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in sickness and health

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Considering leaving my long term partner due to mismatched libido. Am i crazy for throwing away a 20+ year relationship over this?

It could very well be that she's on the asexual spectrum. But also worth considering reading up on primary and secondary reasons for attraction (psychology keywords are: spontaneous and responsive lib…

r/BreakUpscomment4/10/2026
I made the worst mistake ever

If you get married you’ll already have confirmation that this is not a relationship that honors “In sickness and health”. Disgraceful for his lack of follow through. At least you know what you are sig…

r/relationshipscomment3/12/2026
Sunken Cost Fallacy

Please leave. It’s never too late to start over and this isn’t who you want to grow old with. He won’t be there in sickness and health. I’m older than you, twice divorced. I regret the time I spent wi…

r/Divorcecomment3/15/2026
My husband (39M) is annoyed that I (31F) always get sick after him. How can we find a solution?

*sigh* This is probably going to get buried and you aren’t going to see it, but just in case you do, here is what my life looks like. I am immunocompromised, when I get sick, it’s bad…like, BAD. W…

r/relationship_advicecomment3/23/2026
3 years after an unwanted divorce and I’m thriving

Having a health crisis isn’t letting anyone down. It’s him not stepping up. In sickness and health and all that.

r/Divorcecomment4/6/2026
Is it worth getting a divorce

Lemme start by saying I refuse to justify how his behavior has impacted you. I empathize heavily with your stress and fears. My heart goes out to you. Now things to consider: if you took “traditiona…

r/Divorcecomment4/7/2026
Found out my (54F) ex‑husband (52M) died alone - struggling with guilt and perspective

so in sickness and health, till death do us part or until I just change my mind and leave you because you're struggling with mental sickness

r/relationship_advicecomment4/8/2026
My (28F) boyfriend (33M) broke up with me while pregnant

This would be the smartest move. You are guilt tripping yourself into thinking your early pregnacy issues caused your boyfriend's actions. True partners are there in sickness and health. He does not …

r/relationship_advicecomment4/10/2026