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Why are East Asian men in US/Western media so often portrayed in such a narrow way?

I also feel like media representation is skewed towards "mainstream" media, like famous tv shows and hollywood movies. As a person who do not give af about the so called mainstream media and who loves…

r/AsianAmericancomment4/4/2026
This is a support sub. Be kind to each other.

This is a support sub. Be kind to each other. — Almost everyone who comes here is here because they are going through a very painful and difficult time. We're not all at our best. If you go into someone's topic, remember that they came here askin…

r/Divorcepost8/7/2023
Start Here: Essential Resources & FAQs

Start Here: Essential Resources & FAQs — The idea for this post came up in [this thread](https://www.reddit.com/r/Wordpress/comments/1cpme25/mods_can_this_subreddit_implement_a_minimum_karma/) by wiz to avoid the number of similar questions …

r/Wordpresspost5/13/2024
Think of the comments as inverted Uber ratings. (click to find out what this means)

Think of the comments as inverted Uber ratings. (click to find out what this means) — I last posted a variation of this a little over 5 years ago. We're a little overdue for a repost. --- You know how every Uber rating is right on the verge of 5 stars unless something's particularly …

r/relationship_advicepost6/10/2024
Official r/realityshifting Discord

Official r/realityshifting Discord — ## Welcome to Shifting Help! ### The official r/realityshifting subreddit's server! I made this server a while ago to serve the purpose to give the right information to shifters across the world !…

r/realityshiftingpost7/23/2024
Happy New Year and Bye-bye 2024: 6th Kill - $20,000 from Futures Trading

Happy New Year and Bye-bye 2024: 6th Kill - $20,000 from Futures Trading — # 6th Kill: $20,000 Money Mission **Mission**: To make $20,000 from futures trading **What I achieved:** I made $20,000 from futures trading **How long did it take:** 5 and a half months **Backgro…

r/JosephMurphypost12/31/2024
A Procedural Update for the Continued Health of Our Subreddit.

A Procedural Update for the Continued Health of Our Subreddit. — Hey everyone on r/NarcissisticAbuse.  We get it, we really do– the U.S. political situation right now is a bloody mess with further escalation, rather than some kind of stability, on the horizon.  W…

r/NarcissisticAbusepost3/10/2025
How Can I Manifest Someone I Don’t Even Know?

How Can I Manifest Someone I Don’t Even Know? — Hey everyone, I need some advice. I recently saw a really handsome guy at my university fest, but he was an outsider. We didn’t talk, didn’t exchange contacts, and I have no idea where he came from o…

r/JosephMurphypost4/8/2025
Long road to dream job and instant healing.

Long road to dream job and instant healing. — Bestcub called me to write this, I hope it will be helpful to someone. A story like many others. After years of wandering around shitty loa and other stupid spheres, books and forums I finally start…

r/JosephMurphypost4/10/2025
Need Guidance on Turning My Design Into a Functional Social Media Website

Need Guidance on Turning My Design Into a Functional Social Media Website — Hello everyone, I’ve been learning IT for the past few months, with the long-term goal of becoming a white-hat hacker. I also have a couple of years of experience in graphic design. However, when it …

r/web_designpost4/17/2025
Best Practice HTTP Status Code for Proxy-Level Content Validation Failure?

Best Practice HTTP Status Code for Proxy-Level Content Validation Failure? — Working on an API gateway/proxy that sits in front of APIs. The proxy adds its own validation layer (toxicity, etc). I'm wrestling with an API design choice: when my **proxy's** validation rules bloc…

r/web_designpost4/19/2025
What parts of digital marketing are most valuable to learn in 2025?

