radio silent

I'm noticing a trend, I am getting a lot of matches, but a lot of them are just "radio silent" out of the get go. I could understand if we have a conversation, don't vibe left on read but not unmatche…

Update to my previous post. Tis not a good one. — [https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/1q4sw3v/before\_i\_43m\_delete\_her\_44f\_number\_and\_move/](https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverforty/comments/1q4sw3v/before_i_43m_delete_her_44f_n…

My best friend (F35) with BPD has dropped off the radar and I (F30) don’t know if inviting her to my wedding will be too much pressure or not involving her will hurt more. What should I do? — My best friend and I met 8 years ago at work. Our friendship was very full on as we worked together and lived in the same city but even when we both left the city we met in, we stayed in close touch. …

Need to let this out of my chest (6 almost 7 days after my ex broke up with me) — I don’t know what to do, I feel empty and very sad. I feel like I really need to get this out because I’m struggling a lot to process what just happened. I was in a relationship with someone (b…

I was with my girlfriend for 5 years total, we got married last year, and the divorce is just being finalized now. 6 months of marriage, haha. She made a decision that effectively ended the marriage, …

Had a relationship end so back on the dating apps. I have one date with a girl im excited about tonight, we have been texting a fair amount and she wanted to do phone calls before the date so talked a…

I recently returned to online dating after a 5 month relationship ended (That was from Hinge after one week on the app). Before that I wasn't actively dating, so I am out of touch with modern dating. …

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I went through a very similar situation. Without sugarcoating, it sounds like you’re sitting yourself up for a huge disappointment and an even worse heartbreak (yes, worse). During my attempt to win h…

Funnily enough for me, my last break up he told me I did nothing wrong and that it was really a case of it being "him not me". But when I went right back; to before we were together and looked at his …

Im very careful to over psychoanalyze people. I dont like doing it, I dont like 'trends', and Im generally a contrarian when it comes to anything. So to just slap oh well, hes avoidant on our situatio…

Turned 30 on Friday there. Upon reflection, I realise I have next to no dating experience. Someone seemed to like me recently, but revealed they weren't ready for more than playful flirting and has be…

I think in this particular case, his silence seems to speak for itself. And I don’t think he would change if you guys went back to it. And someone who goes radio silent when they get caught doesn’t se…

OK since other people are sharing their bons mots and comebacks to such a situation. Similar situation happened to me way back in 1990. (I'm old) During the time dude was radio silent, Christma…

I completely relate. Please don´t talk down or gaslight yourself about getting hurt by your mother´s disinterest, it´s HER loss. The only thing you can do is try to see the reality of your relationshi…

Why did he ghost you? What was his excuse? Did you not go to his house and check on him once he went radio silent? This is bonkers. How can people do this?! I

In a bit of a new situation for me and looking for any advice or people with experience. I only recently started dating again following a breakup about a year ago. The dates have been mostly pretty g…

When this has happened to me in the past, I gray rock. I trust my ability to communicate; I’ve always been noted for it by others. So if a partner declines to listen or value my input, I consider it d…

We have, a few times. Sometimes we have break through talks about planning things, then it goes radio silent on his end and he seems annoyed when I bring it back up.

That's interesting. I don't go radio silent after setting up a date, but I don't over-text either. I personally would much rather get to know someone in person at first. Thanks for the perspective.…

I miss feeling excited about someone! Didn’t end up going on any dates in March. I was talking to someone who asked for my number so we could make plans, then went radio silent for the last week. Sooo…

I can't speak for everyone, but I find it very different to plan things for someone who's enthusiastic vs not, and a lot of the "planning dates with men" that I've done fell into the latter category. …

man that's way too much secondhand info to be making any big decisions on, but the fact she's gone radio silent right when you need to talk is telling you everything if she can't even have a conve…

Ive been trying to manifest a guy we're more like a fling but now back to be friends . We are in contact but dont talk. Anyways cirmustances are these cant go in detail eehk. Ive been manifesting sinc…

That may be true. But if you go radio silent, don’t check on her, don’t say or do anything, she’s going to look for you. Make sure you’re prepared for when that happens.

As a man, (who doesn't have kids btw) I have noticed that my fellow gender members have a huge inherit bias about single dads versus single mothers. They are always radio silent on cases like yours …

I randomly got a text last Monday from a former friend I haven’t seen in almost 18 years (he abruptly moved cities when we were 16 and cut all ties with our friend group). He told me he was in town an…