticed some people effortlessly attract people's attraction be it friendly,romantic or just platonic.. I have a friend of mine who is very close to me.. Whenever me,her and another girl hango…

How to visualize effortlessly and vividl — I want to keep it simple. Visualization should not be difficult. You should enjoy it. I often tried to force visualization to generate a feeling. But forcing visualization means you are trying to se…

How do I stop thinking like this — I'm a 17F, and I can't stop the feeling of comparing myself to my cousins. I know many people struggle with comparing themselves to peers and collegaes but for me its my 2 cousins who are in their ear…

Manifest Money Effortlessly Like The 0.1% Elites! This 7 Second Egyptian Sound Trick Attracts Money To You FAST

How do you get over the dread, and obsessive thoughts — I just got out of my first long-term relationship (3 years, I was dumped, from ages 17 to 20) and I feel completely lost. It’s only been 6 days, but anxiety, regret, and fear hit me constantly. I am a…

Long term Brain/Focusing issues after trying Yoga...Has anyone gone through something similar?" — I’m a 25-year-old male. Back in 2024, I started with the Most Beginner-level relaxing yoga poses (basic asanas from YouTube, \~30–45 minutes daily). In those 1–2 weeks, I began experiencing: * **Str…

Chemistry on first date but no energy — I had a first date and fealt good chemistry. I like her. I could see myself being with here. The problem is after being married for 20 years and now divorced for two, I am still very tired when it …

The "other" is just vibration & how to use non-resistance for stable contact and AP — The boundary between "self" and "other" often dissolves in the presence of pure vibration. In the realm of the experiencer, where phenomena challenge our linear narratives of order, the distinction be…

Are meaningful connections actually rare? — I’m asking this because I’m still young, and I feel like people with more life experience might be able to give me a better perspective. Is it really rare to truly “click” with someone? I recently w…

Been struggling with the question of her being a narc or me coming on too strong and chasing her away? — \*\*I am sorry if this the wrong place to post this but I could use some perspective.\*\* First time dealing with a girl who may have been a narc. We met about 2 years ago during a visit to her home …

I [28M] am afraid woman I'm dating [26F] is about to back out of relationship after reluctantly agreeing to exclusivity. — Me \[28M\] and Lea \[26F\] have been seeing each other for exactly 3 months now. We met through hinge back in the first week of January and had an explosive first date which ended in us sleeping toget…

How do I actually start? — Lately I haven't been doing anything and I desperstely want to start. I don't know if it's a motivation problem or a discipline problem but doing anything feels absolutely sluggish. I currently have …

My mother was a teacher. She understood children. She used that against me. — Before my sister was even born, my mother sat me down and did something I didn't have a word for until recently. She walked me through every single feeling I was going to have when the baby arrived. …

Ghosted after 7.5 years (4 years of dating 2.5 years off and on and 1 year friendship prior to dating) — It hurts so bad. This woman treated me like shit cheating on me, gaslighting me into taking antipsychotics I didnt need (instead of admitting to cheating on me), trickle truthing me for 2 years about …

It is REAL. It is easy. — First things first, I want to start with some of the things I did. \- manifested a change in my position at my job (was close to termination) \- manifested extra on tax returns \- manifested my dre…

The method I used to reach the I AM state. — After my previous post, I noticed that many people were curious about the exact method I used to enter the state of I AM. I didn't think going into much detail would be useful at first, since any met…

Manifestation shouldn't be this hard .... What's the real reason why some people are feeling stuck while others seem to have a great life, almost effortlessly? — If you have been trying to attract more money, a better relationship, or simply a life that does not feel so incredibly hard all the time, and nothing is working - then you need to stop what you are d…

Update: I finally got the job!!!! 🧿☺️ — *It’s going to be a long post so sit tight hehe* Hello everyone I am sure some of you may remember my post from around 5/6 months ago complaining about how I felt defeated and wanted to manifest a j…

My peculiar version of ladder experiment + how I manifest effortlessly — This is gonna be long, but worth the read. I've been consciously manifesting for years with lots of successes but recently fell off my mental diet a bit (bc I'm human, ayo 😂) so was recommitting to…

Does anyone else feel like they don't fully belong anywhere? — I’ve been thinking a lot about cultural heritage and what it feels like to lose touch with it over time. You grow up in one place and never fully feel like you belong. But when you look back at where…

Getting help at 18 — TW: mentions of abuse(physical, emotional), self harm sorry if I overshare but Ive recently gotten help at 18, ive recently turned 18 and I havent even gotten my highschool diploma yet but i graduat…

