hardwork

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I realize Im not allowed to be anything less than above average with this condition. — I dont have a family who watches out for me. I don't have financial privileges. I'm by myself in this mess. Im not accepted regardless of how I am. - Other people will have a social life and people t…

The best and 5 worst things I did after 5 breakups in 12 years chasing unavailable partners, and I just got marriaged on 2.14.2026 — I've been through 5 painful breakups over the last decades, all with the same pattern: I'd chase someone emotionally/physically unavailable—either a cheater or straight-up avoidant—who'd pull away jus…

Anyone else feel this after ending something good? — I was in a long-term LDR with someone I truly loved. We basically grew up together, and he was genuinely a good person — kind, respectful, never treated me badly. But things didn’t work out in the en…

Looking into the Abyss — ​ For 15 years I lived with a man I considered responsible, honest, hardworking, and who loved me in a profound way, so profound that even facing unemployment, financial setbacks, what I thoug…

Why some people are not able to manifest? — I always wanted to achieve big in life, i did all the hardwork, sacrificed socialising, enjoying, but when the time came my own family became a hurdle , i sttempted an exam 7 times ovver the 8 years a…

32M Desi in the US—marriage pressure, “optimize your image” advice, and feeling like I’m never fully heard by my parents — Hi everyone, I’m a 32-year-old South Asian (Pakistani background) guy living in the US, and I just wanted to share something that’s been weighing heavily on me. This feels very “Asian parent expectat…

Very scared from father, he isnt a bad person but has anger issues, PLEASE HELP — first pic is my father's chart and second is mine My dad is a good person, very honest, very clean and very very possessive and caring for his children but his controlling nature, explosive anger has…

I’m worried about my little brother. — My parents aren’t legally divorced but are separated and live separately.For reference both my parents aren’t amazing hardworking people and there’s no blame on anyone’s side. To sum up the situation…

My husband (32M) thinks a photo I (30F) posted is weird and I felt hurt — I've had to go on work trips throughout January - March which included overnight stays at hotels and dinners at fancy restaurants with my boss (43F). I posted a series of 8 photos on Instagram contain…

How to check hardwork in a chart? — Hey guys, I was watching a video of Deepanshu sir, in which he describes that for competitive papers certain combinations of hardwork must be there in a chart. But he didn’t complete it as in what com…

how do i stop settling for "above average"? — I have always been somewhat successful at school with little effort. Even if I don't study too much, I tend to get a high enough grade. Nothing too extraordinary, just somewhere above average. When I …

My (43F) fiancee (41M) is a man of few words. What advice do you have to make this work? — My (43F) fiancee (41M) is a blue collar man of few words. He is a typical, hardworking blue collar man. I am a c suite executive in a completely different field. I tend to be introverted until I am co…

I(25F) feel like a loser & feel like my fate is against me! — I’m a 25 year old female with no job, no savings, no career, no true friends, no love life, physical & mental health issues, living off my parents money and I feel like an absolute loser!! I don’t a…

Why am I the scape goat in my family — So I have family from my mom’s side coming over from out of state. As much as I love them, I honestly dread their visits because I always feel like I get walked over and taunted. It feels like I’ve ne…

How to cope with my parent's fights? — Today I was minding my business when my mom came to my room crying saying she will sleep with me tonight and I just knew she had a fight with my dad so I went to talk to him and it was the same thing …

WHAT DO YOU WANT?! — OK IMMA ASK A QUESTION - **QUES-** how many of ya'll had worse "3D" after learning about manifestation? reading neville? reading secret? law of attraction? law of assumption? anything at all youtube?…

Staying in My (41F) relationship with my BF (47M)? — I (41F) am dating my bf (47M) for almost 3 year. I have been divorced for 4 years with two kids (6 and 8) and have 50/50 custody with my ex. I didn't introduce my kids to my bf until we were 1 year in…

You can have as many requirements on a partner as you want. The more requirements you have, the likelier you'll be single. But realistically, people don't date the first homeless person on the streets…

I’m writing this one down somewhere. You’re totally right. You should be very proud of yourself and all the hardwork you’ve done. I have no doubt you will find a secure and loving partner.

Hi, I'm in the DMV. Cost of living is high, and anywhere that's not DC proper isn't the most walkable. DC itself is much more a city you work in than it is one you live in. Median rent in DC has been …

Horrifying, but not surprising. The less people have the more they give. I dated a wonderful hardworking man, who had mba debt. He always insisted on paying. So I cooked a lot and found happy hour spe…

Oh and Saturn 7th/Cap Venus have good relationships with their superiors and seniors in the workplace(even if they aren’t hardworking), and (for every placement listed) if they are in a position of au…

I think you should also consider if you are happy? The way you describe your relationship, you seem to be acting like your boyfriend’s mom and caretaker. While he isn’t giving you much back and inste…

Of course she seems smart, hardworking, mature, etc and her boyfriend is captain doofus; she’s telling it from her perspective and venting about him

Beautiful post, OP. Manifestation doesn't have to be one full of effort and hardwork. It can and usually is done naturally if we remember who we are inside. This world is one that is conceptualized f…