What parts of digital marketing are most valuable to learn in 2025? — I'm gonna begin learning digital marketing (as I'm already doing non-digital marketing) but I don't feel like (and don't have enough time & energy to) learning all kinds of it, I mean for instance SEO…

r/digital_marketingpost4/29/2025
Announcement Regarding Community Safety

Announcement Regarding Community Safety — Dear SEO Members, We are reaching out to address a serious issue that affects the safety and well-being of our moderation team and our community as a whole. It has come to our attention that the CEO …

r/SEOpost4/30/2025
Best tool for getting my brand more exposure on Streaming TV apps

Best tool for getting my brand more exposure on Streaming TV apps — Hello. I am in charge of digital marketing for relatively small e-commerce company. The owner would like more presence on streaming media, possibly Roku TV content and Maybe Paramount plus and peacock…

r/digital_marketingpost4/30/2025
Need Help with SEO for medium-sized e-commerce sites

Need Help with SEO for medium-sized e-commerce sites — I own a medium-sized e-commerce website, and we’ve never really focused on SEO. Yep, we've mainly relied on paid ads, but traffic is getting more expensive, so we’re ready to take SEO seriously now. I…

r/SEOpost5/1/2025
Anyone up to date about what's happening with TikTok?

Anyone up to date about what's happening with TikTok? — I recently started a new venture (media publishing company) that would be a perfect fit for promoting content on TikTok. The MVP is almost finished and I’m looking to start posting and funneling my a…

r/digital_marketingpost5/1/2025
How do I put together a multi-product design system as a sole designer?

How do I put together a multi-product design system as a sole designer? — Hi all, my UX design journey has been chaotic but I suspect that’s normal. I was in visual/web design for about 8 years then 2 years ago I got my first UX role (after trying to pursue and study UX f…

r/UXDesignpost5/1/2025
Started a Pistachio Spread Brand in Turkey — Now Trying to Go Global (Advice Appreciated!)

Started a Pistachio Spread Brand in Turkey — Now Trying to Go Global (Advice Appreciated!) — Hey everyone, I’m based in Turkey and help run a family business that produces natural pistachio butter — no additives, no sugar, just roasted pistachios. It’s something we’ve been doing for over 15 …

r/digital_marketingpost5/1/2025
Okay so marketing deadlines are just the worst right?

Okay so marketing deadlines are just the worst right? — Okay so marketing deadlines are just the worst right? It's like you plan everything out, content calendar looking solid, then BAM design bottlenecks.  Anyone else feel like waiting on graphics is alw…

r/digital_marketingpost5/2/2025
What will it take?

What will it take? — Seriously… What does it take to land a UX role these days? My wife is graduating with her masters in UX from a good program but it seems that the industry is evolving and everyone is making it seem …

r/UXDesignpost5/2/2025
I struggled with posting consistently as a creator — so I built a tool to make it easier

I struggled with posting consistently as a creator — so I built a tool to make it easier — Between content planning, editing, and just staying active online, keeping up with social media as a brand or creator can feel like a full-time job. I built a small tool that helps schedule AI-powere…

r/digital_marketingpost5/2/2025
Interview for associate devops role, not sure how it went, need opinions

Interview for associate devops role, not sure how it went, need opinions — I had a technical discussion with with a smaller company(around 100-200 employees) and they are filling out a new devops team. I have 7 YOE at large tech companies as a software engineer, but my dutie…

r/DevOpspost5/2/2025
Should I redirect the sales?

Should I redirect the sales? — This is not a rant/rave about my e-commerce journey as I expected a lot of turmoil and for e-commerce to not be all it was cracked up to be. This is actually witnessed by the shhear number of people …

r/ecommercepost5/3/2025
Is it a good idea to start an India-based agency offering social media services (graphic design, video editing, creative work) exclusively for foreign clients due to better dollar parity?

Is it a good idea to start an India-based agency offering social media services (graphic design, video editing, creative work) exclusively for foreign clients due to better dollar parity? — I’ve been thinking of starting a social media service agency based in India, focusing only on international clients (especially from the US/UK). The idea is to offer services like graphic designing, v…

r/digital_marketingpost5/3/2025
Why would startup hire me as an intern? I will not promote

Why would startup hire me as an intern? I will not promote — Hi guys, I recently joined a startup as a marketing intern. My focus is mostly creating video content for their TikTok and youtube. In the LinkedIn post, I saw that they had a lot of interest from…

r/startupspost5/3/2025
How do you deal with the spam?

How do you deal with the spam? — I recently (4 weeks ago) started a shopify store in a niche market with my handmade products. Doing organic advertisement with product videos on tiktok, facebook, instagram and youtube. Generally spea…

r/Shopifypost5/3/2025
What is your social media content creation workflow?