Am I being too harsh on the one I love? (Me M18 - Her F18) — I ( M18) have had an on and off relationship with this girl ( F18 ) who keeps swaying me back and forth. We first got together at age 15 and had an effortlessly passionate bond of friendship and roman…

My only friend got together with the girl I love and I just feel so done — Im mostly using this post to vent you dont have to read it I feel like a real asshole for writing this but I really need to get this all out my chest so around a month ago my friend got with some…

How to be a kinder person? — One of the main things I've been working towards is trying to be a kinder person. However, I'm still a long way away from that. My main problem is more internal. I don't really have kind thoughts. And…

How to stop envisioning a future with somebody even though they are already in a new relationship? — TLDR; It's hard for me to accept the outcome when the relationship problems were minuscule and could've easily been worked on. Nearly everything about it felt right, fulfilling, safe, effortless. I do…

I (F28) am still in love with a married friend(M29) and Idk what to do? — I (F28) had a year-long friendship with a guy (M29) that wound up turning into a casual/fwb dynamic for 8 months after he broke up with his long-distance wife. We talked and saw each other damn near e…

Neville Goddard: the Complete Reader Audible Chapter Titles — A life-changing investment. I listen, then listen again, and again. The chapters in the Amazon Audible file aren't titled. I wrote this out over several listenings. I find it helpful. I thought this g…

About point a, moonlight, oh, sweet, old memories, I actually hallucinated about 1 year, trying to act as if. No, it was not rough, it was hell, but I did it. And it kinda worked, but I don t recomme…

I manifested working remotely after i started a new job in the office. Well let me explain. Since i came to the us i been a housekeeping.. first in hotels then housekeeping in a hospital. I started im…

Sounds very fearful avoidant. I’m an FA, and I now understand that the fear of getting too close to someone emotionally (being vulnerable) and the inability to take accountability is actually a fear o…

He was amazing, thoughtful, and genuine… until he vanished (I think?). Help me stay zen while I wait. --- So… I (35F) matched with this guy (43M) mid-July, and honestly, he’s been kind of wonderful.…

Text of original post by u/BornEducation4428: I am quite curious to hear if there are those who are still in their own "wound care " (healing) of being outside of an anxiously attached situation or of…

So, I think I might have found the right person, but with the wrong timing and it's just... crushing. We met a few months ago at a mutual acquaintances party, had a great convo but I chickened out on …

M34. 2 months ago I met someone and we had one of those fiery, natural connections. One of those effortless, natural connections where two folks just look like they belong to there. He talked so much …

This sub often says "if he wanted to he would", but to flip that a bit I'll says, "He wants to and he does." As a man, if I'd read the description of his actions towards you I would've taken it as a…

I'm... just disappointed. I met someone back in the fall and was very quickly head-over-heels. For background, I don't date often after getting out of a very long-term relationship a few years ago, an…

Aspects to the Ascendant are definitely meaningful — the conjunction gets so much attention partly because it's fused into the body and immediate presence, but the other aspects still shape how that r…

I used to have this problem a few years ago when i was super introverted and had chronic anxiety at 20. But I did a lot of cool exercises/games that built up a skill where I could talk to most beaut…

I completely get your hesitation, but an activity date is actually the perfect icebreaker! I had a first date where we played a few games of pool (billiards) right before going to dinner, and it was w…

I don’t have those placements, but I have noticed that my two close friends with libra moons make and retain friendships very easily! Effortlessly themselves and effortlessly liked.

Realization and embodiment of peace are the foundation from which you know Divinity and manifestation becomes effortless. The layer underscoring all of ACIM is that your will is God’s will and you ca…

He had 8 years to change / show you he can be a good future husband/father. Yet, it never happened. Whatever your observations and gut is telling you, is correct. Eight years is A LONG TIME to be tog…

Jupiter for sure but it depends on sect. In a day chart Jupiter is the greater benefic, so Jupiter conjunct ascendant or MC in a day chart is basically the golden child placement. Night chart its Venu…

Hi. So let me start by saying I'm almost 40 and I've been where you are. It was hard. But after time I healed. I thought I lost my person when my (at the time fiance) left me. Out of the blue. Kicked …

That murder mystery dinner party I organized was A BLAST. The theme was a murder mystery in a museum. Most of us like visiting museums, so the theme was an easy pick. One of my friends (44F) who offe…

