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THE OYSTER IS NOT YOUR WORLD! (IT'S THIS SIMPLE) — LONGGG POST! DISCLAIMER: for any of ya'll havin a problem with "long posts" , "english", "structure", "accent" etc etc. i got 2 tips for ya 1. chat gpt (or any other ai platform) - command c+v (summ…

We Fired a Developer But Not Because He Was Bad, But Because He Wasn't Right. Only 2 Legit Reasons to Fire Anyone. (i will not promote) — After building a small team and running a startup for a while, We’ve come to a hard conclusion: There are only two legitimate reasons to fire someone. 1. They are not the right fit for the company.…

Successes - this really works — I'm very busy but just wanted to let you guys know, KEEP AT IT. I'll keep some of the information vague to prevent judgements (you never know with some people). The purpose of this is encourage more …

Friend said something that shocked me and explained everything... — Edit: added an extra story to the bottom since this post seemed to resonate with people so much. Be strong folks, you're no one's NPC. You can go back and find a lot of my story on my page, but essen…

Husband suddenly wants to end our marriage and says it’s because of sex. We have a toddler. I also discovered he’s been dishonest about where he’s been. Looking for perspective. — I’m 39F and my husband (34M) and I have been married a little over 3 years. We have a toddler (2). Recently, completely out of nowhere, he told me he thinks we’re “not compatible” and started talking…

A letter I wrote to myself. — Background. 20 years together. 16 married. She cheated multiple times. Found out about the first ones three years ago. Tried to forgive. She did it again. I left. Letter I wrote to myself …

A Tale of Two Easters — **Hers** I woke up with a migraine and threw up as quietly as I could with the fan on so the boys wouldn’t hear, wouldn’t worry, wouldn’t have one more thing to carry. I brushed my teeth to …

I cant last 4 days without stalking her profile its so embarrassing — She blocked me on everything but i stalk her accounts from my alts, i need advice on how to stop, also one more thing, when i stalk her, all of her reposts are guys who look like me and basically desc…

Avoidant ex reached out after 4 years to apologize, but the conversation reopened old confusion for me. Did he actually care and communicate terribly, or is this just guilt/retroactive idealization? F24, M25, dated for 4 months — tl;dr Avoidant ex reached out after 4 years to apologize, but the conversation reopened old confusion for me. Did he actually care and communicate terribly, or is this just guilt/retroactive idealizat…

My mom asked if I slept with my stepdad father repeatedly — SUMMARY AT THE BOTTOM! I know it’s long so hope that helps !! Any advice would be greatly appreciated ! It’s just like what I wrote, unfortunately. I’m not sure if this falls under EN or really how t…

Recently broke up with my boyfriend. please give me advice on how to move foward. — For some background, I am 19 and have only been in two relationships. The first one was really toxic and horrible. The second one just ended two days ago. The relationship was really healthy; we were …

WHAT DO YOU WANT?! — OK IMMA ASK A QUESTION - **QUES-** how many of ya'll had worse "3D" after learning about manifestation? reading neville? reading secret? law of attraction? law of assumption? anything at all youtube?…

Does this guy seem interested in me or am I overthinking? — Hi everyone, I (21F) would like an outside opinion about a guy in my class (21M). I’ve known him since last year (we’re in the same class), but we didn’t really have any interactions before. This yea…

24M - Messed up relation with 24F. Advice!! — I liked a girl of my class, from class V. Maybe She understood I liked her but never resiprocated any feeling for me, from her side. Years passed, Now we are into class 12. She developed her feelings …

Thank you so much for explaining! One more thing if you don't mind, what's the best method to leave the physical body? I tried the rope technique yesterday, it didn't work but I know I need to practic…

Oauth2/OpenID and related It surprises me every day. It's pictured as simple, but when you have a few apps with different requirements, using different flows, and you actually have to set it up o…

I am sending you virtual hugs! I struggle with very similar feelings. I’ve only had one physically intimate relationship, and it took me until I was 25. It ended very quickly, and ever since the…

We’re quite similar judging by how stubborn you are, can’t give up until that one more thing, right? Hahaha, always searching for a solution. Good luck to you as well

Oh and one more thing, I'm only this way with myself. Everyone else? I'm like "listen, you need to stop being so hard on yourself, be more lenient, bla bla" But that just doesn't apply to me. Feels hy…

I struggle with the exact same issue and the only thing I do is 1) meditate 2) notice the pattern each time it arises and sometimes I investigate the logic and beliefs behind that and it leads to new …

First, take a breath. Sending a message like that takes courage. Your message is honest and vulnerable, which is good. You took responsibility, you didn’t blame her, and you explained what was going …

Yeah I agree with your perspective! I haven’t ever been told that I talk about him too much or anything. I think I just feel insecure when the topic has to come up on early dates. I’m an open book so …

Friend, I want to gently challenge one assumption hiding inside your post. You’re acting like life is a race where everyone starts at the same time and whoever crosses the checkpoints first wins. But…

Can you give him a time limit? My same ex would rant about this dude he worked with for at least a couple of hours everyday after work and while I could understand his frustration with said person and…

u/LivingProfessional59 You’re not overreacting. This is scary. Let’s strip this down to what actually matters: * He’s muttering aggressively * He’s hitting things * He said “I’m going to behead you…

Apologies, one more thing : You did tell he avoids therapy and doesn't want to talk about it to you but - If he has a college counsellor that's good. He should reach out as he might be different compa…

I also want to point out that if you decided after you cut your mom off that your #1 focus in life was making new friends, I think we both know you would be able to make that happen. So it’s not like …

Goodness, that is so much! Yes, whatever is going on with them and their issue with death sounds similar. I asked my ex at the end if she always had this fear of death and she said she did, but it did…

