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Completely mindfucked and heartbroken after a relationship with a highly intelligent covert narcissist — This is going to be a very long post, but if you want to know how a relationship with a highly intelligent covert narcissist looks like, you might be interested to read this. I've seen so much shit i…
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Marketplace Connect changed 12000 Amazon inventory items to 0 ! Has this happened to anyone? I can't get help uploading a product list I downloaded. — What a nightmare! This experience has been devastating! The software is supposed to be safe... how on earth does it change all my inventory to 0 and no one is willing to help me fix it?? I have gone a…
What makes you want to follow digital creators emotionally? — Im not talking about hobbies right now like following fellow motorcyclists or something because you have the same hobby, but emotionally… What is it that they give you that makes you follow along to s…
Personalized marketing: Questions about segmented waitlists for eCommerce (based on McKinsey Article) — I've been building on Shopify and came across this interesting McKinsey research about personalization that got me thinking about how store owners manage their waitlists in their stores. **Some key i…
Personalized marketing: Questions about segmented waitlists for eCommerce (based on McKinsey Article) — I've been building on Shopify and came across this interesting McKinsey research about personalization that got me thinking about how store owners manage their waitlists in their stores. **Some key i…
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How to actually contact support? Phone number is dead, Chatbot is...dead? — I'm trying to contact support on behalf of a fortune 500 company to regain access to some of our shops that because of turnover and neglect (thanks Covid) we've lost admin access to. Yes, we should h…
Title tags for product landing pages vs the actual products — I have a niche information architecture problem that I'd like to hear your views on. The website that I help to manage basically has 2 halves: product landing pages, and the actual, sign in-only prod…
To-do lists in text form don’t fit our way of thinking, they are slow and unproductive. To-Do Models is the way to go. — I’ve found Projects modeled visually instead of written in flat lists to be wayy more productive and successful. Traditional to-do lists are linear—one-dimensional. You follow a fixed path: top to bot…
Way to protect a page, give access only to certain users with passwordless login — Hello, I am looking for a way to add a page to my WP site, accessible only to certain people. Ideally they would have access without a password: enter their email, and if this email is part of an au…
ELI5: What is TDD and BDD? Also, TDD vs BDD? — I wrote this short article about TDD vs BDD because I couldn't find a concise one. It contains code examples in every common dev language. Maybe it helps one of you :-) Here is the repo: https://githu…
We built a 5-day Traction Sprint to help startups identify and fix growth bottlenecks - AMA — Hey everyone, I'm part of a team of specialists in brand, UX, and operations. We've developed a 5-day Traction Sprint aimed at helping startups pinpoint and address growth bottlenecks. We've worked …
Every day I try to do things right. Every day they say no. Now I duct-tape and maintain the mess I warn them about — Hey folks, Just wanted to drop this little gem of corporate masochism So I work at this company where we develop software for real state agencies, in this 'properties' sql table we have a field cal…
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I just did something weird before bed and I'm curious if it works — 've tried every habit people recommend for adulting better. Journaling. Meditation. Gratitude lists. Morning pages. I quit all of them within two weeks because they felt like homework. Tonight I trie…
Keeping the conversation afloat — The most difficult part I've found in OLD as a recently divorced, early 40s male is that many of the women I meet are terrible conversationalists. The most engaging and exciting exchanges have a rhyth…
HOW TO MAKE CHARTS SO YOUR POSTS DON'T GET REMOVED — # MOST IMPORTANT PLEASE USE ONLY THESE SITES: * [Astro-Seek.com](https://Astro-Seek.com) * [Astro.com](https://Astro.com) Do not use these chart makers. All are either useless because they don’t pr…
Update: Just found out my (36M) new friend (32M) is a registered sex offender — Original Post: https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/1rxhyrj/just_found_out_my_36m_new_friend_32m_is_a/ So of course the answer was obvious. I was stunned at first, but after sitting …
The fastest way identify every limiting belief blocking your manifestations. — Hey! I need to tell you something. This past month changed everything for me. Since July, I had been trying to manifest a remote job. I was stressed all the time, thinking about it constantly. At on…
