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I [28F] may have set my boundaries too high [32M] — I've been seeing this guy less than a week. We met 3-4 times in this week for short bursts of time. He expresses openly his affections/intentions whereas I am more reserved. He was respectful and did…
Gateway Improves my timing — Does Gateway improve your sense of timing? I never hear anyone talk about this, but it amazes me how it works. It's worth doing it for this alone. I always seem to be in the right place at the right …
Focus 12 — Something I noticed my first time going through Wave 2 Tape 1 was how distinctly different it was to the Focus 10 sounds. I haven’t had an OBE yet (not the goal for me, if it happens it happens) but w…
Writing about my experience with Iboga medicine 🌱 — Earlier I made a post and someone commented that they didn't want to watch a video. Understood! Here is an account of what I saw during my time with ceremony number one with iboga. It was not what I i…
I, 26F am in a loving, commited relationship of 5 years with partner (25M), have additional strong feelings for another man (27M) — This dilemma requires years of backstory which I will concisely summarize to the best of my abilities. I (26F) am in a long term relationship with my partner (25M).We met while we were in undergrad (d…
Encounter with "Long-Nosed" Tall Entities in Slovakia (2024) — I am looking to see if anyone has had similar experiences with specific types of tall beings. This has been weighing on me, and I recently found a book cover that kind of matched what I saw. Last we…
Any Practising Muslims? — What would your life look like if tomorrow you got green light to cut off your nparent?
Connecting the dots in 2026: My "accidental" beginner experiences and the 3-year gap. — Hi everyone, I’m looking for some advice on re-attempting Astral Projection. I’m just now realizing how close I actually got to projecting a few years back. About 2 or 3 years ago, I was deep into att…
Like you say in the comments, some of these people are crossing your boundaries and in cases like that, it isn't a good idea to give a disingenuous response because it will most likely be taken as a g…
Long text but I would really appreciate any advice and support 💗 TLDR in the end. I'm meeting up with my avoidant partner after he shut down at the mention of a problem. So my partner (21m) and i …
Sports club friend asked me to hang out on Saturday with just the two of us. It seems pretty obvious to me now that she has given me the green light. For the last few months, I've been perfectly cont…
So, I can appreciate that because I don’t respond well to that kind of “flirting,” and so it’s not something that I can keep up. If someone insults me, or is sarcastic with me without being given the …
This one is a bit tricky. I am female btw. I see many people are just encouraging you but I would be more cautious. First of all, I think telling everything about how you feel right away is a bit risk…
I am definitely being more cautious than people are suggesting. The thing is, we are really good friends, so first and foremost I don't want to lose that relationship. We have done things one on one i…
Thank you for thinking so :) I appreciate it haha. I am going to try it, and already sent the green light response back. Now I just wait and see what the next step is
Hmmm. I started seeing a man I matched with on Hinge about two months ago. Some travel plans and sicknesses gave us a slow start, but over the past 2 weeks things have really been ramping up. We just …
I’ve been having an increase in the intensity of my experiences. First some lights in the sky, fast moving, don’t stick around, then saw a bell shaped craft that turned into neon green light and zoome…
It really depends on what that friend wants. In general, it’s not a good idea. But it’s also person specific who you’re dating. She should ask all the questions and set her expectations. I would see…
Went on a fourth date with a girl a friend set me up with, who I [posted](https://www.reddit.com/r/datingoverthirty/comments/1r218q9/daily_sticky_thread_for_rants_raves_celebrations/o4vrsmg/?context=3…
>"give you a much lesser version of the relationship that you deserve" The way you read this statement as being entirely about you, and feeling somehow accused of your standards being too high is wil…
Hello. I don't think it's wild at all tbh. I am being told what I deserve, of course I am going to feel one way or another about it. And yes, I was not given a heads-up about many of my partner's feel…
This isn't love. I don't know why you still got married tbh. Get your butt into therapy to deal with whatever made you think 6-8 months of not talking is a green light to get married. You want him bec…
Is it robotic affs, inner dialogue, SATS, meditation or what? Do you push the 3D or wait for life's green light?
I don’t like the idea of someone being bullied & leaving without a fight. They win if the victim gives in & quits. It’s a green light to repeat the bullying to the next person. Whereas they might not …
Left it’s baffling but not super new. Had a family member who was a victim advocate for a branch of the military. Over 20 years ago I visited her and she was telling me about her current work load and…
She absolutely knows deep down he did it, but she's trying to justify it to herself so she doesn't have to upend her life. Blaming you is her not wanting to face up to the fact that the man she loves…
I would be surprised if it doesn't eventually get the green light. They can't leave us hanging on for it.