And . .one more thing I noticed that I think might be really significant. Look at the order of your steps again. You can't claim the win without the new phone first. Can't claim without the new ap…

Since Rahu is in your 3rd House, your victory lies in documentation and communication. If you have any digital trails, recordings, or third-party evidence that contradicts her claims, August 2026 is t…

You might have a 3rd/9th house interception. But house lines so close I can’t tell! If you do have an interception in that area maybe something to look into or polarity between the 3-9 house axis or …

Sir, There is one more thing that scares me most is that my sadesati period is when all this started and it has broken me to core in all aspects of life. Basic things such as trusting someone, family …

He's 37, you asked him not to tell anyone, he told everyone. It's on him to tell anyone he told that sad news now. I also think you have a husband problem. I bet not caring a whit about you and y…

Also one more thing I’m very sciencey and logical and these are universal laws so i’m like either i’m gonna sulk and attract more of that or just be delulu 🤣 either way we’re always manifesting so i …

First off—you’re not a bad person. The fact that you’re 15 and even asking this puts you way ahead of most people. Breakups at that age hit hard because it’s usually your first real attachment, so do…

Wasn't a book or a rock bottom moment for me. It was a random Wednesday where I caught myself saying "I'll start Monday" for probably the 30th time and it just sounded hollow. What actually helped wa…

Simple and straightforward answer Venus in virgo is debilitated though ur Venus is in Libra but the degree inclination forced it to influence most of trait of previous house virgo where it's debilitat…

I really think we need to come up with a dating App for all of us that have been discarded by some type of an Avoidant because there are too many of us! we’re good supportive people who believe in em…

I'd prefer not too, I know I probably should, but I really want to just avoid this guy and try to forget about him. Maybe that's a little selfish of me, but right now I do not need one more thing stre…

It used to be my job was something steady I could rely on, in a life where I have very little stability. Alas...I am a federal employee in the United States. So there's that. The Trump administration …

I want to be real with you here because I think you already know the surface-level advice. Delete the apps, block him, stay busy. You've tried all of that. It didn't work. And the reason it didn't wor…

i am sorry for your situation but you could have lost 20 more years on a bad woman there is one more thing to get clarity over now when you know she is a cheater especially because she is careless …

Thank you for the explanation, that actually makes a lot of sense. This person is middle-aged (although I am not sure of their actual age, since they would never directly answer the question of how ol…

Comparison hurts most when it lands on someone close enough to feel like an alternate version of you. So first: there is nothing weird or broken about what you’re feeling. It makes sense. But your mi…

Sometimes people are shy and need a little coaxing out their shell. I will begin with something like “It’s so nice to meet you,” but in the same message follow it up with, “I noticed in your profil…

One way to do it is to physically exercise so that your body is tired but mind is not. A lot of techniques involve heavily concentrating on something, the concentration keeps the mind awake while th…

Oh one more thing! Holiday also includes your LOA practice. Stop them for a while. When you pick it up pay attention how they make you feel. Wholesome or unease? Remember, just two weeks. You will fe…

Hey! I used to struggle with huge weather phobia from the ages of 8-14. It was so bad that just normal rain used to set me off. My parents think it was because we got into some horrific storms traveli…

I was divorced after a 29 year marriage. It was the worst thing I ever went through. I was scared of my ability to make it on my own. Not so much about being lonely. This was about 8 years ago. Eac…

https://preview.redd.it/oxprg9r4s0tg1.jpeg?width=1170&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=0282265c9baaaa03f130a0e98f5bc44eecb4e574 One more thing 😉

Oh gosh. I could write a novel about this. I’ve learned a lot, like a l o t about advocating for myself in medical situations. You are not the only one experiencing this. So. Many. Patients. Are deal…

The part that hit me: "I already know exactly what I should be doing but I just don't have the willpower." I used to say the same thing. And I think we're both wrong about what the problem is. Willp…

One more thing, it needs to not be forced, as the guy told me, pretend it's the easiest thing in the world.

What happened to you sounds genuinely awful. Being isolated is bad enough already, but being mocked, racially targeted, publicly humiliated, and then cut off all at once can really wreck a person’s se…

One more thing men dont take in to account? Color me shocked

Brother, first: the fact that you wrote this means some part of you has not given up. Bitter is not dead. Lonely is not dead. Numb is not dead. A man who is truly gone does not ask for a hand. And I …

NGL it can be rough, I'm 29 this year, so one more bit of advice, get some therapy as soon as you can. I waited until 25-26 and wish I would have sooner. Living with the people you know are supposed t…

Thank you!! Just wanted to ask one more thing: will my partner be good looking?

There's 3 reason :- 1. Lord of 6th house in D1 is saturn in sign of aquarius whose lord is the saturn and Saturn aspecting your 6th house. Now 6th house is your daily work routine (whether it's ur n…

Good question, this is where the “1% better” idea actually becomes practical because it can be applied to many areas of your life! Gym, school, work, sports, whatever it is. Socially: -Say one more …

She won't see what are you doing, she may perceive your feelings, not your private matters. Many confuse astral projection with remote viewing, they are two different things. There is not "spirituall…

Will you say more about the 3 or 5 second rule? (for me, surely 3...) I am sure its one more thing that will help... my approach to thinks has already shifted so much from this thread - everyone's ad…

That was raw, a more thought out idea I have is that ALOT of the time, cheating is not a clean reflection of who is “better looking” or who fits someone’s stated type more. It is usually a reflection …

One more thing, my boyfriend and I were floating the idea of a threesome during some issues and I’m bisexual so I thought I would be able to, but the more we talked about shit the more I felt sick. It…