40(m) w/ADHD needing to be reliable/dependable at home — I am 40(m) and separated from my (39f) wife. We live together still but I am just trying to be dependable and reliable from a co-parenting and human standpoint. We have 3 boys and I have ADHD and a…
Why don’t I relate to being a Capricorn when I have so many placements? — From what I read about capricorns they’re perceived as being traditionalists, hard-working, money-minded, serious, masters of self-control, professionals and leaders, valuing the material world etc. …
How I landed my dream job with robotic affirmation — Hey all, In January of 2025, I lost my job as a software engineer. For 6 months, I applied constantly with very little luck. Sometimes I made it to final rounds, but ultimately I couldn’t clinch an o…
Help me get my life back on track — I’ve been struggling with doomscrolling, masturbation, and laziness recently. I’m a great student and athlete. Recently, though, I’ve been getting home, hopping on video games, doomscrolling, then goi…
Best self improvement apps compared side by side so you don't have to download all of them — Used each of these for at least two weeks. Straightforward comparison. Habitica. RPG habit tracking. Character, gold, monster fights. Community quests for group accountability. Fun and unique. Gets c…
Me (M21) and my gf (F21) broke up and no contact — You’re probably reading this wow another break up story with the same details. Me and my girlfriend of 3 years broke up. We’ve had prior issues and mostly with me and that was because I wasn’t really …
am i childish for not being able tolet go? — its a little complicated we didnt just date and break up, i mean we kinda did but there was a lot before that. im gonna start from the beginning. i will skip a bit of unimportant stuff just keep in m…
Ditching productivity apps for a cheap paper notebook is the best habit I've built this year. — I run a 3 person tech micro-startup. My entire day is spent staring at screens, context-switching between a hundred different digital tools, and trying to keep our project from crashing. For a long ti…
manifesting activity that’s changed the game for my resistance/doubt — I decided I wanted to shut up my doubts and have some fun with manifestation. So, i’ve been writing weekly lists of random things to manifest and i tick them off every week (i saw this from another po…
Date of USA citizenship/renunciation of Chinese citizenship and new name of adoptee — I was adopted from China as an infant to American parents in 2003 and now need the exact date of which I gave up my Chinese citizenship and became a USA citizen and also the date of my name change. …
I [28M] am afraid woman I'm dating [26F] is about to back out of relationship after reluctantly agreeing to exclusivity. — Me \[28M\] and Lea \[26F\] have been seeing each other for exactly 3 months now. We met through hinge back in the first week of January and had an explosive first date which ended in us sleeping toget…
Mindfulness Survey (Anyone 18+, 10–15 min) — Hello! I’m a faculty member at Duquesne University conducting an academic research study on how mindfulness is practiced and experienced in everyday life. The goal of this research is to better …
It gets easier — I want to give something back to the heartbroken souls whose seconds revolve around that loud echo left by all of the “I love yous”. Our breakup was 6/2025. I did reach out a couple of times, they d…
Leaving if Date Lied on Profile? — I'm a woman (49F) dating in the DC area and have been on about a half dozen dates this year. My question: For example, if a man lists himself as 5'10" on his profile and (when I show up to meet him at…
How to stop this overwhelming vengefulness feeling — Briefly, I was secretly seeing a girl who's in a relationship she hates. She was very toxic and manipulating but also incredibly caring at times and one of the best conversationalists I've ever come a…
This is how no contact is going for me — What must it be like to be him without me? What does he see when he looks at himself in the mirror? What plans is he making? Does he like his present? Is he excited about his future? Is he playin…
POC solidarity as an Asian — Firstly I would not like for this post to derail into other non-Asian POC hate, and I know this is not ALL non-Asian POCs being this way. I know this bc my own non-Asian POC (Black, Indigenous Blak, P…
I left six months ago. I spent the first three months convinced I had made the biggest mistake of my life. Then something shifted and I realized the mistake wasn't leaving. The mistake was staying so long that leaving felt like losing. — I don't have a clean ending to offer you. I'm not on the other side of this in the way people mean when they say that. I'm somewhere in the middle of it still and I'm writing this because the middle d…
Stoic free will versus determinism — I recently posted this comment on a question regarding free will in Stoicism. I’d like any refinements or corrections to improve my understanding of free will and determinism in Stoic thought. The St…
How do you know if someone is for you? — I (18F) have been in a relationship for almost a year with my first even bf (18M). He is pretty much my first everything but I don't know if he is my forever person. But I also have no idea how I'm su…