What is your social media content creation workflow? — Im running an ecom business with 700k plus revenue. Ive never did much on social media or video content creation. There is a lot of value in creating explainer videos for potential and existing custom…

r/ecommercepost5/3/2025
Google getting tricked by trash sites

Google getting tricked by trash sites — There are two sites I've been seeing all over google news recently motorcyclesports .net and motociclismo .pt. both are owned by the same company and they are clearly using tools to steal other websit…

r/SEOpost5/4/2025
Why did it take OpenAI 24 hours to roll back a faulty model?

Why did it take OpenAI 24 hours to roll back a faulty model? — Hi everyone, I read through [an article by OpenAI](https://openai.com/index/expanding-on-sycophancy/) and stumbled upon the following segment: >With the recent GPT‑4o update, we started the rollout …

r/DevOpspost5/4/2025
Should I leave my 9-5 job in a finance company for a job in an early stage startup (I will not promote)

Should I leave my 9-5 job in a finance company for a job in an early stage startup (I will not promote) — I am an engineering student who has a degree in Computer science and engineering (Data Science) with an honours in Quantative Finance. I have been a part of 3 startups mainly in the social and influ…

r/startupspost5/4/2025
Intermediaries to circumvent tariffs

Intermediaries to circumvent tariffs — What's stopping US businesses partnering with businesses in low tariff countries who can order the Chinese goods, amend/alter it in a material way to claim it as the country of origin/manufacturing an…

r/ecommercepost5/4/2025
Failing to Find Google Maps Scraper (that does everything)

Failing to Find Google Maps Scraper (that does everything) — I've built a directory listing website and I'm using WP All Import plugin to pull in data from a spreadsheet (which consists of scraped business info from their Google Maps / GBP listings). Being tha…

r/SEOpost5/4/2025
Kimp or similar design subscription services, what’s your experience been like?

Kimp or similar design subscription services, what’s your experience been like? — I’ve been looking into design-on-demand subscription services lately like Design Pickle, Flocksy, Penji, and others, and recently came across Kimp. The pricing is much more accessible than what I saw …

r/digital_marketingpost5/4/2025
Seeking Technical Co-Founder for Fantasy Football Punishment Platform (I will not promote)

Seeking Technical Co-Founder for Fantasy Football Punishment Platform (I will not promote) — Hey everyone, I’m in the process of building an exciting startup focused on **fantasy football** and I’m looking for a **technical co-founder** to join me and help bring this idea to life. The core i…

r/startupspost5/5/2025
Advice on Partnering with UK Freelancers for a Marketing Agency – Need SEO, PPC, Content Writers, and More

Advice on Partnering with UK Freelancers for a Marketing Agency – Need SEO, PPC, Content Writers, and More — I’m in the process of starting a marketing agency and looking for some advice on where I can partner with skilled freelancers (based in the UK) for the following roles: • SEO/CRO Specialist: Someone …

r/digital_marketingpost5/5/2025
Adventures of a South African Engineer: Lessons from 3 Startups (I will not promote)

Adventures of a South African Engineer: Lessons from 3 Startups (I will not promote) — **Adventures of a South African Engineer: Lessons from 3 Startups** These are a few things I have come to learn while doing "startups," maybe it will help some entrepreneurs in their startup travels.…

r/startupspost5/5/2025
Ecommerce shop losing money inconsistent results with ads

Ecommerce shop losing money inconsistent results with ads — Hi hope everyone is doing fine. I am running a woocommerce store for the past 5/6 years. The first few years had been great I had been generating a lot of revenue and profit. I run a woman fashion st…

r/ecommercepost5/5/2025
Ecommerce shop losing money inconsistent results with ads

Ecommerce shop losing money inconsistent results with ads — Hi hope everyone is doing fine. I am running a woocommerce store for the past 5/6 years. The first few years had been great I had been generating a lot of revenue and profit. I run a woman fashion st…

r/ecommercepost5/5/2025
Marketing for startups (I will not promote)

Marketing for startups (I will not promote) — (I will not promote) Proven strategies to take a startup from zero to scale ($10M+ ARR). As a 3X startup CMO, I have experienced tremendous success and a ton of failure.  I have been involved in th…

r/startupspost5/5/2025
Ready to Boost Your Business? Our Pro Team Can Help!

