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Wtf kind of breakup is this

Wtf kind of breakup is this — I am so confused. genuinely. This is between me (19F) and my now ex-boyfriend (20M). The relationship was 2.5 months, but the attachment, connection and attraction was extremely strong. He's a great …

r/ExNoContactpost4/10/2026
Ex reaching out after 10 years

Ex reaching out after 10 years — Hi everyone, my ex reached out to me after 10 years. This was a tumultuous high school relationship that gave me the blueprint for the life I’m living now. The heartbreak was so intense I went on a so…

r/energy_workpost3/14/2026
Calling AM on her bluff, even if it means she becomes homeless

Calling AM on her bluff, even if it means she becomes homeless — \*\*\*\*Warning this contains Abuse, this is not for everyone if you’re under 18 please do not continue reading this. I’ll try to make it brief. My AM was a single parent of 5 kids. That’s where he…

r/AsianParentStoriespost3/19/2026
Stop Asian Hate's iconic victim Grandpa Vicha's murderer Antoine Watson is going to walk free now without punishment

Stop Asian Hate's iconic victim Grandpa Vicha's murderer Antoine Watson is going to walk free now without punishment — [article 1](https://www.nbcbayarea.com/news/local/grandpa-vicha-sentencing-murder-case/4058429/) [article 2](https://www.cbsnews.com/sanfrancisco/news/granpa-vicha-killing-san-francisco-suspect-relea…

r/AsianMasculinitypost3/28/2026
The Tragedy of the Chinese Music Industry (and Society)

The Tragedy of the Chinese Music Industry (and Society) — If anyone's been following the recent controversy in China concerning singers Li Ronghao and Shan Yichun, you've probably seen the actually vile environment that is the Chinese internet (and Chinese s…

r/AsianAmericanpost4/1/2026
Death of refugee found after being released by Border Patrol determined to be homicide

Death of refugee found after being released by Border Patrol determined to be homicide — Murdered by Border Patrol, not ICE this time. At this point the whole DHS gotta get cleaned out, fuck these fascist pieces of shit.

r/AsianAmericanpost4/1/2026
Had an insane headache all day, Then went into an extremely realistic dream state. Met my dead friend.

Had an insane headache all day, Then went into an extremely realistic dream state. Met my dead friend. — idk if this is the right sub for this, but as the title says I had an awful headache all day last week. later, at night had a dream so detailed and real and lasted for what felt like hours. to keep…

r/experiencerspost4/9/2026
Vent; Life sucks, i can't deal with so much and I'm tired.

Vent; Life sucks, i can't deal with so much and I'm tired. — Tw: mentions of murder, emotional abuse, sexual abuse, neglect. Why have i gone through so much? i don't really want an answer, i know there's none other than luck, but this is too much for me. …

r/CPTSDpost4/10/2026
START HERE! - Beginner Guides, FAQs, and Resources

Just a few questions here - I'm new to lucid dreaming. I garden quite a bit, so I can grow Artemisia douglasiana and a few other helpful herbs and make a poultice or something. I usually don't rem…

r/LucidDreamingcomment11/4/2021
Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! New? Start here!

This is so weird to me! Do people really just keep all of their thoughts to themselves and not send them to their best friends and/or boyfriends? 🤔 See how I couldn’t even keep this question unasked?…

r/datingoverthirtycomment2/18/2026
I (F18) am jealous of my boyfriend (M18) for the gpt chat

It’s not the start, societally. We’ve known for a while that AI use damages critical thinking skills and can even contribute to psychosis. It has literally killed people. Because it’s the perfect echo…

r/relationship_advicecomment3/9/2026
The term lunar new year was first used in British Hong Kong to quell Anti-colonial anti-imperialist sentimemts

Are you trying to conflate me using logic based language to include more Asian cultures to the people who murdered my ancestors? (by the way, no British actually murdered my specific ancestors. There …

r/AsianAmericancomment3/10/2026
Why are they always convinced they've won even when they've lost?