How to move forward after a traumatic relationship? — TW: SA, emotional abuse I know this might be a long post, but this has been weighing on my mind for the past year and a half and I just found this community and thought someone may have some advice. …
I’ve just released the evidence to the press that NSW Police fabricated a medical diagnosis to criminalize my trauma. I am dropping the files here on Friday. — *Disclaimer: I am remaining anonymous while investigative journalists review the evidence file I just submitted to them. I have on me clinical assessments, hospital documents, and audio recordings sup…
The Camelopard Series (The Mentalist’s Handbook) By Clint Marsh — Wanted to share this series here with PDF links to the documents/book. I’ve heard good things on it and wanted to see if any of you had read these. Let me know what you think and your experience with …
10 Tips That Actually Made No Contact Stick For Me (127 Days NC) — After seeing so many “I broke NC again” posts, I figured I’d share what finally worked for me. I’m 127 days in after a 3-year situationship that was slowly destroying my peace. No dramatic story today…
my ex broke up with me nearly three years ago and i'm not over them and i'm so frustrated — Come next month, it will have been three years since my ex broke up with me. We dated 2.5 years. We were friends for a year before dating. We dated in middle school/high school. It should not be this …
Does anyone else's Nparent(s) hate religion and spirituality? — It seems like a pretty common thing for Nparents to be religious fundamentalists and use that as a weapon against their children and others. However, it seems less common to have a mom like mine who d…
Divorce in UT — ​ Hello, a very close friend of mine is attempting to divorce his wife. BLUF: need a super cheap mediator or attorney. He JUST got out of the Army not too long ago. His only source of inco…
i think i was groomed, hes now working where i get therapy, im overwhelmed — a few months ago i was homeless due to fleeing dv and moved into a mental health group home. there was a team lead who acted weird: \- invited me to have frequent private conversations with him when …
My friends are overly nosey and obsessed with my online partner — I (21F) recently fell into a video‑game hobby after my friends introduced me (games like fivem and stuff). A few months ago I met a guy in the gta server and we’ve been playing together almost every d…
Im lost unsure of what to do next — This is intentionally my burner account. If not applicable to mods, I understand. I'm 35 M. Gay. Jewish heritage & struggling or trying to cope with Nmom & how to "mentally let go" from her fear of …
Any playlists (preferably on loop) on the Monroe tapes?
I’ll take a crack at it Point 1: The answer is sm vs cm thought. Daydreaming is not focused with intent, the mind often wonders and you still feel it’s not true in the end or with emotions that are …
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I am in the same boat. Had my FA (maybe DA? I never knew about attachment theory until her. She was extremely committed and IN. LOVE. for 2 years and was much more anxious and attached. Then she was j…
I think all these time‐tracking systems in IT are absolutely useless and only justify the work of those who implement them. No offense to efficient managers. If the company were like a factory produc…
Interpreters make do. Sometimes agencies will have specialists that are better at technical or medical or legal contexts and send them, but it isn't always the rule. When I was in grad school, there w…
I hated making a plan for years and writing all the little things down. But that's what helped me. I know it's cliche. But writing to-do lists helps a lot. I have a Trello with weekdays, monthly plans…
Yes, I replied to another comment above with links to articles and further discussion on this topic. You made a unique point that other commenters haven’t pointed out about the racial and gender base…
Yes; unobstructed, capitalist political economies function through the operation of abstract recreations of human social relationships. The state replaces the nation/people, the corporations replace '…
What the other user guessed is also what I was thinking. You said she didn't explain and you're not sure she knows. Have you flat out asked her to explain? Not allowing a partner to get support like …
The DMM lists common behavior strategies found in the anxious and the avoidant attachment systems. Avoidant behavior strategies: >A1 (Idealizing): This behavior strategy omits negative affect regard…
When this would happen to me I would journal. I'd write down all of the reasons we are not together. I'd write down memories of where I was hurt. I'd make lists of what qualities I need in a healthy r…
Thank you, this helps. I keep getting stuck in the “too much” story. I’m trying not to "relapse" and I've slowly been trusting myself more and more by not checking if I'm blocked at all. I'm so glad y…
Yeah, I've already seen therapists and specialists, I'm just asking about the social part of this.