Ready to Boost Your Business? Our Pro Team Can Help! — hope you’re doing great! I wanted to reach out and let you know we’re currently helping businesses like yours grow faster with our proven organic and paid advertising strategies. Whether you’re looki…

r/digital_marketingpost5/5/2025
Is this a new-ish policy: Payouts released when orders fulfilled?

Is this a new-ish policy: Payouts released when orders fulfilled? — Hi all. I noticed a stack of money in my 'to be paid' payouts section. It ought to have been scheduled for Wednesday, but hasn't been as yet. I spoke to Shopify support and asked what was going on.…

r/Shopifypost5/5/2025
E-commerce Industry News Recap 🔥 Week of May 5th, 2025

E-commerce Industry News Recap 🔥 Week of May 5th, 2025 — Hi r/ecommerce \- I'm Paul and I follow the e-commerce industry closely for my Shopifreaks E-commerce Newsletter. Every week for the past 3+ years I've posted a summary recap of the week's top stories…

r/ecommercepost5/5/2025
This Week's Top E-commerce News Stories 💥 May 5th, 2025

This Week's Top E-commerce News Stories 💥 May 5th, 2025 — Hi r/Shopify - I'm Paul and I follow the e-commerce industry closely for my Shopifreaks E-commerce Newsletter, which I've published weekly since 2021. I was invited by the Mods of this subreddit to s…

r/Shopifypost5/5/2025
Flora Market Mobile App

Flora Market Mobile App — Hi! This is my 1st completed mobile App. It is a Flora Market mobile App, and it is a personal project. Summer is coming, balconies and yards are filled with flowers, so I found a good idea to des…

r/UXDesignpost5/5/2025
Why isn't Firefox respecting prefers-color-scheme?

Why isn't Firefox respecting prefers-color-scheme? — I use properly contrasted favicons for my site depending on if the user has light/dark mode enabled. I noticed that they display properly in Chrome and Edge but Firefox seems to ignore my \`prefers-co…

r/webdevpost5/5/2025
How do you persist data across pipeline runs?

How do you persist data across pipeline runs? — I need to save key-value output from one run and read/update it in future runs in an automatic fashion. To be clear, I am **not** looking to pass data between jobs within a single pipeline. Best solu…

r/DevOpspost5/5/2025
using AI for repurposing our pillar content generated 4 million impressions and hundreds of leads

using AI for repurposing our pillar content generated 4 million impressions and hundreds of leads — I recently led a Reddit content repurposing campaign that got over **4 million impressions** and **hundreds of new user signups** for my client. Here's exactly how I did it. # Why Reddit, and why use…

r/digital_marketingpost5/5/2025
Question on initial release of product/service (I will not promote)

Question on initial release of product/service (I will not promote) — I’ve been working on a web app for a while now as a solo developer, and I was wondering how any other founders here have gone about releasing their own apps for the first time. So far I’ve only shared…

r/startupspost5/5/2025
Advice on how to prepare for this final round interview

Advice on how to prepare for this final round interview — Ive received an email for a final interview for a digital media buyer position (somewhat entry level). This is the only description they gave me on what the final interview will include. "As a final …

r/digital_marketingpost5/6/2025
Got ghosted after 3rd round

Got ghosted after 3rd round — Hey everyone, Just wanted to share my recent experience and see if others are going through the same thing. I’ve been applying for DevOps roles for the past few months, and finally landed an intervi…

r/DevOpspost5/6/2025
✨ Marketing Consultants – What tools do you actually use to manage clients, leads, and projects?

✨ Marketing Consultants – What tools do you actually use to manage clients, leads, and projects? — Hey everyone – I’m doing some deep research into how independent marketing consultants (freelancers, solopreneurs, boutique agency owners) manage their day-to-day operations. I’d love to hear from yo…

r/digital_marketingpost5/6/2025
START HERE! - Beginner Guides, FAQs, and Resources

That makes sense cus whenever i involuntarily lucid dream and get to a cool part I wake up immediately.

r/LucidDreamingcomment10/2/2017
START HERE! - Beginner Guides, FAQs, and Resources

Hello I just had the weirdest dream and I don't know how to look up my specific type of dream and was so shocked I decided to come here and write. I remember going to sleep around 12:30pm after wakin…

r/LucidDreamingcomment1/23/2018
START HERE! - Beginner Guides, FAQs, and Resources

So my husband turned me on to the idea that my weird dreams are something called lucid dreaming and showed me this sub. Pumped to be here! So periodically I will experience DILD and take control of …

r/LucidDreamingcomment3/1/2018
If you are new here..