When you are simply “unbeatable” in your mind, everything is just another move. You can’t lose if the game isn’t over yet. Very “oh you think so? Il show you” behaviour. I really think if someone …

r/NarcissisticAbusecomment3/10/2026
I just need to rant, Y'all. I'm so angry!!!!

Thank you, hugs right back at ya. I say this a lot but people like this will live forever, because that's what they just fucking do. The relief our entire family would have experienced if he just keel…

r/raisedbynarcissistscomment3/10/2026
The term lunar new year was first used in British Hong Kong to quell Anti-colonial anti-imperialist sentimemts

I’m talking about your dismissive attitude towards people who have issues with the british imperialists. > by the way, no British actually murdered my specific ancestors. you must be really lucky, c…

r/AsianAmericancomment3/10/2026
My dad told me to kill myself in front of my teachers

That is such an extreme insane reaction... you got a 4/7, it's not like you murdered someone. It's still a pass and it's literally 1 or 2 grades in HS. In the grand scheme of things, those grades will…

r/raisedbynarcissistscomment3/12/2026
My 22F boyfriend 22M is scaring me

This is how you get killed, do not stay with this guy. Do not try to help him. He threatened to behead you, he punches things. You are not safe anywhere near him. Please for the love of god realize h…

r/relationship_advicecomment3/13/2026
My 22F boyfriend 22M is scaring me

Omg that's actually heartbreaking :( My boyfriends dad had schizophrenia and the exact same thing happened. He murdered his room mate because he was hearing things. It sucks because back in his day …

r/relationship_advicecomment3/14/2026
I think my 32F 36M boyfriend lied about me passing out during sex

You don’t sound stupid or like you lack self respect, it sounds exactly like what you’re writing here. We’re all just seriously worried about you because this is not just a glaring red flag, it’s THE …

r/relationship_advicecomment3/15/2026
My mom who disowned my for being gay is ready to forgive me, oh and for me to financially support her and my dad after he retires of course.

It's so bizarre the stories abusive people tell themselves and the thoughts they have. You got tossed out, got threatened with being murdered if your father saw you again... now they expect you to wa…

r/raisedbynarcissistscomment3/15/2026
I just lost my brother. Is listening to the tapes a bad idea?

My brother was murdered last year. I was listening to the tapes prior, had a break, & then after his death I picked them back up. I do feel his presence at times, but it’s no longer a focal point of w…

r/gatewaytapescomment3/15/2026
My 22F boyfriend 22M is scaring me

My brother started hearing voices in his late teens. He then murdered our grandmother and said it was his alter ego who did it. I’m not trying to scare you but I personally wouldn’t mess around with t…

r/relationship_advicecomment3/16/2026
I realize Im not allowed to be anything less than above average with this condition.

I think the worst thing about not having a family is literally not having a family LOL you can have all the friends in the damn world but every Christmas… it’s not like you’re gonna be at their Christ…

r/CPTSDcomment3/16/2026
Have we reached a tipping point with generational trauma?

Born 1971- GenX. classmates committed suicide, abducted, raped, people were murdered, pregnancy, drug overdose & had all kind of stuff going on. It was hidden & no one talked about. Kids just mysterio…

r/CPTSDcomment3/16/2026
Sometimes they’re so cartoonishly evil you have to laugh

My father used to make up limericks about murdering all of us, except my mother because she was supposed to suffer. Then because she was also a narc, she would repeat them and talk about it with me. …

r/raisedbynarcissistscomment3/16/2026
I think my 32F 36M boyfriend lied about me passing out during sex

Strangulation is the number one indicator that a woman in a DV situation will be murdered by her partner ( https://www.domesticshelters.org/articles/identifying-abuse/strangulation-is-the-highest-pred…

r/relationship_advicecomment3/16/2026
What can I do when my (20F) husband (20M) is convinced I cheated on him because I’m pregnant again and refuses to listen to me.

I truly do not believe he think she cheated. We'll have to wait how this story unfolds, if there's any updates. She has stated in comments that they haven't been completely safe. She had no idea t…

r/relationship_advicecomment3/16/2026
39M 34F. Partner of 18 months says unless I propose with a 40k real diamond, don't propose at all?