You’re not “the problem” because the spark isn’t there right now, but I do think you may be looking at love as if it is only a feeling. Love is also a choice, a duty, and a set of actions you keep tak…

Good point.  If you're not fully integrated, chemistry can mean that you're just repeating familiar patterns learnt as a child, which are not emotionally safe. If you're naturally empathic, highly r…

Composure isn't free. There's an actual metabolic cost to holding yourself together, your brain is spending energy suppressing what wants to come out, and that energy has to come from somewhere. Peopl…

No. Meditating is a doing, an effort. Meditation (dhyana, chan, zen) is an effortless happening that happens from time to time when we meditate. Once Meditation seeps into everyday life and any mun…

I've practiced over 10 years, if you get right realization, your meditation becomes effortless. Mind is like a muscle, more you train it better it gets.

Yes, this is my main practice, r/DryFastingSuper. A form of fasting that is stronger than regular fasting. It is the only practice that massively accelerates the vibrational frequency by tapping into …

When you love someone and imagine a future with them, your mind builds an entire life around that person. When the relationship suddenly ends, it’s not just the person you lose it’s the future you th…

I'll narrate my situation first, because some context might be helpful. After my experience of the " I AM", I began to search for something that would permanently cement that blissful state. I began t…

Mostly. The mind takes the subjective world as the objective reality. But this is merely a misunderstanding that arises from the illusory nature of the world. I am saying, detach from the belief that …

How about manifesting sp, is it effortless now?

It’s great that you are generally relaxed but that relaxed state should really extend to the simple act of simply observing one thing to the exclusion of all else for the time being .. true concentrat…

English is my second language, so wording might be bit off sometimes. What I'm noticing in your post is that you're focused on thing you want to manifest, but you're trying to manifest from place of f…

Drop the idea that the world is real and immovable. Consider the possibility that this is all imagination and dream-like. Observe how each moment appears, like a drop of water rising from the surface …

I read somewhere in your comments where someone asked you if sp manifestations are effortless now, that you made a vow of celibacy. But sp can be any specific person, literally anyone like a friend, a…

Please explain more if you don’t mind.. I really want it to feel effortless 

> You cannot find the same person twice, not even in the same person. This is a good thing I reckon! You now have knowledge of what works and what doesn't. I chose to believe there is someone that …

Detachment is not a belief. You are either detached or you aren't and detachment can only come about once you see how all things are inherently meaningless. I can believe to be detached all I want a…

>if we are wanting something it's because.. Wanting something isn't because it will make a difference in your life. Wanting something is to want to experience a "feeling" which you aren't already fe…

I was looking for this post, well done, but have one HUGE quibble. I think it's not effortless, but a huge amount of research, psychological insight, skill and .. manipulation, effort and control of …

Sure! Yeah I would stick with what you are doing and have fun with it. Try to be as relaxed as possible when you do your work, always aim to be “allowing” yourself to occupy the state rather than forc…

I experience this a lot and sometimes wonder why things seem to go through the motions so easily for other people but feel almost impossible for me. I think growing up with trauma can make you very hy…

Yeah right? Imagine me pulling out my cellphone on the hospital unit because a tinder date's effortless meme is burning a hole iny pocket. 

They used to throw "Someday you will have kids just like you! " in my face all the time growing up, and you know what? I did. Loving them was effortless. The desire to protect them came naturally and…

The dopamine hit was a good point! That makes a lot of sense, and I think I do the same thing. I'm a lot more witty in my imagination than I am in real life, but in my fantasy I have the time to come …

Hm you can find a lot of people disagreeing with the post which also brings me back to the point that human experience is subjective and each one of us have our own ways to relate to things and explai…

Very random that I'm commenting on this post again 2 days later, but I found a better way to explain what I was saying. You insist that you have the ability to know when you're awake. But that you do…

Manifestation is not easy. It's effortless since the law does it for you.

I begged him to go out , he always said he was tired and his feet hurt. It was always me to initiate a going out or a trip then every time he made something problematic during the trip and made us all…

Played around with several over time and most didn’t stick past a few days, they started to feel like another chore. Impakt’s one of the few I kept around since snapping meals felt a bit more effortle…

>"I understand that I have to live and think like I already have it." Remember, that's a limiting belief. Thankfully, you don't have to do that. So understanding you don't have to do that makes thing…

To add to OP's explanation, and to reflect on your question - your "reality" is where you pay or spend your attention. Attention is like the currency of the imagination. Imagination is the reality and…

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