Thank you, you’ve given me a lot to think about. When I first met him, he was driven, passionate, generous, hardworking. He’s always been incredibly independent, intelligent, and loving. There’s so m…

When he was in school he was a SAHD. He’s a good dad and homemaker. I still think we come out on top with him working + factoring in insurance. He’s not lazy, he’s a good employee and hardworking just…

I don't relate to the things said about libra risings like "they search for values and valuables in others" or being people pleasers or any of those things. I'm hyper independent, especially on the em…

The crazy thing is she is so well liked everywhere she goes. She seems so giving, loving, kind, etc. even with me on her good days. She’ll help my parents and siblings and hers and is a good listener.…

“What happens in this house, stays in this house” (or what gets said, as a variant). I remember as a kid feeling weird about the line and also confused because it was never clearly explained what wa…

Hear me out: Capricorns (and Saturnians in general) are hardworking rarely because they love working, but mostly because they love resting. They just like setting the circumstances where they're allow…

So you’re emotionally intelligent, hardworking, tough enough to work two jobs with an autoimmune disease, know how to cook, AND you’re slim-thick? And he’s a hateful loser. Get rid of him. Save yourse…

I'd recommend check it in d40 and its probably in leo hora so planets in leo hora gives less result with more hardwork

everything screams doubts. the odds of it happening is 0.01% so how can i feel deserving when i know it's only abt hardwork and the time is limited.

What about mercury? I am guessing it is also good. Not particularly bad. >Definitely not Saturn except it’s perfectly placed It's harsh even if perfectly placed. The worst part is you don't get res…

Look at reality as only 1D. Everything is happening now. Your 8th birthday is NOW. Christmas is NOW, your exams results are NOW. There’s no separation to anything. Your exam results are YOU. Who are…

Yes they will, can tell more after analysing your d10 chart. But it will demand a lot of hardwork.

I can understand where you are coming from. 11th house stands for social circles, gains,groups and clubs,and there are 5 planets sitting in that house. In vedic astrology, we call it 'grahon ki pancha…

I have 5 planets in my third house bro. With my 9th house lord of luck in the 3rd as well with debilitation. And 3rd house is the house of hardwork. Imagine the grind that my life is!

Look for where mangal is placed, rahu will give similar results of mangal. And rahu will copy that kind of energy of mangal. Example 1: Sagittarius ascendant, Rahu in 5th house in aries, Mars in 3rd …

I know and it’s just a snippet of our relationship. He’s the most charasmatic, funny, hardworking man I know. He provides for me, he’s accepted things about me no one else has, he is affectionate, he …

Hardworking except when it comes to you and your relationship. Hardworking except when you ask him to not make jokes at your expense or insult you. Hardworking except when you ask him to prioritize sp…

I can't say this loud enough: LEAVE. I had a long term boyfriend that was a sober alcoholic, and he was the biggest liar/manipulator/cheater. Then I met my husband. He was an alcoholic for the first 5…

This person is in Venus Mahadasha until 2028. Venus in Capricorn suggests a career in finance law management or luxury goods. They may also excel in creative fields like design or art administration. …

Both things can be true, China has a lots of advancements because chinese people are very hardworking. Chengdu, Shanghai, Xiamen dwarfs wherever I’m living now CPC government are conducting ip theft …

Let me preface and say I'm not trying to be rude or make you feel bad... I'm probably not what you would think of as a "quality man" so feel free to ignore this. What I am though is self-aware and emp…

Yes ,but there will be challenges so focus and hardwork this time

Let me put this in perspective for you. I met her 6 years ago. we became friends. She was a college topper preparing for diplomacy exams. we started dating 5 years ago. there were some red flags in he…

Yes, you have a high chance of securing a position in the banking sector. If you are currently preparing for your exams and maintaining a disciplined, hardworking approach, you are very likely to land…

With the 1st and 2nd lord in the 7th, your identity and income are strongly tied to clients, partnerships, and public dealing—people are the source of your growth and money. The 7th lord in the 5th ad…

Timing and Luck are very very important. For examplw, two people work on something at the same time. One puts in efforts and one just copies the work of someone. Yet the one who copies gets more recog…

Do good things happen to bad people? Do hardworking people always get fruits of their labour? Are lazy people rewarded? Do people suffer through crises and come back stronger? Depends.

This is so insightful. I recently came across the audiobook of “Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents,” and it took my breath away. My parents were smart, hardworking and provided a very stab…

HEY GIRL. It's time to make what we girlies call an EXIT PLAN. As caring and loving girls we don't want to leave them empty handed of COURSE. Completely understandable. What ya need to do is give hi…

Try to follow a daily routine make up a schedule set daily targets and hopefully saturn dasha brings in fruit of your hardwork

You are in Venus dasha until November 2030. Venus in Capricorn with Jupiter in Aquarius means you will marry a practical hardworking person. Marriage happens between late 2027 and early 2029. Your spo…

I've saturn in 7th house, Taurus. I'm currently curious about someone, he might be the one. He's stable, mature, loyal, hardworking, respectful, emotionally reserved. He's not very extroverted but can…

Hey! I’m 30, and some of this is familiar to me. I had an alcoholic, absent dad who would lose it sometimes, and a mom who's probably bipolar and really abusive at times. They could be nice too, but t…