Lab diamonds are REAL diamonds by the way. Just blood free. Unlike rubies, diamonds and other stuff they’ve murdered Africans over.

r/relationship_advicecomment3/18/2026
The Gift of Fear by Gavin De Becker

One thing that really stuck with me is the bit about how a man's greatest fear on a date is to be embarrassed, and a woman's is to be SAd or murdered. It made me realize just how differently men move …

r/CPTSDcomment3/19/2026
The Gift of Fear by Gavin De Becker

>She said nothing even related to what you just said. She said "I love how he writes when a man says no it is a complete sentence. When a woman says no it is up for negotiation." I was merely pointi…

r/CPTSDcomment3/19/2026
How I learned that a lot of women/girls are scared of men

Yeah I would say it's next to zero men have empathy for women in a real and meaningful way. I absolutely assert that. Your comment is just validating that. You're just the same as the rest of them. Mo…

r/CPTSDcomment3/20/2026
How do I (M22) explain to my girlfriend (F20) that I have a substantial amount of money?

do not tell anyone ..live life like a comfortable person ...people have been murdered for their money ...watch some episodes of Dateline.....

r/relationship_advicecomment3/21/2026
Man who killed Belltown restaurant owner found not guilty by reason of insanity

I remember all these liberals saying asians are so racist, specifically anti black but you see stuff like this, or that poor grandpa that got dropkicked and murdered in sf (with the killer practically…

r/AsianAmericancomment3/21/2026
Man who killed Belltown restaurant owner found not guilty by reason of insanity

As someone who’s unfortunately going through a similar situation (white man with major psych issues murdered my late husband), I can’t imagine how infuriating and insulting it must feel to have them b…

r/AsianAmericancomment3/21/2026
Man who killed Belltown restaurant owner found not guilty by reason of insanity

who is defending this? we simply recognize that lifetime confinement in psychiatric care is more appropriate than prison. what would satisfy you? what does retributive punishment do to bring back this…

r/AsianAmericancomment3/21/2026
Is it normal to hate your nparents? and To what extend do you hate them?

You aren’t alone! Sometimes I have intrusive thoughts of just stabbing them or something awful, maybe sometimes even them getting murdered on the way home from work and I feel so awful thinking that w…

r/raisedbynarcissistscomment3/22/2026
I have never hated anyone so much in my life

I feel for you. My wife has said multiple times that her ex-husband, who literally murdered a baby (in addition to cheating on her, stealing from her, assaulting her, etc.), is a better man than me. I…

r/Divorcecomment3/25/2026
People with CPTSD what are things that people just don’t get about it?

My mom was murdered by my step dad. I hadn’t spoken to them in nearly 9 years when it happened. Best thing my mom ever did for me was let me live without her. I am a mother myself, divorced from my so…

r/CPTSDcomment3/26/2026
I've met the 'angel of death' and it is not what you might think it is

I've never had a near-death experience but I have had 3 dreams of dying and I always have such a peaceful feeling during it. Every time it ended with me saying "tell my kids I love them." Even in th…

r/experiencerscomment3/26/2026
how old were you when you realized that your family and feelings weren't "normal"

Good to read you’re healing. The thing about the broad daylight robbery that hurt the most is that my inner child just kept going back to being robbed over and over again into my 40s. It’s like the r…

r/raisedbynarcissistscomment3/26/2026
My boyfriend (M21) broke up with me (F21) because I won't have a baby

Yeah, I’d break up with you too if you murdered our child. Perfectly reasonable response. I pray you find peace and recover from the intense brainwashing it took to convince you that this was the be…

r/relationship_advicecomment3/26/2026
My boyfriend (M21) broke up with me (F21) because I won't have a baby

That's okay. Can't fault my husband for not wanting to be with someone who he believes murdered his child

r/relationship_advicecomment3/27/2026
My boyfriend (M21) broke up with me (F21) because I won't have a baby

