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Why are East Asian men in US/Western media so often portrayed in such a narrow way?

I also feel like media representation is skewed towards "mainstream" media, like famous tv shows and hollywood movies. As a person who do not give af about the so called mainstream media and who loves…

r/AsianAmericancomment4/4/2026
Yes, i am asking this question again, i am still confused 🫠😔 also maybe it turned into a vent

Yes, i am asking this question again, i am still confused 🫠😔 also maybe it turned into a vent — I (17f) keep flopping between whether i am a rotten abusive daughter who is ungrateful and my parents (50f) (54m) are the problem i absolutely hate them and wish the worst. soo yeah...... i guess i so…

r/EmotionalNeglectpost4/9/2026
What so funny about my Asian name?

so I’m a gyopo and I think they might have thought of it like an asian “fuck u” simply because the second syllable is Yoo. so ignorant and uncultured of them, I’m sorry you dealt with that

r/AsianAmericancomment3/14/2026
Yellow fever is a result of purity culture

I've seen Asian fever in all parts of the political spectrum but I would argue that it's more on the left. Liberal political orientation correlates very well with educational status. As a very educat…

r/AsianAmericancomment3/19/2026
How do I (F26) talk to my partner (M33) about casual misogyny?

but not a high importance on a cultured partner who could fit into said group… can’t say i understand those priorities

r/relationship_advicecomment3/19/2026
ENM Popular Now?

I’ll be honest, I HAD to be ENM because no man that I have met in the last 5 years has enough time or energy to date. In addition, nobody on apps likes to do all the things I like to go to. At one poi…

r/datingoverfortycomment3/20/2026
ENM Popular Now?

100%. I think so much of this ENM thing is absolute bullshit but it gets twisted to make the rest of us normies look like uncultured rubes. Can’t eye roll enough. It is highly overrepresented on the a…

r/datingoverfortycomment3/20/2026
r/relationship_advicecomment4/2/2026
Realising I was raised in a non-religious household that *felt* really religious. Anyone else?

I always found it sooooo odd that mom prided herself on being liberal, cultured, and anti-religious, but her actions were so controlling and upright when I became a teen, more controlling than my frie…

r/raisedbynarcissistscomment4/3/2026
Curious about your experiences interacting with other Asian Americans

Dang, that explains a lot. Did you do Asian American studies? This could be a good post on its own. Thanks for the detailed explanation. I learned a lot. >Americanness and assimilation was emphasize…

r/AsianAmericancomment4/4/2026
Looking back and realizing that, from the start, she went out of her way to try and hurt me with my triggers/personal limits, and how bizarre and petty that was to experience.

Yes!!! It was such a weird range, and her having stolen/collected from previous relationships, because she would talk about her previous exes and their tastes a lot. She also watched movies and read b…

r/NarcissisticAbusecomment4/4/2026
r/relationship_advicecomment4/5/2026
F29, M31 soon-to-be married couple, family conflict before the wedding. How do we fix this?

The SIL also stemmed from the fact that I had given her a gift for Christmas ($300 worth), and she forgot to give one to me. Also, I had attended a funeral for one of her husband’s relatives, and she …

r/relationship_advicecomment4/5/2026
Everyone wants to “be Chinese,” but nobody wants to be Chinese. Up on a pedestal or down on its knees, it’s all orientalist fantasies

They will just move on to repping another culture that’s trending, without fully understanding it. Just another way to be seen as cultured, current, and anti-conformist.

r/AsianAmericancomment4/6/2026
The abused will become the abuser, actually can anyone brake this cycle?

Cultured mom : 1 point Can apologize for her children :99999 points  Seriously it's not easy thing to do, there's no alot of moms who could do that.  But scolding your kids was never a bad thing the…

r/raisedbynarcissistscomment4/6/2026
Why Don't Quality Men Seem To Want To Be With Me?

Let me preface and say I'm not trying to be rude or make you feel bad... I'm probably not what you would think of as a "quality man" so feel free to ignore this. What I am though is self-aware and emp…

r/datingoverfortycomment4/7/2026
What the actual F?

There are many ways to get UTIs, and men occasionally have asymptomatic UTIs and pass them to their partners. I was in a monogamous relationship with someone where this happened. I got three UTIs back…

r/datingoverfortycomment4/11/2026
35M bf wants to control how much I eat. I’m 25F

He's begging you to set boundaries with him. Set them. Tell him: 1) I am happy with how badass I am; 2) I am sexy af and I have a job helping future generations because I care; 3) I don't think you e…

r/relationship_advicecomment4/12/2026
How will be my spouse and in laws ?

Your Cancer ascendant with Moon in Libra makes you emotionally balanced and diplomatic. Saturn in Cancer still applies but your Moon in Libra helps you handle in laws with grace not conflict. Your sp…

r/vedicastrologycomment4/12/2026