I (27M) met my fiance (22F) about 5 months ago through family. After speaking to her virtually for 2 months and then meeting her in person about 2 months ago, we got engaged. Now in the beginning of t…
It's honestly AMAZING how easy it can be to find a guy online/his full name if his profile lists his first name (and it's not a super duper common one), locality, and profession. And then once you ha…
One made a comment/joke about the top I was wearing, which got me laughing off the bat. (Fun, awesome start for a nervous introvert like me so I already liked him at this point.) Related to his outfit…
I use them as needed. With some people the conversation flows easily and whatever randomly pops out works fine. Other people need prompts. I also like drinks or dinner. But it does seem folks that a…
A small win for me is that I plan to start treatment in few weeks. I had gone to a psychologist about a month ago to discuss my newly- realized-to-me Dismissive Avoidant attachment style - a term I st…
virgo sun / aries rising is a quincunx (150 degrees) rather than an opposition like taurus/scorpio, and that actually changes how the shift feels. oppositions create dramatic, either/or tension -- you…
What's funny is I'll go on a date with someone and have a great time, then when I get home I'll wonder if there was chemistry or if we were simply two strong conversationalists having a lengthy chat! …
Some here in this list [https://x.com/i/lists/1271073634228899840](https://x.com/i/lists/1271073634228899840)
My partner told me he lists me as his emergency contact at work 🥰 Now imagine your emergency contact tend to do the risky activity than you lol
If you refuse to read the guidelines and ask something general like 'what does this mean' etc you will be handed a mute. Guidelines which will help in getting the right answers: * G1: Please state a v…
If you refuse to read the guidelines and ask something general like 'what does this mean' etc you will be handed a mute. Guidelines which will help in getting the right answers: * G1: Please state a v…
If you refuse to read the guidelines and ask something general like 'what does this mean' etc you will be handed a mute. Guidelines which will help in getting the right answers: * G1: Please state a v…
If you refuse to read the guidelines and ask something general like 'what does this mean' etc you will be handed a mute. Guidelines which will help in getting the right answers: * G1: Please state a v…
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I'm 57F and only realized the extent of my childhood emotional neglect following a complete breakdown a few years ago. Like you I have a devoted husband. Our kids love us in a way I find hard to compr…
These are old myths from the pre-internet days. I used to hear this nonsense all the time in the early '90s. Here is a diagram from a 2009 British study assessing drug harms by a team of addiction sp…
Definitely not. I do not fully think we can be. I think different versions of ourselves exist with eachother. If you search, "Parallel Reality Stories TikTok" on YouTube, you will see Playlists of …
I see this kind of situation come up pretty often in dating posts. The issue usually isn’t the individual facts someone lists. Plenty of people date without cars, with tight finances, or with anxiety …
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I one hundred percent agree on over specificity. I think there are universal and general qualities that make a good partner and I think all those should be there or the person should show willingn…
Original copy of post by u/senchafire: The most difficult part I've found in OLD as a recently divorced, early 40s male is that many of the women I meet are terrible conversationalists. The most enga…
God I feel that so hard. Slam poetry night where we all read our Lists of Horrors into a microphone, who’s in?!
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Nothing more frustrating when you are actively asking questions and all they come back with is the answer then 'and you?'. Poor quality male conversationalists make up 9/10 of my connections without a…
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If someone can't converse I unmatch. I will ask 3 questions and if they don't give detailed responses or follow up with questions for me, that's enough to know we aren't a match. The great conversatio…
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