Think you should change title to 'My boyfriend broke with me because I murdered MINE and HIS baby.'

r/relationship_advicecomment3/27/2026
Burned Haystack: I Break the Rules

I can’t upvote this enough. And the joke is… the only guaranteed way to not die alone is to be murdered. Cause most men will die before women. Most men’s health will deteriorate before women’s. Most w…

r/datingoverfortycomment3/27/2026
My boyfriend (M21) broke up with me (F21) because I won't have a baby

So if a person was not aware they were murdered, like fir example in their sleep? Is it not still murder?

r/relationship_advicecomment3/27/2026
Covert narcissists are emotional sadists!

I believe they are compulsive liars and compulsive sadists. TW this murderer reminds me of my covert narcissist mother (he murdered a 3 year old, tw he's a liar who lies the entire time, in the end …

r/raisedbynarcissistscomment3/27/2026
Covert narcissists are emotional sadists!

Yes, while his mother covered for him and lied to the cops about his violent tendencies and sexual abouse of his own sister! I was so cheering on that sister who went in by herself to set the record s…

r/raisedbynarcissistscomment3/28/2026
Stop Asian Hate's iconic victim Grandpa Vicha's murderer Antoine Watson is going to walk free now without punishment

Well, I’ve actually had to deal with crime and justice issues on a personal basis, here in the US.  Racism wasn’t an issue in my case; the system just overall sucks.  Mark Wahlberg was given only 44 d…

r/AsianMasculinitycomment3/29/2026
stop calling abuse survivors “strong” when what we needed was help

Seriously? Maybe Sunny died of neglect. Malnutrition, maybe. Maybe Sunny got shaken by an angry parent and died of shaken baby syndrome. Maybe Sunny got murdered. Maybe her siblings and one of her …

r/CPTSDcomment3/30/2026
Antoine Watson, Grandpa Vicha's killer, will be released on probation and not go to prison

Tao Thao still murdered George Floyd with his actions though. Antoine Watson made a mistake and I don't approve of his actions, but it's wrong to ruin his life because the systemic racism and structur…

r/AsianAmericancomment3/31/2026
The World is yours.

Maybe this isn’t the best example of the right message. For context, that’s Scarface. He kills, does piles of drugs, and gets murdered all within a very short time.

r/lawofattractioncomment3/31/2026
Patterning works so well

Yeah my best friend was murdered by our boss in 2008 during a camping journey they had in the woods near the boss’s house. My best friend just denied $10mill out-of-court settlement 2 months prior. It…

r/gatewaytapescomment3/31/2026
Please join me in listing things that you discovered aren't normal outside your own toxic upbringing

You shouldn't have to wait outside a screen door listening while your mom listens to a girl getting chopped up after being raped and murdered in a movie. She told me that was happening and so I had to…

r/raisedbynarcissistscomment3/31/2026
I had my NDE in 2022, I died saw the process of a soul's comeback agreement

Karma seems like a trap. A lie to get us to feel we must reincarnate. But then each new reincarnation only creates more "karma to burn off". What is this growth? To what end? There is no growth or po…

r/experiencerscomment3/31/2026
Death of refugee found after being released by Border Patrol determined to be homicide

They knew exactly what they were doing. They murdered this person in cold blood and those scumbags likely enjoyed it.

r/AsianAmericancomment4/2/2026
BF (25M) ignored my (24F) safe word and I don’t know how to feel.

People are murdered during fetish play. Especially choking.

r/relationship_advicecomment4/2/2026
What is your definition of lucid dreaming and what is your experience?

This is a great question. I feel like for me there's 3 different "types" of dreams that I have. I also never knew what lucid dreaming was until recently and it is something I always have done and I di…

r/LucidDreamingcomment4/2/2026
Does it bother anyone else when someone says “I’m sorry that happened to you”?

Definitely this. Very few people - especially those who are alive - can *ever* understand what it’s like to have to protect family during *literal* homicide events starting at 14. As in holding a kni…

r/CPTSDcomment4/3/2026