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Yes I noticed they're finally letting you filter more for free! Overall I find Hinge to be the best - I've noticed people actually read my profile and prompts! EDIT: It's funny, I have one of mine se…
"open to children" — what does it mean when a woman's profile says "open to children" particularly if it doesn't mention she has her own. I have kids, I don't want anymore, but I do want someone to be with for the rest …
I tend to be more particular with who I swipe on these days (partially because I'm childfree and so many people want kids or are "open to kids".
I’m a bit confused by men in their late 30s or in their 40s who put “don’t know” for the _Want kids?_ question on the apps… I understand the “open to kids”, but I feel like at this point in life, you …
This used to infuriate me but now I'm trying to laugh at it. I wonder if that's not true, in some cases? Maybe it's a harder no but they don't want to close off the avenue to dating the large share of…
I don’t know, LTR and kids are my primary things I look for. If there’s anything else listed besides LTR = swipe left. If it doesn’t say “want kids” or at least “open to kids” = swipe left. The few fi…
That one sucks indeed! I was talking to a woman a while ago, we had a great banter, and just as I was about to ask her on a date she told me that she missed the info in my profile where I want kids (s…
People who being up having children or getting married before a first date are off-putting. You're putting the cart before the horse. You've only texted, the guy has no idea if you'll actually have ch…
I don't automatically swipe left on men who put "Open to kids" because I've also heard some men put that specifically because they're open to dating a woman who has kids already. My ideal scenario wou…
Original copy of post by u/micdear84: what does it mean when a woman's profile says "open to children" particularly if it doesn't mention she has her own. I have kids, I don't want anymore, but I d…
When I say I’m open to kids I mean open to if someone had kids, not that I want to have more kids myself., Why don’t you just ask?
I take it as she's open to kids and she didn't specify further. She may not have dealbreakers about it and/or just prefer to share more in person. Rather than ask her to elaborate before meeting, I'd …
Open to kids is like youre open to it if your partner wants them. I always find it hard because I dont have any, dont want to have any, but love kids. So I always mark i dont want kids, but always say…
I think you should ask these ladies. I’d read it as open to having kids because the alternative is usually “don’t want kids” but reading this Im now unsure . I’m f40s and I avoid males who don’t have …
I select "has kids" "doesn't want kids." In my profile I used up space to say (more or less) "I'm an empty nester, but am OK with dating parents still living with their kids." I wanted it known my k…
I guess my point was more about being conscious of what a partner may want out of a relationship, and if you can provide it advertise it. I’m amazed how many women don’t put an occupation on their d…
This is so interesting because as someone who is firmly in the “doesn’t want kids” camp, I always kinda read the “open to kids” guys as just picking that because they assume most women want kids and t…
Can't speak on #2, I never understood it lol. But personally, I really am "Open to kids". I've raised children since I was 20 so I already have the experience. If we have kids, great - you won't se…
My cousin has known his entire adult life that he wants kids and was dating specifically to find a long term partner to have kids with. It was a hard requirement for him in a partner. It's not for me.…
I don’t have kids and have that field hidden. I learned here that men with kids assume women w no kids won’t date them. But if they’re on paid sub they can filter me out because i did answer the que…