I think a lot of liberals miss an important fact when discussing Asian comedians. Their biggest audience by far is other Asians. The question then becomes do we cancel them on the off chance that raci…
“I know more than they want me to know” girl…🚨🚨🚨…. That quote alone is really alarming to read. I’m not even taking into account the shit with your APs basically disrespecting your time and fucking…
It wasn't for him. I don't like the word "trashy" about a person for personal preferences like tatoos/piercings/body mod; feels harsh to me. That written, I know it can be a hard no for some, a warn…
Yes, but that doesn’t mean they have to be the one to leave. We manifested an awesome house that was perfect for us during COVID. We literally asked for the “right house” and got a house on a street …
Shang Chi being lost on the momentum has nothing to do with the director though, nor does Marvel green lighting Shangchi. Cretton did not put Shangchi on the back burner, Marvel did. And Brand New Day…
You've already established rapport. After that ? Continue with some flirting and see if he responds. "How often do you get hit on here? Your wife must object to that." He likely will tell you if indee…
It’s ok. It was hard for even me to find it. You would be lost. https://podcasts.apple.com/ca/podcast/otherworld/id1647611444?i=1000748082413 Here is a tidbit. Sorry it’s a Patreon post. He puts s…
Sounds like she is giving you a green light, because she is already doing it. Youre in danger
Get the tea from one of his coworkers. Ask subtly, "hey is so-so single or married?" Once you get the green light suggest maybe hanging out some time. Do not be afraid to flirt if he's available.
This. I’ve (49m) had guys make me feel so uncomfortable and o think the same happens to women from men. I empathize with women and need a green light on their forehead for me to think of approaching…
This is a newly formed friend group, 3 girls and 3 guys (including me). I really like being friends with girls, and I have lots of purely platonic girl friends back in my home city all between 8-13 ye…
I am spiraling at this moment. Maybe the worst but doubt it. I ended a 16 year marriage around a year ago. Was with that person for 18 years and friends much longer. That relationship was great until…
Shes gonna continue to do it because you stay. She doesn't respect or appreciate that you stayed she looks at you as weak and you gave her the green light to continue it. Look up Trickle truth and als…
You should read "Why does he do that" by Lundy Bancroft. There's a free PDF you can download. As others have mentioned, being drunk and using substance doesn't make someone violent. Someone already ha…
She wants to cheat. Period. She probably knows who she wants to bang already, since she’s asking you for the green light. It’s probably time to talk to a lawyer.
that part about the evenings hitting like a truck really got to me. i used to stare at the fridge for twenty minutes because picking a yogurt felt like a life-altering crisis without his "input" to gu…
I kinda thought I'd be safe because I wouldn't expect a girl to not only do it without me asking but just straight up go in immediately on the second date. I only wanted to make her feel good, I figur…
I've noticed this too, that there is this 0-60 in three seconds flat once you kiss someone, that they then want to immediately have sex with no more waiting time in between. I haven't found the magic…
A lot of times in people's first relationship (or first few relationships) they wind up accepting substandard treatment from a partner because they don't have any sort of baseline of comparison. And t…
I am in a similar situation. After being pulled from work previously for several months that green light came back and I rushed right back! Take the time! Actually work on you! Feel your feelings! Res…
Synchronicities like finding a bunch of quarters when I needed them, talking with family about my grandparents old house and the 3rd fb vid I watched after a guy was talking about his childhood home a…
"My partner says she chooses me but keeps an emotional affair with her coworker" Ok? So her actions are speaking LOUDER than any BS coming out of her mouth. Why is it so hard for you to accept this n…
i felt that deep in my chest. i used to spend hours watching his "active" status bubble, just waiting for it to change, and every minute he stayed online without reaching out felt like a fresh rejecti…
Did what you see have the same green lights in it? Or was it just purple clouds/fog? Sounds beautiful too.
I usually don’t say this, because I don’t think it’s constructive. But you seem hopelessly naive or incredibly gaslit by that woman you call a wife, so anyways, why wouldn’t she fuck him again? You ga…
I’ve heard the same booming voice say the same thing to me and I was in the location on the bottom right of the pictures. I’ve also had a dream of waiting for my mom to be my mom, to go further with t…
i felt that line about choosing yourself feeling like losing him. i spent five years moldng myself around someone else’s moods and when i finally left, i didn't feel "free," i just felt hollow. it’s l…
Yes, but try to layer the 4D visualization over the 3D. I used to practice this with stop lights. I'd imagine a green light with closed eyes, then hold the image while opening them. More than half the…
I let the woman lead. When I get an extremely clear green light that us making out should go further, then that's when it does. I don't care if it's date #1 or date #10. As long as it is clear that t…
Absolutely fucking infuriating. Not sure if your parents are toxically cheap and excessively frugal too, but if they are, such crazy hypocrisy for your mom to pull the plug on this trip that she initi…