Hi everyone, I am new here.. i got the link of this group through the NG sub.. i am glad i found it.. i have been reading the posts and the content in the index.. i have started reading the POSM.. w…

r/JosephMurphycomment5/8/2020
If you are new here..

>Hi everyone, > >I am new here.. i got the link of this group through the NG sub.. i am glad i found it.. i have been reading the posts and the content in the index.. i have started reading the P…

r/JosephMurphycomment5/8/2020
FAQ on emotional neglect - For anyone new to the subreddit or looking to better understand the fundamentals

Glad it helped you in some way. I’ve felt like a whiny little wimp for getting PTSD from something that I saw as not a true threat to life. Babies and children absolutely register lack of affection…

r/EmotionalNeglectcomment8/22/2020
FAQ on emotional neglect - For anyone new to the subreddit or looking to better understand the fundamentals

The very first paragraph really struck me. I haven’t learned how to copy text here yet since I’m new to Reddit. But “Non-intrusive and engaged curiosity from parents about what you were feeling and ex…

r/EmotionalNeglectcomment9/12/2020
Astral Projection: Quick Start Guide

I’m new to this forum. I want to ask you guys something. I’m embarrassed plus I don’t know who else to ask. I started seeing a reiki therapist/psychic about 2 years ago. When I first met her I felt I …

r/AstralProjectioncomment11/19/2021
Astral Projection: Quick Start Guide

this has happened to me several times as well. I specifically remember a time I was sleeping, and suddenly felt the sensation of being pulled "up" by my wrist at a tremendous speed. It's never really…

r/AstralProjectioncomment2/21/2022
Astral Projection: Quick Start Guide

I want to Ap but as a kid I watched a lot of sci fi demonic movies and my mom would study Wiccan culture so I’m like ehhhhh what’s going to happen to me will I get stuck there will something else tak…

r/AstralProjectioncomment3/17/2022
The NO BS Guide on Winning Your Ex Back!

Stop stalking their socials too. Mute on instagram. It pushes their stories and their posts to the end of your feed so unless you’re following 2 people, you should never see anything from them. Muting…

r/ExNoContactcomment5/31/2022
If you are new here..

Why is this guy such a douche? I got through a couple of lines and this immediately turned me off of the sub. Anyone have any context to why this guy is such a douche?

r/JosephMurphycomment6/30/2022
START HERE! - Beginner Guides, FAQs, and Resources

Don’t be scared or put too much pressure on yourself . It’s a beautiful experience and a great way to face those fears you are concerned about. Don’t meet your demons with violence , you will find tha…

r/LucidDreamingcomment10/14/2022
START HERE! - Beginner Guides, FAQs, and Resources

Be mindful of what you put out bc you could be missing an opportunity to learn more about yourself and what you are connected to . I’ve found that even when dealing with personal demons or dark presen…

r/LucidDreamingcomment10/14/2022
START HERE! - Beginner Guides, FAQs, and Resources

Don’t Try focusing on controlling too much immediately or getting Carried away trying to do influence it strongly at first . Try just remaining calm by focusing on your environment and exploring as yo…

r/LucidDreamingcomment10/14/2022
START HERE! - Beginner Guides, FAQs, and Resources

Hey is there a better way to journal? I’m in 8th grade and on schooldays I get up and IMMEDIATEly turn the shower on. So maybe keep a journal in my bed so I wake up and write a short jist, so later I …

r/LucidDreamingcomment10/17/2022
The NO BS Guide on Winning Your Ex Back!

no, you are missing the HUGE part of what I said "and not do any of those things enough to want to get back together". It is almost UNIVERSAL unless you did truly heinous shit like rape / abuse, etc. …

r/ExNoContactcomment3/17/2023
The NO BS Guide on Winning Your Ex Back!

Absolutely. Be happy. Let them see you being happy if you happen to run into them. Do not follow them around. Do not follow their social media.

r/ExNoContactcomment4/1/2023
REMINDER: be kind to yourself. This is hard, and you’re handling it with grace and strength.

I’m sorry you’re feeling this way and going through this. It sucks she wouldn’t give therapy a chance. You can’t control others actions and feelings. I hope you can find meaning and joy in your kids …

r/Divorcecomment7/10/2023
REMINDER: be kind to yourself. This is hard, and you’re handling it with grace and strength.

If you’re suicidal, you need to seek immediate help. Listening to I Wish I Knew This Before My Divorce. It’s on Audible and is helpful in reframing your thought process and mindset. It comes with a wo…

r/Divorcecomment7/27/2023
The NO BS Guide on Winning Your Ex Back!

I've tried to stay of Social Media as much as possible. Not easy when other friends are trying to reach out to you l, especially for events and birthdays. Checking my birthday messages triggered me, I…

r/ExNoContactcomment7/31/2023
The NO BS Guide on Winning Your Ex Back!

No Contact does not mean literally no communication. How unmannered and uncivil it would sound if a person asked you "How are you ?" as you were exiting your office, one evening after work. You should…

r/ExNoContactcomment9/20/2023
FAQ on emotional neglect - For anyone new to the subreddit or looking to better understand the fundamentals

>The baby immediately notices and first tries to laugh or shriek or point, or do anything that has illicited a reaction from its mom in the past. The mom does not react. The baby quickly escalates to …

r/EmotionalNeglectcomment10/26/2023
The NO BS Guide on Winning Your Ex Back!

Yeah, most people break up not having tried couples therapy, or truly starting to fix finances, or many other things. They just get fed up from repressing resentment that could've been mediated by a p…

r/ExNoContactcomment10/27/2023
START HERE! - Beginner Guides, FAQs, and Resources

I am very skeptic about mediation. Its not something I would do to improve my mental health, unless I wanted I escape reality for a while

r/LucidDreamingcomment12/17/2023
Astral Projection: Quick Start Guide

I reallllyyyyyyy want to experience this. Sounds very very similar to my psychedelic trips but this is super cool that it can be done without help! But my question is like…how? Is it a mediation sess…

r/AstralProjectioncomment10/25/2024
Question about Negative Statements "don't, not etc" and mild contradictions in POSM

It's because it's not about those details but about immersion into the scenario. Someone can have a mental argument in there without seeing other people. They followed the argument because of the imme…

r/JosephMurphycomment11/11/2024
Addressing Community Concerns: No Porn/Masturbation Addiction Posts and Self-Hate Posts + Revamped Subreddit Rules

I talked into detail about it in another comment [here](https://www.reddit.com/r/DecidingToBeBetter/s/D75lHngukc). Also, most if not all the porn/masturbation addiction posts are just bots or people…

r/DecidingToBeBettercomment12/9/2024
My arguments against manifestation

The point I am trying to make is that you cannot do 15 minutes of SATS a day and live in a state of lack for the other 23 hours and 45 minutes. SATS/SH is a technique, but it has no power unless you a…

r/JosephMurphycomment1/24/2025
Manifestation coaches have not refuted any anti-loa arguments

Thank you. I will ask the op to insert these links into her other post. They are a good addenda and are a beneficial part of the record. We may make her post a part of our index as well. It is a very…

r/JosephMurphycomment1/29/2025
My arguments against manifestation

If it comes to new age stuff like LOA/LOB/Law of assumption I actually agree with you to a certain degree but not entirely. So let me explain where I disagree. Most people who follow Joseph Murphy, LO…

r/JosephMurphycomment2/9/2025
Astral Projection: Quick Start Guide

I had my first experience 2 nights ago. During the experience I first saw the color red and then felt a pulsating sensation all over my body. Similar to a heartbeat. I initially felt fear then immedia…

r/AstralProjectioncomment3/25/2025
How do I know if I simply don’t like someone enough to be with them or if I’m simply running away from what is safe?

Look for mediation. Communicate your needs - do they know you don’t like texting and prefer to take things slow? Often people are actually open to meet your need if you tell them what it is…

r/attachment_theorycomment3/31/2025
Reading interest in text

I shared a little different perspective based on the experience. This is just me and how I would feel. She engaged, asked a question. I responded and asked a question and she read it immediately. I kn…

r/attachment_theorycomment4/3/2025
Has anyone else gone from being dismissive avoidant to anxious preoccupied towards their therapist?

What frustrates me is that I’m aware I’m not good but my body’s need for safety overrides anything the therapist tells me. I feel awful for wasting her time when half the session is me too shut down t…

r/attachment_theorycomment4/13/2025
Even as an FA the one thing I'll never understand about avoidants is how they can hate someone they cared about a week ago.

Thank you. That was exactly my intention, and everyone here seems to understand it immediately. Except OP, who is extremely externally focused, and the person who has 0 self awareness at all. Everyone…

r/attachment_theorycomment4/18/2025
Even as an FA the one thing I'll never understand about avoidants is how they can hate someone they cared about a week ago.

I think what others are saying unless someone says I hate you, then it's based on your feelings. Feelings are 100% valid but not facts. I'm anxiously attached and felt many people have disliked me ov…

r/attachment_theorycomment4/18/2025
Even as an FA the one thing I'll never understand about avoidants is how they can hate someone they cared about a week ago.

As a man who has been on both sides of the coin… bear with me cause this is a long read but it has relevance I promise.  I’ve been the anxious wreck begging and pleading. Saying stuff like “you don’t…

r/attachment_theorycomment4/23/2025
Even as an FA the one thing I'll never understand about avoidants is how they can hate someone they cared about a week ago.

Hate is a strong word But I found unhealed avoidants, prob DAs, tend to at least temporarily drop or block a person to self-regulate, could be for weeks or months. The longest was an ex that blocke…

r/attachment_theorycomment4/23/2025
Haha being an FA is fucking weird

honestly, it's pretty situational and depends on the person and the relationship, but in general with interpersonal stuff that i have dobuts over, i try to not take any action immediately and instead …

r/attachment_theorycomment4/24/2025
What hurts a DA?

Living through this right now. Was dating a DA last year and I really liked her, but she would put me down and be generally disrespectful at times. She would often say things that minimized our relati…

r/attachment_theorycomment4/25/2025
Long road to dream job and instant healing.

Hey could you share the link for hemi-sync music. Thansk in advance. I want to use it for deep mediation.

r/JosephMurphycomment4/25/2025
Cannot stay attracted to dating app matches

Totally relate to this. I can’t bring myself to “care” or get excited about someone from an app. If I meet someone IRL I’m way more open to exploring. I think from an app I’m just immediately expectin…

r/attachment_theorycomment4/28/2025
Jira time logging for DevOps

I think all these time‐tracking systems in IT are absolutely useless and only justify the work of those who implement them. No offense to efficient managers. If the company were like a factory produc…

r/DevOpscomment5/3/2025
Why did it take OpenAI 24 hours to roll back a faulty model?

There's all sorts of reasons why it might take that long, though I'd echo that 24 hours doesn't seem that long to me considering their scale of operations. Ignoring all of the technical side of thin…

r/DevOpscomment5/4/2025
Looking for marketing strategy tips for our startup

Did you guys got fundings? Why are you trying to blow budget for marketing immediately? If you and your co founder dont have marketing experience, get another co founder for marketing. Just make sur…

r/Entrepreneurcomment5/6/2025
Looking for marketing strategy tips for our startup

Simple SEO is beneficial for the site, and you can use ChatGPT to make sure to highlight keywords and phrase your page descriptions in a way that makes it stand out in the algorithm. Social media is…

r/Entrepreneurcomment5/6/2025
I'm lucky enough to have turned my podcast into a full time job - here's what I wish I had known

Congrats! Think the most important thing is to pinpoint the right content niche - high demand, but also from well-paid individuals so that advertisers are willing to work with you. Not easy. I had a g…

r/Entrepreneurcomment5/6/2025
Backstage feels like a fools errand

Hey, [OpsLevel](https://www.opslevel.com) CTO here. We have a ton of respect for what the Backstage community has accomplished. It's impressive how they've expanded the IDP space and created a vibra…

r/DevOpscomment5/7/2025
For those making 300k+, how did you start? did you have a full time job when you started?

Reaching $300k in profit usually doesn’t happen overnight, but here's how I got there: I started with a side hustle while working full-time. Having a steady paycheck allowed me to take risks without …

r/Entrepreneurcomment5/7/2025